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By *urely4fun OP   Man
over a year ago

london

Ok so I know each to their own and all that nonsense but does anybody ever just suddenly feel old?

Regardless of what my profile says, I'm 30, it might even say that, but nothing to do with a midlife crisis, Ive started to feel old looking at people's age limits.

I look a lot younger, I'm in great shape and I don't take life all that seriously. But still feel old.

Anybody else feel like this while looking at great profiles and being outside of the age range?

Ps. Who wants to meet. Lol. X

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

At 30?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're 30. You're not old.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reading this just makes me feel old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Man up!

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

30??!! Get a grip! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are old some of us are antiques.

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

Wait until you are 50 and find yourself outside of all the up to 49 profiles..... then tell me you feel old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

30 oh to be so young again man up lol

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By *etzPlayCouple
over a year ago

Southend

Ever felt better than when I (Mr) was 25, within 2 months of turning 25 I benched 20kg extra with no change to my diet or exercise xx

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By *untimesforusCouple
over a year ago

paignton

Lol....i think we all get to that stage wen u suddenly realise "im old".....we had same thing setting up our profile, i thought, oh what age limits should we set at u realise ur quite near ur own limit lmao!! Age is nothing, its looks n personality to us x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you are confusing feeling old woth a sense of entitlement. Respect other people's preferences, you won't be for everyone so just accept it

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"Ok so I know each to their own and all that nonsense but does anybody ever just suddenly feel old?

Regardless of what my profile says, I'm 30, it might even say that, but nothing to do with a midlife crisis, Ive started to feel old looking at people's age limits.

I look a lot younger, I'm in great shape and I don't take life all that seriously. But still feel old.

Anybody else feel like this while looking at great profiles and being outside of the age range?

Ps. Who wants to meet. Lol. X"

Wtf???? Old???? Whaaat ???

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over a year ago

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I guess it depends on the age of the people you meet. Although how young would someone have to be for 30 to be considered 'old'?

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By *etzPlayCouple
over a year ago

Southend


"I guess it depends on the age of the people you meet. Although how young would someone have to be for 30 to be considered 'old'?"

No one on fab I won't think.

We met a pair of 20yr and they were more tired that us lol

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By *urely4fun OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"I guess it depends on the age of the people you meet. Although how young would someone have to be for 30 to be considered 'old'?"

That's the thing. They were like 21-24 ish. Pfffft

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shit now I do feel old. Oh wait !'!!! I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You see here's the thing......

Well maybe not the right thing, but a

thing nevertheless ....

Could it simply be people who focus on trying to keep in shape and constantly grooming themselves trying to look good become more likely to feel down whenever they encounter signs of the natural aging process ......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At 30 I felt a little old it is a milestone age so know where your coming from. Chin up mate ignore the grumpy ones.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Never give up, never slow down, never grow old, never ever die young."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Never give up, never slow down, never grow old, never ever die young."

"
never listen to frisky

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


""Never give up, never slow down, never grow old, never ever die young."

never listen to frisky "

Miserable old git!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wait till you're approaching 50

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've brought a string quartet to help you with you feel better about your age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""Never give up, never slow down, never grow old, never ever die young."

never listen to frisky

Miserable old git! "
moody mare

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


""Never give up, never slow down, never grow old, never ever die young."

never listen to frisky

Miserable old git! moody mare "

No darling, always Frisky here - someone else must be moody!

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

30 and feeling old, that's made my day

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By *t3_jalapenoMan
over a year ago

darlo

I felt old yesterday went to message a 28 year old but i was out of her age boundaries (18 - 30)...wish i was 30 again lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God no I feel young lol

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

You don't feel old.

The word you're looking for is that you are finally becoming an adult.

That's all. It takes time but you are just at that point where you realise there's more to life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok so I know each to their own and all that nonsense but does anybody ever just suddenly feel old?

Regardless of what my profile says, I'm 30, it might even say that, but nothing to do with a midlife crisis, Ive started to feel old looking at people's age limits.

I look a lot younger, I'm in great shape and I don't take life all that seriously. But still feel old.

Anybody else feel like this while looking at great profiles and being outside of the age range?

