FabSwingers.com forum: fakes!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well ive just had a message from a nice looking women i replyed saying why arnt you verified by photo? She then said she has only just joined. I looked at her profile and she joined a week ago!

So i sent a reply saying youve been here a week it only takes a few minutes. I havent heard anything since! Before you say she may not want to have her face pics on the site, her profile pic is a facepic. Why do people make profiles? It annoys me to think a pervy guy thinks we are going to fall for it! lads five it up it just clogs the site up with fake profiles and innocent pics of people are being shared!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not photo verified, don't think it necessary...

Am I fake?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm not photo verified, don't think it necessary...

Am I fake?"

No but your verified by meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We been here years,never ever photo verified,we must be fakes as well.perhaps I should start a thread saying how fake we are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't mean its a fake profile. Maybe she didn't like being asked that? Either way, either avoid non verified profiles or block them in your filters.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We been here years,never ever photo verified,we must be fakes as well.perhaps I should start a thread saying how fake we are."

Would you put facepics on your profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I had only been on a week and someone questioned me like that - not responding would probably have been the politest option

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op can I ask why you are not photo verified if you feel it is so important ?

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By *angerousEyesMan
over a year ago

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"If I had only been on a week and someone questioned me like that - not responding would probably have been the politest option

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You got to remember we were all newbies once and I know the longer we are on here the more cynical we get but give the newbies a chance hay x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well ive just had a message from a nice looking women i replyed saying why arnt you verified by photo? She then said she has only just joined. I looked at her profile and she joined a week ago!

Maybe you've not heard anything because she's offended by your suggestion she's fake?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If I had only been on a week and someone questioned me like that - not responding would probably have been the politest option

I asked a question whats the harm? I wasnt rude in the message..

So im not allowed to ask a question like that? if your not bothered in exposing your face on the site whats the big issue in being photo verified. Gives people that tiny bit more piece of mind there chatting to that person, in MY opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We been here years,never ever photo verified,we must be fakes as well.perhaps I should start a thread saying how fake we are.

Would you put facepics on your profile?"

Not even fake ones but then that's our choice

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Op can I ask why you are not photo verified if you feel it is so important ? "

Because i dont like to share my facepics. Thats why i dont have any on my profile to the public. Where as she did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Op can I ask why you are not photo verified if you feel it is so important ? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Op can I ask why you are not photo verified if you feel it is so important ?

Because i dont like to share my facepics. Thats why i dont have any on my profile to the public. Where as she did."

Being photo verified does not necessarily have to include your face. Full nude body is acceptable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Op can I ask why you are not photo verified if you feel it is so important ?

Because i dont like to share my facepics. Thats why i dont have any on my profile to the public. Where as she did."

But your photo verification isn't public? It doesn't even appear in your private pictures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Op can I ask why you are not photo verified if you feel it is so important ?

Because i dont like to share my facepics. Thats why i dont have any on my profile to the public. Where as she did.

Being photo verified does not necessarily have to include your face. Full nude body is acceptable. "

So therefore, you could do a body shot for verification and still put fake face pics up. It means nothing really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Op can I ask why you are not photo verified if you feel it is so important ?

Because i dont like to share my facepics. Thats why i dont have any on my profile to the public. Where as she did.

But your photo verification isn't public? It doesn't even appear in your private pictures"

bit of double standards here with the op

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I'm not photo verified, nor will I ever be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Op can I ask why you are not photo verified if you feel it is so important ?

Because i dont like to share my facepics. Thats why i dont have any on my profile to the public. Where as she did.

Being photo verified does not necessarily have to include your face. Full nude body is acceptable.

So therefore, you could do a body shot for verification and still put fake face pics up. It means nothing really."

Well a bloke would probably have to wear Tina's boobs as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Op can I ask why you are not photo verified if you feel it is so important ?

Because i dont like to share my facepics. Thats why i dont have any on my profile to the public. Where as she did.

Being photo verified does not necessarily have to include your face. Full nude body is acceptable. "

Wow can u!? What's the point of photo verification then!?

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

"I'm not photo verified, nor will I ever be."

Me neither and Admin havent thrown me off the site yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Op can I ask why you are not photo verified if you feel it is so important ?

Because i dont like to share my facepics. Thats why i dont have any on my profile to the public. Where as she did.

Being photo verified does not necessarily have to include your face. Full nude body is acceptable.

Wow can u!? What's the point of photo verification then!?

It is just to add a bit more substance to confirm you are the same sex as what your profile states.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not photo verified, nor will I ever be.

