FabSwingers.com forum: do females not like 24 year olds

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm constantly being stereotyped as young or immature without any acknowledgement of even a hello I can barely even send messages to half the females on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmmmm so if you're not getting acknowledgement or hellos.......how do you know your being stereotyped .....?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

24 is a bit young for me and it's not just about thinking they may be immature. There are other reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of people have preferences for age and there is nothing you can do about it, so you have to live with it really.

No point in stressing over something you have no control over.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I wasn't talking about me per say Its a common stereotype I have heard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One thing you should never complain about, is being young.

Put it this way, whatever pull you have in the market now - is a lot better than it will be in 20 years.

Only wish I'd be around to collect, when you find out.

But I accept PayPal in advance for my words of wisdom?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What other reasons if you don't mind enlightening me

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By *aaLaaWoman
over a year ago

Pontesbury

It might be a bit of a sweeping generalisation, but if people I went to school with have Children who are older than you then I'm unlikely to be interested.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Its not the fact that I'm stressing I just find it baffling most women my age go for older guys and older women go for older guys apart from the occasional cougar

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I wasn't talking about me per say Its a common stereotype I have heard"

Calling someone who's 24 young isn't stereotyping it's fact. Youth isn't a crime neither is immaturity but it is true that there are fewer people who are interested in your age group.

Trust me though if you want to experience stereotyping try being a 58 year old woman

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"One thing you should never complain about, is being young.

Put it this way, whatever pull you have in the market now - is a lot better than it will be in 20 years.

Only wish I'd be around to collect, when you find out.

But I accept PayPal in advance for my words of wisdom?

Hahaha I guarantee you pull more than me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It might be a bit of a sweeping generalisation, but if people I went to school with have Children who are older than you then I'm unlikely to be interested."

That's fair enough but don't you get to a certain time where you feel sod age?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I wasn't talking about me per say Its a common stereotype I have heard

Calling someone who's 24 young isn't stereotyping it's fact. Youth isn't a crime neither is immaturity but it is true that there are fewer people who are interested in your age group.

Trust me though if you want to experience stereotyping try being a 58 year old woman

Haha and what type of stereoism is that

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I won't meet anyone my sons age, I would make an exception for spirit but he doesn't do lick and go meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What other reasons if you don't mind enlightening me"

Blame the one thing you can;t change, it;s much easier than being self aware

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Those younger ladies you say like older men.. can you point them my way.. same for those older ladies... Ta.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wasn't talking about me per say Its a common stereotype I have heard

Calling someone who's 24 young isn't stereotyping it's fact. Youth isn't a crime neither is immaturity but it is true that there are fewer people who are interested in your age group.

Trust me though if you want to experience stereotyping try being a 58 year old woman

Haha and what type of stereoism is that

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you want sex with 58 yr olds at your age...........seriously 24 and on a sex site instead of being out there........no wonder no ones interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It might be a bit of a sweeping generalisation, but if people I went to school with have Children who are older than you then I'm unlikely to be interested.

That's fair enough but don't you get to a certain time where you feel sod age?"

Why should someone think 'sod' age? You claim to be mature but can't even respect people's preferences. To be blunt you don't come across as at all mature, your attitude on this thread and your profile screams the exact oppsoite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One thing you should never complain about, is being young.

Put it this way, whatever pull you have in the market now - is a lot better than it will be in 20 years.

Only wish I'd be around to collect, when you find out.

But I accept PayPal in advance for my words of wisdom?

Hahaha I guarantee you pull more than me"

Well yeah, in my day I was good.

But that's in the past, your best shagging days lie ahead of you.

Know which id rather have!

You'll be ok -early adulthood is a bit sh1t. All those insecurities, but gets better!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wasn't talking about me per say Its a common stereotype I have heard

Calling someone who's 24 young isn't stereotyping it's fact. Youth isn't a crime neither is immaturity but it is true that there are fewer people who are interested in your age group.

Trust me though if you want to experience stereotyping try being a 58 year old woman

Haha and what type of stereoism is that

you want sex with 58 yr olds at your age...........seriously 24 and on a sex site instead of being out there........no wonder no ones interested"

We're 23 and on a sex site and have been since 21.

Care to pass judgment on us and how we should be "out there" too?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I wasn't talking about me per say Its a common stereotype I have heard

Calling someone who's 24 young isn't stereotyping it's fact. Youth isn't a crime neither is immaturity but it is true that there are fewer people who are interested in your age group.

Trust me though if you want to experience stereotyping try being a 58 year old woman

Haha that's funny I actually do meet people outside of here but I work up and down the county so I rarely get a chance to pursue anything so I come on here for NSA fun cause its easier than explaining it in a club

Haha and what type of stereoism is that

you want sex with 58 yr olds at your age...........seriously 24 and on a sex site instead of being out there........no wonder no ones interested"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It might be a bit of a sweeping generalisation, but if people I went to school with have Children who are older than you then I'm unlikely to be interested.

That's fair enough but don't you get to a certain time where you feel sod age?"

No we don't, we stick with what we prefer as it's what we are attracted to

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By *huramMan
over a year ago

London

"you want sex with 58 yr olds at your age...........seriously 24 and on a sex site instead of being out there........no wonder no ones interested"

Why wouldn't enjoy sex with an older woman?

And why shouldn't he be on this site?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I won't meet anyone my sons age, I would make an exception for spirit but he doesn't do lick and go meets

Lol you just need to look harder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep don't worry about the stereotyping from being young, try being 52! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wasn't talking about me per say Its a common stereotype I have heard

Calling someone who's 24 young isn't stereotyping it's fact. Youth isn't a crime neither is immaturity but it is true that there are fewer people who are interested in your age group.

Trust me though if you want to experience stereotyping try being a 58 year old woman

Haha and what type of stereoism is that

you want sex with 58 yr olds at your age...........seriously 24 and on a sex site instead of being out there........no wonder no ones interested

We're 23 and on a sex site and have been since 21.

Care to pass judgment on us and how we should be "out there" too? "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I wasn't talking about me per say Its a common stereotype I have heard

Calling someone who's 24 young isn't stereotyping it's fact. Youth isn't a crime neither is immaturity but it is true that there are fewer people who are interested in your age group.

Trust me though if you want to experience stereotyping try being a 58 year old woman

I didn't even say I wanted sex with a 58 year old

Haha and what type of stereoism is that

you want sex with 58 yr olds at your age...........seriously 24 and on a sex site instead of being out there........no wonder no ones interested

We're 23 and on a sex site and have been since 21.

Care to pass judgment on us and how we should be "out there" too? "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It might be a bit of a sweeping generalisation, but if people I went to school with have Children who are older than you then I'm unlikely to be interested.

That's fair enough but don't you get to a certain time where you feel sod age?

Why should someone think 'sod' age?

You claim to be mature but can't even respect people's preferences. To be

blunt you don't come across as at all mature, your attitude on this thread and your profile screams the exact oppsoite."

