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"Or not? Following from another thread... if you had arranged a meet with someone and they turned up having brought someone else with them... would that be okay with you? " If it was Charlize Theron they'd brought with them then I'd be fine with that! | |||
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"Or not? Following from another thread... if you had arranged a meet with someone and they turned up having brought someone else with them... would that be okay with you? " Errmm... I've done that before - double book. Can work very nicely | |||
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"Or not? Following from another thread... if you had arranged a meet with someone and they turned up having brought someone else with them... would that be okay with you? If it was Charlize Theron they'd brought with them then I'd be fine with that! You are easily swayed ya floosie Especially if they were wearing socks I guess " You and Theron stood naked before me in nothing but ya socks! Now you're talking | |||
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"Or not? Following from another thread... if you had arranged a meet with someone and they turned up having brought someone else with them... would that be okay with you? Errmm... I've done that before - double book. Can work very nicely " Did you discuss it with the person you arranged to meet first though? Prior to turning up? Or did you just pitch up with an extra body? | |||
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"Or not? Following from another thread... if you had arranged a meet with someone and they turned up having brought someone else with them... would that be okay with you? Errmm... I've done that before - double book. Can work very nicely Did you discuss it with the person you arranged to meet first though? Prior to turning up? Or did you just pitch up with an extra body?" Done both. I would typically say there's the possibility of a 3rd and make introductions. That is polite. I have, however, just winged it a couple of times but that's only because I knew the second very well and knew they would (probably) be ok with my choice of a third. I wouldn't just randomly do it. | |||
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"Or not? Following from another thread... if you had arranged a meet with someone and they turned up having brought someone else with them... would that be okay with you? Errmm... I've done that before - double book. Can work very nicely Did you discuss it with the person you arranged to meet first though? Prior to turning up? Or did you just pitch up with an extra body? Done both. I would typically say there's the possibility of a 3rd and make introductions. That is polite. I have, however, just winged it a couple of times but that's only because I knew the second very well and knew they would (probably) be ok with my choice of a third. I wouldn't just randomly do it. " Interesting... I'm curious, what was the male/female dynamic of each one? | |||
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"Or not? Following from another thread... if you had arranged a meet with someone and they turned up having brought someone else with them... would that be okay with you? Errmm... I've done that before - double book. Can work very nicely Did you discuss it with the person you arranged to meet first though? Prior to turning up? Or did you just pitch up with an extra body? Done both. I would typically say there's the possibility of a 3rd and make introductions. That is polite. I have, however, just winged it a couple of times but that's only because I knew the second very well and knew they would (probably) be ok with my choice of a third. I wouldn't just randomly do it. Interesting... I'm curious, what was the male/female dynamic of each one? " You're talking about a range of different experiences from 3 sum with MF couple to MMMs (which is mostly the case now I think of it). | |||
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"Or not? Following from another thread... if you had arranged a meet with someone and they turned up having brought someone else with them... would that be okay with you? " Depends how fit they were send how horny I was | |||
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"Interesting responses... it's only happened to me once, I was at a social and the bloke I was there with told me he'd invited someone back to our room. Not cool. Communication is always key for me. Had he come and said 'what do you think about x coming back with us?' my answer still would have been no but it wouldn't have pissed me off in the same way. That was a long night with zero sleep in someone else's room! A post I saw this morning just made me think wtf?! I would no more invite someone else along when I already had plans without discussing it with that person first. It's just good manners. I'm not opposed to threesomes and moresomes but not without first knowing. I fear I may verge on the uptight side right enough but I think that's pretty rude to assume it would be okay just to go ahead and bring someone else along to a prearranged meet. Oh... and I lie... it's happened twice. You should never ever ask the first person if the third person can join in while the third person is there. Definitely not cool. " That's disgusting. Both cases. I wouldn't speak to either of them again. | |||
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"Yes I would, would be a good mff 3sum ." You're assuming it would be another fem? Would mmf be ok? I think it shows a lack of respect. If the other person was hot I'd arrange another time with them and fuck the original meet off. | |||
