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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you write one automatically for a meet or ask if they would like one?

I don't like them being done for me unless I ask for one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind either way.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Nah... I'm not arsed for them unless they're stupid and funny.

I think one is sufficient to know that you're a real person. I like discretion more. I don't need to know who's shagging who.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

No I never write them unless I've been given one

I've done a couple recently for new profiles of people I know because they asked nicely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nah... I'm not arsed for them unless they're stupid and funny.

I think one is sufficient to know that you're a real person. I like discretion more. I don't need to know who's shagging who. "

I'm frickin real even though I don't have one !!!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

You don't have to show them if you don't want to.

I write them but don't ask for them.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

My veris are starting to get more jokey and unrealistic. I think people know I'm real by now.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Nah... I'm not arsed for them unless they're stupid and funny.

I think one is sufficient to know that you're a real person. I like discretion more. I don't need to know who's shagging who.

I'm frickin real even though I don't have one !!! "

Not sure I believe you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nah... I'm not arsed for them unless they're stupid and funny.

I think one is sufficient to know that you're a real person. I like discretion more. I don't need to know who's shagging who.

I'm frickin real even though I don't have one !!!

Not sure I believe you! "

Yeah I'm one of those fake male profiles. ....fake male available whilst real male smokes pipe and goes ferreting with the lads

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Nah... I'm not arsed for them unless they're stupid and funny.

I think one is sufficient to know that you're a real person. I like discretion more. I don't need to know who's shagging who.

I'm frickin real even though I don't have one !!!

Not sure I believe you!

Yeah I'm one of those fake male profiles. ....fake male available whilst real male smokes pipe and goes ferreting with the lads "

I knew it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We just write them, and people can show them or not. We don't ask for them...seems needy, no? Unless its one of your first ones?

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nah... I'm not arsed for them unless they're stupid and funny.

I think one is sufficient to know that you're a real person. I like discretion more. I don't need to know who's shagging who.

I'm frickin real even though I don't have one !!!

Not sure I believe you!

Yeah I'm one of those fake male profiles. ....fake male available whilst real male smokes pipe and goes ferreting with the lads

I knew it!! "
ok ok...at least you know my voice ain't fake.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Nah... I'm not arsed for them unless they're stupid and funny.

I think one is sufficient to know that you're a real person. I like discretion more. I don't need to know who's shagging who.

I'm frickin real even though I don't have one !!!

Not sure I believe you!

Yeah I'm one of those fake male profiles. ....fake male available whilst real male smokes pipe and goes ferreting with the lads

I knew it!! ok ok...at least you know my voice ain't fake."

Alas you're not allowed to verify by phone any more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nah... I'm not arsed for them unless they're stupid and funny.

I think one is sufficient to know that you're a real person. I like discretion more. I don't need to know who's shagging who.

I'm frickin real even though I don't have one !!!

Not sure I believe you!

Yeah I'm one of those fake male profiles. ....fake male available whilst real male smokes pipe and goes ferreting with the lads

I knew it!! ok ok...at least you know my voice ain't fake.

Alas you're not allowed to verify by phone any more. "
I'll post you some toe clippings...can't get more real than that !

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

And this is why you should never tell strange men on the internet where you live!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

And this is why you should never tell strange men on the internet where you live! "
Maybe there should be a verified that this person shouldn't be met box ?

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

no dont do them any more unless some one specifically asks for one ..and dont show ours

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

[Removed by poster at 18/08/15 19:32:27]

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I ask if they want one, and I ask if they'll write me one. I know what they're for, but I like to get them. Its like an extra present after a lovely night.

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

I usually ask, if they want one as most of the time it's for a social meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm happy to give and if i receive one then bonus. If i really like it then I'll show it. Ones I've hidden are personal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well firstly apologies for hijacking the thread but back to the point...I think writing one is almost a polite acknowledgement of the meet as opposed to an apparent disappearing act. I have had verisi before and I'd be mystified if they didn't bother...maybe reading too much into it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally I'd see them as an acknowledgement of the meet. Just put a little private jokey stuff on the ones I've left to make the person giggle.

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By *5happycoupleCouple
over a year ago

Tooting / dept 23 France

always nice to receive verifications , and you still have the option whether you display them or not, they should never be an automatic but up to the choice of either party involved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually ask to be honest not sure why but I do lol x

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By *annooWoman
over a year ago

Hastings

I always write a veri for people I meet

I don't always get them back which sometimes makes me feel gutted but there are some people who believe that's meets should jst be between u and them and tbh u can see it from all points of view

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never ask but they have asked me if they could leave me 1.

Which I thought was polite...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I normally just write one no ones ever said they didn't want it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I write one without being asked, it's up to the individual if they show it or not. I wouldn't be upset if someone decided not to show one I'd written.

I've never asked for one, and wouldn't.

I see them as evidence the person exists, turns up and looks like their photos and that's about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I write them without being asked. I wouldnt ask for one to be written for me, it wouldnt seem right somehow, if they want to write one, they will

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I write one without being asked, it's up to the individual if they show it or not. I wouldn't be upset if someone decided not to show one I'd written.

I've never asked for one, and wouldn't.

I see them as evidence the person exists, turns up and looks like their photos and that's about it.

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I can understand doing that for a newbie on here but I really don't see the point if they have had recent veris. I don't like people knowing what I've got up to with someone. I'd prefer it to remain private. Social meets are different though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I write one without being asked, it's up to the individual if they show it or not. I wouldn't be upset if someone decided not to show one I'd written.

I've never asked for one, and wouldn't.

I see them as evidence the person exists, turns up and looks like their photos and that's about it.

I can understand doing that for a newbie on here but I really don't see the point if they have had recent veris. I don't like people knowing what I've got up to with someone. I'd prefer it to remain private. Social meets are different though."
if I've meet someone I have nothing to hide I like to write for social or fun meets ,wherever they are new or not

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

If one is written, it can be viewed as your own feedback from someone, illustrating how valuable and reliable they perceive you to be. A secondary optional use is for publication, where any included erotic info allows others to have a quick - and free - wank.

Send a veri if you feel the people are decent. It's their choice whether it's used or not. The sender is not the publisher.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't ask for verifications and if someone asks if I want one I say not necessary. If I get one I will return one.

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