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"Well done for bringing this up _iew.xxxx" no probs xxx and did you see Bette on this morning.. she was fab | |||
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"Well done for bringing this up _iew.xxxx no probs xxx and did you see Bette on this morning.. she was fab " No i didnt, ive given up watching television even xfactor (one of my whims) but i was going to put a thing up about aids day good job this was at the topxxx | |||
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"Ask the pope to make a donation his church are to blame for the spread in africa to a large extent " hey the pope never made ppl have sex though... lol | |||
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"Well done for bringing this up _iew.xxxx no probs xxx and did you see Bette on this morning.. she was fab No i didnt, ive given up watching television even xfactor (one of my whims) but i was going to put a thing up about aids day good job this was at the topxxx" she was in fine form... pop on ITV player, you will see her. she was on first. xxx | |||
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"Well done for bringing this up _iew.xxxx no probs xxx and did you see Bette on this morning.. she was fab No i didnt, ive given up watching television even xfactor (one of my whims) but i was going to put a thing up about aids day good job this was at the topxxx she was in fine form... pop on ITV player, you will see her. she was on first. xxx " Im very tempted but im not supposed to give in too temptation. I will have to see what Paulo Coelho has to say about it first lol | |||
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"HeyView, did you also see that Elton John is editing the Independent today as part of the raising awareness thing?" I did see that actually... not the most 'wow' front page but good on him, he raises a lot of money. well done Elton | |||
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"In some African villages they believe that having sex with a child under the age of 1 year can cure them of the disease. I'd rather they went with the Beetroot cure. And Grim, no the pope didn't make them have sex. Please think before you post something so bloody stupid in a thread about a serious problem such as this. " well if u had looked at what the 3rd person said, u would see where i was coming from instead of jumping the gun U think i'm not being serious. it's not me thats taking risks and then those that get infected lay the blame on others.. | |||
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"In some African villages they believe that having sex with a child under the age of 1 year can cure them of the disease. I'd rather they went with the Beetroot cure. And Grim, no the pope didn't make them have sex. Please think before you post something so bloody stupid in a thread about a serious problem such as this. " i suggest you stop making character assessments from ppl by the basis of one sentenance. a person is made up of multiple _iews etc.. | |||
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"With almost 7 million of it's people infected with HIV, the South African leadership still questions whether HIV is the prequel to AIDS. To this day the South African government still do not routinely provide anti-retroviral drugs to HIV patients. They famously recommended that those infected with HIV drink an infusion of Garlic, Tea and Beetroot. BUT.....They have greatefully accepted over $40 million of funding from the World Health Organisation since 2005 to combat HIV/AIDS...... That's a lot of Beetroot beetroot is good for muscle growth for fitness how can we save everyone? when ppl start complaining about 'how it feels' it does beg the question do they care? It's like a d*unk man wrecked on the street, should the services take him to the hospital when s/he doesn't want too We invade ppls rights all the time. it's inevitable. " Sorry Grim, but even after reading that three times I don't understand what you mean. | |||
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"With almost 7 million of it's people infected with HIV, the South African leadership still questions whether HIV is the prequel to AIDS. To this day the South African government still do not routinely provide anti-retroviral drugs to HIV patients. They famously recommended that those infected with HIV drink an infusion of Garlic, Tea and Beetroot. BUT.....They have greatefully accepted over $40 million of funding from the World Health Organisation since 2005 to combat HIV/AIDS...... That's a lot of Beetroot beetroot is good for muscle growth for fitness how can we save everyone? when ppl start complaining about 'how it feels' it does beg the question do they care? It's like a d*unk man wrecked on the street, should the services take him to the hospital when s/he doesn't want too We invade ppls rights all the time. it's inevitable. Sorry Grim, but even after reading that three times I don't understand what you mean." A man gets pissed and wonders the street. the police pick him up and take him to the hspital. But the man refuses because it's his choice I was asking "why should ppl help when ppl don't want help" I was relating that story as i heard it from my brother in the police and they get fed up with d*unks not caring one little bit how their d*unkish behaviour affects everyone. | |||
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"I saw exactly what was posted. And I have no intention of making character assessments on anyone on the basis of one sentence. I do not judge a persons character on anything they write online. It gets lost in translation way too easily. I am not starting an argument on this thread. HIV and AIDS need highlighting, not bickering and one up man ship. Please do not think you are not at risk from the disease, because everyone is. No matter what they believe. " u said i don't take aids seriously. u are very much mistaken. u have no idea what my connections are with drink and aids. i | |||