I'm immature for voicing my opinion .... Ermm yeah

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It might be a bit of a sweeping generalisation, but if people I went to school with have Children who are older than you then I'm unlikely to be interested.

That's fair enough but don't you get to a certain time where you feel sod age?

No we don't, we stick with what we prefer as it's what we are attracted to"

That's fair enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You state in profile you have been to a swingers party..

why not attend a club/social/party(again)?

I dont think age has anything to do with it..as I've met plenty of younger guys(steady!),in many parties and clubs..especially down south.

btw why not just put that you do accomodate..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It might be a bit of a sweeping generalisation, but if people I went to school with have Children who are older than you then I'm unlikely to be interested.

That's fair enough but don't you get to a certain time where you feel sod age?

Why should someone think 'sod' age?

You claim to be mature but can't even respect people's preferences. To be

blunt you don't come across as at all mature, your attitude on this thread and your profile screams the exact oppsoite.

I'm immature for voicing my opinion .... Ermm yeah "

I didn't say that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you know what females don't like? Moaning in the forum. Put some effort in, your age is nothing to do with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wasn't talking about me per say Its a common stereotype I have heard

Calling someone who's 24 young isn't stereotyping it's fact. Youth isn't a crime neither is immaturity but it is true that there are fewer people who are interested in your age group.

Trust me though if you want to experience stereotyping try being a 58 year old woman

Haha and what type of stereoism is that

you want sex with 58 yr olds at your age...........seriously 24 and on a sex site instead of being out there........no wonder no ones interested

We're 23 and on a sex site and have been since 21.

Care to pass judgment on us and how we should be "out there" too?

"
totally agree age of swingers is not relevant its the age old peoples personal choice what age group they are into

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You state in profile you have been to a swingers party..

why not attend a club/social/party(again)?

I dont think age has anything to do with it..as I've met plenty of younger guys(steady!),in many parties and clubs..especially down south.

btw why not just put that you do accomodate.."

I have attended but getting invites to those sort of parties are rare due to the volume of people that want to go and thanks for pointing that out I will change it I am new to this

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It might be a bit of a sweeping generalisation, but if people I went to school with have Children who are older than you then I'm unlikely to be interested.

That's fair enough but don't you get to a certain time where you feel sod age?

Why should someone think 'sod' age?

You claim to be mature but can't even respect people's preferences. To be

blunt you don't come across as at all mature, your attitude on this thread and your profile screams the exact oppsoite.

I'm immature for voicing my opinion .... Ermm yeah

I didn't say that"

OK thanks for passing judgment best friend you must know me really well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You state in profile you have been to a swingers party..

why not attend a club/social/party(again)?

I dont think age has anything to do with it..as I've met plenty of younger guys(steady!),in many parties and clubs..especially down south.

btw why not just put that you do accomodate..

I have attended but getting invites to those sort of parties are rare due to the volume of people that want to go and thanks for pointing that out I will change it I am new to this"

There are plenty of events in London that don;t need an invite?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you know what females don't like? Moaning in the forum. Put some effort in, your age is nothing to do with it. "

I'm not moaning I just wanted to hear other opinions on the matter

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You state in profile you have been to a swingers party..

why not attend a club/social/party(again)?

I dont think age has anything to do with it..as I've met plenty of younger guys(steady!),in many parties and clubs..especially down south.

btw why not just put that you do accomodate..

I have attended but getting invites to those sort of parties are rare due to the volume of people that want to go and thanks for pointing that out I will change it I am new to this

There are plenty of events in London that don;t need an invite?"

Care to enlighten me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It might be a bit of a sweeping generalisation, but if people I went to school with have Children who are older than you then I'm unlikely to be interested.

That's fair enough but don't you get to a certain time where you feel sod age?

Why should someone think 'sod' age?

You claim to be mature but can't even respect people's preferences. To be

blunt you don't come across as at all mature, your attitude on this thread and your profile screams the exact oppsoite.

I'm immature for voicing my opinion .... Ermm yeah

I didn't say that

OK thanks for passing judgment best friend you must know me really well"

You invited judgement when you asked 'what other reasons there were' other than your age for people not meeting you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fucked men in their 20s when I was in my 20s, now in my 40s I tend to fuck men in their 40s...I know which I prefer...based on my own experiences...I just don't find men or women in their 20s sexually attractive...

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

You've only been here 2 weeks, give it chance!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need patience.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It might be a bit of a sweeping generalisation, but if people I went to school with have Children who are older than you then I'm unlikely to be interested.

That's fair enough but don't you get to a certain time where you feel sod age?

Why should someone think 'sod' age?

You claim to be mature but can't even respect people's preferences. To be

blunt you don't come across as at all mature, your attitude on this thread and your profile screams the exact oppsoite.

I'm immature for voicing my opinion .... Ermm yeah

I didn't say that

OK thanks for passing judgment best friend you must know me really well

You invited judgement when you asked 'what other reasons there were' other than your age for people not meeting you. "

Okay firstly when I asked what's the other reasons is because she said there's other reasons secondly I wasn't talking about her meeting me individually i asked what are her other reasons for not meeting younger men generally

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I fucked men in their 20s when I was in my 20s, now in my 40s I tend to fuck men in their 40s...I know which I prefer...based on my own experiences...I just don't find men or women in their 20s sexually attractive..."

Which makes sense

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I wasn't talking about me per say Its a common stereotype I have heard

Calling someone who's 24 young isn't stereotyping it's fact. Youth isn't a crime neither is immaturity but it is true that there are fewer people who are interested in your age group.

Trust me though if you want to experience stereotyping try being a 58 year old woman

Haha and what type of stereoism is that

Woman in their fifties are considered to be past it, menopausal, interested only in knitting and ovaltine. Look at advertising, films and the media in general do you see many women in their fifties represented in a positive way?

It isn't quite so difficult on a site like this since women in general are in short supply therefore men will adjust their requirements to fit what's available

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Nobody likes 24 year olds.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You've only been here 2 weeks, give it chance!"

I know I should lol another two weeks haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

23 year olds are hot.

25 year olds are sexy.

I just have sooooo many issues with 24 year olds. Sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It might be a bit of a sweeping generalisation, but if people I went to school with have Children who are older than you then I'm unlikely to be interested.

That's fair enough but don't you get to a certain time where you feel sod age?

Why should someone think 'sod' age?

You claim to be mature but can't even respect people's preferences. To be

blunt you don't come across as at all mature, your attitude on this thread and your profile screams the exact oppsoite.

I'm immature for voicing my opinion .... Ermm yeah

I didn't say that

OK thanks for passing judgment best friend you must know me really well

You invited judgement when you asked 'what other reasons there were' other than your age for people not meeting you.

Earlier in the thread I posted that blaming what you canpt influebnce is far easier than looking what the real reason is for people not being interested. Truth is you have said that you are getting no responses and assumed that is down to your age. Would you reply to your profile?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You need patience. "

Patience I've never been blessed with haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wasn't talking about me per say Its a common stereotype I have heard

Calling someone who's 24 young isn't stereotyping it's fact. Youth isn't a crime neither is immaturity but it is true that there are fewer people who are interested in your age group.