Me neither and Admin havent thrown me off the site yet

Only because they are scared of you Jez

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Op can I ask why you are not photo verified if you feel it is so important ?

Because i dont like to share my facepics. Thats why i dont have any on my profile to the public. Where as she did.

Being photo verified does not necessarily have to include your face. Full nude body is acceptable. "

I dont need to photo verify myself though. I got a cam verification when i joined to prove i was genuine. Your cant compare it to me as im not unverified

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Photo verification means very little to us as our ways of determining whether a profile is fake or not go beyond that. One, if not the very best meet we've had was with an unphoto verified male, quite a popular one and we know first hand exactly why.

It's not for us to tell you how to ask folk what you'd like to know and in fairness we wouldn't have replied but if we would have it would have been very polite and a hint at a face pic with ours attached to encourage trust, no amicable reply back with a face pic and we would have moved on tbh.

Him

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Also 3 words as a description on profile looking for people from 18-99

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Also 3 words as a description on profile looking for people from 18-99"

Just block non verified people from messaging you if it bothers you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Photo verification means very little to us as our ways of determining whether a profile is fake or not go beyond that. One, if not the very best meet we've had was with an unphoto verified male, quite a popular one and we know first hand exactly why.

Him"

Was the un-photoverified male verified by meet? Im not onabout people what are verified by meet and not photo verified. Im on about people who are not verified by meets and arnt photo verified either

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I'm not photo verified, nor will I ever be.

Me neither and Admin havent thrown me off the site yet

Only because they are scared of you Jez

They've not chucked me off either

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Also 3 words as a description on profile looking for people from 18-99

Just block non verified people from messaging you if it bothers you."

No because ive spoken to unverified people and have gone on cam etc to see they are who the say they are. This women didnt give me chance to ask to cam etc instead of a photo veri.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Op can I ask why you are not photo verified if you feel it is so important ?

Because i dont like to share my facepics. Thats why i dont have any on my profile to the public. Where as she did.

Being photo verified does not necessarily have to include your face. Full nude body is acceptable.

I dont need to photo verify myself though. I got a cam verification when i joined to prove i was genuine. Your cant compare it to me as im not unverified "

You do realise there are shit loads of fake cam veris floating around as well?

Don't get me wrong I'm not saying this person was genuine. It's entirely your call, and your common sense decision to make.

However I do feel it's a bit pot, kettle, black.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Maybe she didn't feel so desperate for a meet she was willing to do something she didn't want to do because you thought she should.

I'd be unimpressed to be told by anyone else that I should get photo verified.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being photo verified takes only a few minutes. Yes they can be faked yada yada yada, some people don't see the need yada yada yada. Wouldn't arrange a meet with anyone not photo verified, it's not the be all and end all but for us at least it's a minimum. Including you OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Also 3 words as a description on profile looking for people from 18-99

Just block non verified people from messaging you if it bothers you.

No because ive spoken to unverified people and have gone on cam etc to see they are who the say they are. This women didnt give me chance to ask to cam etc instead of a photo veri. "

That's fair enough but you have to accept you might have an increased chance of fakes contacting you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Op can I ask why you are not photo verified if you feel it is so important ?

Because i dont like to share my facepics. Thats why i dont have any on my profile to the public. Where as she did.

Being photo verified does not necessarily have to include your face. Full nude body is acceptable.

I dont need to photo verify myself though. I got a cam verification when i joined to prove i was genuine. Your cant compare it to me as im not unverified

You do realise there are shit loads of fake cam veris floating around as well?

Don't get me wrong I'm not saying this person was genuine. It's entirely your call, and your common sense decision to make.

However I do feel it's a bit pot, kettle, black. "

Yes but if i had seen them on cam id k own they where real. Also im not just cam verified am i?

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Him

Was the un-photoverified male verified by meet? Im not onabout people what are verified by meet and not photo verified. Im on about people who are not verified by meets and arnt photo verified either"

Yes, lots.

From your opening post couldn't tell you meant unverified too, no probs, have fun on the site.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Op can I ask why you are not photo verified if you feel it is so important ?

Because i dont like to share my facepics. Thats why i dont have any on my profile to the public. Where as she did.

Being photo verified does not necessarily have to include your face. Full nude body is acceptable.

I dont need to photo verify myself though. I got a cam verification when i joined to prove i was genuine. Your cant compare it to me as im not unverified

You do realise there are shit loads of fake cam veris floating around as well?

Don't get me wrong I'm not saying this person was genuine. It's entirely your call, and your common sense decision to make.

