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By *o-j OP   Couple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Notts

I've read a few post on here about it ( I only shag my man bare back but then again I'm only after women so my thoughts don't matter ) .

But a lot of the biggest noises about how wrong/horrid/aberrant it is and would never do it come from men .

In all my years in a job where I've met many men ( most of which have had a beer or two ) they have never mentioned how aberrant it is .

Call me cynical I have a sneaky feeling that it's said on here to look good and stand a better chance on here ....

Shoot me down in flames people .

Jo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea, only care about our own sexual health. That's all we can control.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did everyone get a message that we would all post bareback threads today and I just missed it? Or am I not cool enough to be getting these messages?

-Courtney

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By *o-j OP   Couple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Notts

The point I was trying to make is men seem a hell of a lot more Conscientiousness on here than in real life .

Jo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The point I was trying to make is men seem a hell of a lot more Conscientiousness on here than in real life .

Jo x"

maybe you met wrong ones in real life

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"The point I was trying to make is men seem a hell of a lot more Conscientiousness on here than in real life .

Jo x"

Lol. Only in public. We have met a couple of guys who "forgot" condoms despite having safe sex only on their profile and one who looked bewildered when we produced one

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Double-standards anyone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The point I was trying to make is men seem a hell of a lot more Conscientiousness on here than in real life .

Jo x"

I agree, lots of people say things on here that they maybe don't stick to irl though, I think all that I, or you, or anyone who really values their health, is do what we can to minimise the risks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The point I was trying to make is men seem a hell of a lot more Conscientiousness on here than in real life .

Jo x"

Surely that's a good thing if they're being conscientious?

I know I can be naive but it feels better than being cynical all the time

I'm responsible for me, no one else.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

everyone knows that women can pass STIs on to other women ...right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"everyone knows that women can pass STIs on to other women ...right?"

No way...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i got thrush from only going down on a bird it was painfull as hell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The Forums are full of game playing and people saying what they think others will want to hear, not just on this topic but many others too! I think women are better tuned to see through the games that other ladies play and us men can better see the games other guys play!

Never rely on anyone else for your own sexual safety, certainly not a stranger off an Internet forum however well you engage with them on PMs or the forums, and always have your own protection to hand so even if the other party 'accidently' forgets to bring some you're still protected!

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By *o-j OP   Couple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Notts


"The point I was trying to make is men seem a hell of a lot more Conscientiousness on here than in real life .

Jo x

maybe you met wrong ones in real life"

I'm talking about work and as a landlady of bars and clubs I would guess I meet ( talked to ) about 50 men a week so over 20 years thats quite a few .

Jo x

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"i got thrush from only going down on a bird it was painfull as hell"

Not on ya pecker then

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"everyone knows that women can pass STIs on to other women ...right?

No way... "

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By *o-j OP   Couple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Notts


"i got thrush from only going down on a bird it was painfull as hell

Not on ya pecker then "

No chick

Jo x

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"Did everyone get a message that we would all post bareback threads today and I just missed it? Or am I not cool enough to be getting these messages?

-Courtney"

I suspect that you may be getting larger levels of mails than others, so it's understandable that it was missed.

[/cheesy flattery]

However, now you know....

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"I've read a few post on here about it ( I only shag my man bare back but then again I'm only after women so my thoughts don't matter ) .

But a lot of the biggest noises about how wrong/horrid/aberrant it is and would never do it come from men .

In all my years in a job where I've met many men ( most of which have had a beer or two ) they have never mentioned how aberrant it is .

Call me cynical I have a sneaky feeling that it's said on here to look good and stand a better chance on here ....

Shoot me down in flames people .

Jo x"
I think you are spot on, I think many just say it as to appear sensible and free from STDs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did everyone get a message that we would all post bareback threads today and I just missed it? Or am I not cool enough to be getting these messages?

-Courtney

I suspect that you may be getting larger levels of mails than others, so it's understandable that it was missed.

[/cheesy flattery]

However, now you know...."

Better go get started on mine then....

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've read a few post on here about it ( I only shag my man bare back but then again I'm only after women so my thoughts don't matter ) .

But a lot of the biggest noises about how wrong/horrid/aberrant it is and would never do it come from men .

In all my years in a job where I've met many men ( most of which have had a beer or two ) they have never mentioned how aberrant it is .

Call me cynical I have a sneaky feeling that it's said on here to look good and stand a better chance on here ....

Shoot me down in flames people .

Jo x"
A lot of people tell a lot of porkies on the subject

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All part of the game playing, and there's some damned good players

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would imagine guys here in the swinging lifestyle are more clued up and sexual health conscious then your average Joe. I'd like to think most of us make this our choice and take pride in our decisions to reduce as much risk as possible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody lies on the Internet do they?

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By *o-j OP   Couple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Notts


"I've read a few post on here about it ( I only shag my man bare back but then again I'm only after women so my thoughts don't matter ) .

But a lot of the biggest noises about how wrong/horrid/aberrant it is and would never do it come from men .

In all my years in a job where I've met many men ( most of which have had a beer or two ) they have never mentioned how aberrant it is .

Call me cynical I have a sneaky feeling that it's said on here to look good and stand a better chance on here ....

Shoot me down in flames people .

Jo xI think you are spot on, I think many just say it as to appear sensible and free from STDs "

Thank you femme , thats what I was aiming at .

And it's also lovely to see you again , hope things are well with you .

Jo x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Nobody lies on the Internet do they? "

I certainly don't. I really am 35, 5ft 10 and a raving nymphomaniac

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"I've read a few post on here about it ( I only shag my man bare back but then again I'm only after women so my thoughts don't matter ) .