Trust me though if you want to experience stereotyping try being a 58 year old woman

Haha and what type of stereoism is that

you want sex with 58 yr olds at your age...........seriously 24 and on a sex site instead of being out there........no wonder no ones interested

We're 23 and on a sex site and have been since 21.

Care to pass judgment on us and how we should be "out there" too? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust me I have had to wait till I'm 25 for some the they have changed it to 30 ^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my experience ---- legal clause

24 year olds come at this from a different perspective than me. I prefer to make a connection with someone and feel respected by men before and after sex.

I haven't (yet) met a younger guy who I feel doesn't view me as a 'quick shag'.

So maybe my past experiences have put me off...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You need patience.

Patience I've never been blessed with haha"
lol and welcome to the forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You need patience.

Patience I've never been blessed with haha"
well young man as the saying goes "all good things come to those who wait" if your that desperate to get you cock wet use the vacuum in the bath make sure its a cordless one

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It might be a bit of a sweeping generalisation, but if people I went to school with have Children who are older than you then I'm unlikely to be interested.

That's fair enough but don't you get to a certain time where you feel sod age?

Why should someone think 'sod' age?

You claim to be mature but can't even respect people's preferences. To be

blunt you don't come across as at all mature, your attitude on this thread and your profile screams the exact oppsoite.

I'm immature for voicing my opinion .... Ermm yeah

I didn't say that

OK thanks for passing judgment best friend you must know me really well

You invited judgement when you asked 'what other reasons there were' other than your age for people not meeting you.

Well my profile is individual that's why it is MY profile so is yours and every other person on here you can't pass judgment on someone based on their profile can you do you know why cause that is ignorant and no I wouldn't reply to my profile cause I'm straight

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"I wasn't talking about me per say Its a common stereotype I have heard

Calling someone who's 24 young isn't stereotyping it's fact. Youth isn't a crime neither is immaturity but it is true that there are fewer people who are interested in your age group.

Trust me though if you want to experience stereotyping try being a 58 year old woman

Oh go on then, I'll give you a go.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You need patience.

Patience I've never been blessed with hahawell young man as the saying goes "all good things come to those who wait" if your that desperate to get you cock wet use the vacuum in the bath make sure its a cordless one"

Because I'm inpatient doesn't mean I'm desperate I'm far from it mate

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"It might be a bit of a sweeping generalisation, but if people I went to school with have Children who are older than you then I'm unlikely to be interested.

That's fair enough but don't you get to a certain time where you feel sod age?

Why should someone think 'sod' age?

You claim to be mature but can't even respect people's preferences. To be

blunt you don't come across as at all mature, your attitude on this thread and your profile screams the exact oppsoite.

I'm immature for voicing my opinion .... Ermm yeah

I didn't say that

OK thanks for passing judgment best friend you must know me really well

You invited judgement when you asked 'what other reasons there were' other than your age for people not meeting you.

a person's profile and forum posts (if they use them) are all we have to make a judgement on people and we DO need to make judgments before we meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its funny how people who aint getting, suddenly fling the age as a reason, knowing theres nothing can be done about age

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I wasn't talking about me per say Its a common stereotype I have heard

Calling someone who's 24 young isn't stereotyping it's fact. Youth isn't a crime neither is immaturity but it is true that there are fewer people who are interested in your age group.

Trust me though if you want to experience stereotyping try being a 58 year old woman

Oh go on then, I'll give you a go."

so kind of you to take pity on an old 'un.

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By *ea and SugarCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

"I'm constantly being stereotyped as young or immature without any acknowledgement of even a hello I can barely even send messages to half the females on here

Enjoy it whilst it lasts, in 27 years no one will message you cos you're too old, and you won't be able to message the other half of the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It might be a bit of a sweeping generalisation, but if people I went to school with have Children who are older than you then I'm unlikely to be interested.

That's fair enough but don't you get to a certain time where you feel sod age?

Why should someone think 'sod' age?

You claim to be mature but can't even respect people's preferences. To be

blunt you don't come across as at all mature, your attitude on this thread and your profile screams the exact oppsoite.

I'm immature for voicing my opinion .... Ermm yeah

I didn't say that

OK thanks for passing judgment best friend you must know me really well

You invited judgement when you asked 'what other reasons there were' other than your age for people not meeting you.

But that is all people have to judge you on

Plenty of people will check your profile before opening your message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of us do. I have met men younger than you from here. I won't meet every man who asks me; I don't meet men older than me and rarely meet men in their 40s. Make yourself as attractive to women as you can and be nice. Don't focus on the sex when you talk to women,get to know them before asking when they are free.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You need patience.

Because I'm inpatient doesn't mean I'm desperate I'm far from it mate"
stop moaning then you ain't going to float every boatare you that's life

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"In my experience ---- legal clause

24 year olds come at this from a different perspective than me. I prefer to make a connection with someone and feel respected by men before and after sex.

I haven't (yet) met a younger guy who I feel doesn't view me as a 'quick shag'.

So maybe my past experiences have put me off...

Yeah I see why you have been put off ... I'm sure there are some young men that would definitely view you different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Peoples preferences are just that & given the amount of single men who will meet their age preference you ain't gonna get a look in.

If you're having no luck on here try a social event / party / club night & get yourself out there where your maturity & personality can shine through!

I would say the age demographic on here is higher than your age bracket so it's a challenge .

I wouldn't meet a 24 year old, you're too young for me and I am probably too old for you.

Good luck.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Some of us do. I have met men younger than you from here. I won't meet every man who asks me; I don't meet men older than me and rarely meet men in their 40s. Make yourself as attractive to women as you can and be nice. Don't focus on the sex when you talk to women,get to know them before asking when they are free. "

op, this lady talks sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Peoples preferences are just that & given the amount of single men who will meet their age preference you ain't gonna get a look in.

If you're having no luck on here try a social event / party / club night & get yourself out there where your maturity & personality can shine through!

I would say the age demographic on here is higher than your age bracket so it's a challenge .

I wouldn't meet a 24 year old, you're too young for me and I am probably too old for you.

Good luck."
a good few points and nicely put

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having taken a quick glance at your profile, I would suggest that the problem has less to do with your age than you might think.

Your profile currently displays a lack of effort and that is enough to put most people off.

How much time did you spend writing it?

5 minutes?

I would suggest you conduct a forum search on the subject of 'profile advice'. To make things a little easier, admin have grouped the majority of these threads in the 'Introductions' section.

See what advice has been offered to others and see if you can apply any of it to your own.

As many have been told before, effort in = rewards out.

If you're concerned about being considered immature, do something to demonstrate a more mature attitude.

Take some responsibility for your own success in life rather than making excuses and blaming things you have no control over.

