FabSwingers.com forum: Well I never!

By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

What would people you know say if they found out you were here doing what you do?

Keep it light.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fact I'm watching tv or the fact I'm a member of a swinging site?

Either way I doubt they'd bat an eyelid.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"The fact I'm watching tv or the fact I'm a member of a swinging site?

Either way I doubt they'd bat an eyelid."

You're watching a t-girl?

The swingy thingy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They'd probably just think that i'm a filthy whore

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

I don't think people would be shocked. I think my parents would make jokes about how I can't get a boyfriend full time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're fine with it, just say, be careful.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Nothing would surprise our friends .... they even joke about us swinging .

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By *icky999Man
over a year ago

warrington

they'd tell me to stop trolling the forums and go get laid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The fact I'm watching tv or the fact I'm a member of a swinging site?

Either way I doubt they'd bat an eyelid.

You're watching a t-girl?

The swingy thingy.

I'm watching Kick Ass 2...

Quite a few close friends know I'm a swingle (is that the accepted term still?) and I doubt any other friends would be particularly bothered.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They would probably be a lil shocked but they were ok with me telling them I'm bi so might not be too bad

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Definitely Shocked.. After all I'm old they think I sit and knit and play Farmville.

My work buddy thinks im hilarious however.

I have got her into Lovehoney and she has bought a body stocking and a basque.

The scratchy pastry cutter wheel is her secret santa this year

I will burst when she opens that in front of the rest of the staff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mum kinda clocked on when I was home and my phone never stopped beeping and then seen me on here hahaha she is happy long as I am

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Definitely Shocked.. After all I'm old they think I sit and knit and play Farmville.

My work buddy thinks im hilarious however.

I have got her into Lovehoney and she has bought a body stocking and a basque.

The scratchy pastry cutter wheel is her secret santa this year

I will burst when she opens that in front of the rest of the staff

Does she bake?

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

"Nothing would surprise our friends .... they even joke about us swinging .

I had this from my brother's friends on Saturday

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

"Definitely Shocked.. After all I'm old they think I sit and knit and play Farmville.

My work buddy thinks im hilarious however.

I have got her into Lovehoney and she has bought a body stocking and a basque.

The scratchy pastry cutter wheel is her secret santa this year

I will burst when she opens that in front of the rest of the staff

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

They would be unsurprised, I suspect

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

There must be people on here who look and act innocent out there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My friends would be disappointed that I haven't got involved more and my family would just probably think I'm more of a hippy than they already do (I'm pretty liberal/left leaning compared to them).

I imagine everyone would be fairly curious.

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By *tratfordladMan
over a year ago

Stratford upon avon

They would be suprised I'm think. But who knows

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

"There must be people on here who look and act innocent out there.

I'm the family angel

can do no wrong. They think I'm internet dating

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By *icky999Man
over a year ago

warrington

"There must be people on here who look and act innocent out there.

ive met a social worker, school teacher and a lawyer.

it takes all sorts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of my friends know..as does my family so the rest who find out tbh I don't really care what they think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually have no idea. Some of my closest friends would probably say they knew before I did. They know I'm a little nympho

Mrs. X

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"What would people you know say if they found out you were here doing what you do?

Keep it light.

You know me, what would you say?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send the cardiac awards into overload ??

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"What would people you know say if they found out you were here doing what you do?

Keep it light.

You know me, what would you say?"

Well, I know you scared the living daylights out of both Ryan and me when you explained your more extreme side.

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By *ongtalljonMan
over a year ago

North Wales

Workmates would probably give me a pat on the back and be impressed, just like they were when they found out I'd been dogging once.

Can't say that family would be impressed though...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There must be people on here who look and act innocent out there.

I'm the family angel

can do no wrong. They think I'm internet dating

I'm not the family angel but they do think I'm internet dating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They would say I need to go back to church. Being I was raised in a very religious household.

On a side note , I gave my mother my old iPad.

Forgetting that all my apple products were link together. I got offered sex addiction counseling after she look at my photo stream

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

"There must be people on here who look and act innocent out there.

I'm the family angel

can do no wrong. They think I'm internet dating

I'm not the family angel but they do think I'm internet dating

Only my best friend knows oh & a cousin who is on here with her partner & recognised me from my pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some friends know and our grown up kids.

Our kids are fine about it,we are always doing rather odd things so we don't seem to be able to surprise them any more, or so our daughter said when she turned on the news and there were her mum and dad cycling naked around Piccadilly Circus on one of the naked bike rides.

It's useful to tell them we are going out and where as a bit of a safety thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr's family know we're here and swing and I don't see mine so I wouldn't really care if they new

Would prefer friend not to know though

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"They would say I need to go back to church. Being I was raised in a very religious household.

On a side note , I gave my mother my old iPad.

Forgetting that all my apple products were link together. I got offered sex addiction counseling after she look at my photo stream

Did you take her up on the offer?

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Mr's family know we're here and swing and I don't see mine so I wouldn't really care if they new

Would prefer friend not to know though "

This isn't so much about who knows but what those friends you would rather not know finding out. What would be their reaction, do you think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mr's family know we're here and swing and I don't see mine so I wouldn't really care if they new

Would prefer friend not to know though

This isn't so much about who knows but what those friends you would rather not know finding out. What would be their reaction, do you think?

They would probably be mortified

2 aquantences at work know though, 1 its never been spoke about with and the other we talk about it sometimes when we see each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably 'Always said the quiet ones are the worst'

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

"There must be people on here who look and act innocent out there.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"There must be people on here who look and act innocent out there.

