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Wish women had the same thought process as men

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By *enny the lip licker OP   Man
over a year ago

bath bristol

It's a lot easier for a man to deal with sex only relationships, I do wonder why most women don't think the same.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Wot on earth?

Men are from earth; women are from earth. Deal with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

You meet the wrong women then

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Yeah, no.

I've just split up (again) with my long term FB as he couldn't cope with a sex only relationship. He wanted me to be exclusive (although he wouldn't be), and hated that I could differentiate between my feelings with regards to him vs NSA meets.

Maybe I am unusual, but I doubt it.

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock


"Wot on earth?

Men are from earth; women are from earth. Deal with it."

There is a popular saying that goes "men are from Mars, women are from venus" we are often world's apart.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be a very boring world if we was the same op.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes cos us wimmin are ALL THE SAME doncha know.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I'm glad women and men don't have the same thought process I think the sexes compliment each other perfectly when they understand each other.

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

In every "just sex" relationship I've had, it has always been the MAN who developed feelings or jealousy issues and made it awkward when those feelings weren't reciprocated.

Just sayin'.

- Amy. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Speak for yourself. I've got to like the person also...otherwise I may aswell go shag roadkill as an easy option !

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"It's a lot easier for a man to deal with sex only relationships, I do wonder why most women don't think the same. "

This, my friend, is poppycock!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You think? I'm very happy having sex only relationships. I know men who want more and they get waved goodbye.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a lot easier for a man to deal with sex only relationships, I do wonder why most women don't think the same. "

How dull would that be if we all thought the same.

And just because that is societys'perception, doesn't make it true!

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh


"In every "just sex" relationship I've had, it has always been the MAN who developed feelings or jealousy issues and made it awkward when those feelings weren't reciprocated.

Just sayin'.

- Amy. x"

Ditto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Speak for yourself. I've got to like the person also...otherwise I may aswell go shag roadkill as an easy option ! "

I like all my men I'm in sex only relationships with. If I didn't I wouldn't keep seeing them. It's just sex though.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I do ok

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I wish (in general) men and women better understood how each other (tend) to think.

There would be fewer cocks pics all over the place, fewer men thinking this place is full of free prostitutes, fewer women bitching about men doing whatever and many more meets.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"In every "just sex" relationship I've had, it has always been the MAN who developed feelings or jealousy issues and made it awkward when those feelings weren't reciprocated.

Just sayin'.

- Amy. x"

Same. A lot of men seem to get possessive and want to start controlling the woman, like she belongs to him.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Don't get me started...

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts


"In every "just sex" relationship I've had, it has always been the MAN who developed feelings or jealousy issues and made it awkward when those feelings weren't reciprocated.

Just sayin'.

- Amy. x

Same. A lot of men seem to get possessive and want to start controlling the woman, like she belongs to him."

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"Wot on earth?

Men are from earth; women are from earth. Deal with it.

There is a popular saying that goes "men are from Mars, women are from venus" we are often world's apart. "

That's the name of a cod-psychology book from the 70s.

I refer the Honourable Member to my previous comment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yay, another bash the sexes thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yay, another bash the sexes thread."

Men are cocks women are pussy's.. done

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Yay, another bash the sexes thread."

There would be fewer of them if the sexes better understood each other too.

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Youve got to find the person attractive surely .... so there is a sexual attraction ... and also a little bit of chemistry ... as in liking them for their personality .... or do u just put a bag over their head till youve finished ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll admit.. Ive chosen a few guys just to get a good seeing to.

Every now or then, I would like a bit more commitment.. But that passes!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In every "just sex" relationship I've had, it has always been the MAN who developed feelings or jealousy issues and made it awkward when those feelings weren't reciprocated.

Just sayin'.

- Amy. x

Same. A lot of men seem to get possessive and want to start controlling the woman, like she belongs to him."

heck no I'm happy for them to contact me and dictate all they like !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Celebrate the differences, I say, it makes life more interesting x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wot on earth?

Men are from earth; women are from earth. Deal with it."

Beautifully said! You have one healthy mind Sir X

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"It's a lot easier for a man to deal with sex only relationships, I do wonder why most women don't think the same. "

D.A.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol most want a trophy lol not me i send em back lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yay, another bash the sexes thread.

There would be fewer of them if the sexes better understood each other too."

But again that is a generalisation; some do and some don't.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I wish (in general) men and women better understood how each other (tend) to think.

There would be fewer cocks pics all over the place, fewer men thinking this place is full of free prostitutes, fewer women bitching about men doing whatever and many more meets."

^^ Agree with this!

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By *huramMan
over a year ago

London

I've had some 'sex only' relationships with women who were on the exact same wavelength as me and there was never a hint of complication.

But I've also had 'just sex' relationships with women who tried to change the rules because they "want more than just sex".

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Yay, another bash the sexes thread.

There would be fewer of them if the sexes better understood each other too.

But again that is a generalisation; some do and some don't."

Yes, as we're all different, pretty much everything said on this subject is a generalisation.

I just got bored of writing in general, tend to, usually, often and the rest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a lot easier for a man to deal with sex only relationships, I do wonder why most women don't think the same. "

Your experience(s) are not to be stereotyped or gendered. Your experiences are your very own. If there is any problem with someone else, you can rest and best assure the actual problem is your very own staring back at you.

Psychology is very interesting x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yay, another bash the sexes thread."

There do seem to be a lot of them recently...

Everyone is different. Men are great sometimes, but have their problems too. Same goes for women.

When ANYONE in a sexual relationship starts to develop feelings (and when those feelings are one-sided), the other person will moan about how [men/women] can't be purely sexual without emotion. Its just a simple case of one person being in deeper than the other....whether it be the man or the woman.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wot on earth?

Men are from earth; women are from earth. Deal with it.

There is a popular saying that goes "men are from Mars, women are from venus" we are often world's apart.

That's the name of a cod-psychology book from the 70s.

I refer the Honourable Member to my previous comment. "

Wasn't it chick lit around 2000?

All pink + lilac cover with glasses of bubbly stuff on cover.

Lilac = purple in mans world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am more than capable of having a sex only 'relationship' and like others have posted here, I have previously had to end friends with benefits situations when it is them who have become needy.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Women and men are not two separate collectives who all think, feel and act the same as each other and contrary to the other gender. Some people can't deal with NSA, or can't deal with it when they fall for a specific person. If it's an issue you are encountering with women time and time again OP then it may be advisable to consider how clearly you are stating the NSA aspects in your interactions with them?

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I wish (in general) men and women better understood how each other (tend) to think.

There would be fewer cocks pics all over the place, fewer men thinking this place is full of free prostitutes, fewer women bitching about men doing whatever and many more meets.

^^ Agree with this! "

And as an example, my messages tonight have all come from curvy/ample men looking to meet when my profile clearly states athletic and toned, so to be honest I don't think the worst offenders on here are females

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