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By *etzPlayCouple
over a year ago

Southend

we met a 24yr old the other day and was amazing, my cock aches just looking at the pics we took lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm constantly being stereotyped as young or immature without any acknowledgement of even a hello I can barely even send messages to half the females on here

If you aren't being acknowledged, how do you know people think you are young and immature?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"its funny how people who aint getting, suddenly fling the age as a reason, knowing theres nothing can be done about age"

The thing is Ceedy,if you were here as a straight man you may be having less good fortune.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Having taken a quick glance at your profile, I would suggest that the problem has less to do with your age than you might think.

Your profile currently displays a lack of effort and that is enough to put most people off.

How much time did you spend writing it?

5 minutes?

I would suggest you conduct a forum search on the subject of 'profile advice'. To make things a little easier, admin have grouped the majority of these threads in the 'Introductions' section.

See what advice has been offered to others and see if you can apply any of it to your own.

As many have been told before, effort in = rewards out.

If you're concerned about being considered immature, do something to demonstrate a more mature attitude.

Take some responsibility for your own success in life rather than making excuses and blaming things you have no control over. "

He didn't ask for a critique of his profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wasn't talking about me per say Its a common stereotype I have heard

Calling someone who's 24 young isn't stereotyping it's fact. Youth isn't a crime neither is immaturity but it is true that there are fewer people who are interested in your age group.

Trust me though if you want to experience stereotyping try being a 58 year old woman

Haha and what type of stereoism is that

you want sex with 58 yr olds at your age...........seriously 24 and on a sex site instead of being out there........no wonder no ones interested

We're 23 and on a sex site and have been since 21.

Care to pass judgment on us and how we should be "out there" too? "
In our opinion your hardly old enough to find yourselves let alone play with people old enough to be your parents...our view thank you and fuck all views different to ours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Having taken a quick glance at your profile, I would suggest that the problem has less to do with your age than you might think.

Your profile currently displays a lack of effort and that is enough to put most people off.

How much time did you spend writing it?

5 minutes?

I would suggest you conduct a forum search on the subject of 'profile advice'. To make things a little easier, admin have grouped the majority of these threads in the 'Introductions' section.

See what advice has been offered to others and see if you can apply any of it to your own.

As many have been told before, effort in = rewards out.

If you're concerned about being considered immature, do something to demonstrate a more mature attitude.

Take some responsibility for your own success in life rather than making excuses and blaming things you have no control over.

He didn't ask for a critique of his profile

He asked what other reason there could be. I thought that if someone asked why they were struggling profile critique's were relevant

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"Its not the fact that I'm stressing I just find it baffling most women my age go for older guys and older women go for older guys apart from the occasional cougar"

If your on here looking for Older ladies because they have the experience you seek while exploring your sexuality, why wouldn't a woman your age be looking for an older gent for the same reason?

The Older women you speak of want older guys most likely because chances are they will be on the same mental wavelength than someone many years younger than them and again will have a level of experience you possibly don't.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"It might be a bit of a sweeping generalisation, but if people I went to school with have Children who are older than you then I'm unlikely to be interested.

That's fair enough but don't you get to a certain time where you feel sod age?

Why should someone think 'sod' age?

You claim to be mature but can't even respect people's preferences. To be

blunt you don't come across as at all mature, your attitude on this thread and your profile screams the exact oppsoite.

I'm immature for voicing my opinion .... Ermm yeah

I didn't say that

OK thanks for passing judgment best friend you must know me really well

You invited judgement when you asked 'what other reasons there were' other than your age for people not meeting you.

I hate to break this to you but your profile is the main way people you message will decide if they are interested enough to reply.

Some look at the profile first and won't even read the message if the profile doesn't appeal.

You can make sure your profile is good or you can rant that most women on here are ignorant and doing it all wrong. One of those approaches might help you. Guess which one.

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By *nFairnessMan
over a year ago

The Four Corners

22 here. Man up :P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"22 here. Man up :P"

Shouldn't you be out there with the rest of the young uns

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

Because I'm inpatient doesn't mean I'm desperate I'm far from it mate"

you are right.... however.... you are also making a whole ton of assumptions based on little evidence...

the only evidence you have is that they dont reply... and you put down to the one thing you can't control... your age!!!

maybe a bit of "introspection" is need.... because not everyone can be nasty pastys can they....

it might be your age..... if could be a million and one other things (and this thread probably isn't helping your cause)

maybe.... just maybe.... impatience... is another of those things you can add to the list....

oooh... there are 2 you can now hang your hat on....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm constantly being stereotyped as young or immature without any acknowledgement of even a hello I can barely even send messages to half the females on here

If you aren't being acknowledged, how do you know people think you are young and immature? "

Looking back I think I've worded it wrong but what I mean is the acknowledgement I do get is to say that I'm young and the rest is a non reply or I just can't message them but I understand some people have preferences

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Having taken a quick glance at your profile, I would suggest that the problem has less to do with your age than you might think.

Your profile currently displays a lack of effort and that is enough to put most people off.

How much time did you spend writing it?

5 minutes?

I would suggest you conduct a forum search on the subject of 'profile advice'. To make things a little easier, admin have grouped the majority of these threads in the 'Introductions' section.

See what advice has been offered to others and see if you can apply any of it to your own.

As many have been told before, effort in = rewards out.

If you're concerned about being considered immature, do something to demonstrate a more mature attitude.

Take some responsibility for your own success in life rather than making excuses and blaming things you have no control over.

He didn't ask for a critique of his profile

He asked what other reason there could be. I thought that if someone asked why they were struggling profile critique's were relevant"

In my opinion suggesting that someone reviews their profile is relevant in that instance not a full on critique.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread would of been a lot simpler if all the females replied yes or no

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"I wasn't talking about me per say Its a common stereotype I have heard

Calling someone who's 24 young isn't stereotyping it's fact. Youth isn't a crime neither is immaturity but it is true that there are fewer people who are interested in your age group.

Trust me though if you want to experience stereotyping try being a 58 year old woman

Oh go on then, I'll give you a go.

so kind of you to take pity on an old 'un.

A dash of altruism, smothered in egocentrism.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am sure some 24 year old women like 24 year old men.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Interesting how differently this thread is going to the one earlier where the guy complained he can't get meets because "verification snobs" won't meet unverified guys and nobody will "give him a chance".

This guy has been far less negative, hasn't called anyone names and is getting a far harder time.

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By *nFairnessMan
over a year ago

The Four Corners

"22 here. Man up :P

Shouldn't you be out there with the rest of the young uns

haha quite possibly, but im going to be honest, the idea of selfies Yolo's and swagpants...(that is what they call em right?' really dont tickle my fancy.) perhaps i should create a thread too, proclaiming my loneliness in a last ditch effort for a pity shag. hehehe i think not.

OP quit yo jibber jabber you ain't hurt *throws a snickers bar* get some nuts.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Because I'm inpatient doesn't mean I'm desperate I'm far from it mate

you are right.... however.... you are also making a whole ton of assumptions based on little evidence...

the only evidence you have is that they dont reply... and you put down to the one thing you can't control... your age!!!

maybe a bit of "introspection" is need.... because not everyone can be nasty pastys can they....

it might be your age..... if could be a million and one other things (and this thread probably isn't helping your cause)

maybe.... just maybe.... impatience... is another of those things you can add to the list....

oooh... there are 2 you can now hang your hat on...."