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"Yes I would, would be a good mff 3sum . You're assuming it would be another fem? Would mmf be ok? I think it shows a lack of respect. If the other person was hot I'd arrange another time with them and fuck the original meet off." No as I don't do meetings with 2 men, so just a mff. But yeah they had to show a pic before hand or if we met outside to check who they are it would be fine and good point, could also arrange it for another time too. | |||
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"Or not? Following from another thread... if you had arranged a meet with someone and they turned up having brought someone else with them... would that be okay with you? " Perfectly ok as long as the person they bought with them wasn't a minger | |||
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"Or not? Following from another thread... if you had arranged a meet with someone and they turned up having brought someone else with them... would that be okay with you? " BIG noooooo from me, even if it was another woman. It's a breach of trust. | |||
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"It's all about spontaneity for us , the anticipation of not knowing what to expect . Contrived meets are a thing of the past for us . So a stranger turning up would be a definate bonus " Thing is though... you're an 'us' so you have each other there with you. That's at least taking into account the safety issue. As a single girl, if I turn up to meet a single bloke and there are two of them there, without prior warning/discussion I would feel horribly compromised and not particularly comfortable with that. It's okay to be different. | |||
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"Or not? Following from another thread... if you had arranged a meet with someone and they turned up having brought someone else with them... would that be okay with you? Perfectly ok as long as the person they bought with them wasn't a minger " Good for you Gloswingers for bucking the 'NO' trend on this thread. In the end its no different to going dogging and ending up getting down and dirty. Raj n Jim | |||
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"It's all about spontaneity for us , the anticipation of not knowing what to expect . Contrived meets are a thing of the past for us . So a stranger turning up would be a definate bonus Thing is though... you're an 'us' so you have each other there with you. That's at least taking into account the safety issue. As a single girl, if I turn up to meet a single bloke and there are two of them there, without prior warning/discussion I would feel horribly compromised and not particularly comfortable with that. It's okay to be different. " Yeah that's the same for me I would feel a little nervous around two men especially if I didn't know one x | |||
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"Or not? Following from another thread... if you had arranged a meet with someone and they turned up having brought someone else with them... would that be okay with you? " Depends on the person who tagged along.... | |||
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"But when you go dogging, you kinda know that you're going to be faced with complete strangers. When you arrange a meet with someone specific, you wouldn't expect them to turn up with their best mate on the off chance surely? " We wouldn't expect it but if it happened it would be a bonus | |||
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"Or not? Following from another thread... if you had arranged a meet with someone and they turned up having brought someone else with them... would that be okay with you? " Depends on the kind of meet and the intentions, if it's for moral support, security, coincidental, or to not be stranded in the event of me not turning up, fine. If it's for a meet not at mine, fine. If it's a meet at mine, and the intention is to join in,hell no. I'd leave instantly and block them and deal with the feeling of having made a mistake or been an asshole | |||
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"But when you go dogging, you kinda know that you're going to be faced with complete strangers. When you arrange a meet with someone specific, you wouldn't expect them to turn up with their best mate on the off chance surely? " See, that I'd have to chat with them first and get a feel for what the person is like, but if I get the impression something is off, even if I can't describe it at the moment, I'm out | |||
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"Mixed feelings on this one. If a lady brought another lady for mff id struggle to not be ok with that lol. " This is partly why I asked. I was curious whether there would be a difference in opinion based on gender. | |||
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"If it was a girlfriend, hell yeah, another guy, absolutely not " On both occasions for me it was another woman. I'm pretty fussy so it wasn't going to happen. I'm not sure that my view would be different if I found them attractive. In terms of etiquette I think it's pretty bad form. | |||
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"Or not? Following from another thread... if you had arranged a meet with someone and they turned up having brought someone else with them... would that be okay with you? " NO! | |||
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"Mixed feelings on this one. If a lady brought another lady for mff id struggle to not be ok with that lol. This is partly why I asked. I was curious whether there would be a difference in opinion based on gender. " If I arrange to meet someone 1-on-1 it's because I want to meet them 1-on-1. If they turn up with an 'extra' of any gender they'd be told to bugger off. | |||
