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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If you have one, how much of apart of your life are they? Outside of the bedroom, are you close friends? On friendship terms, have they met other friends of yours?

Just curious, as my fwb and I are very close friends and sex is just the cherry on the top. I know his parents & his son and I do sometimes stay at his parents' house with him... God knows what his family do or don't assume about me!

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

LOL - I don't see or speak to him other than once a week on Monday afternoons.

Emphasis on the fuck, less on the bud.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was single, I used to sleep with the majority of my friends. Friends first and foremost, sex was secondary.

I've had fuck buddies too - they're more just people I kept in touch with when I was desperate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I was single, I used to sleep with the majority of my friends. Friends first and foremost, sex was secondary.

I've had fuck buddies too - they're more just people I kept in touch with when I was desperate. "

That term for fuck buddy is the best Iv seen yet! Many wouldn't admit it was how they saw a fuck buddy though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

But then there's another in London who I do go out of my way to spend time with, apart from shagging.

But then he's geographically distant.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

But the actual person I am friends AND have benefits with is reserved for someone else.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

I really like my current FWB. Have no interest in a relationship (he's got baggage, complications and emotionally unavailable) but we hang out, chat about random things, go out in public as well as the obvious goings on.

The FBs I keep on the back burner, not too bothered about socially

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv become really goods friends with 2 men here and nothing has happened sexually and I like that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I really like my current FWB. Have no interest in a relationship (he's got baggage, complications and emotionally unavailable) but we hang out, chat about random things, go out in public as well as the obvious goings on."

I'm the same with my fwb... we like each other & act like a couple, but he's not long single and we both like sleeping with others.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

One of mine has been one of my best friends for the last 20 years. More emphasis on the buddy than the fuck now though.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London


"I really like my current FWB. Have no interest in a relationship (he's got baggage, complications and emotionally unavailable) but we hang out, chat about random things, go out in public as well as the obvious goings on.

I'm the same with my fwb... we like each other & act like a couple, but he's not long single and we both like sleeping with others."

Sounds like the same person

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I really like my current FWB. Have no interest in a relationship (he's got baggage, complications and emotionally unavailable) but we hang out, chat about random things, go out in public as well as the obvious goings on.

I'm the same with my fwb... we like each other & act like a couple, but he's not long single and we both like sleeping with others.

Sounds like the same person"

Is he about so high, South African accent and a pain in the arse?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"One of mine has been one of my best friends for the last 20 years. More emphasis on the buddy than the fuck now though. "

Hopefully I can have such a long lasting friendship with my fwb. Though I might still want to bounce on his cock in twenty years time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had one, so drama free

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By *appyguy17Man
over a year ago

walthamstow

I have a girl i see more socially....

We have coffee......go to the pub sometimes......we have sex on and off..

She's my best friend !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One of mine has been one of my best friends for the last 20 years. More emphasis on the buddy than the fuck now though.

Hopefully I can have such a long lasting friendship with my fwb. Though I might still want to bounce on his cock in twenty years time "

I like this, it sounds like a great stress free way to interact with people

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"One of mine has been one of my best friends for the last 20 years. More emphasis on the buddy than the fuck now though.

Hopefully I can have such a long lasting friendship with my fwb. Though I might still want to bounce on his cock in twenty years time "

I could go bounce on it if I wanted to. I still think he's sexy and I love him lots but after a tricky break up I'm just not in the right frame of mind for it at the moment. He was the boy next door as I grew up and probably one of my longest standing friendships. I'm very lucky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reply hello now and then to one of mine when he messages out of the blue. Other than that I only see mine for sex. The being friends part I don't want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every FWB I've ever had the friendship was at lrastv as important as the sex ekwe I would never have considered them as an FWB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you have one, how much of apart of your life are they? Outside of the bedroom, are you close friends? On friendship terms, have they met other friends of yours?

Just curious, as my fwb and I are very close friends and sex is just the cherry on the top. I know his parents & his son and I do sometimes stay at his parents' house with him... God knows what his family do or don't assume about me!"

Apart from the fact that you both like to fuck others ,he's your partner then isn't he ?

Surely knowing and staying with his family , and his son it's a relationship .... ?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'd like a friend with benefits. I have a fuckbuddy but I don't see her or contact her apart from arranging sex meets and the sex. It would be so cool to have a swinging friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She is a friend. And we occasionally fuck.

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By *oamshrimps-BobMan
over a year ago

Peterborough Hotel


"I really like my current FWB. Have no interest in a relationship (he's got baggage, complications and emotionally unavailable) but we hang out, chat about random things, go out in public as well as the obvious goings on.

The FBs I keep on the back burner, not too bothered about socially"

Bugger!! Do we know each other??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't got friend with benefits or a friend on benefits

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I have friends that I have sex with but I don't go out with them that's what my b/F is for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Billy-no-mates

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