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By *hyllyphylly OP   Man
over a year ago

Bradford

Saw this on the Metro website, so thought I'd share it

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The behavioural psychologist

(Jo Hemmings is a psychologist and dating coach)

She says:

‘On one level it is simply exhibitionism.

‘The technology is there, so they use it to show what they’ve got to offer, assuming women will be impressed by their manhood.

‘Sexualising themselves via their erect penis is a crude “mating device”.

‘In their naiveté, they’d obviously like to see a picture of you naked, so why wouldn’t you want to see the same?

‘And it might prompt you to send one back. Unlikely, but there’s always that possibility lurking in their Neanderthal minds.

‘But it also cuts to the chase without having to explain in any words that they’re after sex rather than a relationship.

‘It’s effectively a swift route to market and there’s no confusion for the girl they are sending it to.

‘We know that men tend to lead with their dicks. What clearer way to show intent than a pic of their “best friend”?

‘And while it’s happening at an increasing rate, it’s not becoming more acceptable.

‘Most women will auto delete any guy that does send images of his dick.

‘Let’s hope that message hits home sooner rather than later.’

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The sex worker

(Margaret Corvid aka Mistress Magpie is a professional dominatrix, activist and writer. )

She says:

‘Men send unsolicited dick pics out of a sense of sexual entitlement – they’re turned on, and they want you to know it.

‘Only with consent can dick pics be fun and horny.

‘If a guy sends them without permission it means he’s not great with boundaries.

‘If you agree to cook if he washes up he won’t do the washing up.’

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The culprits

I asked men on Tinder who had sent me unrequested dick pics why they did it.

Here are some of their responses:

‘I guess I just wanted to get talking dirty.’

‘It’s a turn on. Hopefully women will send the equivalent back.’

‘I don’t know. I’m just bored I guess.’

So there you have it. Boredom. Some men are sending you dick pics just because there’s nothing good on TV any more. I HOPE YOU’RE HAPPY, TOP GEAR.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ironic that this was posted on the same day as the "cut the crap and show us ya cock" thread

-Courtney

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By *hyllyphylly OP   Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"Ironic that this was posted on the same day as the "cut the crap and show us ya cock" thread

-Courtney"

I thought that myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Balls. Its cos I asked them to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Balls. Its cos I asked them to. "

You and many other women.

One of whom claims on her profile "cock size unimportant - it's personality that counts". Maybe if I gave my cock a name :it would improve its personality???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ironic that this was posted on the same day as the "cut the crap and show us ya cock" thread

-Courtney

I thought that myself "

Very apropos. Well done!

There was a book I once read that studied sexual behavior mostly from a quantitative point of view (the author being an economist). It said that men were more interested in dicks than women, based on keyword analysis on porn sites, and other statistical nonsense.

So, long story short, what you have posted here bolsters that finding...men (in the general sense) send cock pics (usually) because THEY want to, not because the woman is actually interested.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you mean neanderthal or homo erectus?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I wish ladies would send me pussy pics

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Ironic that this was posted on the same day as the "cut the crap and show us ya cock" thread

-Courtney

I thought that myself

Very apropos. Well done!

There was a book I once read that studied sexual behavior mostly from a quantitative point of view (the author being an economist). It said that men were more interested in dicks than women, based on keyword analysis on porn sites, and other statistical nonsense.

So, long story short, what you have posted here bolsters that finding...men (in the general sense) send cock pics (usually) because THEY want to, not because the woman is actually interested.

-Courtney"

Some believe it will be a turn on for the women, in a "look at what you could have!", sort of way.

As the article says, they like explicit photos of women so think women will be turned on by explicit photos of them.

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By *hyllyphylly OP   Man
over a year ago

Bradford

For the record, my cock pic on my profile is there to attract other guys, as we are that shallow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they think with their dick and can't say anything else... All cocks are the same anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I see!! Coz single women and couples don't send pussy and 'action' pics ever? Whatever!!

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

Before Mr and I met as singles I browsed his profile and I think it had the most cock pics I had ever seen, with various piercings etc ... that was not the focus for me at all ... five one is still the face one, the jaw line and the lips .... but he sort of still refuses to believe it ... I do adore his cock though, and I instigated the pics of it on here. Hmmm, so where does that leave me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Balls. Its cos I asked them to. "

You want cock and balls?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cock pictures are great once you are establishing a possible meet, but not as a first message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do they bloody send them, when you ask not to receive them. Puts me off right away

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

I think the British in general are exhibitionists and just like to strip off and show off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the British in general are exhibitionists and just like to strip off and show off. "

Yes, I have naked pics too but wouldnt send pussy pics to anyone. I like looking at cock on profiles but if I want to get pics sent, I'll ask

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

Its a juxtaposition with Brits- we have a reputation of being straight laced and slightly repressed but then there is that crazy/exhibionist streak- see Magaluf or the Victorians (they were up to all sorts of kink).

I suppose if you got it, flaunt it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know the victorians were. I dont have it, so it doesnt get flaunted

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

The pics on your profile suggest otherwise!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Boobs out and bums are expected on here.

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

Ah so that's what I'm doing wrong... Maybe I'm too shy for this site!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I put whatever pics I want as you can't please everyone..... And people seem to like mine so I'm happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv had vanilla women ask to see my cock a few times without me turning the subject to sex.

Admittedly I don't take much persuading to send a wanking video though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont think you can please anyone at all really. They always want what you cant do or provide

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Balls. Its cos I asked them to. "

ohh ask away lol

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