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"Maybe darts or golf is their sport ? " Reminds me of the Smith and Jones darts spoof ![]() | |||
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"I've had it quite a few times recently where people who are more private, so no pictures on their profile but pictures to send, have themselves at 'athletic'. This is the only indicator for how they look. But every single time when we actually exchange pictures it's clear that they aren't 'athletic'. I find this frustrating. I understand if you're a sporty person and you don't look sporty but use 'athletic' to reflect your personality. But it just feels like downright dishonesty when someone does look athletic nor are they athletic in their day to day life. Am I being really shallow or do others feel frustrated by this too? " This can be said about every other body description on here People describe themselves how they see themselves we aren't all going to agree with them | |||
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"I've had it quite a few times recently where people who are more private, so no pictures on their profile but pictures to send, have themselves at 'athletic'. This is the only indicator for how they look. But every single time when we actually exchange pictures it's clear that they aren't 'athletic'. I find this frustrating. I understand if you're a sporty person and you don't look sporty but use 'athletic' to reflect your personality. But it just feels like downright dishonesty when someone does look athletic nor are they athletic in their day to day life. Am I being really shallow or do others feel frustrated by this too? This can be said about every other body description on here People describe themselves how they see themselves we aren't all going to agree with them " I understand that any adjectives will have varying meanings. But I at least think athletic outlines a clear sportiness/attitude towards health that the other descriptions do not. | |||
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"I have athletic/muscular on my profile cos I got the 6pack ![]() Shut up you ![]() | |||
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"I am kind of athletic. In places anyway. " I cycle around 30 miles a day so I have toned calves, do I class as athletic? ![]() | |||
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"I have athletic/muscular on my profile cos I got the 6pack ![]() ![]() lol yes ![]() | |||
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"If they put athletic it means they can swing from the chandelier or jump off the wardrobe ![]() Bedroom gymnastics ![]() | |||
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"I've had it quite a few times recently where people who are more private, so no pictures on their profile but pictures to send, have themselves at 'athletic'. This is the only indicator for how they look. But every single time when we actually exchange pictures it's clear that they aren't 'athletic'. I find this frustrating. I understand if you're a sporty person and you don't look sporty but use 'athletic' to reflect your personality. But it just feels like downright dishonesty when someone does look athletic nor are they athletic in their day to day life. Am I being really shallow or do others feel frustrated by this too? " How athletic do you have to be to class yourself as athletic? | |||
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"I've had it quite a few times recently where people who are more private, so no pictures on their profile but pictures to send, have themselves at 'athletic'. This is the only indicator for how they look. But every single time when we actually exchange pictures it's clear that they aren't 'athletic'. I find this frustrating. I understand if you're a sporty person and you don't look sporty but use 'athletic' to reflect your personality. But it just feels like downright dishonesty when someone does look athletic nor are they athletic in their day to day life. Am I being really shallow or do others feel frustrated by this too? How athletic do you have to be to class yourself as athletic?" You have to look a bit athletic. A lot of guys ignore it's a body type descriptor and decide because they are fairly strong (in their opinion), or played rugby 20 years ago, or can see a sports field from their house, it makes them athletic. It doesn't matter if someone is athletic or not, it's whether they look it. | |||
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"I've had it quite a few times recently where people who are more private, so no pictures on their profile but pictures to send, have themselves at 'athletic'. This is the only indicator for how they look. But every single time when we actually exchange pictures it's clear that they aren't 'athletic'. I find this frustrating. I understand if you're a sporty person and you don't look sporty but use 'athletic' to reflect your personality. But it just feels like downright dishonesty when someone does look athletic nor are they athletic in their day to day life. Am I being really shallow or do others feel frustrated by this too? How athletic do you have to be to class yourself as athletic? You have to look a bit athletic. A lot of guys ignore it's a body type descriptor and decide because they are fairly strong (in their opinion), or played rugby 20 years ago, or can see a sports field from their house, it makes them athletic. It doesn't matter if someone is athletic or not, it's whether they look it." I've struggled with this one for a while. I'm quite overweight at the moment for various reasons (injury mostly) but I still exercise (hard) at least five times a week, most weeks. I don't look athletic. I look quite fat. But I *am* athletic. | |||
