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By *ee Viante OP   Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

How good are you at picking up on the signs someone is attracted to you, either in day-to-day life or on here?

Can you easily tell if someone is angling (but not outright asking) for a meet, or do you need to be hit with a brick with "fancy a fuck?" carved into it?

I don't take much in the way of flirting and banter seriously so I need the direct approach. The brick might still be a bit too subtle.

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By *annooWoman
over a year ago

Hastings

I'm told I'm.naive

Unless its put in its bluntest forms I have no idea what so ever

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By *icky999Man
over a year ago

warrington


"How good are you at picking up on the signs someone is attracted to you, either in day-to-day life or on here?

Can you easily tell if someone is angling (but not outright asking) for a meet, or do you need to be hit with a brick with "fancy a fuck?" carved into it?

I don't take much in the way of flirting and banter seriously so I need the direct approach. The brick might still be a bit too subtle. "

you could of just pm'd me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm usually pretty astute at noticing it, for it such a rare occasion when someone does flirt with me or show interest....

Anyone got a violin handy?!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I'm good at picking up if someone is attracted to me but they would need to say outright if they wanted to meet us. I'd never assume that just because someone was flirting they wanted to meet.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I'm not very good at spotting the signs at all. Even after a social I've had to ask if they fancied me or not

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

It usually has to be made pretty damn obvious to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope I'm clueless I don't get it till I'm told outright I usually think someone is just being nice haha

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By *-ManMan
over a year ago

Kark

Like a typical man, I miss the obvious ones and pick up on the imaginary ones

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By *ythenshawefredMan
over a year ago

stockport

I'm not great I build up the courage and flirt only to get told 'it's about bloody time I'd almost given up on you'

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By *ee Viante OP   Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I'm usually pretty astute at noticing it, for it such a rare occasion when someone does flirt with me or show interest....

Anyone got a violin handy?!"

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can never tell I'm so bad at reading signals I'm an oblivious type of person and need it done directly and straightforward.....

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By *leasures4Couple
over a year ago

East midlands

I'm terrible. Unless someone says it outright, I'm oblivious.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They have to hit me with a clue-by-four.

Twice.

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By *laire888Woman
over a year ago

Gloucester


"How good are you at picking up on the signs someone is attracted to you, either in day-to-day life or on here?

Can you easily tell if someone is angling (but not outright asking) for a meet, or do you need to be hit with a brick with "fancy a fuck?" carved into it?

I don't take much in the way of flirting and banter seriously so I need the direct approach. The brick might still be a bit too subtle. "

I real life, apparently not great! My 8 year old niece had to tell me someone was checking me out today, I totally didn't notice, despite talking to him!

On here it's easier, they tend to send a message!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We never know until a place & time are suggested, up to that point we don't rely on the hints.....

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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth


"I'm not very good at spotting the signs at all. Even after a social I've had to ask if they fancied me or not "
thought it was just me I'm terrible at it too x

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By *ee Viante OP   Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

It's a wonder some of us manage to sort out any meets at all.

I'm glad it's not just me though!

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By *ee Viante OP   Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"We never know until a place & time are suggested, up to that point we don't rely on the hints....."

Ah yes, I understand not being sure until you've met but can you tell if they are interested in meeting unless they come out and say it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A typical bloke oblivious to most things and easily distracted ..... Oh a squirrel

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" The brick might still be a bit too subtle. "

Lol. This!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We never know until a place & time are suggested, up to that point we don't rely on the hints.....

Ah yes, I understand not being sure until you've met but can you tell if they are interested in meeting unless they come out and say it?"

No, not really.....

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By *nfinity1Man
over a year ago

Near Bournemouth


"How good are you at picking up on the signs someone is attracted to you, either in day-to-day life or on here?

Can you easily tell if someone is angling (but not outright asking) for a meet, or do you need to be hit with a brick with "fancy a fuck?" carved into it?

I don't take much in the way of flirting and banter seriously so I need the direct approach. The brick might still be a bit too subtle. "

I don't know about a brick, think I need a concrete block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a wonder some of us manage to sort out any meets at all.

I'm glad it's not just me though!"
To be fair the opening messages are usually about fucking .before they have seen your face pic. what is that about?? lol

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I'm usually oblivious unless they send me a message on here

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By *ee Viante OP   Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I'm excellent at having conversations with people, either here or in the outside-fab-world and not noticing anything at all, then a few days later suddenly wondering if something they said was hinting/flirting and I didn't pick up on it. Then I convince myself it probably wasn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not that great at noticing if I'm honest I tend to get carried away flirting and sometimes the moments passes and it ends up a case of he who hesitates masturbates x

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By *ncrathMan
over a year ago

Hull (ish)


"I'm not very good at spotting the signs at all. Even after a social I've had to ask if they fancied me or not "

You had to ask if someone fancied you or not !!!

Flippin Jeesh,and scaramanga!