Thanks I know I'm not everyone's cup of tea I haven't assumed anything I've made statement based on my personal experiences and this thread is my first I didn't know people its gets like this but hey lol no sweat off my back I couldn't care less

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"22 here. Man up :P

Shouldn't you be out there with the rest of the young uns

OP quit yo jibber jabber you ain't hurt *throws a snickers bar* get some nuts."

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Interesting how differently this thread is going to the one earlier where the guy complained he can't get meets because "verification snobs" won't meet unverified guys and nobody will "give him a chance".

This guy has been far less negative, hasn't called anyone names and is getting a far harder time.

I don't know how old the other guy was but I've noticed that young men get a very rough ride if they ask questions like this. Its almost as if some older men (and some women too) see them as competition and instead of helping them out in a friendly fashion try to belittle them. As I said earlier youth isn't a crime and if the tone of the post and content of the question belie that youth it would show our maturity if we guide rather than hinder surely, there's room for us all isn't there?

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By *urpleflowersXXXWoman
over a year ago

Peterborough

it's either they're preference or an excuse either way they clearly don't want to meet you. Everyone has the right to say no and they don't need to give you a reason it's not even about you it's their choice.personally I prefer my age or older, 27 is pretty much my cut off on the one time I did make an exception it just re-inforced why I have it. plus younger (and this is a stereotype) tend to be inexperienced and I don't want to be anyone's teacher...well in play only lol

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By *nFairnessMan
over a year ago

The Four Corners

Because I'm inpatient doesn't mean I'm desperate I'm far from it mate

you are right.... however.... you are also making a whole ton of assumptions based on little evidence...

the only evidence you have is that they dont reply... and you put down to the one thing you can't control... your age!!!

maybe a bit of "introspection" is need.... because not everyone can be nasty pastys can they....

it might be your age..... if could be a million and one other things (and this thread probably isn't helping your cause)

maybe.... just maybe.... impatience... is another of those things you can add to the list....

oooh... there are 2 you can now hang your hat on....

heres some advice from a young'n...

1. if you don't give a shit, you wouldnt say anything and seeing as you are le OP... there is an issue.

2. If you spend some time talking on the forums/ chat... and give people the opportunity to get to know you, rather than focus on your age.

3. I've only seen 2 other comments by you, both were three words long, and had spelling errors, might want to think about the impression people get when they read your posts.

Wish you luck in the future.

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By *oachman 9CoolMan
over a year ago

derby

"I wasn't talking about me per say Its a common stereotype I have heard

Calling someone who's 24 young isn't stereotyping it's fact. Youth isn't a crime neither is immaturity but it is true that there are fewer people who are interested in your age group.

Trust me though if you want to experience stereotyping try being a 58 year old woman

Oh go on then, I'll give you a go.

so kind of you to take pity on an old 'un.

"
Where,s my horlicks..haha

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I wasn't talking about me per say Its a common stereotype I have heard

Calling someone who's 24 young isn't stereotyping it's fact. Youth isn't a crime neither is immaturity but it is true that there are fewer people who are interested in your age group.

Trust me though if you want to experience stereotyping try being a 58 year old woman

Oh go on then, I'll give you a go.

so kind of you to take pity on an old 'un.

A dash of altruism, smothered in egocentrism."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's called being a man in a world over run bye men and few woman . Read profiles before u message .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This guy has been far less negative, hasn't called anyone names and is getting a far harder time.

I wanted to hear peoples views and opinions but look what happens loool but its no sweat I'm just sitting here laughing at comments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"22 here. Man up :P

Shouldn't you be out there with the rest of the young uns

OP quit yo jibber jabber you ain't hurt *throws a snickers bar* get some nuts.

Its funny how people think I'm complaining loool I made a thread to hear peoples views haha not anything else cause I thought maybe I could discuss the matter on a level head with level headed people hahaha bang goes that theory"
there you go op... tarring everyone with the same brush, some use the forums for various reasoon some fun, and so on

some have given you good advice, opinions and yet you reply in the above and slate the lot .. so why not run off and look at the threads that are specific for new people new starts and how to be successful and so on

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"22 here. Man up :P

Shouldn't you be out there with the rest of the young uns

OP quit yo jibber jabber you ain't hurt *throws a snickers bar* get some nuts.

I gave a very reasoned response to your discussion topic but it got ignored and you chose to respond to the negative comments instead

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

"In my experience ---- legal clause

24 year olds come at this from a different perspective than me. I prefer to make a connection with someone and feel respected by men before and after sex.

I haven't (yet) met a younger guy who I feel doesn't view me as a 'quick shag'.

So maybe my past experiences have put me off...

This

Plus you've been on here 2 weeks... It's not instashag and I don't feel like I'd have anything in common with someone your age

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's called being a man in a world over run bye men and few woman . Read profiles before u message . "

There is roughly more women than men in UK

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why are you on Fab at 24yrs of age !!

If I was that age, i,d be out at the weekend with my mates on the pull !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In my experience ---- legal clause

24 year olds come at this from a different perspective than me. I prefer to make a connection with someone and feel respected by men before and after sex.

I haven't (yet) met a younger guy who I feel doesn't view me as a 'quick shag'.

So maybe my past experiences have put me off...

This

Plus you've been on here 2 weeks... It's not instashag and I don't feel like I'd have anything in common with someone your age

"
what site is instashag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why are you on Fab at 24yrs of age !!

If I was that age, i,d be out at the weekend with my mates on the pull !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why are you on Fab at 24yrs of age !!

If I was that age, i,d be out at the weekend with my mates on the pull !!

"
or at home having a pull

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"22 here. Man up :P

Shouldn't you be out there with the rest of the young uns

OP quit yo jibber jabber you ain't hurt *throws a snickers bar* get some nuts.

I gave a very reasoned response to your discussion topic but it got ignored and you chose to respond to the negative comments instead "

some only reply to negativity

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By *heBirminghamWeekendMan
over a year ago

here

Wish I was 24 again

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

This guy has been far less negative, hasn't called anyone names and is getting a far harder time.

The other guy is 39. His thread is still running, it was moved to one of the other boards.

His thread is still mostly "there, there, poor dear, ignore the haters".

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"22 here. Man up :P

Shouldn't you be out there with the rest of the young uns

OP quit yo jibber jabber you ain't hurt *throws a snickers bar* get some nuts.

I gave a very reasoned response to your discussion topic but it got ignored and you chose to respond to the negative comments instead

some only reply to negativity "

Or CD the title of one of your other threads could have appropriate reference here

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

"In my experience ---- legal clause

24 year olds come at this from a different perspective than me. I prefer to make a connection with someone and feel respected by men before and after sex.

I haven't (yet) met a younger guy who I feel doesn't view me as a 'quick shag'.

So maybe my past experiences have put me off...

