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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

.... What i find the biggest turn OFF on here, are the guys who get in touch build up a rapport then wander off do 'whatever' or 'whoever' else they do, then wander back and whinge about not getting laid.

I don't do sloppy seconds...

What are they after a sympathy f**k?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I get that, but they don't wander back. I never hear from them again.

I guess it could be said that its up to us women to stay in touch with the guys as much as them staying in touch with us, but I try, and they still don't come back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


".... What i find the biggest turn OFF on here, are the guys who get in touch build up a rapport then wander off do 'whatever' or 'whoever' else they do, then wander back and whinge about not getting laid.

I don't do sloppy seconds...

What are they after a sympathy f**k? "

are you saying that if a guy is talking to you he shouldn't fuck someone else till after?

Sorry if I have got this wrong , I'm having one of those mornings x

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I completely understand that guys will always go to what they think is the best option for them at the time,it's just how it is

I never hang around for them to come back though

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts


".... What i find the biggest turn OFF on here, are the guys who get in touch build up a rapport then wander off do 'whatever' or 'whoever' else they do, then wander back and whinge about not getting laid.

I don't do sloppy seconds...

What are they after a sympathy f**k?

are you saying that if a guy is talking to you he shouldn't fuck someone else till after?

Sorry if I have got this wrong , I'm having one of those mornings x "

I thought that...

Everyone is technically "sloppy seconds", this isn't commitedvirgins.com.

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

If you mean being blown off for "something better" and then they come running back when that falls through, fair enough.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

I suspect there is a correlation between the positive peoples success in meeting people and the, every silver lining has a cloud, brigade.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


".... What i find the biggest turn OFF on here, are the guys who get in touch build up a rapport then wander off do 'whatever' or 'whoever' else they do, then wander back and whinge about not getting laid.

I don't do sloppy seconds...

What are they after a sympathy f**k?

are you saying that if a guy is talking to you he shouldn't fuck someone else till after?

Sorry if I have got this wrong , I'm having one of those mornings x

I thought that...

Everyone is technically "sloppy seconds", this isn't commitedvirgins.com. "

I was wondering the same thing

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

My very cynical friend says 'Never wait for a man' and the more life goes on the more I start to agree with her!

Chats start with a lot of people, but many of them just wander off when you cannot meet immediately. They are not the people I am interested in - I want a stayer!!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


".... What i find the biggest turn OFF on here, are the guys who get in touch build up a rapport then wander off do 'whatever' or 'whoever' else they do, then wander back and whinge about not getting laid.

I don't do sloppy seconds...

What are they after a sympathy f**k? "

They are not courting you.

If you don't want this to happen get the 'fuck' in early doors.

I don't know why you call it sloppy seconds. Only blokes can use that phrase.

If he's showered before he fucks you then you are first on.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"

I don't do sloppy seconds..."

I like filthy fifths or sexy sixtieths

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"My very cynical friend says 'Never wait for a man' and the more life goes on the more I start to agree with her!

Chats start with a lot of people, but many of them just wander off when you cannot meet immediately. They are not the people I am interested in - I want a stayer!! "

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

You're entitled not to like it but give it a little bit of thought and you'll see it's an emotional or ego problem rather than a problem within the blokes - they are just after the quickest desirable fuck as are most people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slow news day

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

If he's showered before he fucks you then you are first on.

"

Pmsl... Love this ^^^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't expect a man to wait around for when I'm ready. He may have limited time to meet. I don't expect anyone to give me his undivided attention either,I'm not the only option here. If though he doesn't speak for months or a year and expects to pick up where we left off he will find me un receptive. I will have moved on to pastures new.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't mind them wandering off... they're not for me if they do!

My point was about the negativity they spout when they don't get what they want...

I personally don't do there and then scenario's, i like to get a rapport going. firstly because you get a better gauge of someone and secondly because i feel safer doing so...

so they wander off only to find they couldn't get their fast lane lay afterall.

so they wander back and try again and whinge about time wasters or women who are up themselves, "oh woe is me" ... " "It's so hard for single guys on here"

What I'm saying is; those with a better attention span, continuity and show a little respect are upbeat and have a positive outlook are more likely to get lucky...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't expect a man to wait around for when I'm ready. He may have limited time to meet. I don't expect anyone to give me his undivided attention either,I'm not the only option here. If though he doesn't speak for months or a year and expects to pick up where we left off he will find me un receptive. I will have moved on to pastures new. "

^^^^ This too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surround yourself with positive people

keep smiling and good things happen its like a mega ripple effect .

Some times you can be chatting to some one then they sort of slope off , things happen people have time constraints and things going on..

Just enjoy their friendship and see what happens x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't mind them wandering off... they're not for me if they do!

My point was about the negativity they spout when they don't get what they want...

I personally don't do there and then scenario's, i like to get a rapport going. firstly because you get a better gauge of someone and secondly because i feel safer doing so...

so they wander off only to find they couldn't get their fast lane lay afterall.

so they wander back and try again and whinge about time wasters or women who are up themselves, "oh woe is me" ... " "It's so hard for single guys on here"

What I'm saying is; those with a better attention span, continuity and show a little respect are upbeat and have a positive outlook are more likely to get lucky...

"
oh stop moaning woman!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" oh stop moaning woman!!"

** Throws Rossi a spade to dig himself a hole**

Just you wait! lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" oh stop moaning woman!!

** Throws Rossi a spade to dig himself a hole**

Just you wait! lol x"
ha ha are you going to spank me kate?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" oh stop moaning woman!!

** Throws Rossi a spade to dig himself a hole**

Just you wait! lol xha ha are you going to spank me kate?"

** Gets the 10" strap on out for Rossi**

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" oh stop moaning woman!!

** Throws Rossi a spade to dig himself a hole**

Just you wait! lol xha ha are you going to spank me kate?

** Gets the 10" strap on out for Rossi** "

Oooooh!! Matron!

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Why is it a sympathy fuck? Its a swinging site, really? Who gives a fuck?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it a sympathy fuck? Its a swinging site, really? Who gives a fuck? "

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


".... What i find the biggest turn OFF on here, are the guys who get in touch build up a rapport then wander off do 'whatever' or 'whoever' else they do, then wander back and whinge about not getting laid.

I don't do sloppy seconds...

What are they after a sympathy f**k? "

This is a bit Through The Looking Glass... the opposite of those 'What am I doing wrong?' threads...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind chatting but I am not here to chat endlessly. I could be on any website if that's what I wanted to do.

Ultimately this is about hooking up with like minded individuals for NSA sex.

I sometimes think women or couples that criticise men for being explicit about that are looking for relationships in which case they should probably be looking elsewhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Technically it a not sloppy seconds... it's sloppy quadruples lol it is a swinging site so promiscuity will be higher than normal!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't mind chatting but I am not here to chat endlessly. I could be on any website if that's what I wanted to do.

Ultimately this is about hooking up with like minded individuals for NSA sex.

I sometimes think women or couples that criticise men for being explicit about that are looking for relationships in which case they should probably be looking elsewhere. "

As long as the stranger doesn't want to hook up immediately I'm happy to hook. What I don't want is on the spot fucks with men I may not like. I can get a mindless fuck on any site.

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