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"With almost 7 million of it's people infected with HIV, the South African leadership still questions whether HIV is the prequel to AIDS. To this day the South African government still do not routinely provide anti-retroviral drugs to HIV patients. They famously recommended that those infected with HIV drink an infusion of Garlic, Tea and Beetroot. BUT.....They have greatefully accepted over $40 million of funding from the World Health Organisation since 2005 to combat HIV/AIDS...... That's a lot of Beetroot beetroot is good for muscle growth for fitness how can we save everyone? when ppl start complaining about 'how it feels' it does beg the question do they care? It's like a d*unk man wrecked on the street, should the services take him to the hospital when s/he doesn't want too We invade ppls rights all the time. it's inevitable. Sorry Grim, but even after reading that three times I don't understand what you mean. A man gets pissed and wonders the street. the police pick him up and take him to the hspital. But the man refuses because it's his choice I was asking "why should ppl help when ppl don't want help" I was relating that story as i heard it from my brother in the police and they get fed up with d*unks not caring one little bit how their d*unkish behaviour affects everyone. " And this relates to HIV patients in Africa how? | |||
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"With almost 7 million of it's people infected with HIV, the South African leadership still questions whether HIV is the prequel to AIDS. To this day the South African government still do not routinely provide anti-retroviral drugs to HIV patients. They famously recommended that those infected with HIV drink an infusion of Garlic, Tea and Beetroot. BUT.....They have greatefully accepted over $40 million of funding from the World Health Organisation since 2005 to combat HIV/AIDS...... That's a lot of Beetroot beetroot is good for muscle growth for fitness how can we save everyone? when ppl start complaining about 'how it feels' it does beg the question do they care? It's like a d*unk man wrecked on the street, should the services take him to the hospital when s/he doesn't want too We invade ppls rights all the time. it's inevitable. Sorry Grim, but even after reading that three times I don't understand what you mean. A man gets pissed and wonders the street. the police pick him up and take him to the hspital. But the man refuses because it's his choice I was asking "why should ppl help when ppl don't want help" I was relating that story as i heard it from my brother in the police and they get fed up with d*unks not caring one little bit how their d*unkish behaviour affects everyone. And this relates to HIV patients in Africa how?" jees. behaviour!!! ppl like having sex a guy on this forum remarked how the pope didn't condone condoms a decade ago etc but THEN the pope never condoned sex for fun either. The pope is only responding to ppls attitudes. analogy: when the grass grows u have to cut it likewise with sex, the pope is only doing it as a result of ppls actions. | |||
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"Ask the pope to make a donation his church are to blame for the spread in africa to a large extent " Yes quite right. | |||
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"Lead by example. We need to educate ourselves so we can educate others, no matter what country or religion people follow. AIDS/HIV has no preference or discrimination of who it is passed to, be it in a sexual or non sexual way. All we can do is use common sense and use the knowledge that has been handed to us all to try to reduce the risks of contracting and spreading the infection. Bless the ones that are suffering." Excellent.. | |||
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"Lead by example. We need to educate ourselves so we can educate others, no matter what country or religion people follow. AIDS/HIV has no preference or discrimination of who it is passed to, be it in a sexual or non sexual way. All we can do is use common sense and use the knowledge that has been handed to us all to try to reduce the risks of contracting and spreading the infection. Bless the ones that are suffering." Fantastic x | |||
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"Not a bad idea. There are many suffering in Africa where drugs are not available to help them. It does make you think." I am currently in an African country where the rate of infection is close to 30%. The drugs are available free of charge thanks to several charities but it is impossible to stop transmission as 85% of the population is so desperatly poor they cannot afford condoms. Often women will only find out their status once they are pregnant and go to hospital for ante-natal care. Still vast majority of ppl live without water, sanitation, electricity, a regular income and HIV is very low on their list of subsistence priorities... A complicated problem... | |||
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"Not a bad idea. There are many suffering in Africa where drugs are not available to help them. It does make you think. I am currently in an African country where the rate of infection is close to 30%. The drugs are available free of charge thanks to several charities but it is impossible to stop transmission as 85% of the population is so desperatly poor they cannot afford condoms. Often women will only find out their status once they are pregnant and go to hospital for ante-natal care. Still vast majority of ppl live without water, sanitation, electricity, a regular income and HIV is very low on their list of subsistence priorities... A complicated problem... " Then there are all the myths and superstitions on how to prevent and cure the disease to contend with. We have become complacent and I hear people describing HIV as "just an African disease now" - it's an issue for us all. | |||