Except... you're always naked.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

True but that is not a shock to anyone.. Everyone knows I dont wear clothes

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"What would people you know say if they found out you were here doing what you do?

Keep it light.

They'd say I'd taken my workplace flirting several steps too far and I ought to be ashamed of myself and what have I been doing?

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Oh most of them would be appalled lol!

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By *huramMan
over a year ago

London

I'm a priest.

My flock would not be impressed.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"What would people you know say if they found out you were here doing what you do?

Keep it light.

You know me, what would you say?

Well, I know you scared the living daylights out of both Ryan and me when you explained your more extreme side.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They would say I need to go back to church. Being I was raised in a very religious household.

On a side note , I gave my mother my old iPad.

Forgetting that all my apple products were link together. I got offered sex addiction counseling after she look at my photo stream

Did you take her up on the offer?

No , I just took the iPad and bought her a new one . We never spoke about it again... She is very very conservative

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There must be people on here who look and act innocent out there.

My friends would never believe I've had sex with the lights on.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"There must be people on here who look and act innocent out there.

Yes, me, with some people.

Some people know what I'm like. Other people think I'm a bit uptight and repressed.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

"They would say I need to go back to church. Being I was raised in a very religious household.

On a side note , I gave my mother my old iPad.

Forgetting that all my apple products were link together. I got offered sex addiction counseling after she look at my photo stream

Did you take her up on the offer?

No , I just took the iPad and bought her a new one . We never spoke about it again... She is very very conservative "

That is how the family view me... Conservative.

The older crew that is

cousins etc.

My daughter has been told to take all my *stuff and wipe it if I peg it. Would hate to cause heart attacks.

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By *ex_OnTheBeachCouple
over a year ago

kent ( by the seaside )

They would never believe us! We are far to prim & proper

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"True but that is not a shock to anyone.. Everyone knows I dont wear clothes

That's still an unusual thing whatever your age, even in this day and age.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"They would never believe us! We are far to prim & proper

If you say so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My closest friends know, as does my mother and one of my daughters. All are cool with it (obviously after the 101 questions they asked) so alls good!

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"My closest friends know, as does my mother and one of my daughters. All are cool with it (obviously after the 101 questions they asked) so alls good!"

Would the people who don't know suspect?

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

my friends know, my older kids know, my parents know im dating non exclusively..

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

some of my family are curious as to what happens in clubs and at parties, so I tell them, other family members think I'm a prostitute

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By *ex_OnTheBeachCouple
over a year ago

kent ( by the seaside )

"They would never believe us! We are far to prim & proper

If you say so.

I do say so

None of our vanilla friends know at all!

And I very much doubt they would ever guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My closest friends know, as does my mother and one of my daughters. All are cool with it (obviously after the 101 questions they asked) so alls good!

Would the people who don't know suspect?

The most important people in my life all know, so wouldn't bother me if anyone else suspected.

The only person who don't know is my youngest daughter but she's 22 and has a "FWB" herself so nah, don't think she'd mind either!!

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"some of my family are curious as to what happens in clubs and at parties, so I tell them, other family members think I'm a prostitute"

Why would they think that?

I found the curiosity about clubs and parties was fairly surface (no one wants or expects details) and lasted no more than a few weeks.

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"They would never believe us! We are far to prim & proper

If you say so.

I do say so

None of our vanilla friends know at all!

And I very much doubt they would ever guess

Even when they found my strange name in your phone?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"They would say I need to go back to church. Being I was raised in a very religious household.

On a side note , I gave my mother my old iPad.

Forgetting that all my apple products were link together. I got offered sex addiction counseling after she look at my photo stream

Did you take her up on the offer?

No , I just took the iPad and bought her a new one . We never spoke about it again... She is very very conservative

That is how the family view me... Conservative.

The older crew that is

cousins etc.

My daughter has been told to take all my *stuff and wipe it if I peg it. Would hate to cause heart attacks."

I have arranged for my toy bags and BDSM stuff to go to a friend to sort out if I die. All the relevant bags and boxes are labelled to say they are not to be opened and they are to be sent directly to my friend.

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By *ex_OnTheBeachCouple
over a year ago

kent ( by the seaside )

"They would never believe us! We are far to prim & proper

If you say so.

I do say so

None of our vanilla friends know at all!

And I very much doubt they would ever guess

Even when they found my strange name in your phone?

Oh blimey yes!! That was my daughter!

"Mum... Someone called lickety is calling you" just told her it was a nick name

so yes still no one suspects us

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"They would never believe us! We are far to prim & proper

If you say so.

I do say so

None of our vanilla friends know at all!

And I very much doubt they would ever guess

Even when they found my strange name in your phone?

Oh blimey yes!! That was my daughter!

"Mum... Someone called lickety is calling you" just told her it was a nick name

so yes still no one suspects us

I'm sure your prim and proper front is intact.

Those that know I am here and what I do were just grateful I stopped being celibate and felt well enough to throw myself into this. When others have found out they have been surprised and commented that they assumed the cleavage was as far as it went.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suspect one or two friends would disapprove but most would enjoy having a good gossip ! I don't know what my family would think if I was outed. They probably wouldn't believe I was capable of such risqué behaviour

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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I suspect one or two friends would disapprove but most would enjoy having a good gossip ! I don't know what my family would think if I was outed. They probably wouldn't believe I was capable of such risqué behaviour

Being gossip fodder provides a useful public service. It saves someone else from having to be the target.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a few ppl i know actually know im on here my mum being one of them she just tells me to be careful and not to let my dad find out cuz he wud kill me hehe

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