They were obviously not worth the time ! I just saw your pic's and

Shawiiiinnngggggg

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm terrible they would have to hold up a ten foot sign and even then I'd missed it. Was out with two of my daughters and missed that a man I was talking to was flirting with me

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I never assume someone wants to play with me even though I know they're flirting with me, they'd have to show or tell me

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By *ncrathMan
over a year ago

Hull (ish)

Scaramanga. ... I've had way too much wine !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm usless at piucking up on things like that

If anyone wants to PM to tell me that they are interested it will almost certainly come as a shock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are there signs???

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By *ee Viante OP   Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I'm usless at piucking up on things like that

If anyone wants to PM to tell me that they are interested it will almost certainly come as a shock"

What? You're a hottie. You know the reaction you get with the kilt!

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By *ee Viante OP   Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I never assume someone wants to play with me even though I know they're flirting with me, they'd have to show or tell me "

Also a good point.

I tend to miss that they're even flirting though!

Sometimes people flirt for the fun of it. I've fallen foul of that one a couple of times by contacting people who've been flirting and them saying oh, sorry, it was just messing around, I wasn't serious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How good are you at picking up on the signs someone is attracted to you, either in day-to-day life or on here?

Can you easily tell if someone is angling (but not outright asking) for a meet, or do you need to be hit with a brick with "fancy a fuck?" carved into it?

I don't take much in the way of flirting and banter seriously so I need the direct approach. The brick might still be a bit too subtle. "

Same, I've had women near enough swinging from my dick in nightclubs and I just assumed it was fun without sexual content until they got the hump and went elsewhere. The joys of aspergers

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By *ee Viante OP   Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"How good are you at picking up on the signs someone is attracted to you, either in day-to-day life or on here?

Can you easily tell if someone is angling (but not outright asking) for a meet, or do you need to be hit with a brick with "fancy a fuck?" carved into it?

I don't take much in the way of flirting and banter seriously so I need the direct approach. The brick might still be a bit too subtle.

Same, I've had women near enough swinging from my dick in nightclubs and I just assumed it was fun without sexual content until they got the hump and went elsewhere. The joys of aspergers"

One does not need Asperger's to be socially inept, trust me.

Unless I am an undiagnosed Aspie. Which might explain a few things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm usless at piucking up on things like that

If anyone wants to PM to tell me that they are interested it will almost certainly come as a shock

What? You're a hottie. You know the reaction you get with the kilt!"

No I always assume it;s banter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How good are you at picking up on the signs someone is attracted to you, either in day-to-day life or on here?

Can you easily tell if someone is angling (but not outright asking) for a meet, or do you need to be hit with a brick with "fancy a fuck?" carved into it?

I don't take much in the way of flirting and banter seriously so I need the direct approach. The brick might still be a bit too subtle.

Same, I've had women near enough swinging from my dick in nightclubs and I just assumed it was fun without sexual content until they got the hump and went elsewhere. The joys of aspergers"

Even worse, knowing how to say I'm interested without sounding like a total twat

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By *ee Viante OP   Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I'm usless at piucking up on things like that

If anyone wants to PM to tell me that they are interested it will almost certainly come as a shock

What? You're a hottie. You know the reaction you get with the kilt!

No I always assume it;s banter "

*sigh* Yep I understand that.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"I'm usless at piucking up on things like that

If anyone wants to PM to tell me that they are interested it will almost certainly come as a shock

What? You're a hottie. You know the reaction you get with the kilt!

No I always assume it;s banter "

I tend to assume that people are interested in what I have to say, as opposed to fancying me.

Of course, it has dawned upon me that I talk absolute shite, so.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How good are you at picking up on the signs someone is attracted to you, either in day-to-day life or on here?

Can you easily tell if someone is angling (but not outright asking) for a meet, or do you need to be hit with a brick with "fancy a fuck?" carved into it?

I don't take much in the way of flirting and banter seriously so I need the direct approach. The brick might still be a bit too subtle.

Same, I've had women near enough swinging from my dick in nightclubs and I just assumed it was fun without sexual content until they got the hump and went elsewhere. The joys of aspergers

One does not need Asperger's to be socially inept, trust me.

Unless I am an undiagnosed Aspie. Which might explain a few things. "

Both are equally as likely. I know a few people who are not diagnosed and I don't think would be but they miss the signs too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was talking to a young lady awhile ago and she was flirting like mad and a bit d*unk, she said she likes older guys but I at the time thought she was taking the piss and fobbed her off, week later her mate walked passed and said you had your chance last week and blew it....damn!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not so much on here because if you get a message it's usually a clue that they're interested. In real life though I'm pretty good at knowing if someone is interested, although I pretend to them that I don't know cos it's nice to hear them say it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not so much on here because if you get a message it's usually a clue that they're interested. In real life though I'm pretty good at knowing if someone is interested, although I pretend to them that I don't know cos it's nice to hear them say it! "

I'd need someone like you to follow me and say to stop being a jackass and take the hint

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I'm usless at piucking up on things like that

If anyone wants to PM to tell me that they are interested it will almost certainly come as a shock

What? You're a hottie. You know the reaction you get with the kilt!

