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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

whats the point in winks? r they any good 4 any1?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

handy to remind old friends, we get quite a few, we go and peruse profile and then message if we like, so they have their uses.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Never look at mine, just mass delete them once in a while

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon

Different strokes for different folks.

There are those who don't like nor use them - that's understandable and I'll respect their wishes.

There are those who use them to test the waters before sending a message to someone - I've had this in the past but it's not something I do myself.

And then there are those who use them almost like a nudge on MSN, for saying Hi to friends and existing contacts without having to send a full-written message. This is how I tend to use them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't respond to them, my way of thinking is that if someone is really interested in you they will take the time to write a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I quite like the idea of a wink as a first approach as you don't feel obliged to respond to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never look at mine, just mass delete them once in a while"

arghhhhh winkoside

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Never look at mine, just mass delete them once in a while

arghhhhh winkoside "

In fairness it does say on my profile i dont like winks

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

i know in todays,quick moving,time is money,live fast society.time is important,but ffs how long does it take,to write a short message.for us a wink says,we are not all that intrested.

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon

I'm a winker, and I'm not ashamed to admit it.

But I only wink over ...erm, I mean at friends or people I've already contacted.

Come on, fellow winkers. Stand tall and be counted!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"whats the point in winks? r they any good 4 any1?"

The point is fine for people who prefer to know who is interested but don't want to answer lots of messages. For others they think they are a lazy way of showing interest. It is amusing though that some who prefer messages will ignore them and not reply. So in reality its horses for courses as you will not please everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

can't beat a long luxurious message and a good wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yer right though really is dunkers for dipping.

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By *eachfellaMan
over a year ago

France

I use winks, and I always respond to winks. They are there for a purpose. Why would the Webmasters put a wink facility on the site without a reason.

If I've seen your profile, like it, I'll wink. My way of saying "I like you, look at me if you want to". If someone winks me back, then I'll write and get into dialogue with them. I've met quite a few people like that, and they've all turned out to be very nice.

It's a tool, use it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I use winks, and I always respond to winks. They are there for a purpose. Why would the Webmasters put a wink facility on the site without a reason.

If I've seen your profile, like it, I'll wink. My way of saying "I like you, look at me if you want to". If someone winks me back, then I'll write and get into dialogue with them. I've met quite a few people like that, and they've all turned out to be very nice.

It's a tool, use it."

oooh I so like the way you put that last sentence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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The point is fine for people who prefer to know who is interested but don't want to answer lots of messages. For others they think they are a lazy way of showing interest. It is amusing though that some who prefer messages will ignore them and not reply. So in reality its horses for courses as you will not please everyone."

I always reply to messages whether I'm interested or not, unless I receive a first message telling me that the person sending it wants to f**k me or what they want to do to me but to be fair I say on my profile any messages like this will not get a reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never look at mine, just mass delete them once in a while"

Same here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never look at mine, just mass delete them once in a while

Same here!"

bet you will sneak a peek soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I seldom respond to winks, unless I consider the other person exceptional.

I don't send winks. If I like what I see, I'll send a cheeky message instead of a wink.

Flattery works on gents too I find!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I seldom respond to winks, unless I consider the other person exceptional.

I don't send winks. If I like what I see, I'll send a cheeky message instead of a wink.

Flattery works on gents too I find! "

not arf!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never look at mine, just mass delete them once in a while

Same here!

bet you will sneak a peek soon. "

Nope: never do: don't browse profiles, look at galleries, go into chat...blimey all those site functions I don't use after all the effort put in by the Webmaster: he must be gutted I'm not using his tool: my bad!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I seldom respond to winks, unless I consider the other person exceptional.

I don't send winks. If I like what I see, I'll send a cheeky message instead of a wink.

Flattery works on gents too I find!

not arf! "

One cannot but agree don't you know!

*bows low and exits stage left*

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I love winks,saves me a whole lot of hassle if I get a wink from a decent profile

I don't feel guilty if I ignore them and just see them as a bit of cheeky fun

I can see why others hate them though but they don't bother me at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love winks,saves me a whole lot of hassle if I get a wink from a decent profile

I don't feel guilty if I ignore them and just see them as a bit of cheeky fun

I can see why others hate them though but they don't bother me at all

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ditto to that. We use them as just another tool for establishing contact. It's no different to flashing a smile at someone you fancy in the street, shops etc. It works for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sending unsolicited messages is not a productive use of my time.

I read profiles and don't send one liners or copy 'n' paste messages, but I would say for every 20 messages I've sent, 15 are deleted or ignored, 3 get 'no thanks' as a reply and 2 get some kind of positive response that may or may not lead anywhere.

Sending 20 messages takes about an hour and that's on top of the time it takes to find 20 people I'd like to speak to.

So if I need to initiate contact with anyone, chances are it'll start with a wink.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Have you done the same statistical analysis on your winks?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you done the same statistical analysis on your winks?"

I'm saving that for Saturday night.

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