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Pervs and Time Wasters On Fab

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By *aughtyMinxLikes You OP   Woman
over a year ago

Kettering

Pervs and Time wasters

How do you deal with them?

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I do a fair bit of perving maself, but I've never encountered a timewaster so I'm absolutely clueless on this one

*courtesy of the useless information department*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do a fair bit of perving maself, but I've never encountered a timewaster so I'm absolutely clueless on this one

*courtesy of the useless information department*"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pervs and Time wasters

How do you deal with them?"

The standard block and delete or if you have arranged a meet and they don't show report them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perving is inevitable on a sex site

We generally meet at clubs to it the time wasters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most peoples come to perv some to waste time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

soz thought this was a role call...

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We give them a cuddle and a cup of tea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I perv and waste lots of time on Fab. I deal with it by having a wank every so often.

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By *lashheartMan
over a year ago

shrewsbury

I perve and waste a lot of my time on fab but would never be a no show.

What's the point?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty of both on here. Tread carefully!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I deal with pervy ladies by uploading new pics and couple of times a week. And timewasters just provide the distractions I need to help pass the time while I'm waiting for my next fab meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let them perve away

timewasters not bothered as at parties always other people to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What when u msg sum 1 n they dnt reply?

Thats arrogance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell myself off for doing it, then ignore myself

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

Think we all perv to see what,s going on

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I'll have a perv here .. Then waste my time on other websites as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pervs and Time wasters

How do you deal with them?"

If you don't like people looking at your photos, don't have any on your profile.

If you don't want to find timewasters don't send messages or read any sent to you.

If you don't want people to look at your profile, delete it.

Shhhimples.

This was a public service announcement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guilty as charged, I'm supposed to be up for work already, but fab is too interesting (perving and browsing forums) oopsy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pervs and Time wasters

How do you deal with them?

If you don't like people looking at your photos, don't have any on your profile.

If you don't want to find timewasters don't send messages or read any sent to you.

If you don't want people to look at your profile, delete it.

Shhhimples.

This was a public service announcement. "

Brought to you by Kleenex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I encourage the pervs ...and the timewasters I block and move on..

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire


"What when u msg sum 1 n they dnt reply?

Thats arrogance."

Is that how you message them ?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"What when u msg sum 1 n they dnt reply?

Thats arrogance."

No, expecting a reply and moaning when it doesn't come is arrogance. No reply means not interested.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

[Removed by poster at 15/08/15 07:51:16]

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

1). I'm a bloke... I'm 51, I'm moving from a perve to a the dirty old man,..

2). My memory is failing what was the question.? I waste lots of time trying to remember

3). Nice tits..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get drawn into sexual conversations,I don't send naked photos and I use my common sense. They drop out quickly when they don't get anything stimulating from me.

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By *uvstolick68Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Im in a couple profile too here and we've encountered two/three time wasters. One was a couple we chatted to and spoke to on the phone on the day of the meet. But they never turned up. In hindsight they were getting a kick out of winding the situation up.

I reported them to site administration and put a note on status so people could see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't get drawn into sexual conversations,I don't send naked photos and I use my common sense. They drop out quickly when they don't get anything stimulating from me. "

pretty much this for me too. Also, asking to meet them for a quick coffee in costa to prove they're up for meeting usually has them going silent. I'm not one for endless message exchanges on here, if interested in a meet I'll just give my number and say get in touch. Some do, most don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pervs and Time wasters

How do you deal with them?

If you don't like people looking at your photos, don't have any on your profile.

If you don't want to find timewasters don't send messages or read any sent to you.

If you don't want people to look at your profile, delete it.

Shhhimples.

This was a public service announcement. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't get drawn into sexual conversations,I don't send naked photos and I use my common sense. They drop out quickly when they don't get anything stimulating from me.

pretty much this for me too. Also, asking to meet them for a quick coffee in costa to prove they're up for meeting usually has them going silent. I'm not one for endless message exchanges on here, if interested in a meet I'll just give my number and say get in touch. Some do, most don't."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must be doing something cos I've come across neither

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've come across time wasters recently ! Two in one week in fact; both female! Onwards and upwards! My pics are there for people to look at so perv away!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been on and off here for the best part of 5 years now and must admit, although I fell prey to a few in the beginning, I have now perfected the art of fake/time waster spotting. The site gives all the tools you need to help you them out, filtering out non verified, newbies etc but your gut instinct is the best tool you have. If you have the slightest doubt then leave it well alone or you'll probably be wasting your own time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've come across time wasters recently ! Two in one week in fact; both female! Onwards and upwards! My pics are there for people to look at so perv away! "

What a lovely invitation, I may just do that now

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

agree, the pics we post are for anyone to look at really, and you learn a lot about timewasters in a quick timeframe on here, but we've still been taken in recently, very "real" sounding messages only for us to be sat in pub waiting for someone to not turn up. Not just guys do that, either. A psychology student's dream, really, analyse why you come on her pretending to want to meet and then not showing up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pervs and Time wasters

How do you deal with them?"

Block and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've come across time wasters recently ! Two in one week in fact; both female! Onwards and upwards! My pics are there for people to look at so perv away!

What a lovely invitation, I may just do that now "

Fill your boots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just look at site occasionally ,dont get too engaged with it and presume 95% of it is fake, dreamers or fantasists.

I know there are some genuine people on here but lifes too short to wade through the dross.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"agree, the pics we post are for anyone to look at really, and you learn a lot about timewasters in a quick timeframe on here, but we've still been taken in recently, very "real" sounding messages only for us to be sat in pub waiting for someone to not turn up. Not just guys do that, either. A psychology student's dream, really, analyse why you come on her pretending to want to meet and then not showing up "

They might not do it on purpose. They might be genuine (can't think of a better word. Not Fab genuine... real genuine...) but just get really nervous at the last minute and too scared of what you might say to let you know and cancel.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Pervs and Time wasters

How do you deal with them?"

I like pervs; I thought the whole place was full of 'em

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with perving as such, why post pics if you know they'll be perved?!

I do get bored with time wasters that cancel at the last minute tho....

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"I just look at site occasionally ,dont get too engaged with it and presume 95% of it is fake, dreamers or fantasists.

I know there are some genuine people on here but lifes too short to wade through the dross.

"

It sounds as if you've had some bad experiences on here...I had one or two fakes when I first joined but am so much better at spotting them and ing them out now so do not share your problem or outlook...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pervs and Time wasters

How do you deal with them?"

I just try to ignore there whiny time wasting threads

Failed with this one though

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"soz thought this was a role call...

xx "

Ha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What when u msg sum 1 n they dnt reply?

Thats arrogance."
They probably could not decipher what you are saying?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't mind the pervs it's the time wasters I can't stand x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a lot of these topics lately. I might write a help guide on this subject.

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