No I always assume it;s banter "

Me too.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BAE


"Nope I'm clueless I don't get it till I'm told outright I usually think someone is just being nice haha"

This is me too

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"Not so much on here because if you get a message it's usually a clue that they're interested. In real life though I'm pretty good at knowing if someone is interested, although I pretend to them that I don't know cos it's nice to hear them say it! "

Who says it? Even if I'm massively interested in someone, I'll make it perfectly obvious, without stating it explicitly. I'd die of embarrassment before coming out and saying it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The tip to get a beating in a bush is to stop beating around it?

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

On here it's pretty obvious but as people say one thing and generally do another I really don't take any notice

In real life I'm aware of flirting but as I'm not looking for men in my real life I ignore or brush it off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope I'm clueless I don't get it till I'm told outright I usually think someone is just being nice haha"

Same and this and even when they say they like me or they want to go play i look at them or look around like are they taking the piss???? I just don't get any signs even when they tell how fucking dumb!!!

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials


"I'm usless at piucking up on things like that

If anyone wants to PM to tell me that they are interested it will almost certainly come as a shock

What? You're a hottie. You know the reaction you get with the kilt!"

Did someone mention a kilt??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only signals I get are white noise and silence. Pretty easy to read

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By *ee Viante OP   Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I'm usless at piucking up on things like that

If anyone wants to PM to tell me that they are interested it will almost certainly come as a shock

What? You're a hottie. You know the reaction you get with the kilt!

Did someone mention a kilt?? "

BM, Get yer kilt, you've pulled!

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By *ee Viante OP   Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Not so much on here because if you get a message it's usually a clue that they're interested. In real life though I'm pretty good at knowing if someone is interested, although I pretend to them that I don't know cos it's nice to hear them say it!

Who says it? Even if I'm massively interested in someone, I'll make it perfectly obvious, without stating it explicitly. I'd die of embarrassment before coming out and saying it. "

I could still not notice someone being perfectly obvious, or think they were just messing around.

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

I am terrible at reading signs. I might joke and say "oh they clearly want to get in my knickers" but I still wouldn't actually believe it, or do anything about it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm awful at this, even the brick with 'Fancy a fuck' on it needs to be thrown at me twice followed by another one saying 'Really, this means you'....

Even then I may still need another hint

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually struggle, but sometimes, very rarely, you know from the very first exchanged messages that something very inevitable has been set in motion

Sometimes mere eye contact conveys the same sure message in a crowded shop or pub, but I've never had the nerve to putsue that promise.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Not so much on here because if you get a message it's usually a clue that they're interested. In real life though I'm pretty good at knowing if someone is interested, although I pretend to them that I don't know cos it's nice to hear them say it!

Who says it? Even if I'm massively interested in someone, I'll make it perfectly obvious, without stating it explicitly. I'd die of embarrassment before coming out and saying it. "

I usually have to say it or I'd never get any sex.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Not so much on here because if you get a message it's usually a clue that they're interested. In real life though I'm pretty good at knowing if someone is interested, although I pretend to them that I don't know cos it's nice to hear them say it!

Who says it? Even if I'm massively interested in someone, I'll make it perfectly obvious, without stating it explicitly. I'd die of embarrassment before coming out and saying it.

I usually have to say it or I'd never get any sex.

"

I then have to say it again to get follow up sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I'd need someone like you to follow me and say to stop being a jackass and take the hint "

I don't like playing my cards too early so I'd never show the guy that I like him in the beginning!


"

Who says it? Even if I'm massively interested in someone, I'll make it perfectly obvious, without stating it explicitly. I'd die of embarrassment before coming out and saying it. "

People say it, when I meet someone I fancy I let them talk and I'll ask them subtle questions which makes them talk more, I seem interested in what they say but don't give much away about what I'm thinking. After they leave they probably realise that all they've done is talk about themselves and don't know where they stand and that's when I get the texts, always something along the lines of, really enjoyed seeing you but do you want to see me again? I'll say we could meet again I'll let you know!

Fucking always backfires on me though so I wouldn't recommend what I do! I get them so interested in the first month or two then I start liking them and mess things up. Need to work on the bit in the middle cos I fall hard and fast, if I could reign it in a bit till they've caught up with me feelings wise I'd be alright.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

How does anyone ever get to meet people they fancy if everyone's too scared to say anything?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Reasonably aware, though I've had a fair few who don't want to make an embarrassing situation, in their minds, as they see me as too discerning, have higher standards or some nonsense. I prefer to know, than have someone with hidden motivations, around me. And I've had people lurch and grope, in their desperation - which is unpleasant, in the extreme.

So not always on the ball and I can't say I'm the hottest thing since sliced bread, with a trail of lustful admirers.

Easiest tends to be picking ot up with unknown people, where our pheromones and body language gives a lot away.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


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I'd need someone like you to follow me and say to stop being a jackass and take the hint

I don't like playing my cards too early so I'd never show the guy that I like him in the beginning!

Who says it? Even if I'm massively interested in someone, I'll make it perfectly obvious, without stating it explicitly. I'd die of embarrassment before coming out and saying it.

