FabSwingers.com forum: Offended

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Have you ever offended anybody on here with a comment by accident ? And what was the worst ?

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By *epper123Woman
over a year ago

London

Oh gawd all the time ... but I usually realise and if I can send them a private message to say it was not personal, just part of the banter on the forums. People's attitudes offend me too, at times, but I am a card carrying member of the pc brigade, so that is to be expected ... I get offended if it rains on my washing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get offended when I'm offered money as it suggests they believe I'm unsuccessful in my work and not solvent. I don't do anything about it though, just block and get over it as it was unintentionally insulting.

The ones who call others names like "slut" and "whore" I believe are intentionally trying to insult me, so they get reported too.

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By *aturelover2016Man
over a year ago

London

I am a Chelsea fan which seems to offend everyone. Can't imagine why.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Have you ever offended anybody on here with a comment by accident ? And what was the worst ? "

No never. I hope that day never dawns.

Are you worried someone has taken umbrage ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I offended him in a private message and he deleted my apology oh well lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and some don't like when you type haribos lol

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

No... I genuinely don't give a shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not that I know of...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes and some don't like when you type haribos lol

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Yes I like JELLY BABIES better , lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes and some don't like when you type haribos lol

Yes I like JELLY BABIES better , lol

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Nice, my fav are the cola bottles

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"No... I genuinely don't give a shit.

Oh how dreadful ..... I can book you on a mindfulness course next Tuesday.

Comes with a lunch ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More than likely and it may or may not have been intentional - you'd have to speak to my solicitor about that.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Probably many times

Oh well

I do think that some people secretly wank over being offended though

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Might have - but usually not on purpose and would apologise if I found I had.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes and some don't like when you type haribos lol

Yes I like JELLY BABIES better , lol

Nice, my fav are the cola bottles

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ok I like wine Gums too .

But first pick is Jelly Babies.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks guys at least it's not just me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have. Lesson learned- don't make jokes on a BB thread

People are too serious.

It was easy to clear up though, once I explained my childish sense if humor...

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I haven't managed to offended anyone I must try harder..........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh God yes I get quite a bit of hate mail from people I offend on here, never aimed at them just general comments

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

If I haven't managed to offended anyone I must try harder..........

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Holy whatsit.... is THAT what you are doing when you are being nice?

Gutted !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No... I genuinely don't give a shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I saw a link on FB today about a restaurant where the waiting staff are paid to be as rude as possible! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh God yes I get quite a bit of hate mail from people I offend on here, never aimed at them just general comments "
Its hard to think you get hate mail as your a nice caring woman with a open mind .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I saw a profile that stated questions not to ask, like "how are you" and "what are you into " and such the like.

So as a joke, I asked every single one of the questions on her shit list, with a "lol" at the end, thinking she would find it funny.

She sent me a message back, which said, and I quote "are you a fucking idiot?" And I was blocked, never got to apologise or anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think iv upset some but i was only open and honest and voiced my opinion like everybody else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I saw a link on FB today about a restaurant where the waiting staff are paid to be as rude as possible! Lol"
well they cant wish to get a good tip doing that so its there pay packet that it will hurt too.

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By *aturelover2016Man
over a year ago

London

"I saw a profile that stated questions not to ask, like "how are you" and "what are you into " and such the like.

So as a joke, I asked every single one of the questions on her shit list, with a "lol" at the end, thinking she would find it funny.

She sent me a message back, which said, and I quote "are you a fucking idiot?" And I was blocked, never got to apologise or anything

Well it made me laugh even if it didn't her!

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Some people just adore being offended.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I saw a profile that stated questions not to ask, like "how are you" and "what are you into " and such the like.

So as a joke, I asked every single one of the questions on her shit list, with a "lol" at the end, thinking she would find it funny.

She sent me a message back, which said, and I quote "are you a fucking idiot?" And I was blocked, never got to apologise or anything

I seriously laughed out loud when I read this. Well done.

-Courtney

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"I saw a profile that stated questions not to ask, like "how are you" and "what are you into " and such the like.

So as a joke, I asked every single one of the questions on her shit list, with a "lol" at the end, thinking she would find it funny.

She sent me a message back, which said, and I quote "are you a fucking idiot?" And I was blocked, never got to apologise or anything

That sounds more like a sense of humour failure on her part. See, THAT would not have offended me lol

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By *iverscuMan
over a year ago

Berkshire

I once sent a message to a local TV telling her she had great profile and her pics were some of the most sexy ive seen.