But a lot of the biggest noises about how wrong/horrid/aberrant it is and would never do it come from men .

In all my years in a job where I've met many men ( most of which have had a beer or two ) they have never mentioned how aberrant it is .

Call me cynical I have a sneaky feeling that it's said on here to look good and stand a better chance on here ....

Shoot me down in flames people .

Jo xI think you are spot on, I think many just say it as to appear sensible and free from STDs

Thank you femme , thats what I was aiming at .

And it's also lovely to see you again , hope things are well with you .

Jo x"
Back at ya sexy lady.

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By *o-j OP   Couple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Notts

It's almost like they lie just to get sex ........

Jo x

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Double-standards anyone?"

I can 100% guarantee I have never slated BB sex on here and then tried to slip my cock in ungloved on a meet.

I do know of quite a few men who do just that though.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"It's almost like they lie just to get sex ........

Jo x"
I think so, but then again people do enjoy taking the moral high ground don't they?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"It's almost like they lie just to get sex ........

Jo x"

No! Shirley not?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nobody lies on the Internet do they?

I certainly don't. I really am 35, 5ft 10 and a raving nymphomaniac "

Sounds like my kind of woman

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By *o-j OP   Couple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Notts


"It's almost like they lie just to get sex ........

Jo xI think so, but then again people do enjoy taking the moral high ground don't they?"

I would love to do just that but suffer from vertigo .

Jo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did everyone get a message that we would all post bareback threads today and I just missed it? Or am I not cool enough to be getting these messages?

-Courtney"
lol few of these threads today.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Did everyone get a message that we would all post bareback threads today and I just missed it? Or am I not cool enough to be getting these messages?

-Courtneylol few of these threads today."
There has been a few this year, its always a subject that brings differing views.

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By *o-j OP   Couple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Notts


"Did everyone get a message that we would all post bareback threads today and I just missed it? Or am I not cool enough to be getting these messages?

-Courtneylol few of these threads today.There has been a few this year, its always a subject that brings differing views."

The only view I get normally is face down in a pillow ....

Jo x

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Many, not all, of us involved in a nonstandard lifestyle are differently informed to others, and get opinions influenced by those in our communities.

In the pub etc, many are full of bravado and if it meant wear condoms or no sex, they'd probably not become abstinent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you guys here about the fab STI check on a meet?

Couple " you're clean right "

Male " yes "

Couple " ok , you don't have to use a condom "

I came to these forums because American forum have been taken over by trolls. I noticed here the cheating police , the bare back police , and the white knights infest this place. Let's all try to have a good laugh on these forums and maybe a meet.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Did you guys here about the fab STI check on a meet?

Couple " you're clean right "

Male " yes "

Couple " ok , you don't have to use a condom "

I came to these forums because American forum have been taken over by trolls. I noticed here the cheating police , the bare back police , and the white knights infest this place. Let's all try to have a good laugh on these forums and maybe a meet. "
You forgot the fashion police, and the couldn't give a fuck police.

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By *o-j OP   Couple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Notts

As someone that works in the hospitality industry ' nonstandard lifestyle's ' happens a lot more than people that swing might realise , just a lot less organised .

Jo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of people state safe sex but do something else... Not just men.

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By *o-j OP   Couple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Notts


"Did you guys here about the fab STI check on a meet?

Couple " you're clean right "

Male " yes "

Couple " ok , you don't have to use a condom "

I came to these forums because American forum have been taken over by trolls. I noticed here the cheating police , the bare back police , and the white knights infest this place. Let's all try to have a good laugh on these forums and maybe a meet. You forgot the fashion police, and the couldn't give a fuck police. "

And the I hate the police police .

Jo x

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Did you guys here about the fab STI check on a meet?

Couple " you're clean right "

Male " yes "

Couple " ok , you don't have to use a condom "

I came to these forums because American forum have been taken over by trolls. I noticed here the cheating police , the bare back police , and the white knights infest this place. Let's all try to have a good laugh on these forums and maybe a meet. You forgot the fashion police, and the couldn't give a fuck police.

And the I hate the police police .

Jo x"
I am a detective Inspector ....shoe police.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"I am a detective Inspector ....shoe police. "

Mounted division...

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"I am a detective Inspector ....shoe police.

Mounted division... "
I didn't pass the exam unfortunately.

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By *o-j OP   Couple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Notts


"Did you guys here about the fab STI check on a meet?

Couple " you're clean right "

Male " yes "

Couple " ok , you don't have to use a condom "

I came to these forums because American forum have been taken over by trolls. I noticed here the cheating police , the bare back police , and the white knights infest this place. Let's all try to have a good laugh on these forums and maybe a meet. You forgot the fashion police, and the couldn't give a fuck police.

And the I hate the police police .

Jo xI am a detective Inspector ....shoe police. "

I shall bare my sole and come to heel ....

Jo x

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"I am a detective Inspector ....shoe police.

Mounted division... I didn't pass the exam unfortunately. "

How many retakes did you go for?

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"I am a detective Inspector ....shoe police.

Mounted division... I didn't pass the exam unfortunately.

How many retakes did you go for? "
I couldn't walk straight after the first one!

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By *o-j OP   Couple
over a year ago

Outskirts of Notts


"I am a detective Inspector ....shoe police.

Mounted division... I didn't pass the exam unfortunately.

How many retakes did you go for? I couldn't walk straight after the first one! "

Note to self , don't take exams after drinking .

Jo x

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"I am a detective Inspector ....shoe police.

Mounted division... I didn't pass the exam unfortunately.

How many retakes did you go for?

I couldn't walk straight after the first one! "

I remember your walk. Keep at it, you'll recover eventually....

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