People say it, when I meet someone I fancy I let them talk and I'll ask them subtle questions which makes them talk more, I seem interested in what they say but don't give much away about what I'm thinking. After they leave they probably realise that all they've done is talk about themselves and don't know where they stand and that's when I get the texts, always something along the lines of, really enjoyed seeing you but do you want to see me again? I'll say we could meet again I'll let you know!

Fucking always backfires on me though so I wouldn't recommend what I do! I get them so interested in the first month or two then I start liking them and mess things up. Need to work on the bit in the middle cos I fall hard and fast, if I could reign it in a bit till they've caught up with me feelings wise I'd be alright. "

If that were me; I'd leave, realise that I'd spent all night talking about myself (which I really try to avoid) and never text you, because I'd assume that you thought I was a self-centred dick.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"How does anyone ever get to meet people they fancy if everyone's too scared to say anything?"

"Shyness is nice, and shyness can stop you,

From doing all the things in life you'd like to,

So if theres something you'd like to try,

Ask me, I won't say no, how could I?"

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock


"How does anyone ever get to meet people they fancy if everyone's too scared to say anything?"

On cards on the table I fancy the pants off you but I bet half the time you don't wear any.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"How does anyone ever get to meet people they fancy if everyone's too scared to say anything?

On cards on the table I fancy the pants off you but I bet half the time you don't wear any. "

I so do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I pick up hints and act on them if I am attracted!

If I am missing any, then ignorance is bliss as they say!

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"How does anyone ever get to meet people they fancy if everyone's too scared to say anything?

"Shyness is nice, and shyness can stop you,

From doing all the things in life you'd like to,

So if theres something you'd like to try,

Ask me, I won't say no, how could I?"

"

I had to Google that song

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock


"How does anyone ever get to meet people they fancy if everyone's too scared to say anything?

On cards on the table I fancy the pants off you but I bet half the time you don't wear any.

I so do! "

Just had a look at your profile for research purposes in relation to this thread of course and there is a distinct lack of knickers.

Not that I'm complaining mind, enjoying the view here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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If that were me; I'd leave, realise that I'd spent all night talking about myself (which I really try to avoid) and never text you, because I'd assume that you thought I was a self-centred dick. "

But I encourage them to talk then I'll mention the time and how late it is and they're all Awww do you have to go, I'll leave and they'll message!

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By *ee Viante OP   Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"

I'd need someone like you to follow me and say to stop being a jackass and take the hint

I don't like playing my cards too early so I'd never show the guy that I like him in the beginning!

Who says it? Even if I'm massively interested in someone, I'll make it perfectly obvious, without stating it explicitly. I'd die of embarrassment before coming out and saying it.

People say it, when I meet someone I fancy I let them talk and I'll ask them subtle questions which makes them talk more, I seem interested in what they say but don't give much away about what I'm thinking. After they leave they probably realise that all they've done is talk about themselves and don't know where they stand and that's when I get the texts, always something along the lines of, really enjoyed seeing you but do you want to see me again? I'll say we could meet again I'll let you know!

Fucking always backfires on me though so I wouldn't recommend what I do! I get them so interested in the first month or two then I start liking them and mess things up. Need to work on the bit in the middle cos I fall hard and fast, if I could reign it in a bit till they've caught up with me feelings wise I'd be alright.

If that were me; I'd leave, realise that I'd spent all night talking about myself (which I really try to avoid) and never text you, because I'd assume that you thought I was a self-centred dick. "

But we all think you're a self-centred dick and you're still here

Sorry, I am only joking. I'm just in a troublemaking mood.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


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If that were me; I'd leave, realise that I'd spent all night talking about myself (which I really try to avoid) and never text you, because I'd assume that you thought I was a self-centred dick.

But I encourage them to talk then I'll mention the time and how late it is and they're all Awww do you have to go, I'll leave and they'll message! "

Again, were it me, and you'd mentioned the time, I would assume it was a thinly-veiled hint, say goodnight and never, ever initiate contact with you again.

But them, I am the kind of bloke who lives in the woods by himself and spends most of his working life with animals and not people.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


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I'd need someone like you to follow me and say to stop being a jackass and take the hint

I don't like playing my cards too early so I'd never show the guy that I like him in the beginning!

Who says it? Even if I'm massively interested in someone, I'll make it perfectly obvious, without stating it explicitly. I'd die of embarrassment before coming out and saying it.

People say it, when I meet someone I fancy I let them talk and I'll ask them subtle questions which makes them talk more, I seem interested in what they say but don't give much away about what I'm thinking. After they leave they probably realise that all they've done is talk about themselves and don't know where they stand and that's when I get the texts, always something along the lines of, really enjoyed seeing you but do you want to see me again? I'll say we could meet again I'll let you know!

Fucking always backfires on me though so I wouldn't recommend what I do! I get them so interested in the first month or two then I start liking them and mess things up. Need to work on the bit in the middle cos I fall hard and fast, if I could reign it in a bit till they've caught up with me feelings wise I'd be alright.

If that were me; I'd leave, realise that I'd spent all night talking about myself (which I really try to avoid) and never text you, because I'd assume that you thought I was a self-centred dick.

But we all think you're a self-centred dick and you're still here

Sorry, I am only joking. I'm just in a troublemaking mood."