However I do feel it's a bit pot, kettle, black.

Yes but if i had seen them on cam id k own they where real. Also im not just cam verified am i? "

Were you after your first week here?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Op can I ask why you are not photo verified if you feel it is so important ?

Because i dont like to share my facepics. Thats why i dont have any on my profile to the public. Where as she did.

Being photo verified does not necessarily have to include your face. Full nude body is acceptable.

I dont need to photo verify myself though. I got a cam verification when i joined to prove i was genuine. Your cant compare it to me as im not unverified

You do realise there are shit loads of fake cam veris floating around as well?

Don't get me wrong I'm not saying this person was genuine. It's entirely your call, and your common sense decision to make.

However I do feel it's a bit pot, kettle, black.

Yes but if i had seen them on cam id k own they where real. Also im not just cam verified am i?

Were you after your first week here?"

On cam yes. And if i wasnt and id messaged someone who i fancied and theyasked me to cam as they where unsure i was real i would of done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyhow, in answer to your original question as I forgot that

I have no idea why people do it. Probably for cheap sexual chat kicks, which they maybe wouldn't get as a male profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not photo verified, I won't cam and I wouldn't jump through hoops for people who expected me to. I also wouldn't have answered your questions of why. You contacted her so surely you knew these things?

And a week really isn't that long to find your feet on here!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Op can I ask why you are not photo verified if you feel it is so important ?

Because i dont like to share my facepics. Thats why i dont have any on my profile to the public. Where as she did.

Being photo verified does not necessarily have to include your face. Full nude body is acceptable.

I dont need to photo verify myself though. I got a cam verification when i joined to prove i was genuine. Your cant compare it to me as im not unverified

You do realise there are shit loads of fake cam veris floating around as well?

Don't get me wrong I'm not saying this person was genuine. It's entirely your call, and your common sense decision to make.

However I do feel it's a bit pot, kettle, black.

Yes but if i had seen them on cam id k own they where real. Also im not just cam verified am i?

Were you after your first week here?

On cam yes. And if i wasnt and id messaged someone who i fancied and theyasked me to cam as they where unsure i was real i would of done"

She may not have found the chatrooms. She may be connecting via a 'phone or tablet and not able to use the chat rooms. She may not be particularly technically proficient. She may have been overwhelmed by messages and not had time to find out about verifications.

She didn't meet your requirements so I don't see why it matters that she didn't reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And just to add another perspective, even with verification from meets, people still thought I was fake as single bi fems never contact anyone apparently.

(I misread your post and realised she contacted you)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Op can I ask why you are not photo verified if you feel it is so important ?

Because i dont like to share my facepics. Thats why i dont have any on my profile to the public. Where as she did.

Being photo verified does not necessarily have to include your face. Full nude body is acceptable.

I dont need to photo verify myself though. I got a cam verification when i joined to prove i was genuine. Your cant compare it to me as im not unverified "

Cam verifications mean nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just out of curiosity. Was she called Albert?

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

"I'm not photo verified, nor will I ever be.

Me neither and Admin havent thrown me off the site yet

Only because they are scared of you Jez

And rightly so

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Op can I ask why you are not photo verified if you feel it is so important ?

Because i dont like to share my facepics. Thats why i dont have any on my profile to the public. Where as she did.

Being photo verified does not necessarily have to include your face. Full nude body is acceptable.

I dont need to photo verify myself though. I got a cam verification when i joined to prove i was genuine. Your cant compare it to me as im not unverified

You do realise there are shit loads of fake cam veris floating around as well?

Don't get me wrong I'm not saying this person was genuine. It's entirely your call, and your common sense decision to make.

However I do feel it's a bit pot, kettle, black.

Yes but if i had seen them on cam id k own they where real. Also im not just cam verified am i?

Were you after your first week here?

On cam yes. And if i wasnt and id messaged someone who i fancied and theyasked me to cam as they where unsure i was real i would of done

She didn't meet your requirements so I don't see why it matters that she didn't reply. "

She didnt give me chance to ask to cam as i stated earlier in this thread. Im sure if she is capable to upload pictures she knows how to use technology, ahe wasnt old she was in her late 20's.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Op can I ask why you are not photo verified if you feel it is so important ?

Because i dont like to share my facepics. Thats why i dont have any on my profile to the public. Where as she did.

Being photo verified does not necessarily have to include your face. Full nude body is acceptable.

I dont need to photo verify myself though. I got a cam verification when i joined to prove i was genuine. Your cant compare it to me as im not unverified

Cam verifications mean nothing"

Please read my whole thread ive stated in not just cam verified

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just out of curiosity. Was she called Albert?