Ps. Who wants to meet. Lol. X"

Your in your prime

I'm 44 and I feel young for my age wether it be in fab world or vanilla world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im 51 and feel 21 keep active and all that,having said that i have got silver hair

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

I don't feel old even today! It is a mental attitude thing to some degree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your inbetween,your confused are you on the top of the young ladder or the bottom of the old ladder does that make sense?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im 42 but in reality I feel 24

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By *atelotmanMan
over a year ago

Chatham

OMG, op Im more then twice your age an I don't feel old, an have plenty of life left in me,as my lady friends know an enjoy.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We're outside of your age range op but it doesn't make me feel old.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had issues with turning 30 OP, 40- not at all! x

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Im old even my kids are older than you..

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

This is really about the OP feeling grumpy over being excluded from meeting one or two younger couples, rather than about "feeling old".

There are plenty of others that will meet a man of his age.

Hell, there are still a lot who'll meet a man of MY age!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"This is really about the OP feeling grumpy over being excluded from meeting one or two younger couples, rather than about "feeling old".

There are plenty of others that will meet a man of his age.

Hell, there are still a lot who'll meet a man of MY age!!"

Lol, incredibly people still have sex at our ages....who knew

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"This is really about the OP feeling grumpy over being excluded from meeting one or two younger couples, rather than about "feeling old".

There are plenty of others that will meet a man of his age.

Hell, there are still a lot who'll meet a man of MY age!!

Lol, incredibly people still have sex at our ages....who knew "

I know!...but I do keep very quiet about it, so please don't tell anyone...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is really about the OP feeling grumpy over being excluded from meeting one or two younger couples, rather than about "feeling old".

There are plenty of others that will meet a man of his age.

Hell, there are still a lot who'll meet a man of MY age!!

Lol, incredibly people still have sex at our ages....who knew "

My god wait until Sydney university see your post !!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"This is really about the OP feeling grumpy over being excluded from meeting one or two younger couples, rather than about "feeling old".

There are plenty of others that will meet a man of his age.

Hell, there are still a lot who'll meet a man of MY age!!

Lol, incredibly people still have sex at our ages....who knew

I know!...but I do keep very quiet about it, so please don't tell anyone..."

Damn! I'm afraid we have to close the windows or the neighbours hear me....I think they already know. I'll put a note through their door explaining it was the telly

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"This is really about the OP feeling grumpy over being excluded from meeting one or two younger couples, rather than about "feeling old".

There are plenty of others that will meet a man of his age.

Hell, there are still a lot who'll meet a man of MY age!!

Lol, incredibly people still have sex at our ages....who knew

My god wait until Sydney university see your post !!! "

The swingers! I'm prepared to be a case study for some attractive young students though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I'm getting old but i refuse too grow up !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if it's any consolation men tend to get more attractive as they get older

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By *ack LondonMan
over a year ago

London

I'm 57, still younger than Mick and Keith, love my rock 'n roll, about to pick up my guitar and play! 30! Get over yourself!

Use the age range thing in your profile...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if it's any consolation men tend to get more attractive as they get older"

Haha looking forward to that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if it's any consolation men tend to get more attractive as they get older

Haha looking forward to that "

I would look in a mirror if I we're you Mr brody

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BAE


"Ok so I know each to their own and all that nonsense but does anybody ever just suddenly feel old?

Regardless of what my profile says, I'm 30, it might even say that, but nothing to do with a midlife crisis, Ive started to feel old looking at people's age limits.

I look a lot younger, I'm in great shape and I don't take life all that seriously. But still feel old.

Anybody else feel like this while looking at great profiles and being outside of the age range?

Ps. Who wants to meet. Lol. X"

Another LAM THREAD. Incidentally OP, you are just about young enough to be my son. So give your head a wobble

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im 51 and certainly dont feel it .. Albiet I have trouble walking at times but that aint down 2 old age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 63 and don't feel old and am told I look a lot younger !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

30?!?

Definitely old, getting to 30 fills be with dread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Regardless of what my profile says, I'm 30, it might even say that, but nothing to do with a midlife crisis, Ive started to feel old looking at people's age limits.

"

What you talking about hardly any profiles on here have their upper age limit set under 30

Wait till you get to my age, I look at myself daily in the mirror and think....when the hell did you happen

I don't feel like I should have grey roots and wrinkles but I have, life goes on

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Ive got records older than the op

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Ive got records older than the op"

I've got lipstick older!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"Ive got records older than the op

I've got lipstick older! "
haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

new set of clothes makes me feel younger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not at all, quite the opposite. I feel like I am still 20

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive got records older than the op

I've got lipstick older! haha"
dont forget your y fronts too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am 46 fitter than most 20 yr olds stronger than most

I never feel old too busy showing the youngsters up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've felt old sometimes.......if it gets too bad I just go and feel someone younger....that usually works!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No not at all, quite the opposite. I feel like I am still 20 "
being a virgin makes you feel young

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Man up! "

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

say hello to middle age.....

goodbye river island... hello debenhams!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"say hello to middle age.....

goodbye river island... hello debenhams!!!! "

Haha brilliant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex is in Basingstoke. She may want to meet you.