She blocked me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably. People are offended about the slightest remark on here. It's like they're on the blob or haven't had a shit for a week the way the most innocuous remark sparks a huffy block. I'm one of the lucky ones who doesn't take offence easily

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Probably

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By *aturelover2016Man
over a year ago

London

"Some people just adore being offended."

I find that seriously offensive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I haven't managed to offended anyone I must try harder..........

Holy whatsit.... is THAT what you are doing when you are being nice?

Gutted !!"

Hey Affro did you know .......

"Do I know you",,,,,,

is.......

"You know I do"

backwards,,,,

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

If I haven't managed to offended anyone I must try harder..........

Holy whatsit.... is THAT what you are doing when you are being nice?

Gutted !!

Hey Affro did you know .......

"Do I know you",,,,,,

is.......

"You know I do"

backwards,,,,

But do you!?

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

"Have you ever offended anybody on here with a comment by accident ? And what was the worst ? "

Apparently yes. I can't remember the comment but I was soon blocked. Am I bovvered tho?!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I saw a profile that stated questions not to ask, like "how are you" and "what are you into " and such the like.

So as a joke, I asked every single one of the questions on her shit list, with a "lol" at the end, thinking she would find it funny.

She sent me a message back, which said, and I quote "are you a fucking idiot?" And I was blocked, never got to apologise or anything

LOL...... now that made me laugh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loadsa women have blocked me on here. I only remember talking to two of them. Only been blocked my one man cos he didn't like his new profile I sent him.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I think some think I am offering umbrage for them to take with nearly every post. I get less hate mail than I used to but some will take general comments as personal and I appear on many a block list.

I carry on being me.

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By *ertiVogtsMan
over a year ago

Exeter

"Oh God yes I get quite a bit of hate mail from people I offend on here, never aimed at them just general comments Its hard to think you get hate mail as your a nice caring woman with a open mind ."

That surprises me too.I tend to enjoy reading your comments.I've never received any hate mail but I do avoid the more controversial threads.

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By *epper123Woman
over a year ago

London

I am seriously offended ... no one told me it was raining and the washing was out. I mentioned it earlier in the thread just to make sure someone would notice me ... and let me know. That's it ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I saw a link on FB today about a restaurant where the waiting staff are paid to be as rude as possible! Lol"

It's called Dick's Last Resort or something - been there and it was amusing but some customers took the banter back a bit too far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I saw a link on FB today about a restaurant where the waiting staff are paid to be as rude as possible! Lol

It's called Dick's Last Resort or something - been there and it was amusing but some customers took the banter back a bit too far."

Would a "Fuck off and leave me alone while I eat my fucking food you stupid cunt" be acceptable?

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Not to my knowledge.....but the chances are probably quite high

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I saw a link on FB today about a restaurant where the waiting staff are paid to be as rude as possible! Lol

It's called Dick's Last Resort or something - been there and it was amusing but some customers took the banter back a bit too far.

Would a "Fuck off and leave me alone while I eat my fucking food you stupid cunt" be acceptable? "

The novelty is rude table service and some people seemed to be there just to be able to get away with being a dick to waiting staff.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I have a couple with my status updates, but I feel they had a low bar to being offended

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"I have a couple with my status updates, but I feel they had a low bar to being offended

Oh, if we are speaking about statuses, then yes I have offended loads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I saw a link on FB today about a restaurant where the waiting staff are paid to be as rude as possible! Lol

It's called Dick's Last Resort or something - been there and it was amusing but some customers took the banter back a bit too far.

Would a "Fuck off and leave me alone while I eat my fucking food you stupid cunt" be acceptable?

The novelty is rude table service and some people seemed to be there just to be able to get away with being a dick to waiting staff."

Can't see the attraction myself

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By *appyguy17Man
over a year ago

walthamstow

I never get offended.....but i have offended some people (unintentionally)

It's just a cultural thing....

Irish humour tends to err on the offensive side !!

It always sounds better when you say it as opposed to writing it ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can't see the attraction myself "

It was actually quite amusing and the food was decent.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

I was once taking this piss and mentioned an imaginary post made up of all the crazy posts on the thread on one particular day and this guy went crazy thinking i was hating all Scottish people. He got so upset he started sending me pms and even asked the moderators to close down the thread, even they tried to reason with him but he was having none of it.

The thread that i was referencing was from some crazy woman that was saying that the human race evolved in Scotland and then travelled to all other parts of the world.