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"I've had it quite a few times recently where people who are more private, so no pictures on their profile but pictures to send, have themselves at 'athletic'. This is the only indicator for how they look. But every single time when we actually exchange pictures it's clear that they aren't 'athletic'. I find this frustrating. I understand if you're a sporty person and you don't look sporty but use 'athletic' to reflect your personality. But it just feels like downright dishonesty when someone does look athletic nor are they athletic in their day to day life. Am I being really shallow or do others feel frustrated by this too? How athletic do you have to be to class yourself as athletic? You have to look a bit athletic. A lot of guys ignore it's a body type descriptor and decide because they are fairly strong (in their opinion), or played rugby 20 years ago, or can see a sports field from their house, it makes them athletic. It doesn't matter if someone is athletic or not, it's whether they look it. I've struggled with this one for a while. I'm quite overweight at the moment for various reasons (injury mostly) but I still exercise (hard) at least five times a week, most weeks. I don't look athletic. I look quite fat. But I *am* athletic." On a profile, though, it's an appearance descriptor. If you don't look athletic it isn't accurate. I'm slim under my 3ft of lard ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I prefer a bloke put athletic as a descriptor than curvy. Curvy on blokes just sounds wrong." It does. It makes me cringe a bit actually. Unless it's Ru Paul. He can describe himself however he likes. | |||
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"Yeah, for the purposes of fab it is how you look. I wish men would stop using 'Rugby Player Build' as a euphemism for a couple of stone overweight. ![]() Can't blame them really! | |||
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"I've had it quite a few times recently where people who are more private, so no pictures on their profile but pictures to send, have themselves at 'athletic'. This is the only indicator for how they look. But every single time when we actually exchange pictures it's clear that they aren't 'athletic'. I find this frustrating. I understand if you're a sporty person and you don't look sporty but use 'athletic' to reflect your personality. But it just feels like downright dishonesty when someone does look athletic nor are they athletic in their day to day life. Am I being really shallow or do others feel frustrated by this too? How athletic do you have to be to class yourself as athletic? You have to look a bit athletic. A lot of guys ignore it's a body type descriptor and decide because they are fairly strong (in their opinion), or played rugby 20 years ago, or can see a sports field from their house, it makes them athletic. It doesn't matter if someone is athletic or not, it's whether they look it. I've struggled with this one for a while. I'm quite overweight at the moment for various reasons (injury mostly) but I still exercise (hard) at least five times a week, most weeks. I don't look athletic. I look quite fat. But I *am* athletic." I would call you athletic, because your lifestyle is athletic, and 'normally' your body reflects your lifestyle ![]() | |||
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"I've had it quite a few times recently where people who are more private, so no pictures on their profile but pictures to send, have themselves at 'athletic'. This is the only indicator for how they look. But every single time when we actually exchange pictures it's clear that they aren't 'athletic'. I find this frustrating. I understand if you're a sporty person and you don't look sporty but use 'athletic' to reflect your personality. But it just feels like downright dishonesty when someone does look athletic nor are they athletic in their day to day life. Am I being really shallow or do others feel frustrated by this too? How athletic do you have to be to class yourself as athletic? You have to look a bit athletic. A lot of guys ignore it's a body type descriptor and decide because they are fairly strong (in their opinion), or played rugby 20 years ago, or can see a sports field from their house, it makes them athletic. It doesn't matter if someone is athletic or not, it's whether they look it. I've struggled with this one for a while. I'm quite overweight at the moment for various reasons (injury mostly) but I still exercise (hard) at least five times a week, most weeks. I don't look athletic. I look quite fat. But I *am* athletic. On a profile, though, it's an appearance descriptor. If you don't look athletic it isn't accurate. I'm slim under my 3ft of lard ![]() ![]() Gonna change mine to slim. ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Yeah, for the purposes of fab it is how you look. I wish men would stop using 'Rugby Player Build' as a euphemism for a couple of stone overweight. ![]() Well, I like my rugby players fit enough to play rugby!! ![]() | |||
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"Yeah, for the purposes of fab it is how you look. I wish men would stop using 'Rugby Player Build' as a euphemism for a couple of stone overweight. ![]() ![]() Mmmm rugby players *dribble* | |||
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"I'm slim under my 3ft of lard ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I think we all should, and see if anyone notices. ![]() | |||
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"Athletic to me applies to a toned body. I class myself as 'average' but being told by a few Fabbers that I wasn't. Perhaps there should be a 'toned' body type? " Yep defo not average ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I'm slim under my 3ft of lard ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I have athletic legs. Does that count?" If you're athletic legs come an athletic lifestyle? ![]() | |||
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"I've said before, I'm a competing strongman weighing 21 stone before comps. More muscle on me than two slim guys put together. I can lift the equivalent of 3 washing machines above my head and I can run 20 metres with 350kg on my back. Nothing to describe me on here. " I think we need a 'machine' category ![]() | |||
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"I have athletic legs. Does that count? If you're athletic legs come an athletic lifestyle? ![]() In my dreams. Only in my dreams. | |||
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"Maybe darts or golf is their sport ? " Might have been in the Great Britain cribbage team..... | |||
