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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why is it when your profile clearly states a specific preference guys still contact you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because that's fab unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

they are thick, havent read and think you will just say yes for a cock pic

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

Mine states I'm not meeting as as I'm in hospital but it doesn't stop them ask I'm asking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

can i visit on the ward i have a nurses outfit

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

block guys and do the searching

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine states I'm not meeting as as I'm in hospital but it doesn't stop them ask I'm asking "

I am very adept with a stethoscope and bed bath

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Why is it when your profile clearly states a specific preference guys still contact you "

Depending on what preference your talking about, filters might be the answer.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

If you asked them, (I have on occasion), they would probably say, 'Don't ask, don't get. It was worth a try'.

It's not an attitude I understand myself but maybe guys think differently.

I read a study a while ago that said men will apply for a job if they have 40% of the requirements, whereas women tend to only apply for jobs where they have 100% of the requirements, or exceed what is being asked for.

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock


"Why is it when your profile clearly states a specific preference guys still contact you "

You can set filters on your profile to a certain degree to rule out certain groups in terms of gender or certain age groups. I see you've not been on the site long so good luck with it and enjoy the site and make the most of the features and tools the site provides to make your experience here more enjoyable..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maibe you are the only local to them lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it when your profile clearly states a specific preference guys still contact you "

Before I came out, I had to apply filters for peace and quiet. Some people just see a picture and go for it. That was my style once upon a time, however, I also had to lie about my age at the time lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it when your profile clearly states a specific preference guys still contact you "

Because they can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens to us all the time we politely decline then they deny being Bi anyway. We just accept it as part of the sites quirks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your age range states 18-99

Yet in your profile text it states

18-35 for single guys.

I mailed cos I cone under the first preference and I red your original profile.

Maybe clarify that point and you won't have idiots mailing you xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've also cam across many profiles that express a want for a specific type of guy etc..

If I fall into that category I do get a bit miffed when my message is simply deleted and I don't even get a no thanks reply..

Just shows that some people don't know what they want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your age range states 18-99

Yet in your profile text it states

18-35 for single guys.

I mailed cos I cone under the first preference and I red your original profile.

Maybe clarify that point and you won't have idiots mailing you xxx"

*come

*read

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I've also cam across many profiles that express a want for a specific type of guy etc..

If I fall into that category I do get a bit miffed when my message is simply deleted and I don't even get a no thanks reply..

Just shows that some people don't know what they want"

Or that some people can't understand that even though someone may think they fit specified criteria, someone else may not agree.

Or perhaps you do fit the criteria but they just don't fancy you.

Defining characteristics you tend to like doesn't mean you'll fancy everyone with those characteristics, not even if they have all of them.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

It always amuses me when guys are so convinced someone should want them that when they're rejected it because the other party doesn't know what they want.

Yes they do, and they don't want you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

90% of the messages/Winks I used to receive were from Woman who didn't meet my preference, I used to ignore the winks but send a polite no thank you message back to the messages,

Obviously not in the numbers Women receive but I still got them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It always amuses me when guys are so convinced someone should want them that when they're rejected it because the other party doesn't know what they want.

Yes they do, and they don't want you."

Helps if you use the reply+quote button

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've also cam across many profiles that express a want for a specific type of guy etc..

If I fall into that category I do get a bit miffed when my message is simply deleted and I don't even get a no thanks reply..

Just shows that some people don't know what they want"

You might fit what they're looking for but maybe you weren't their type looks wise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People don't read profiles lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People do lie on their profiles to be fair.

I don't, but I know some that do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People do lie on their profiles to be fair.

I don't, but I know some that do."

Lie/exaggerate or simply say what they think people want to read

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock


"Your age range states 18-99

Yet in your profile text it states

18-35 for single guys.

I mailed cos I cone under the first preference and I red your original profile.

Maybe clarify that point and you won't have idiots mailing you xxx"

OP is a newbie to the site, only been on here a couple of weeks, maybe she needs some time to settle in and get used to how the site works before tweaking profile. I often chop and change little bits of mine and I've been on here over a year now.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Block them all and take the iniative yourself.

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