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"With almost 7 million of it's people infected with HIV, the South African leadership still questions whether HIV is the prequel to AIDS. To this day the South African government still do not routinely provide anti-retroviral drugs to HIV patients. They famously recommended that those infected with HIV drink an infusion of Garlic, Tea and Beetroot. BUT.....They have greatefully accepted over $40 million of funding from the World Health Organisation since 2005 to combat HIV/AIDS...... That's a lot of Beetroot beetroot is good for muscle growth for fitness how can we save everyone? when ppl start complaining about 'how it feels' it does beg the question do they care? It's like a d*unk man wrecked on the street, should the services take him to the hospital when s/he doesn't want too We invade ppls rights all the time. it's inevitable. Sorry Grim, but even after reading that three times I don't understand what you mean. A man gets pissed and wonders the street. the police pick him up and take him to the hspital. But the man refuses because it's his choice I was asking "why should ppl help when ppl don't want help" I was relating that story as i heard it from my brother in the police and they get fed up with d*unks not caring one little bit how their d*unkish behaviour affects everyone. And this relates to HIV patients in Africa how? jees. behaviour!!! ppl like having sex a guy on this forum remarked how the pope didn't condone condoms a decade ago etc but THEN the pope never condoned sex for fun either. The pope is only responding to ppls attitudes. analogy: when the grass grows u have to cut it likewise with sex, the pope is only doing it as a result of ppls actions. " yes people like having sex, but one of the biggest risks is casual sex, no condom is 100% and how many people use protection in every aspect of sex? yes using protection lowers the risks.. but then having multiple partners is increasing that lowered sex.. so just think for a site that is promoting casual sex its a bit ironic they have put up the red ribbon.. | |||
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" yes people like having sex, but one of the biggest risks is casual sex, no condom is 100% and how many people use protection in every aspect of sex? yes using protection lowers the risks.. but then having multiple partners is increasing that lowered sex.. so just think for a site that is promoting casual sex its a bit ironic they have put up the red ribbon.. " It's like pregnancy. It only takes one occasion for you to 'catch'. I met a young woman last WAD who was in the sad position that her very first and only sexual experience led to her being infected. Yes, the risk is increased but that is why you must mitigate against the risk. If you are having casual sex then it is more important that you take responsibility for yourself and to protect others. I see no irony in that. | |||
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" yes people like having sex, but one of the biggest risks is casual sex, no condom is 100% and how many people use protection in every aspect of sex? yes using protection lowers the risks.. but then having multiple partners is increasing that lowered sex.. so just think for a site that is promoting casual sex its a bit ironic they have put up the red ribbon.. It's like pregnancy. It only takes one occasion for you to 'catch'. I met a young woman last WAD who was in the sad position that her very first and only sexual experience led to her being infected. Yes, the risk is increased but that is why you must mitigate against the risk. If you are having casual sex then it is more important that you take responsibility for yourself and to protect others. I see no irony in that. " yes u can protect urself, but as i say casual sex is still increasing the chances of infection with protection. The only way to stay safe is to have sex with one person only you know is not infected and never invite anyone else in. as someone pointed out world aids day is aim for 0% infections.. well casual sex being the main contributor of the spread of the disease, protected or not, then its irony in its finest but as adultsa on this site everyoen has the choice to take whatever risks in life they want.. as long as they are aware of the risks.. | |||
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"Tomorrow 01.12.10 is Worlds Aids Day. God bless all those suffering from this most terrible disease. Admin... any chance we could get a red ribbon as a banner flash please. Many thanks. xx " | |||
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"Tomorrow 01.12.10 is Worlds Aids Day. God bless all those suffering from this most terrible disease. Admin... any chance we could get a red ribbon as a banner flash please. Many thanks. xx " copied from the net - From there on out, statistically speaking, things deteriorate pretty fast. If your partner is HIV-positive, your chances of getting AIDS after one night are 1 in 5,000 with a condom, 1 in 500 without. Have sex with an HIV-positive partner 500 times using condoms and your chances escalate to 1 in 11. Skip the gift wrap and they're 2 in 3. | |||
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" copied from the net - From there on out, statistically speaking, things deteriorate pretty fast. If your partner is HIV-positive, your chances of getting AIDS after one night are 1 in 5,000 with a condom, 1 in 500 without. Have sex with an HIV-positive partner 500 times using condoms and your chances escalate to 1 in 11. Skip the gift wrap and they're 2 in 3. " As I stated, it is much like pregnancy. The only safe sex is the virtual kind. You can practice safer sex. If you feel that swinging sex is too dangerous then stop doing it. I worry more about the people that go home with someone they have met in a nightclub or after getting d*unk at the pub. I worry more that we don't discuss HIV in this country anymore except on WAD. | |||
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"I used to work with a group of teenagers that were affected by a close relative or sibling living with HIV or AIDS. Their biggest concern was that people didn't talk about it. One had even been banned by her school of mentioning that her sister had HIV in case it upset parents. For young people they were very aware of the fact that it needed talking about to prevent the problem. " I went to the launch of drama film made for and by young people about HIV last year. We now encourage people to talk about breast, testicular and bowel cancer (all previously "upsetting" as they are intimate cancers) but we are nowhere near this level of dialogue about HIV yet. | |||