She's an ex for a reason, but she won't mind you're old!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Said very tongue in cheek, I'm 35!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

u wanna try BEING old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must admit, turning 30 was a shock. 40 wasnt nearly as bad - looked at it philosophically and wrote a kick-ass wish list. Turning 50 was quite depressing - although as each milestone falls, you realise aspects of your life are generally changing for the better:

The mortgage is paid off, your toys are bigger & more fun, the wife has been thru menopause, your sex life is somewhat more interesting than 20-30 years ago - even tho things don't always keep going all night...

Dont fret about the numbers - just enjoy what happens between them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's you life force that counts, some people can be washed out in their 20s, others are vibrant and full of life in their 60s and 70s, just stay alive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And men age better than women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And men age better than women "

I beg 2 differ

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

saggy bums, saggy tits bald head, collapsed anal walls, crusty pussy like a pork pie. welcome to aged 87

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And men age better than women "

I think it's more down to the individual, regardless of sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"saggy bums, saggy tits bald head, collapsed anal walls, crusty pussy like a pork pie. welcome to aged 87"

Have you been with 87 year old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And men age better than women "

So why do men always get girls 10 to 15 yrs younger than them. After mid life divorce

Most women have to try us blokes are lucky we can look good in anything we wear

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"Ok so I know each to their own and all that nonsense but does anybody ever just suddenly feel old?

"

Suddenly?

No.

It's taken me years to feel this old.

(Though I still only feel about 28).

Until I notice how young policemen are nowadays...

Chin up, your best years are ahead of you OP.

Mr ddc

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"And men age better than women

So why do men always get girls 10 to 15 yrs younger than them. After mid life divorce

Most women have to try us blokes are lucky we can look good in anything we wear

"
I seem to be ignored or outside the age limit of ladies my age .. I have to put up with younger ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"say hello to middle age.....

goodbye river island... hello debenhams!!!! "

Haha speak for yourself I still shop in river island

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok so I know each to their own and all that nonsense but does anybody ever just suddenly feel old?

Regardless of what my profile says, I'm 30, it might even say that, but nothing to do with a midlife crisis, Ive started to feel old looking at people's age limits.

I look a lot younger, I'm in great shape and I don't take life all that seriously. But still feel old.

Anybody else feel like this while looking at great profiles and being outside of the age range?

Ps. Who wants to meet. Lol. X"

If I said sorry but your too young for me,would that make you feel better ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"say hello to middle age.....

goodbye river island... hello debenhams!!!!

Haha speak for yourself I still shop in river island "
I shop in Primark

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As someone said before, 30 is a milestone.

I'm still not used to it but it's better to try and accept you are properly an adult now and adjust accordingly (in general).

Sure, you're no longer in filter range of 20 year old women, but I'm not sure I'd even like to fuck/socialise with one these days.

Chin up man.

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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth


"If you are old some of us are antiques. "

wish I was thirty lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember having a real wobble at 30. Had a wonderful time planned and a surprise trip to Rome and I pouted like a trout the whole time! All milestones suck when you feel about 21

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, that they do!

30 was a tough one for me. 35 happened and I hardly noticed, until I was thinking this week that the kids getting GCSE results this week weren't even born when I sat mine!

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Well, today is the last birthday I shall ever have in my thirties. I'm surprisingly chipper about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, today is the last birthday I shall ever have in my thirties. I'm surprisingly chipper about it."

Happy Birthday! X

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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago

portsmouth


"Wait until you are 50 and find yourself outside of all the up to 49 profiles..... then tell me you feel old "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone reading this is right now the youngest they're ever gonna be. Accept it and enjoy yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is just a number, it's the person that makes you YOU. Well that's what people tell me anyway lol.

And 30 is young anyway x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"say hello to middle age.....

goodbye river island... hello debenhams!!!!

Haha speak for yourself I still shop in river island I shop in Primark "

Hehe really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thirty? Bah, it's all still fillet steak at your age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

pfft!!

this is just another take on the 'look at me' thread only this one is more successful than most! well done, old man

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