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"I have athletic legs. Does that count? If you're athletic legs come an athletic lifestyle? ![]() I have an athletic mind, does that count? | |||
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"I have athletic legs. Does that count? If you're athletic legs come an athletic lifestyle? ![]() Ooh, I have one of those too! I'm halfway there already! ![]() | |||
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"I have athletic legs. Does that count? If you're athletic legs come an athletic lifestyle? ![]() You must be exhausted, because you've been running through my mind all night. Badum tish ![]() | |||
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"Yeah, for the purposes of fab it is how you look. I wish men would stop using 'Rugby Player Build' as a euphemism for a couple of stone overweight. ![]() ![]() I think you will find it's football players who dribble. Rugby players dodge ![]() | |||
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"Yeah, for the purposes of fab it is how you look. I wish men would stop using 'Rugby Player Build' as a euphemism for a couple of stone overweight. ![]() ![]() ![]() That's fine. For fittie rugby players I'm quite capable of doing the dribbling. As you say, footballers can do their own. ![]() | |||
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"... Am I being really shallow or do others feel frustrated by this too? " It's not shallow to want to fancy someone. I don't get frustrated anymore. When I look for people I assume it will take at least 100 mails to find 2 or 3 that I like/ don't scare off. Other people's idea of "good looking" is different to mine and others. It's all good. ![]() | |||
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"I've had it quite a few times recently where people who are more private, so no pictures on their profile but pictures to send, have themselves at 'athletic'. This is the only indicator for how they look. But every single time when we actually exchange pictures it's clear that they aren't 'athletic'. I find this frustrating. I understand if you're a sporty person and you don't look sporty but use 'athletic' to reflect your personality. But it just feels like downright dishonesty when someone does look athletic nor are they athletic in their day to day life. Am I being really shallow or do others feel frustrated by this too? " Sorry dont often be negative about people but this can definetly be frustrating | |||
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"... Am I being really shallow or do others feel frustrated by this too? It's not shallow to want to fancy someone. I don't get frustrated anymore. When I look for people I assume it will take at least 100 mails to find 2 or 3 that I like/ don't scare off. Other people's idea of "good looking" is different to mine and others. It's all good. ![]() I also need the ones I like to fancy me. I've run out of chloroform. ![]() | |||
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"... Am I being really shallow or do others feel frustrated by this too? It's not shallow to want to fancy someone. I don't get frustrated anymore. When I look for people I assume it will take at least 100 mails to find 2 or 3 that I like/ don't scare off. Other people's idea of "good looking" is different to mine and others. It's all good. ![]() ![]() I don't need it anymore. I know the strangers that mail me will defo shag me. ![]() | |||
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"Yeah, for the purposes of fab it is how you look. I wish men would stop using 'Rugby Player Build' as a euphemism for a couple of stone overweight. ![]() *ahem* ![]() | |||
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"I've said before, I'm a competing strongman weighing 21 stone before comps. More muscle on me than two slim guys put together. I can lift the equivalent of 3 washing machines above my head and I can run 20 metres with 350kg on my back. Nothing to describe me on here. " It's fine mate, everyone here believes you ![]() | |||
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"I've had it quite a few times recently where people who are more private, so no pictures on their profile but pictures to send, have themselves at 'athletic'... Am I being really shallow or do others feel frustrated by this too? " Abso-cocking-lutely. There's some really deluded men out there. I mean I'm not fit by any stretch of the imagination but I can do better than quite a lot of the supposedly 'athletic' profiles on here. They need a slap. *rolls eyes* | |||
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"I've had it quite a few times recently where people who are more private, so no pictures on their profile but pictures to send, have themselves at 'athletic'... Am I being really shallow or do others feel frustrated by this too? Abso-cocking-lutely. There's some really deluded men out there. I mean I'm not fit by any stretch of the imagination but I can do better than quite a lot of the supposedly 'athletic' profiles on here. They need a slap. *rolls eyes* " you could have just used the ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I've had it quite a few times recently where people who are more private, so no pictures on their profile but pictures to send, have themselves at 'athletic'... Am I being really shallow or do others feel frustrated by this too? Abso-cocking-lutely. There's some really deluded men out there. I mean I'm not fit by any stretch of the imagination but I can do better than quite a lot of the supposedly 'athletic' profiles on here. They need a slap. *rolls eyes* you could have just used the ![]() ![]() 'Tis my way ![]() | |||
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"I've had it quite a few times recently where people who are more private, so no pictures on their profile but pictures to send, have themselves at 'athletic'... Am I being really shallow or do others feel frustrated by this too? Abso-cocking-lutely. There's some really deluded men out there. I mean I'm not fit by any stretch of the imagination but I can do better than quite a lot of the supposedly 'athletic' profiles on here. They need a slap. *rolls eyes* you could have just used the ![]() ![]() ![]() Oh, you changed your av. I didn't recognise you. | |||