I thought this was the place for self-centred dicks?

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By *ee Viante OP   Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"

I'd need someone like you to follow me and say to stop being a jackass and take the hint

I don't like playing my cards too early so I'd never show the guy that I like him in the beginning!

Who says it? Even if I'm massively interested in someone, I'll make it perfectly obvious, without stating it explicitly. I'd die of embarrassment before coming out and saying it.

People say it, when I meet someone I fancy I let them talk and I'll ask them subtle questions which makes them talk more, I seem interested in what they say but don't give much away about what I'm thinking. After they leave they probably realise that all they've done is talk about themselves and don't know where they stand and that's when I get the texts, always something along the lines of, really enjoyed seeing you but do you want to see me again? I'll say we could meet again I'll let you know!

Fucking always backfires on me though so I wouldn't recommend what I do! I get them so interested in the first month or two then I start liking them and mess things up. Need to work on the bit in the middle cos I fall hard and fast, if I could reign it in a bit till they've caught up with me feelings wise I'd be alright.

If that were me; I'd leave, realise that I'd spent all night talking about myself (which I really try to avoid) and never text you, because I'd assume that you thought I was a self-centred dick.

But we all think you're a self-centred dick and you're still here

Sorry, I am only joking. I'm just in a troublemaking mood.

I thought this was the place for self-centred dicks? "

No, we prefer them with a bit of a bend. They hit the right spots better when they're not quite centred.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"

I'd need someone like you to follow me and say to stop being a jackass and take the hint

I don't like playing my cards too early so I'd never show the guy that I like him in the beginning!

Who says it? Even if I'm massively interested in someone, I'll make it perfectly obvious, without stating it explicitly. I'd die of embarrassment before coming out and saying it.

People say it, when I meet someone I fancy I let them talk and I'll ask them subtle questions which makes them talk more, I seem interested in what they say but don't give much away about what I'm thinking. After they leave they probably realise that all they've done is talk about themselves and don't know where they stand and that's when I get the texts, always something along the lines of, really enjoyed seeing you but do you want to see me again? I'll say we could meet again I'll let you know!

Fucking always backfires on me though so I wouldn't recommend what I do! I get them so interested in the first month or two then I start liking them and mess things up. Need to work on the bit in the middle cos I fall hard and fast, if I could reign it in a bit till they've caught up with me feelings wise I'd be alright.

If that were me; I'd leave, realise that I'd spent all night talking about myself (which I really try to avoid) and never text you, because I'd assume that you thought I was a self-centred dick.

But we all think you're a self-centred dick and you're still here

Sorry, I am only joking. I'm just in a troublemaking mood.

I thought this was the place for self-centred dicks?

No, we prefer them with a bit of a bend. They hit the right spots better when they're not quite centred.

"

Kinky dicks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm terrible so pretty much need to be hit with a brick and told outright!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go to places where I have no interest in the men. I have conversations and a laugh with them but I don't respond to flirting. I don't go out to pick up men,I can do that in the comfort of my own home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Brick everytime, I read the book of signs but usually looking the other way to be told by a friend after!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

How strange, I have very sensitive antenna for that kind of thing, I usually know before they have decided themselves lol!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"How strange, I have very sensitive antenna for that kind of thing, I usually know before they have decided themselves lol! "

Mind you I'm very cool the other way round in real life, my response is very subtle at first, they have to do all the work!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How good are you at picking up on the signs someone is attracted to you, either in day-to-day life or on here?

Can you easily tell if someone is angling (but not outright asking) for a meet, or do you need to be hit with a brick with "fancy a fuck?" carved into it?

I don't take much in the way of flirting and banter seriously so I need the direct approach. The brick might still be a bit too subtle.

Same, I've had women near enough swinging from my dick in nightclubs and I just assumed it was fun without sexual content until they got the hump and went elsewhere. The joys of aspergers

One does not need Asperger's to be socially inept, trust me.

Unless I am an undiagnosed Aspie. Which might explain a few things.

Both are equally as likely. I know a few people who are not diagnosed and I don't think would be but they miss the signs too"

I am also not aspie and am both emotionally rubbish and cripplingly shy.

Unfortunatly I don't have a "reason" to explain it with, I'm just s bit shit socially.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm no good at picking up hints. I just ask them. The worst that can happen is they say no thanks. Or walk away before I get chance to ask.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm useless at picking up on hints as I'm not expecting them so some ladies have spelled it out for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How good are you at picking up on the signs someone is attracted to you, either in day-to-day life or on here?

Can you easily tell if someone is angling (but not outright asking) for a meet, or do you need to be hit with a brick with "fancy a fuck?" carved into it?

I don't take much in the way of flirting and banter seriously so I need the direct approach. The brick might still be a bit too subtle.

Same, I've had women near enough swinging from my dick in nightclubs and I just assumed it was fun without sexual content until they got the hump and went elsewhere. The joys of aspergers

One does not need Asperger's to be socially inept, trust me.

Unless I am an undiagnosed Aspie. Which might explain a few things.