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you ever offended anybody on here with a comment by accident ? And what was the worst ? "

No, only on purpose. I feel it's fair to make sure people know when I'm insulting them.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Have you ever offended anybody on here with a comment by accident ? And what was the worst ? "

probably.... yep

intentionally ...... no

i don't even think about it.... not everyone is on the same wavelength...

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

And you can effectively get banned from clubs round here for saying nice things about other clubs. They must be very easily offended

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I never get offended.....but i have offended some people (unintentionally)

It's just a cultural thing....

Irish humour tends to err on the offensive side !!

It always sounds better when you say it as opposed to writing it ...."

Get over it, your alive, nothing broken, you'll be fine in the morning!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been blocked by 3 people that I know of. 2 of which I can't stand and think they talk crap. The other I dont recall ever having anything to do with. I imagine in all cases they took offence at something I said on the forum.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

I would imagine so. People can be offended by my ironic sense of humour

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Sorry...chronic sense of humour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been blocked by 3 people that I know of. 2 of which I can't stand and think they talk crap. The other I dont recall ever having anything to do with. I imagine in all cases they took offence at something I said on the forum."

Sorry, I enjoy talking crap.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"No... I genuinely don't give a shit.

Oh how dreadful ..... I can book you on a mindfulness course next Tuesday.

Comes with a lunch ?"

Thanks but I'm fairly sure I'm not really that offensive you old busybody!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get offended when I'm offered money as it suggests they believe I'm unsuccessful in my work and not solvent. I don't do anything about it though, just block and get over it as it was unintentionally insulting.

The ones who call others names like "slut" and "whore" I believe are intentionally trying to insult me, so they get reported too. "

Why am I not surprised!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ones who call others names like "slut" and "whore" I believe are intentionally trying to insult me, so they get reported too.

Why am I not surprised!

What?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oi, I don't talk crap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have...but I genuinely didn't mean to. I sometimes think I'm funnier than I actually am...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People don't always get the Essex bantz

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Have you ever offended anybody on here with a comment by accident ? And what was the worst ? "

Yes.

I can't remember.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry, I enjoy talking crap.

Haha. You May grow on me yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oi, I don't talk crap

You don't. You haven't blocked me either numpty! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven't meant to offend anyone but been offended a few times by some replies. Never send a cockpic off the bat, never rude or too forward, always friendly and you get some total cunts replying. Honestly, So many bitter old women on here ??

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

No, I haven't been offended by anyone here - it's just an internet forum.

To all those who may have been offended by me: Get a fucking grip.

That is all.

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By *o-jCouple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Notts

Sometimes my humour is taken the wrong way , but luckily I don't care if you're easily offended by my jokes as understanding my humour is 80% of the way to getting into my knickers .

Jo x

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

i'm sure just my presence on here offends some..that i'm breathing, offends others..as i'm not going to change either status, for the foreseeable future

..i shall remain unconcerned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you ever offended anybody on here with a comment by accident ? And what was the worst ? "

Most definitely and not always by accident....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oi, I don't talk crap

You don't. You haven't blocked me either numpty! X

But you had to check didn't you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oi, I don't talk crap

You don't. You haven't blocked me either numpty! X

But you had to check didn't you?

I so did!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry, I enjoy talking crap.

Haha. You May grow on me yet."

Like mold. Or mushroom spores. Or a virus.

;-)

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Not that I know of but some people are so fragile on here now and love to be offended that I suppose I have somewhere along the line.

I've been offended once in nine years on here

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By *ammerdrillandcrackMan
over a year ago

Leeds

yes somebody told me to get a job little did he know i work for myself and he blocked me that pissed me off found out this guy was on full DLA lol.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"yes somebody told me to get a job little did he know i work for myself and he blocked me that pissed me off found out this guy was on full DLA lol."

Why is someone being disabled funny?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry, I enjoy talking crap.

Haha. You May grow on me yet.

Like mold. Or mushroom spores. Or a virus.

;-)"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know if people have been offended by what I've said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes and some don't like when you type haribos lol

Yes I like JELLY BABIES better , lol

Nice, my fav are the cola bottles

ok I like wine Gums too .

But first pick is Jelly Babies.

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Yes they are nice as well

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"Have you ever offended anybody on here with a comment by accident ? And what was the worst ? "

Just lollable!

Yeah... probably more than I realise...

There was a good one a few weeks back where I was slagging off the police on a thread and someone contacted me to say how offensive they found my comments and will someone please think of the poor officers before coming on to me...

It's a funny old world.

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