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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi I am struggling to get a full erection. Does anyone have any tips or advice please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just now or always?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I can get an erection but not as hard as I used to. This is most of the time

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I can get an erection but not as hard as I used to. This is most of the time "

This may be age related.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd go to the Drs for a chat/check up. It could be stress or psychological. I can assure you you are not alone and a patient, understanding playmate/partner can help.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I did see a doctor he suggested viagra. But they want 30 pounds for a prescription.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes when you get to 30plus, you will start to lose the erection.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know but you see some guys on here in late 50s that don't seem to have any problems.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cos it varies and could be genetics lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well any suggestions on supplements that may help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't viagra classified as a normal drug and should be available at the normal prescription price? Talk about a tax on sex!

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I know but you see some guys on here in late 50s that don't seem to have any problems. "

No man gets quite as hard at 40 as he did at 20. But there are other benefits, experience and patience rather than being cock-led and just desperate to get laid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi I am struggling to get a full erection. Does anyone have any tips or advice please."

It can be stress related, or tiredness, when i`m tired mr willy nods off first, try some herbal remedies first as their are no side effects. Hawthorn berry, Ginko biloba and L arginine are helpful, Horny goat is another herb that is supposed to help. look them up. Korean Ginseng is good for tiredness, but go easy on it.

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By *amesB66Man
over a year ago

St Peter Port

Viagra can be classed as a private prescription so you have to pay the true cost of the medication. Worth double checking with GP re cause and looking to treat that rather than the symptom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know but you see some guys on here in late 50s that don't seem to have any problems.

No man gets quite as hard at 40 as he did at 20. But there are other benefits, experience and patience rather than being cock-led and just desperate to get laid."

That's just not true. Some have trouble, plenty don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look at your stress, food and exercise first.

Do a Google search for testosterone boosting foods, drink more water, less caffeine and less alcohol. Get a bit more exercise done and try and not put pressure on yourself. Last point is easier said than done, I know, especially if your little fella isn't playing! But that alone could be the cause.

I would look at those things first before drugs. You could even try "edging" where for a week or longer when you masturbate you don't let yourself climax. See how close you can get each time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes when you get to 30plus, you will start to lose the erection."

That's just horseshit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's one of those things where the more you think about it the worse it gets.

Talk to your GP or get a cock ring.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes when you get to 30plus, you will start to lose the erection.

That's just horseshit. "

I almost guessed your age just from your replies,lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes when you get to 30plus, you will start to lose the erection."

Shag, are you just fishing for old blokes to send you erection pics to prove you wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's one of those things where the more you think about it the worse it gets."

From experience, this is genuine. (all better now though )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes when you get to 30plus, you will start to lose the erection."

I must still be in my twenties then

Back to the op .... it can be a multiple if factors but often a change in lifestyle. Has anything changed recently?

Diet, work, personal life ?

It's worth looking at any and ask if these aspects

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of it is in the head. If your mind wanders onto unsexy things then you can start to lose an erection. When younger, just someone touching it can send it mental, but older guys need mental sexual stimulation as well as physical. This is why worrying about it can make it worse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of it is in the head. If your mind wanders onto unsexy things then you can start to lose an erection. When younger, just someone touching it can send it mental, but older guys need mental sexual stimulation as well as physical. This is why worrying about it can make it worse. "
thats quite a good bit of advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age diet health and mental wellbeing could be the factor.

Ask your doctor to check your Testosterone levels they naturally lower. I was prescribed Test due to tiredness and now have the healthy levels of a late teen. One of the side affects is an erection you could break bricks with. Not sure if the NHS prescribe test for this though as mines via a private doc.

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock


"Well any suggestions on supplements that may help."

Gold max blue pill, or kamagra oral jellies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes when you get to 30plus, you will start to lose the erection.

That's just horseshit.

I almost guessed your age just from your replies,lol "

I honestly don't know WHAT you mean!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not something I tend to have a problem with.

The more turned on, I am, the bigger and stiffer the erection.

The only time I have had the problem of having to coax him into life, was when I wasn't feeling it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know but you see some guys on here in late 50s that don't seem to have any problems.

No man gets quite as hard at 40 as he did at 20. But there are other benefits, experience and patience rather than being cock-led and just desperate to get laid."

I'd have to disagree with this. Mr L is past the 40 mark and he is raring to go. He just said the only difference is he is better at using them now than he was then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I did see a doctor he suggested viagra. But they want 30 pounds for a prescription."

So long as you have seen a doctor and had an all clear for any health problems and told your ok to use them you can buy Viagra from a few places, most swinging clubs will sell them and off the internet

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I accept I have two brains .. Sometimes the cockbrain doesn't do what the head brain wants .. But if I'm patient .. It gets the message quite quickly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Age diet health and mental wellbeing could be the factor.

Ask your doctor to check your Testosterone levels they naturally lower. I was prescribed Test due to tiredness and now have the healthy levels of a late teen. One of the side affects is an erection you could break bricks with. Not sure if the NHS prescribe test for this though as mines via a private doc. "

Did they prescribe injections or the gel?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Worrying about this sort of thing can exacerbate the problem.

Kamagra, (generic Viagra) can be a temporary solution during times of stress, being generally run-down or anxious, and is quickly and readily available. Just Google it!

It's a vasodilator which undeniably improves the degree of 'hardness' in the corpus spongiosum tissue of the penis.

For a price! It may well turn out that it makes more sense to pay thirty pounds for a prescription, depending on the quantity prescribed.

Xxxx

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