Scale out of 0 to 10 probably a 9.5 out of 10 yes

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Op can I ask why you are not photo verified if you feel it is so important ?

Because i dont like to share my facepics. Thats why i dont have any on my profile to the public. Where as she did.

Being photo verified does not necessarily have to include your face. Full nude body is acceptable.

I dont need to photo verify myself though. I got a cam verification when i joined to prove i was genuine. Your cant compare it to me as im not unverified

You do realise there are shit loads of fake cam veris floating around as well?

Don't get me wrong I'm not saying this person was genuine. It's entirely your call, and your common sense decision to make.

However I do feel it's a bit pot, kettle, black.

Yes but if i had seen them on cam id k own they where real. Also im not just cam verified am i?

Were you after your first week here?

On cam yes. And if i wasnt and id messaged someone who i fancied and theyasked me to cam as they where unsure i was real i would of done

She didn't meet your requirements so I don't see why it matters that she didn't reply.

She didnt give me chance to ask to cam as i stated earlier in this thread. Im sure if she is capable to upload pictures she knows how to use technology, ahe wasnt old she was in her late 20's. "

You're saying she could have got cam verified though. She may not have known about veris and the options by then. A week isn't long, especially if you don't have a lot of time to spend on the site in that week.

There are loads of reasons someone might not be verified within their first week. It doesn't mean they are fake.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Op can I ask why you are not photo verified if you feel it is so important ?

Because i dont like to share my facepics. Thats why i dont have any on my profile to the public. Where as she did.

Being photo verified does not necessarily have to include your face. Full nude body is acceptable.

I dont need to photo verify myself though. I got a cam verification when i joined to prove i was genuine. Your cant compare it to me as im not unverified

Cam verifications mean nothing

Please read my whole thread ive stated in not just cam verified"

You've also admitted that you were after your first week here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Op can I ask why you are not photo verified if you feel it is so important ?

Because i dont like to share my facepics. Thats why i dont have any on my profile to the public. Where as she did.

Being photo verified does not necessarily have to include your face. Full nude body is acceptable.

I dont need to photo verify myself though. I got a cam verification when i joined to prove i was genuine. Your cant compare it to me as im not unverified

You do realise there are shit loads of fake cam veris floating around as well?

Don't get me wrong I'm not saying this person was genuine. It's entirely your call, and your common sense decision to make.

However I do feel it's a bit pot, kettle, black.

Yes but if i had seen them on cam id k own they where real. Also im not just cam verified am i?

Were you after your first week here?

On cam yes. And if i wasnt and id messaged someone who i fancied and theyasked me to cam as they where unsure i was real i would of done

She didn't meet your requirements so I don't see why it matters that she didn't reply.

She didnt give me chance to ask to cam as i stated earlier in this thread. Im sure if she is capable to upload pictures she knows how to use technology, ahe wasnt old she was in her late 20's.

There are loads of reasons someone might not be verified within their first week. It doesn't mean they are fake."

I said she could of come on cam to me but she didnt give me chance. When you dirst join up fabs always reminds you to get verified for a better experiance etc. So i doubt she never knew about it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Op can I ask why you are not photo verified if you feel it is so important ?

Because i dont like to share my facepics. Thats why i dont have any on my profile to the public. Where as she did.

Being photo verified does not necessarily have to include your face. Full nude body is acceptable.

I dont need to photo verify myself though. I got a cam verification when i joined to prove i was genuine. Your cant compare it to me as im not unverified

Cam verifications mean nothing

Please read my whole thread ive stated in not just cam verified

You've also admitted that you were after your first week here."
yes i did. And if she would have gone on cam with me she would of been cam verified also but never got to that stage

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Well she clearly didn't meet your criteria. I don't know if she is a she or a he from what you've said. I think either is possible.

It's probably best that you're no longer chatting.

Concentrate on those that do meet your requirements.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We been here years,never ever photo verified,we must be fakes as well.perhaps I should start a thread saying how fake we are.

Would you put facepics on your profile?"

I have, don't see anything wrong with it. At least I'm active

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"We been here years,never ever photo verified,we must be fakes as well.perhaps I should start a thread saying how fake we are.

Would you put facepics on your profile?

I have, don't see anything wrong with it. At least I'm active

I wouldn't.

Oh, wait!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes the fakes, I sometimes get contacted by someone claiming to be a couple but there really just a man. Why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually if it is a "hot" pic and not foto verified its prob a man lol.

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