Both are equally as likely. I know a few people who are not diagnosed and I don't think would be but they miss the signs too

I am also not aspie and am both emotionally rubbish and cripplingly shy.

Unfortunatly I don't have a "reason" to explain it with, I'm just s bit shit socially."

I don't use it as a reasonreason except in the terms of grounding my sanity because I can guarantee that if I didn't have a grounding, I would psychologically destroy myself

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By *.TaylorMan
over a year ago

london

I can never pick up hints from here lol

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Very good at piking up on hints ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pick up on hints?

No I need it in writing. ...in triplicate witha bbright pink copy

Oh and big font

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Terrible at it. I often need something as obvious as Crocodile Dundee's greeting in order to get the hint.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm useless at hints.

I usually require a written notice of intent, sky writing and a massive neon sign that can be seen from space before I even begin to wonder if someone likes me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm better at noticing flirting in 'real life' than I am on here, I'm good at reading people and body language. Then again I also think I'm better flirting in person than I am on here, I'm articulate but struggle to convey what I want to say in a message. The problem is that I don't meet a lot of women in my day to day life, and I enjoy the forums and the occasional meet and party.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How good are you at picking up on the signs someone is attracted to you, either in day-to-day life or on here?

Can you easily tell if someone is angling (but not outright asking) for a meet, or do you need to be hit with a brick with "fancy a fuck?" carved into it?

I don't take much in the way of flirting and banter seriously so I need the direct approach. The brick might still be a bit too subtle.

Same, I've had women near enough swinging from my dick in nightclubs and I just assumed it was fun without sexual content until they got the hump and went elsewhere. The joys of aspergers

One does not need Asperger's to be socially inept, trust me.

Unless I am an undiagnosed Aspie. Which might explain a few things.

Both are equally as likely. I know a few people who are not diagnosed and I don't think would be but they miss the signs too

I am also not aspie and am both emotionally rubbish and cripplingly shy.

Unfortunatly I don't have a "reason" to explain it with, I'm just s bit shit socially.

I don't use it as a reasonreason except in the terms of grounding my sanity because I can guarantee that if I didn't have a grounding, I would psychologically destroy myself"

Welcome to my world.

I'm just an emotional cripple who regularly attempts to phycological destroy themself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never assume someone wants to play with me even though I know they're flirting with me, they'd have to show or tell me "

Same here and outside the world of Fab I'm totally crap at it.GUess that's why I'm single ..well that and a few more reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How good are you at picking up on the signs someone is attracted to you, either in day-to-day life or on here?

Can you easily tell if someone is angling (but not outright asking) for a meet, or do you need to be hit with a brick with "fancy a fuck?" carved into it?

I don't take much in the way of flirting and banter seriously so I need the direct approach. The brick might still be a bit too subtle. "

I'm hopeless at Reading signs or signals even on meets I don't make the first move incase I get rejected

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By *hattyman80Man
over a year ago

stockport

I never pick up on hints I'm so slow. Although saying that it happens so very rarely that someone is interested in me maybe no-one is giving hints so there is nothing to be missing lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reading other people for others I'm great at. Seems I lose all my abilities when its me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I de need a 4" solid

Totally useless at picking up hints

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I'm completely oblivious.

I have been taken by surprise several times when women I know have made a pass at me as I didn't think they were remotely interested. Only to be told that they had been throwing the kitchen sink at me in flirting terms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about if you're on a night out in a bar or club (normal club not swinging club) there's guys there. You get eye contact with them, they approach you, offerto buy drinks or just want to chat. Those are the guys that are interested, those are hints!!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I usually am the one to make the first move, whether on here, at clubs, or off line. I have a theory about that.

But no-one hints to me. Its either 'you, come here and fuck me' or nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I usually am the one to make the first move, whether on here, at clubs, or off line. I have a theory about that.

But no-one hints to me. Its either 'you, come here and fuck me' or nothing."

What's your theory?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I usually am the one to make the first move, whether on here, at clubs, or off line. I have a theory about that.

But no-one hints to me. Its either 'you, come here and fuck me' or nothing.

What's your theory?"

I'm scary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about if you're on a night out in a bar or club (normal club not swinging club) there's guys there. You get eye contact with them, they approach you, offerto buy drinks or just want to chat. Those are the guys that are interested, those are hints!! "

See that is where I will fail as I won't make eye contact with people at clubs lol x

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"What about if you're on a night out in a bar or club (normal club not swinging club) there's guys there. You get eye contact with them, they approach you, offerto buy drinks or just want to chat. Those are the guys that are interested, those are hints!! "

God knows! The last time I tried to talkto anyone in a conventional nightclub we went through the whole "shouting at each other from six inches away and still missing what the other has said" rigmarole..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I usually am the one to make the first move, whether on here, at clubs, or off line. I have a theory about that.

But no-one hints to me. Its either 'you, come here and fuck me' or nothing.

What's your theory?

I'm scary."

Ah right that's my theory for me too.

You're not scary.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I usually am the one to make the first move, whether on here, at clubs, or off line. I have a theory about that.

But no-one hints to me. Its either 'you, come here and fuck me' or nothing.

