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Couples Profile where he plays alone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Had a few messages from a few different couples Profiles where everything starts off very interesting but towards the end the emphasis is on how the man is allowed to play alone, and is in our area over the next few days..... anybody else been getting the same?

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

I bet you'll not be able to verify this with his other half on the phone though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep all the time.Just ask his so called Mrs to ring to confirm and hey presto blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only couple you will find there is a couple of balls, swinging in the pants if a single guy pretending to be a couple, people should realise that having a split personality does not qualify you for a couples profile

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By *akeyou1Man
over a year ago

sutton


"Had a few messages from a few different couples Profiles where everything starts off very interesting but towards the end the emphasis is on how the man is allowed to play alone, and is in our area over the next few days..... anybody else been getting the same?"

On the other side of the fence I've thought about doing it but what's the point if your pursuing a couple then only to be caught out in the end and waste time there is no point lol Mainly I thing guys do it because couples profiles block single guys messages so they try to contact then in a different way and just for the record I've never done that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very few single guys will pretend to be a couple because of this type of mentality (of course you'll get the odd few divvies). It is far easier to meet single women from a single male profile.

We are a couple where the male is allowed 1on1 fun, and yes you can speak on the phone or even meet the female half of us for confirmation.

We feel it's better to do it that way than set up a fake single male account like everybody else does. We like to tell the truth about who we are and what is on offer, confucius say they who no want to get found out don't bullshit in first place (or something like that, he said it one night in the pub I think).

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Generally, If I see a profile stating Only Him Playing, then I report it, that's a guy's profile in my opinion.

Cal.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Generally, If I see a profile stating Only Him Playing, then I report it, that's a guy's profile in my opinion.

Cal."

Obviously, it is different if they play as a couple & separately.

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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago

Limavady


"Generally, If I see a profile stating Only Him Playing, then I report it, that's a guy's profile in my opinion.

Cal."

Agree Report it

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We choose not to meet in this instance but it's up to others how they run things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't mind Mr playing alone but for the above reasons don't put it on our profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Generally, If I see a profile stating Only Him Playing, then I report it, that's a guy's profile in my opinion.

Cal."

Ahhhh but a few weeks ago I wasn't well and couldn't play/have sex at all and I was thinking of putting this on our profile (not that I couldn't have sex but that Mr was playing alone)

Does that mean you would of reported us??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

On our profile it states that it's only the missus that plays..... but it is a long profile maybe they can't be bothered to read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't mind Mr playing alone but for the above reasons don't put it on our profile."

If the above reasons are people making ridiculous assumptions about you and getting quasi judgemental, don't worry about them, they wouldn't meet you anyway. You use this site how you want to use it and get the fun out of it you want to get.

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By *akeyou1Man
over a year ago

sutton


"I wouldn't mind Mr playing alone but for the above reasons don't put it on our profile."

Does this mean the me lets you play alone too??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't mind Mr playing alone but for the above reasons don't put it on our profile.

Does this mean the me lets you play alone too??"

I have played alone once yes and enjoyed it but it wasn't for me, I prefer to play with my partner there.

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By *akeyou1Man
over a year ago

sutton


"I wouldn't mind Mr playing alone but for the above reasons don't put it on our profile.

Does this mean the me lets you play alone too??

I have played alone once yes and enjoyed it but it wasn't for me, I prefer to play with my partner there. "

Fair enough just thought I'd question it sorry. Message me for chat?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't mind Mr playing alone but for the above reasons don't put it on our profile.

If the above reasons are people making ridiculous assumptions about you and getting quasi judgemental, don't worry about them, they wouldn't meet you anyway. You use this site how you want to use it and get the fun out of it you want to get. "

With mainly meeting in clubs I can't see the point in having it on our profile anymore because he can just play on his own there with my blessing without us being seen as time wasters for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't mind Mr playing alone but for the above reasons don't put it on our profile.

Does this mean the me lets you play alone too??

I have played alone once yes and enjoyed it but it wasn't for me, I prefer to play with my partner there.

Fair enough just thought I'd question it sorry. Message me for chat?"

A lot of people think that the female half never get the chance to play on there own but the male half do.

If any other females in a couple are like us then it's not the case at all, it's because I feel more comfortable with him there

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By *akeyou1Man
over a year ago

sutton


"I wouldn't mind Mr playing alone but for the above reasons don't put it on our profile.

Does this mean the me lets you play alone too??

I have played alone once yes and enjoyed it but it wasn't for me, I prefer to play with my partner there.

Fair enough just thought I'd question it

sorry. Message me for chat?

A lot of people think that the female half never get the chance to play on there own but the male half do.

If any other females in a couple are like us then it's not the case at all, it's because I feel more comfortable with him there"

Would you like to inbox Me and talk about a potential MFM?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't mind Mr playing alone but for the above reasons don't put it on our profile.

Does this mean the me lets you play alone too??

I have played alone once yes and enjoyed it but it wasn't for me, I prefer to play with my partner there.

Fair enough just thought I'd question it

sorry. Message me for chat?

A lot of people think that the female half never get the chance to play on there own but the male half do.

If any other females in a couple are like us then it's not the case at all, it's because I feel more comfortable with him there

Would you like to inbox Me and talk about a potential MFM? "

Were not meeting singles at the moment

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

This cliché is right up there with the status update "f has left me alone tonight, any ladies want to visit text 07###########"

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"This cliché is right up there with the status update "f has left me alone tonight, any ladies want to visit text 07###########""

Yes Okay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't mind Mr playing alone but for the above reasons don't put it on our profile."

We have this but have it on our profile, but we also wouldn't make first contact. If someone messaged us asking for separate meets then fair enough. But it's not something we actively seek out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have this but have it on our profile, but we also wouldn't make first contact. If someone messaged us asking for separate meets then fair enough. But it's not something we actively seek out. "

We don't seek out that much either, I'm sure many women get too many offers on here. However we do get ladies messaging for 1on1s, I think they admire the honesty of it and know that there won't be any 'strings', just good and honest sex. We have our own office that we have access to 24/7 and my wife is even happy to go work at the office to make way for me to accommodate if needed. She's one in a million for sure. And yes, she can have 1on1 fun if she wants (and has), though she's sort of ticked the box (in her words) and isn't really looking for more of the same at the moment.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Just to clarify, there is a big difference between a couple who are willing for one or both to play alone, and a couple where only one of them ever plays.

It is misleading, in the same way as single ladies who "only play with their partner as a couple". This is something that some people do to bypass filters and get access to people who aren't looking for that.

Cal

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