This

Plus you've been on here 2 weeks... It's not instashag and I don't feel like I'd have anything in common with someone your age

what site is instashag

It's murder, all us old birds can get a shag in 10 minutes

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

This guy has been far less negative, hasn't called anyone names and is getting a far harder time.

The other guy is 39. His thread is still running, it was moved to one of the other boards.

His thread is still mostly "there, there, poor dear, ignore the haters"."

Well I've made nite on both threads about ignoring negativity and focus on positive comments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why are you on Fab at 24yrs of age !!

If I was that age, i,d be out at the weekend with my mates on the pull !!

or at home having a pull"

Well I dont have.a cock !!!!!

So pulling no

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

This guy has been far less negative, hasn't called anyone names and is getting a far harder time.

The other guy is 39. His thread is still running, it was moved to one of the other boards.

His thread is still mostly "there, there, poor dear, ignore the haters"."

Well I've made nite on both threads about ignoring negativity and focus on positive comments

*note

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By *nFairnessMan
over a year ago

The Four Corners

if you are as old as the guy your shagging, who wants to be 22 again? lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP -- thats the person who posted the thread, i put that that as i did not know what it was when i started using forum..

look up past threads in archives and advice on your profile and take suggestions, hints from these areas.. and good luck with it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hahahaha even at 24 some have special tastes. I'm considered very maturer in some ways but utterly childish in others so it depends in the person

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

This guy has been far less negative, hasn't called anyone names and is getting a far harder time.

The other guy is 39. His thread is still running, it was moved to one of the other boards.

His thread is still mostly "there, there, poor dear, ignore the haters".

Well I've made nite on both threads about ignoring negativity and focus on positive comments

*note "

The tone there is very different to the tone here though.

And the other guy has only been here one week and started out by calling people verification snobs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wasn't talking about me per say Its a common stereotype I have heard

Calling someone who's 24 young isn't stereotyping it's fact. Youth isn't a crime neither is immaturity but it is true that there are fewer people who are interested in your age group.

Trust me though if you want to experience stereotyping try being a 58 year old woman

"
wait till you are over 50 nobody wants old men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why are you on Fab at 24yrs of age !!

If I was that age, i,d be out at the weekend with my mates on the pull !!

Ahh so fab is where all the oldies come to pull once they're past it and can't pull in town on a night out.

It's no place for us youngsters! We should be out in a nightclub pissing it up the wall, pulling someone who you don't really like but the clubs about to close and you can't go home alone, the lads would take the piss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why are you on Fab at 24yrs of age !!

If I was that age, i,d be out at the weekend with my mates on the pull !!

In fairness to the OP I really struggle with this attitude that young people should be out on the pull rather than on here. Pubs and clubs aren't for everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My eldest sod is in his early twenties there's no way I would meet anyone around my kids ages.......I prefer older men mostly in their fifties

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Its not the fact that I'm stressing I just find it baffling most women my age go for older guys and older women go for older guys apart from the occasional cougar

If your on here looking for Older ladies because they have the experience you seek while exploring your sexuality, why wouldn't a woman your age be looking for an older gent for the same reason?

Sorry I didn't see your response I was dealing with some negativity lol I appreciate what your saying I generally go for older women because that's my preference but i believe that its more difficult at my age because women may be skeptical of me due to age without giving me a try but most women do have their reasons

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why are you on Fab at 24yrs of age !!

If I was that age, i,d be out at the weekend with my mates on the pull !!

In fairness to the OP I really struggle with this attitude that young people should be out on the pull rather than on here. Pubs and clubs aren't for everyone"

Exactly how do you know I like bars as a matter of fact how do you know I even like drinking and loud music

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's called being a man in a world over run bye men and few woman . Read profiles before u message .

There is roughly more women than men in UK "

This may indeed be true, but it is certainly NOT true of Fab.

Single men outnumber single ladies here at a ratio of around ten to one.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

This guy has been far less negative, hasn't called anyone names and is getting a far harder time.

The other guy is 39. His thread is still running, it was moved to one of the other boards.

His thread is still mostly "there, there, poor dear, ignore the haters".

Well I've made nite on both threads about ignoring negativity and focus on positive comments

*note

The tone there is very different to the tone here though.

And the other guy has only been here one week and started out by calling people verification snobs!"

I meant the same regardless of tone I do believe the OP's on both threads are really bad guys, they just haven't approached the topics/situations as well as they could have

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I wasn't talking about me per say Its a common stereotype I have heard

Calling someone who's 24 young isn't stereotyping it's fact. Youth isn't a crime neither is immaturity but it is true that there are fewer people who are interested in your age group.

Trust me though if you want to experience stereotyping try being a 58 year old woman

wait till you are over 50 nobody wants old men

Look again lol someone just said they prefer men in their fifty's lol u might be in mate

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"Its not the fact that I'm stressing I just find it baffling most women my age go for older guys and older women go for older guys apart from the occasional cougar

If your on here looking for Older ladies because they have the experience you seek while exploring your sexuality, why wouldn't a woman your age be looking for an older gent for the same reason?

And that is where the forum, socials, clubs, parties and even taking the time to write a informative profile come in useful to show your personality and maturity level, so it comes across more clearly and chances hopefully improve.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's called being a man in a world over run bye men and few woman . Read profiles before u message .

There is roughly more women than men in UK

This may indeed be true, but it is certainly NOT true of Fab.

Single men outnumber single ladies here at a ratio of around ten to one."

Really wow no wonder all the men are quick to bash other guys lol competitionis stiff hajahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This guy has been far less negative, hasn't called anyone names and is getting a far harder time.

The other guy is 39. His thread is still running, it was moved to one of the other boards.

His thread is still mostly "there, there, poor dear, ignore the haters".

Well I've made nite on both threads about ignoring negativity and focus on positive comments "

Me too. The negative way people give feedback immediately changes the way the thread feels. Some men laugh it off,the ones who don't are called immature,by the very people who knew the reaction their embittered,sardonic,filled with negativity comment would get.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Its not the fact that I'm stressing I just find it baffling most women my age go for older guys and older women go for older guys apart from the occasional cougar

If your on here looking for Older ladies because they have the experience you seek while exploring your sexuality, why wouldn't a woman your age be looking for an older gent for the same reason?

Thanks for the advice first positivity of the day

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By *akedwife12Couple
over a year ago

Midlands

Don't judge me by my age I am more mature is what you say OP.

Yet you have made this thread all about your age and you have made sure you get judged by it.

And some of your comments do not make you look very mature

It seems you have achieved the opposite of what you say you set out to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's called being a man in a world over run bye men and few woman . Read profiles before u message .

There is roughly more women than men in UK

This may indeed be true, but it is certainly NOT true of Fab.

Single men outnumber single ladies here at a ratio of around ten to one.

Really wow no wonder all the men are quick to bash other guys lol competitionis stiff hajahaha"

Yes really. So,now imagine being a woman who has a lot of men who want to meet. You can't meet all of them can you. How would a woman decide who to talk to?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This guy has been far less negative, hasn't called anyone names and is getting a far harder time.