What's your theory?

I'm scary.

Ah right that's my theory for me too.

You're not scary. "

You're a woman, of course you'd think that. Most men find me terrifying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I usually am the one to make the first move, whether on here, at clubs, or off line. I have a theory about that.

But no-one hints to me. Its either 'you, come here and fuck me' or nothing.

What's your theory?

I'm scary."

I used to think that when I was on as a single. Couples wouldn't talk to me... Guys would approach me x I had to blantantly ask and now I won't ask. Lucky for me Mr is a cheeky chap.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Haha! I think I'm rubbish at this. I don't imagine I'm particularly approachable on a night out. Here it's much more straightforward. I like to look. I don't ever meet people who approach me. I guess I know what I like when I see it and I do some fishing to see if it's reciprocated. If you ask the right questions it seems fairly simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about if you're on a night out in a bar or club (normal club not swinging club) there's guys there. You get eye contact with them, they approach you, offerto buy drinks or just want to chat. Those are the guys that are interested, those are hints!!

God knows! The last time I tried to talkto anyone in a conventional nightclub we went through the whole "shouting at each other from six inches away and still missing what the other has said" rigmarole..

"

A bar then, a wether spoons where they don't even play music!

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

I am rubbish I think but guess by being rubbish I wouldn't know if I am being hit on lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I usually am the one to make the first move, whether on here, at clubs, or off line. I have a theory about that.

But no-one hints to me. Its either 'you, come here and fuck me' or nothing.

What's your theory?

I'm scary.

Ah right that's my theory for me too.

You're not scary.

You're a woman, of course you'd think that. Most men find me terrifying "

I've never understood men being terrified of women lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After several weeks of seeing a particular couple, I ended up in messaging them and let them know I like them, funny thing really, I didn't get turned down!

A few weeks later, and a big surprise for me! I got to play with both of them

I could never just blurt it out to them though, was embarrassing writing to them, glad I dod though as they are such a lovely couple.

Hopefully I may get the chance again one day ? Until then I can only dream about our encounter

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

On line, without body language, I'm crap.

In the "proper world", usually very good, however there have been one or two grouse in the equation.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"What about if you're on a night out in a bar or club (normal club not swinging club) there's guys there. You get eye contact with them, they approach you, offerto buy drinks or just want to chat. Those are the guys that are interested, those are hints!!

God knows! The last time I tried to talkto anyone in a conventional nightclub we went through the whole "shouting at each other from six inches away and still missing what the other has said" rigmarole..

A bar then, a wether spoons where they don't even play music!"

Are you asking me out?

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Unless they give the secret word, I fancy you. I won't have a clue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iam rubbish at reading signs goes right over my head xx can never pick up on signals

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm pretty good at reading people normally ....very easy on here though...x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I'm oblivious.. Esp in the real world out and about.

Too much time here.. Maybe its time for a break.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess I fall into the trap of not wanting to make a fool of myself if I've read the signals wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I struggle in the real world as I'm open, direct and honest if I find someone attractive - but only if I know they're single and there's a good chance they find me attractive!

I don't even flirt in the real world and wouldn't assume that someone found me attractive unless they came right out and said it!

Fab suits me - it's far simpler - but the trick is not to take offence if you get turned down! We all get turned down sometimes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How good are you at picking up on the signs someone is attracted to you, either in day-to-day life or on here?

Can you easily tell if someone is angling (but not outright asking) for a meet, or do you need to be hit with a brick with "fancy a fuck?" carved into it?

I don't take much in the way of flirting and banter seriously so I need the direct approach. The brick might still be a bit too subtle. "
i have given you far too many hints ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The eye contact thing across a crowded room have to hit me with a brick long term relationships have that effect on you

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By *ee Viante OP   Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"How good are you at picking up on the signs someone is attracted to you, either in day-to-day life or on here?

Can you easily tell if someone is angling (but not outright asking) for a meet, or do you need to be hit with a brick with "fancy a fuck?" carved into it?

I don't take much in the way of flirting and banter seriously so I need the direct approach. The brick might still be a bit too subtle.

Same, I've had women near enough swinging from my dick in nightclubs and I just assumed it was fun without sexual content until they got the hump and went elsewhere. The joys of aspergers

One does not need Asperger's to be socially inept, trust me.

Unless I am an undiagnosed Aspie. Which might explain a few things.

Both are equally as likely. I know a few people who are not diagnosed and I don't think would be but they miss the signs too

I am also not aspie and am both emotionally rubbish and cripplingly shy.

Unfortunatly I don't have a "reason" to explain it with, I'm just s bit shit socially.

I don't use it as a reasonreason except in the terms of grounding my sanity because I can guarantee that if I didn't have a grounding, I would psychologically destroy myself

Welcome to my world.

I'm just an emotional cripple who regularly attempts to phycological destroy themself."

I'm not only that but I'm doing quite well at physically destroying myself too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How good are you at picking up on the signs someone is attracted to you, either in day-to-day life or on here?

Can you easily tell if someone is angling (but not outright asking) for a meet, or do you need to be hit with a brick with "fancy a fuck?" carved into it?