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"Mixed feelings on this one. If a lady brought another lady for mff id struggle to not be ok with that lol. This is partly why I asked. I was curious whether there would be a difference in opinion based on gender. If I arrange to meet someone 1-on-1 it's because I want to meet them 1-on-1. If they turn up with an 'extra' of any gender they'd be told to bugger off." This is exactly how I feel and why I told my meet to bugger off,I arranged a meet with him,not him and another woman,it's rude and I'd never be so rude to do the same to someone else without asking beforehand Not surprised that so many men have said yay!!! to having another woman turn up though What if she looked like Nora Batty? would they still be so yay!!! | |||
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"Mixed feelings on this one. If a lady brought another lady for mff id struggle to not be ok with that lol. This is partly why I asked. I was curious whether there would be a difference in opinion based on gender. If I arrange to meet someone 1-on-1 it's because I want to meet them 1-on-1. If they turn up with an 'extra' of any gender they'd be told to bugger off. This is exactly how I feel and why I told my meet to bugger off,I arranged a meet with him,not him and another woman,it's rude and I'd never be so rude to do the same to someone else without asking beforehand Not surprised that so many men have said yay!!! to having another woman turn up though What if she looked like Nora Batty? would they still be so yay!!! " Lol, yes, I noticed too, maybe because I'm bicurious, it wouldn't matter, man or woman, pretty much because the first time I met one of my exes, she brought a guy along for moral support and security, so I shrugged it off. No big deal. If it was for joining in, it would depend on how well I get along with ANY additional, again, no big deal. Inviting themselves around to my home, they can sling their hooks | |||
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"Mixed feelings on this one. If a lady brought another lady for mff id struggle to not be ok with that lol. This is partly why I asked. I was curious whether there would be a difference in opinion based on gender. If I arrange to meet someone 1-on-1 it's because I want to meet them 1-on-1. If they turn up with an 'extra' of any gender they'd be told to bugger off. This is exactly how I feel and why I told my meet to bugger off,I arranged a meet with him,not him and another woman,it's rude and I'd never be so rude to do the same to someone else without asking beforehand Not surprised that so many men have said yay!!! to having another woman turn up though What if she looked like Nora Batty? would they still be so yay!!! " Hahaha very well put | |||
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"Mixed feelings on this one. If a lady brought another lady for mff id struggle to not be ok with that lol. " But what if you didn't like the look of the other Woman, The complete opposite of what you go for | |||
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"I would want to know what they were thinking and why they felt it would be ok. I would then (probably) say that it is a bit disrespectful and not for me. " Maybe we should ask the other question... would you take someone along to a meet with you without previous discussion? I'm really curious as to whether I'm just not 'go with the flow' enough or whether I'm too uptight for that sort of swinging. I think maybe I'm just too fussy! | |||
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"It's all about spontaneity for us , the anticipation of not knowing what to expect . Contrived meets are a thing of the past for us . So a stranger turning up would be a definate bonus " So it wouldn't annoy you that you'd arranged to meet a single person and they turn up with a mate then | |||
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"I would want to know what they were thinking and why they felt it would be ok. I would then (probably) say that it is a bit disrespectful and not for me. Maybe we should ask the other question... would you take someone along to a meet with you without previous discussion? I'm really curious as to whether I'm just not 'go with the flow' enough or whether I'm too uptight for that sort of swinging. I think maybe I'm just too fussy! " I wouldn't take anyone with me nor would I even think of doing so | |||
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"Maybe we should ask the other question... would you take someone along to a meet with you without previous discussion?" No. I'd meet each woman on different days instead. | |||
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"Or not? Following from another thread... if you had arranged a meet with someone and they turned up having brought someone else with them... would that be okay with you? " Definitely not okay, completely unacceptable | |||
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"Or not? Following from another thread... if you had arranged a meet with someone and they turned up having brought someone else with them... would that be okay with you? can we share please? If it was Charlize Theron they'd brought with them then I'd be fine with that! " | |||
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"Mixed feelings on this one. If a lady brought another lady for mff id struggle to not be ok with that lol. But what if you didn't like the look of the other Woman, The complete opposite of what you go for " As I said I'd have mixed feelings. As others had said it's a bit rude. But I'm realistic if they brought a Kelly Brook look alike I'd be like hell yeah. Nora batty not so much. On a side note I met Kathy staff who played her many years ago. Absolutely lovely woman. | |||
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