The other guy is 39. His thread is still running, it was moved to one of the other boards.

His thread is still mostly "there, there, poor dear, ignore the haters".

Well I've made nite on both threads about ignoring negativity and focus on positive comments

Sometimes its hard because the negativity outweighs the positive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't judge me by my age I am more mature is what you say OP.

Yet you have made this thread all about your age and you have made sure you get judged by it.

And some of your comments do not make you look very mature

It seems you have achieved the opposite of what you say you set out to."

That's because people were saying he's too young for him. I've seen a few say the same thing. He's new to the site,finding his feet and trying to work out how things work here. A 24 yr old woman wouldn't be getting the same reception he has gotten.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's called being a man in a world over run bye men and few woman . Read profiles before u message .

There is roughly more women than men in UK

This may indeed be true, but it is certainly NOT true of Fab.

Single men outnumber single ladies here at a ratio of around ten to one.

Really wow no wonder all the men are quick to bash other guys lol competitionis stiff hajahaha

Yes really. So,now imagine being a woman who has a lot of men who want to meet. You can't meet all of them can you. How would a woman decide who to talk to? "

That's when it comes the woman's preference but it gets harder when your chances not event involved in the running Lol but some women need to make it clear what they want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op stick in there, we are in a similar boat, even being 25 which many ask for is still not enough there's something else.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"Its not the fact that I'm stressing I just find it baffling most women my age go for older guys and older women go for older guys apart from the occasional cougar

If your on here looking for Older ladies because they have the experience you seek while exploring your sexuality, why wouldn't a woman your age be looking for an older gent for the same reason?

Thanks for the advice first positivity of the day

See how much better it can feel when focus on the positives

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its not the fact that I'm stressing I just find it baffling most women my age go for older guys and older women go for older guys apart from the occasional cougar

If your on here looking for Older ladies because they have the experience you seek while exploring your sexuality, why wouldn't a woman your age be looking for an older gent for the same reason?

Thanks for the advice first positivity of the day

No someone else mentioned going to clubs etc

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Op stick in there, we are in a similar boat, even being 25 which many ask for is still not enough there's something else.

We'll get there mate we will hahaha

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"Its not the fact that I'm stressing I just find it baffling most women my age go for older guys and older women go for older guys apart from the occasional cougar

If your on here looking for Older ladies because they have the experience you seek while exploring your sexuality, why wouldn't a woman your age be looking for an older gent for the same reason?

Thanks for the advice first positivity of the day

No someone else mentioned going to clubs etc"

It's true they did but has we were discussing his topic more positively it probably resonated with him more coming from me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Its not the fact that I'm stressing I just find it baffling most women my age go for older guys and older women go for older guys apart from the occasional cougar

If your on here looking for Older ladies because they have the experience you seek while exploring your sexuality, why wouldn't a woman your age be looking for an older gent for the same reason?

Thanks for the advice first positivity of the day

See how much better it can feel when focus on the positives

Yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm planning of attending a club if I get company

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's called being a man in a world over run bye men and few woman . Read profiles before u message .

There is roughly more women than men in UK

This may indeed be true, but it is certainly NOT true of Fab.

Single men outnumber single ladies here at a ratio of around ten to one.

Really wow no wonder all the men are quick to bash other guys lol competitionis stiff hajahaha

Yes really. So,now imagine being a woman who has a lot of men who want to meet. You can't meet all of them can you. How would a woman decide who to talk to?

That's when it comes the woman's preference but it gets harder when your chances not event involved in the running Lol but some women need to make it clear what they want"

I don't want a specific thing. I want men I find attractive to me in different ways. I don't want the same thing every time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Its not the fact that I'm stressing I just find it baffling most women my age go for older guys and older women go for older guys apart from the occasional cougar

If your on here looking for Older ladies because they have the experience you seek while exploring your sexuality, why wouldn't a woman your age be looking for an older gent for the same reason?

Thanks for the advice first positivity of the day

No someone else mentioned going to clubs etc

It's true they did but has we were discussing his topic more positively it probably resonated with him more coming from me "

Yeah the club comment was okay but it doesn't matter I was prepared to listen to all views but some people want to slate for the sake of it

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Op stick in there, we are in a similar boat, even being 25 which many ask for is still not enough there's something else.

You're not seriously suggesting that being 25 should be enough for someone to want to meet you are you?

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By *heBirminghamWeekendMan
over a year ago

here

I wish I was 25 again

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's called being a man in a world over run bye men and few woman . Read profiles before u message .

There is roughly more women than men in UK

This may indeed be true, but it is certainly NOT true of Fab.

Single men outnumber single ladies here at a ratio of around ten to one.

Really wow no wonder all the men are quick to bash other guys lol competitionis stiff hajahaha

Yes really. So,now imagine being a woman who has a lot of men who want to meet. You can't meet all of them can you. How would a woman decide who to talk to?

That's when it comes the woman's preference but it gets harder when your chances not event involved in the running Lol but some women need to make it clear what they want

I don't want a specific thing. I want men I find attractive to me in different ways. I don't want the same thing every time."

Okay I see ... I've found though that most women have preferences though

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By *oachman 9CoolMan
over a year ago

derby

"Why are you on Fab at 24yrs of age !!

If I was that age, i,d be out at the weekend with my mates on the pull !!

"
When I was his age the Internet Was not as available as it is now, and Night clubs and ads out the paper were The norm, the internet as taken all that a Way within that time Scale, with out the ads out the paper Meeting up with gals would have been out of the question, I soon found that Out when the rip off merchants came Along and the chatlines too, stick with the Internet and anything free is A bonus as here, your young free and single make the most of it I am..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone deleted my comment

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By *akedwife12Couple
over a year ago

Midlands

"Don't judge me by my age I am more mature is what you say OP.

Yet you have made this thread all about your age and you have made sure you get judged by it.

And some of your comments do not make you look very mature

It seems you have achieved the opposite of what you say you set out to.

Thing is most 24 year old women don't post threads like this, young guys do.

Maybe the women realise that if people don't want to meet them that the Forum is the last place to moan about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well it's a start 0.0 there's no way I'm waiting 5 years to start

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don't judge me by my age I am more mature is what you say OP.

Yet you have made this thread all about your age and you have made sure you get judged by it.

And some of your comments do not make you look very mature

It seems you have achieved the opposite of what you say you set out to.

Thing is most 24 year old women don't post threads like this, young guys do.

Maybe the women realise that if people don't want to meet them that the Forum is the last place to moan about it."

I want to know what is so wrong with this thread I made it to find out peoples opinions so I started the thread based on my experience tell me what's so wrong about that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well it's a start 0.0 there's no way I'm waiting 5 years to start "

Do you club in London often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its not the fact that I'm stressing I just find it baffling most women my age go for older guys and older women go for older guys apart from the occasional cougar

If your on here looking for Older ladies because they have the experience you seek while exploring your sexuality, why wouldn't a woman your age be looking for an older gent for the same reason?

