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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why on earth does somone message us,, chat for weeks, arrange a meet for which they say they are extremely grateful, suddenly hide their profile when the meet is due ? How annoying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Message them and ask if everything is still ok.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Sometimes real life happens and Fab/meets/sex take a back seat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes people get caught up in the fantasy of swinging but when reality dawns on them they shite their pants and run...its all good talking the talk when your safely behind at home on the laptop, the reality is to scary for lots...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes people get caught up in the fantasy of swinging but when reality dawns on them they shite their pants and run...its all good talking the talk when your safely behind at home on the laptop, the reality is to scary for lots..."

They haven't blocked them, just hidden their profile, they can still be messaged. Maybe they don't want anymore messages for the time being as they've arranged this meet. Whatever the reason, send a quick message and leave the ball in their court.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sometimes people get caught up in the fantasy of swinging but when reality dawns on them they shite their pants and run...its all good talking the talk when your safely behind at home on the laptop, the reality is to scary for lots..."

You could well be right. He talked the talk brilliantly so maybe it was performance anxiety.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They have gotten enough wank material. Now it's time to waste someone else's time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes people get caught up in the fantasy of swinging but when reality dawns on them they shite their pants and run...its all good talking the talk when your safely behind at home on the laptop, the reality is to scary for lots..."

Or, sadly....you were taken in by a fantasist guy, pretending to be a couple......?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sometimes people get caught up in the fantasy of swinging but when reality dawns on them they shite their pants and run...its all good talking the talk when your safely behind at home on the laptop, the reality is to scary for lots...

Or, sadly....you were taken in by a fantasist guy, pretending to be a couple......?"

We knew he was just a single bloke.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"They have gotten enough wank material. Now it's time to waste someone else's time "

You little cynic you lol That was our first thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes people get caught up in the fantasy of swinging but when reality dawns on them they shite their pants and run...its all good talking the talk when your safely behind at home on the laptop, the reality is to scary for lots...

You could well be right. He talked the talk brilliantly so maybe it was performance anxiety. "

Performance anxiety or maybe he was in a relationship either way I'd forget him and block him...no excuse for wasting time, if he had time to come on and hide his profile then he would have had time to drop a courtesy message explaining why he couldnt meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

fuck sake the guys only hidden his profile..

maybe complain if he goes UNLOS

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They have gotten enough wank material. Now it's time to waste someone else's time

You little cynic you lol That was our first thought."

No worries, it happens to us all.

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