FabSwingers.com forum: Post to all the "single" males

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I saw a post (on a popular social networking site) the other day saying every couple should swap phones for 24hrs no passwords or anything, and they guarantee around 90% of them would be single after 1 day. I was probably 1 of the ones who would be single because... well I'm a flirt! (Single now for different reasons though)

What are people's opinions on this?

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

My husband can get into my phone and read what he likes

I have nothing to hide

He knows the majority of people I speak to are men and that I'm likely to be arranging meets ,talking filth or sending naughty pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My husband can get into my phone and read what he likes

I have nothing to hide

He knows the majority of people I speak to are men and that I'm likely to be arranging meets ,talking filth or sending naughty pics

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someone mention naughty pics

let's swap numbers pmslll

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course "single" males playing without their partners knowledge will totally disagree with this idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being quite open minded and honest about what we get up to I would be more turned on to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a single male....so clearly not your targeted audience. However, Marc and I often do swap phones when one of ours dies or for any other number of reasons. We don't hide anything from each other.

However, I suspect you are right. Though, it goes out to a number of the "single" women on here (and in the "real" world) too so maybe singling out the men is a tad unfair?

-Courtney

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Of course "single" males playing without their partners knowledge will totally disagree with this idea

As will the attached women who meet behind their partner's back.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I wonder how many cheats would find out their partner was also cheating.

A fair few, I suspect.

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By *nFairnessMan
over a year ago

The Four Corners

single with a partner.... right.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"single with a partner.... right."

There are thousands on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a single woman and I wouldn't give anyone my phone without deleting the majority of its contents and warning some of my contacts not to get in touch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've nowt to hide. I do sometimes get inappropriate texts, but that's people from the past. He enjoys checking my profile here, and rewriting my profile.

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By *r. JoystickMan
over a year ago

London

I'm sure you're right, but I'm sure there's a large number of truthful men, too.

I've been thrown the ol' "You can't accommodate... is that because you live with your girlfriend?" a few times. It's a shame, since I only actually live with family (not quite as exciting) - but many people just don't believe single guys.

Just try to vet and pick out those who you feel could be hiding things - if it bothers you, that is.

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By *nFairnessMan
over a year ago

The Four Corners

"single with a partner.... right.

There are thousands on here

If they are on here they aren't going to have an issue with pics msgs etc on their 'partners' phone.

Either that or they aren't single.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

90% guaranteed 'eh.

So far no one posting on here has fallen into that statistic.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm sure you're right, but I'm sure there's a large number of truthful men, too.

Just try to vet and pick out those who you feel could be hiding things - if it bothers you, that is."

It don't bother me just food for thought. And whoever pointed out women cheat too I'm sorry I discriminated against my own! It's true women do cheat most of my exes are testament to that! But I can't change the title of the thread sorry

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"90% guaranteed 'eh.

So far no one posting on here has fallen into that statistic.....

But people are hardly going to say yep I'm busted are they?

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I had nothing to hide when I was married, or indeed in any serious relationship. I just prefer life that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"90% guaranteed 'eh.

So far no one posting on here has fallen into that statistic.....

But people are hardly going to say yep I'm busted are they?"

No but people so far on here all have declared they have nothing to hide & we all know that's not true & some are happy to say.

I just wonder what a true indication the statistic is, seems very high to me that's all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a chance in hell would I let anyone look through my phone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I saw a post (on a popular social networking site) the other day saying every couple should swap phones for 24hrs no passwords or anything, and they guarantee around 90% of them would be single after 1 day. I was probably 1 of the ones who would be single because... well I'm a flirt! (Single now for different reasons though)

What are people's opinions on this?

Well your post title is erroneous.

If they are single males- who are they going to swap phones with???

And as others have said, this doesn't just apply to men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My husband can get into my phone and read what he likes

I have nothing to hide

He knows the majority of people I speak to are men and that I'm likely to be arranging meets ,talking filth or sending naughty pics

Same for us

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What are people's opinions on this?

Well your post title is erroneous.

If they are single males- who are they going to swap phones with???

And as others have said, this doesn't just apply to men."

If u read what I said a few posts back you will see I agreed but can't change thread title

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kitty could have my phone whenever she liked. Texts about work. Texts from the ex about my daughter. Phone calls are the same. Think kittys would make more interesting reading as she talks to our meets and prospective meets more then me

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Not a chance in hell would I let anyone look through my phone. "

That's pretty much my view too. Not that I have anything to hide as such and nor would I if I were in a relationship. However, there are emails etc. in my accounts that I never delete and I feel as though that's private stuff and not for the consumption of someone else. Conversations I have with my friends are private.

It's all about trust. I wouldn't feel the need to look through my partner's phone because if I didn't trust him, I wouldn't be with him.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

And if I caught him rooting through my phone it's a one strike and he's out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not a chance in hell would I let anyone look through my phone. "

This for me as well ^^

I don't understand the fascination with other people's private data. If you're looking to catch another person out it might be a good time to start looking at your relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm single & don't accommodate. I really don't think my teenage son should have to put up with men coming to a home he lives in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not a chance in hell would I let anyone look through my phone.

It's all about trust. I wouldn't feel the need to look through my partner's phone because if I didn't trust him, I wouldn't be with him. "

I had my ex's phone all night once. I wasn't even tempted to look at it. If I asked him questions he'd answer them honestly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am always showing my wife conversations had by text to people naughty ones or not...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way

I have things things on my phone that would make yer eyes water. And I'm not talking onions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of the single men on here would be.

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By *D40Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I would swap mine at any undefined time. I dont give my number out to many & any messages are sent via fab

Mrs _d40

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being a newly single woman Im finding life liberating atm it was brill going to my home town today without feeling guilty cos of an controlling husband

Now my phone is unlocked and I have nothing to hide or feel guilty about but two weeks ago was a totally different story x's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not a chance in hell would I let anyone look through my phone.

It's all about trust. I wouldn't feel the need to look through my partner's phone because if I didn't trust him, I wouldn't be with him. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No way

I have things things on my phone that would make yer eyes water. And I'm not talking onions

Oh go on, let's have a look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And if I caught him rooting through my phone it's a one strike and he's out!

And this

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Being a newly single woman Im finding life liberating atm it was brill going to my home town today without feeling guilty cos of an controlling husband

Now my phone is unlocked and I have nothing to hide or feel guilty about but two weeks ago was a totally different story x's "

Good for u hon it is rather liberating being single isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was in a relationship I'd be happy swapping phones, but then I wouldn't be on here, especially if I had kids and I was hiding anything. I wouldn't look through phones though if I was content and secure, if I was tempted to 'snoop' I'd be out of the door.

I suspect a lot of people on here probably aren't giving their full picture but that's like anything online I imagine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No way

I have things things on my phone that would make yer eyes water. And I'm not talking onions

Oh go on, let's have a look

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pervert

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No way

I have things things on my phone that would make yer eyes water. And I'm not talking onions

Oh go on, let's have a look

pervert

You say that like its a bad thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No way

I have things things on my phone that would make yer eyes water. And I'm not talking onions

Oh go on, let's have a look

pervert

You say that like its a bad thing

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no that was me complimenting you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be scared of her finding my Skybet account !!

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