FabSwingers.com forum: Revenge porn! Is it just me...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

...or has anyone else just totally questioned whether it's all worth it, sometimes I can't help but think that there is an element of the old dirty Mac brigade getting into the swinging scene, and it's all just getting so seedy, the fact that revenge porn exists, and week in week out someone complains that pics have been stolen, stories of time wasters and weirdos and the endless trolling bullshit, is spoiling the whole swinging experience for me, as a single male, the odd are stacked against as it is, but the paranoia that fills every corner of "t'internet".

Can somebody please slap me back into reality or tell me I'm not alone, and others feel that swinging is going to shit

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Are there clear links between revenge porn and swinging?

I haven't really looked into it in that much detail to see the link

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Are there clear links between revenge porn and swinging?

I haven't really looked into it in that much detail to see the link "

Just some people's attitudes and sex on the Internet, that's the only link really

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

I'd be more of the view that the age of the selfie enables more people to be capable of taking naked pictures of themselves than ever before. Added to this is the ubiquity of the Internet as a means of dissemination.

From there it's just women sharing pics / allowing vids where previously they'd have just flashed their tits, or had sex in a vaguely public place.

Nowadays, it's recorded, and therefore shareable.

Ergo, revenge porn

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

"I'd be more of the view that the age of the selfie enables more people to be capable of taking naked pictures of themselves than ever before. Added to this is the ubiquity of the Internet as a means of dissemination.

From there it's just women sharing pics / allowing vids where previously they'd have just flashed their tits, or had sex in a vaguely public place.

Nowadays, it's recorded, and therefore shareable.

Ergo, revenge porn"

I agree with this

It's not really anything to do with swinging just the way technology has made it easier to share

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Next week's fish and chips

I like the way you thought swinging was once morally great in the past until modern society infected it with its depravity!

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village

I'm watching a program about it on ch.4 & would be extremely careful about sending anything even if i trusted them

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By *icky999Man
over a year ago

warrington

its not revenge porn if your hung like a donkey and shag like a jack hammer.

its publicity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab isn't a true picture of the swinging scene IMHO

-Mr-

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"its not revenge porn if your hung like a donkey and shag like a jack hammer.

its publicity

A bloke on the programme said that. If his ex put his pics up it's not bad for a bloke and he always makes sure pics of him are good.

What the prog got over well was the double standards.

Pictures of women are magnets for the misogynists...... branding them , whores and sluts and more.

These words are still used to abuse women emotionally, mentally and sexually.

Difference in societies attitudes toward men and woman is tangible even today.

Why are there less women here than men?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"its not revenge porn if your hung like a donkey and shag like a jack hammer.

its publicity

A bloke on the programme said that. If his ex put his pics up it's not bad for a bloke and he always makes sure pics of him are good.

What the prog got over well was the double standards.

Pictures of women are magnets for the misogynists...... branding them , whores and sluts and more.

These words are still used to abuse women emotionally, mentally and sexually.

Difference in societies attitudes toward men and woman is tangible even today.

Why are there less women here than men?"

Totally agree with this. My brother found out I was on a date not long after my ex moved out (we'd been separated but living together for 6 months beforehand), and he made a huge show of being disgusted with my behaviour. He found out my ex was also seeing women and all was fine. Women having desire and acting upon it rarely goes unpunished in some way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are there clear links between revenge porn and swinging?

I haven't really looked into it in that much detail to see the link "

Other than being able to post pictures on here, I really can't see the link either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I watched that last night with my daughter - pretending to be a little bit shocked at some of the stuff described was the order of the day -

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By *untimes6969Man
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"I watched that last night with my daughter - pretending to be a little bit shocked at some of the stuff described was the order of the day -

Ha - did the same myself!

EEEEEEEEEE do those sorts of things go on?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"its not revenge porn if your hung like a donkey and shag like a jack hammer.

its publicity

A bloke on the programme said that. If his ex put his pics up it's not bad for a bloke and he always makes sure pics of him are good.

What the prog got over well was the double standards.

Pictures of women are magnets for the misogynists...... branding them , whores and sluts and more.

These words are still used to abuse women emotionally, mentally and sexually.

Difference in societies attitudes toward men and woman is tangible even today.

Why are there less women here than men?

Personally I found women to be the biggest bigots of women!

There husbands usually nod in agreement but secretly think whooohoo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was just using the experience with my brother as an example of the general attitude society has when women display a liking for sex. His gender was irrelevant, but I see where you're coming from.

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

"its not revenge porn if your hung like a donkey and shag like a jack hammer.

its publicity

A bloke on the programme said that. If his ex put his pics up it's not bad for a bloke and he always makes sure pics of him are good.

What the prog got over well was the double standards.

Pictures of women are magnets for the misogynists...... branding them , whores and sluts and more.

These words are still used to abuse women emotionally, mentally and sexually.

Difference in societies attitudes toward men and woman is tangible even today.

Why are there less women here than men?"

I really hate it when you see the titles and descriptions on some porn movies. Dirty slut this, and filthy whore that Etc.

Enjoy porn by all means but there is no need for that kind of language.

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