I don't take much in the way of flirting and banter seriously so I need the direct approach. The brick might still be a bit too subtle.

Same, I've had women near enough swinging from my dick in nightclubs and I just assumed it was fun without sexual content until they got the hump and went elsewhere. The joys of aspergers

One does not need Asperger's to be socially inept, trust me.

Unless I am an undiagnosed Aspie. Which might explain a few things.

Both are equally as likely. I know a few people who are not diagnosed and I don't think would be but they miss the signs too

I am also not aspie and am both emotionally rubbish and cripplingly shy.

Unfortunatly I don't have a "reason" to explain it with, I'm just s bit shit socially.

I don't use it as a reasonreason except in the terms of grounding my sanity because I can guarantee that if I didn't have a grounding, I would psychologically destroy myself

Welcome to my world.

I'm just an emotional cripple who regularly attempts to phycologically destroy themself."

I think our worlds might be in the same quadrant of the galaxy waspy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How good are you at picking up on the signs someone is attracted to you, either in day-to-day life or on here?

Can you easily tell if someone is angling (but not outright asking) for a meet, or do you need to be hit with a brick with "fancy a fuck?" carved into it?

I don't take much in the way of flirting and banter seriously so I need the direct approach. The brick might still be a bit too subtle.

Same, I've had women near enough swinging from my dick in nightclubs and I just assumed it was fun without sexual content until they got the hump and went elsewhere. The joys of aspergers

One does not need Asperger's to be socially inept, trust me.

Unless I am an undiagnosed Aspie. Which might explain a few things.

Both are equally as likely. I know a few people who are not diagnosed and I don't think would be but they miss the signs too

I am also not aspie and am both emotionally rubbish and cripplingly shy.

Unfortunatly I don't have a "reason" to explain it with, I'm just s bit shit socially.

I don't use it as a reasonreason except in the terms of grounding my sanity because I can guarantee that if I didn't have a grounding, I would psychologically destroy myself

Welcome to my world.

I'm just an emotional cripple who regularly attempts to phycological destroy themself.

I'm not only that but I'm doing quite well at physically destroying myself too."

I'm surprised I'm still in one piece to be honest

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Believe it or not but I am quite shite as well.....

I had a message the other night with 'The Fab Queen' as the subject and I just thought he was being a sarcastic Barsteward lol It seems he is actually interested, and I thought I was the queen of sarcasm in my area

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I think that, then I say to myself, " soppy old sod, you're imagining things", lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How good are you at picking up on the signs someone is attracted to you, either in day-to-day life or on here?

Can you easily tell if someone is angling (but not outright asking) for a meet, or do you need to be hit with a brick with "fancy a fuck?" carved into it?

I don't take much in the way of flirting and banter seriously so I need the direct approach. The brick might still be a bit too subtle. "

I(Mr) wouldn't have a clue, unless someone spelt it out to me on a wall in five foot high lettering I would be clueless.

Not wanting to sound self deprecating but I am, I would be very surprised if someone did come onto me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always think nobody will be interested, because when you look like me, that's the norm.

If by some miracle, I did recognise flirting, I'd assume they were either just being friendly, or more likely taking the piss (example: 'snog-a-dog' @ niteclub... that happened).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Believe it or not but I am quite shite as well.....

I had a message the other night with 'The Fab Queen' as the subject and I just thought he was being a sarcastic Barsteward lol It seems he is actually interested, and I thought I was the queen of sarcasm in my area "

I'm that useless that I wouldn't even be able to think of a title like that. Flirting is not my thing really, my messages probably sound like an angry Secretary has typed them 20 minutes after home time from work lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rubbish at it myself,

I just assume they are being friendly

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Believe it or not but I am quite shite as well.....

I had a message the other night with 'The Fab Queen' as the subject and I just thought he was being a sarcastic Barsteward lol It seems he is actually interested, and I thought I was the queen of sarcasm in my area

I'm that useless that I wouldn't even be able to think of a title like that. Flirting is not my thing really, my messages probably sound like an angry Secretary has typed them 20 minutes after home time from work lol"

Don't beat yourself up, some have the gift and others don't, it may have been a great title, but it took him a few messages before he let me know he was interested! So there you go! Not everyone is as confident as they seem to be, so don't give up x

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By *lashheartMan
over a year ago

shrewsbury

I seem to be the same as 99% of the posters.. Shy and sign blind.

I was actually chatting to someone in a club this weekend as we walked round and didn't know if she fancied me til we arrived in a private room..

Maybe a fancy a fuck post is a good idea after all..

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

I'm very good at reading people and am normally spot on with what kind of person they are, it is very rare that I am surprised by people. Possible because I am the kind to sit back and observe before I get involved.

I do pick up on the hint and flirting but unless the bloke is prepared to come straight out and say that he is interested in playing with me then it won't happen, if he doesn't have the confidence to say anything then he isn't the playmate I am looking for.

Probably why I rarely play when I go to a club, have been told many, many times that I am intimidating...... and that is by guys that I have known for a while and are very confident

I don't really stand a chance

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