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"Lead by example. We need to educate ourselves so we can educate others, no matter what country or religion people follow. AIDS/HIV has no preference or discrimination of who it is passed to, be it in a sexual or non sexual way. All we can do is use common sense and use the knowledge that has been handed to us all to try to reduce the risks of contracting and spreading the infection. Bless the ones that are suffering." | |||
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"people are frightened to be associated with the subject in case it sticks... or it is a male gay/bi thing brought to their own doorstep thinking. you only have to check the 'good intent best wishes' for people suffering on threads like these and the ones for Pink Ribbon and Movember. all suffering benefits from compassion." It isn't anonymous groups of people either. When it comes down to it is the one individual you know and care about. | |||
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"And another year passes..... God bless all living with this terrible disease. " I'm doing a lot of work with HIV as part of my job...it's an awful disease but thank god for on going research and brilliant drugs which has turned it from a terminal illness to a long term illness | |||
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"Another year. Thankfully not one where anyone I know has died as a result of this virus and no one I know has told me they have tested positive. Now we have to concentrate on our young people. Play safe." xx | |||
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"Another year. Thankfully not one where anyone I know has died as a result of this virus and no one I know has told me they have tested positive. Now we have to concentrate on our young people. Play safe. xx" | |||
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"World Aids Day is on Monday, lets remember all who have lost loved ones and people living their life with this terrible disease. god bless you all x" | |||
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"Nice to see this thread, I will be out Monday promoting World Aids day giving leaflets and condoms and hopefully increasing awareness. " Admin have been great over the years, there will be a Red Ribbon as a banner flash on the 1st. it's lovely of them | |||
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"Ask the pope to make a donation his church are to blame for the spread in africa to a large extent hey the pope never made ppl have sex though... lol" | |||
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"HIV awareness is really close to my heart...about 15 years ago I was given the wrong result and was told I was HIV positive. I remember sitting there just feeling numb I didn't know where to turn. I then had the secondary test...they give you a second test to make sure the first test was accurate. I was told I was negative...my first test came back weakly positive and apprantely my blood reacted to this test..I had tests every 3 months for a year...15 years on I'm still negative but it really was a horrible experience. I feel for those who never had the chance I did to be negative. I hope that a cure is on the horizon " xxxxx | |||
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"HIV awareness is really close to my heart...about 15 years ago I was given the wrong result and was told I was HIV positive. I remember sitting there just feeling numb I didn't know where to turn. I then had the secondary test...they give you a second test to make sure the first test was accurate. I was told I was negative...my first test came back weakly positive and apprantely my blood reacted to this test..I had tests every 3 months for a year...15 years on I'm still negative but it really was a horrible experience. I feel for those who never had the chance I did to be negative. I hope that a cure is on the horizon " Oh Bless you that must have been an awful shock. So glad you found out you were negative in the end. | |||
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"people are frightened to be associated with the subject in case it sticks... or it is a male gay/bi thing brought to their own doorstep thinking. you only have to check the 'good intent best wishes' for people suffering on threads like these and the ones for Pink Ribbon and Movember. all suffering benefits from compassion." | |||
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"5 years on, more sad passings and new people living with the virus. god bless you all. and again, thanks Admin for the banner tomorrow." I know someone with HIV so in full support of this even more so | |||
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"5 years on, more sad passings and new people living with the virus. god bless you all. and again, thanks Admin for the banner tomorrow." Nice one View | |||
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"5 years on, more sad passings and new people living with the virus. god bless you all. and again, thanks Admin for the banner tomorrow. I know someone with HIV so in full support of this even more so " all the best to your friend | |||
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"Tomorrow 01.12.10 is Worlds Aids Day. God bless all those suffering from this most terrible disease. Admin... any chance we could get a red ribbon as a banner flash please. Many thanks. xx " | |||
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"Another year passed..... thank you again for supporting with the banner flash " | |||
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"Today I learned 1 in 5 people still think you can get HIV from kissing. Yep, education and awareness is still very much needed! " Ditto and agree.. | |||
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