Thanks for the advice first positivity of the day

No someone else mentioned going to clubs etc

It's true they did but has we were discussing his topic more positively it probably resonated with him more coming from me

Yeah the club comment was okay but it doesn't matter I was prepared to listen to all views but some people want to slate for the sake of it"

So I'd noticed

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why are you on Fab at 24yrs of age !!

If I was that age, i,d be out at the weekend with my mates on the pull !!

When I was his age the Internet Was not as available as it is now, and Night clubs and ads out the paper were The norm, the internet as taken all that a Way within that time Scale, with out the ads out the paper Meeting up with gals would have been out of the question, I soon found that Out when the rip off merchants came Along and the chatlines too, stick with the Internet and anything free is A bonus as here, your young free and single make the most of it I am..

Hahaha thanks coach lool

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By *akedwife12Couple
over a year ago

Midlands

"Don't judge me by my age I am more mature is what you say OP.

Yet you have made this thread all about your age and you have made sure you get judged by it.

And some of your comments do not make you look very mature

It seems you have achieved the opposite of what you say you set out to.

Thing is most 24 year old women don't post threads like this, young guys do.

Maybe the women realise that if people don't want to meet them that the Forum is the last place to moan about it.

I want to know what is so wrong with this thread I made it to find out peoples opinions so I started the thread based on my experience tell me what's so wrong about that"

Your experience based on two weeks of being a member?

Wow!!

Like someone said much earlier, you need to be patient.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why are you on Fab at 24yrs of age !!

If I was that age, i,d be out at the weekend with my mates on the pull !!

I should ... Or you think I should

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don't judge me by my age I am more mature is what you say OP.

Yet you have made this thread all about your age and you have made sure you get judged by it.

And some of your comments do not make you look very mature

It seems you have achieved the opposite of what you say you set out to.

Thing is most 24 year old women don't post threads like this, young guys do.

Maybe the women realise that if people don't want to meet them that the Forum is the last place to moan about it.

I want to know what is so wrong with this thread I made it to find out peoples opinions so I started the thread based on my experience tell me what's so wrong about that

Your experience based on two weeks of being a member?

Wow!!

Like someone said much earlier, you need to be patient. "

ERM no actually I didn't start going for older women when I joined the site two weeks ago

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By *akedwife12Couple
over a year ago

Midlands

"Don't judge me by my age I am more mature is what you say OP.

Yet you have made this thread all about your age and you have made sure you get judged by it.

And some of your comments do not make you look very mature

It seems you have achieved the opposite of what you say you set out to.

Thing is most 24 year old women don't post threads like this, young guys do.

Maybe the women realise that if people don't want to meet them that the Forum is the last place to moan about it.

I want to know what is so wrong with this thread I made it to find out peoples opinions so I started the thread based on my experience tell me what's so wrong about that

Your experience based on two weeks of being a member?

Wow!!

Like someone said much earlier, you need to be patient.

ERM no actually I didn't start going for older women when I joined the site two weeks ago"

Our mistake OP.

You asked us all not to judge you by your age.

Going by your comments it is hard not to.

Two weeks of being on here and you are bitter already.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"I'm constantly being stereotyped as young or immature without any acknowledgement of even a hello I can barely even send messages to half the females on here

I'm not sure how you can deduct from being ignored that your problem is your age although your profile and your posts clarify to me your maturity.

If you sent me a message I would ignore it because you don't meet my preferences and age is usually the last reason on my list.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm constantly being stereotyped as young or immature without any acknowledgement of even a hello I can barely even send messages to half the females on here

I'm not sure how you can deduct from being ignored that your problem is your age although your profile and your posts clarify to me your maturity.

If you sent me a message I would ignore it because you don't meet my preferences and age is usually the last reason on my list."

Its not solely the problem but for me its a major factor cause that's what seems to be my problem I'm too young but that and that is before I signed up to fab but fair enough that is your preference

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don't judge me by my age I am more mature is what you say OP.

Yet you have made this thread all about your age and you have made sure you get judged by it.

And some of your comments do not make you look very mature

It seems you have achieved the opposite of what you say you set out to.

Thing is most 24 year old women don't post threads like this, young guys do.

Maybe the women realise that if people don't want to meet them that the Forum is the last place to moan about it.

I want to know what is so wrong with this thread I made it to find out peoples opinions so I started the thread based on my experience tell me what's so wrong about that

Your experience based on two weeks of being a member?

Wow!!

Like someone said much earlier, you need to be patient.

ERM no actually I didn't start going for older women when I joined the site two weeks ago

Our mistake OP.

You asked us all not to judge you by your age.

Going by your comments it is hard not to.

Two weeks of being on here and you are bitter already.

bitter hardley

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite a lot of women don't like 51 year olds, it's not personal

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Quite a lot of women don't like 51 year olds, it's not personal"

I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the assumption that everyone in their 20s has the time and money to go clubbing every weekend. Weekends off? What are those again?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love the assumption that everyone in their 20s has the time and money to go clubbing every weekend. Weekends off? What are those again? "

I don't drink so seeing the nightlife through sober eyes is quite shocking to be honest.

Over the past two weeks I've had to stop a street fight and stop someone getting into their car completely pissed.

Much prefer a decent night in a swingers club, Mrsdpt will have a glass or two of wine, a clear head and some great memories are so much better than a hang over and blankness

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I love the assumption that everyone in their 20s has the time and money to go clubbing every weekend. Weekends off? What are those again? "

Look its our stereotype funny to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love the assumption that everyone in their 20s has the time and money to go clubbing every weekend. Weekends off? What are those again?

Look its our stereotype funny to be honest"
a suppose older people reflect back to when they where your age and in most cases did not have the family commitments they have now so to a degree had more cash to spare when younger

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I love the assumption that everyone in their 20s has the time and money to go clubbing every weekend. Weekends off? What are those again?

I don't drink so seeing the nightlife through sober eyes is quite shocking to be honest.

Over the past two weeks I've had to stop a street fight and stop someone getting into their car completely pissed.

Much prefer a decent night in a swingers club, Mrsdpt will have a glass or two of wine, a clear head and some great memories are so much better than a hang over and blankness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love the assumption that everyone in their 20s has the time and money to go clubbing every weekend. Weekends off? What are those again?

Look its our stereotype funny to be honest a suppose older people reflect back to when they where your age and in most cases did not have the family commitments they have now so to a degree had more cash to spare when younger"

I was married with 3 children at 21, no fucking cash at all and no time for extra-marital sex

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I love the assumption that everyone in their 20s has the time and money to go clubbing every weekend. Weekends off? What are those again?

Is this true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's also flawed logic. I never, ever EVER get chatted up in nightclubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love the assumption that everyone in their 20s has the time and money to go clubbing every weekend. Weekends off? What are those again?

Is this true"
in the late 80's for me growing up jobs were plently a cash was abundance than what youngsters have today

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's also flawed logic. I never, ever EVER get chatted up in nightclubs. "

I find that hard to believe by your pics you got a good body

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