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"I've had it quite a few times recently where people who are more private, so no pictures on their profile but pictures to send, have themselves at 'athletic'... Am I being really shallow or do others feel frustrated by this too? Abso-cocking-lutely. There's some really deluded men out there. I mean I'm not fit by any stretch of the imagination but I can do better than quite a lot of the supposedly 'athletic' profiles on here. They need a slap. *rolls eyes* you could have just used the ![]() ![]() ![]() *tears off mask* Happy now?! | |||
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"I've had it quite a few times recently where people who are more private, so no pictures on their profile but pictures to send, have themselves at 'athletic'... Am I being really shallow or do others feel frustrated by this too? Abso-cocking-lutely. There's some really deluded men out there. I mean I'm not fit by any stretch of the imagination but I can do better than quite a lot of the supposedly 'athletic' profiles on here. They need a slap. *rolls eyes* you could have just used the ![]() ![]() ![]() No, I liked the other one better ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I've had it quite a few times recently where people who are more private, so no pictures on their profile but pictures to send, have themselves at 'athletic'... Am I being really shallow or do others feel frustrated by this too? Abso-cocking-lutely. There's some really deluded men out there. I mean I'm not fit by any stretch of the imagination but I can do better than quite a lot of the supposedly 'athletic' profiles on here. They need a slap. *rolls eyes* you could have just used the ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Hell's bells woman, make up yr mind! | |||
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"Maybe darts or golf is their sport ? " The only 'sport' some 'athletes' here have come close to is a video game of darts | |||
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"I've had it quite a few times recently where people who are more private, so no pictures on their profile but pictures to send, have themselves at 'athletic'... Am I being really shallow or do others feel frustrated by this too? Abso-cocking-lutely. There's some really deluded men out there. I mean I'm not fit by any stretch of the imagination but I can do better than quite a lot of the supposedly 'athletic' profiles on here. They need a slap. *rolls eyes* you could have just used the ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Does not compute. Out of cheese error. Reboot universe? Y/Y | |||
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"I've had it quite a few times recently where people who are more private, so no pictures on their profile but pictures to send, have themselves at 'athletic'... Am I being really shallow or do others feel frustrated by this too? Abso-cocking-lutely. There's some really deluded men out there. I mean I'm not fit by any stretch of the imagination but I can do better than quite a lot of the supposedly 'athletic' profiles on here. They need a slap. *rolls eyes* you could have just used the ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Yeah, sorry, I like this one. *presses RESET* | |||
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"I consider myself athletic. ![]() I consider myself a lot of things but there aren't profile options for most of them. ![]() | |||
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"'Tis my way ![]() ![]() ![]() Meh. No sense of adventure. ![]() | |||
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"Meh. No sense of adventure. ![]() Oh reaaaalllly? Check this out :P | |||
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"Meh. No sense of adventure. ![]() Well *pulls an appraising face*, not bad, I suppose. But most of us manage more adventure before breakfast each day. And some of us don't even eat breakfast. ![]() | |||
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"I've had it quite a few times recently where people who are more private, so no pictures on their profile but pictures to send, have themselves at 'athletic'. This is the only indicator for how they look. But every single time when we actually exchange pictures it's clear that they aren't 'athletic'. I find this frustrating. I understand if you're a sporty person and you don't look sporty but use 'athletic' to reflect your personality. But it just feels like downright dishonesty when someone does look athletic nor are they athletic in their day to day life. Am I being really shallow or do others feel frustrated by this too? " ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Meh. No sense of adventure. ![]() ![]() I don't go to bed before lunch and breakfast is for pussies. ![]() | |||
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"I have athletic legs. Does that count?" Same here...from behind athletic. But from front an average middle age belly sagging (breathing in slightly). So am I athletic or average (defo no slim) ![]() | |||
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"I have athletic legs. Does that count? Same here...from behind athletic. But from front an average middle age belly sagging (breathing in slightly). So am I athletic or average (defo no slim) ![]() You look slim to me. You have photos so people can make up their own mind. Choose whichever you think you are. | |||
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"Perhaps description options for Greek-God or Body of an Adonis would end the confusion although if that were the case I'd still need to see a cock-picture,,,, Cuz some of them ancient statues have teenie weenie cocks ...... I mean like seriously small..... ![]() David had nothing to shout about unless he was a grower ![]() | |||
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"Can we have the "Mo Farrah" argument again please? I liked that one... ![]() Is that the one where it was pointed out if Mo Farah had a profile on here, he couldn't put athletic on his profile as he isn't muscular enough?. | |||
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"Can we have the "Mo Farrah" argument again please? I liked that one... ![]() Something very similar to that, yes. ![]() | |||
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