FabSwingers.com forum: meeting without strings

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

ive been contacted and would love to meet but i just want to know how i can make it safe .....ie make sure theyre going to not "out me" x

theyre willing to drive and meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

ps thanks in advance for your inputx xx

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.

If they have a few verifications and have been on here a while, then they probably have as much to lose as you.... Unless they are really open and you have something to hide...

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Why not meet them in neutral space like a club, that way they dont know your address. Get yourself an app called kik for messaging on your phone without having to give out your number. Dont give out pics that could be reverse image searched back to vanilla social media. These should help minimise the risk.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

he's got a gf but says wants to dress..... like me. he has no pics, no vers, but i like to give folks the benefit. just worried.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id be worried , no pics is just a red flag

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'll ask about KIK thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Dand0501 cheers i know no pics is a warning. private messages sound good though. just trying to find a system whereby i could meet him incognito........ who says hi first

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By *aughtyMinxLikes YouWoman
over a year ago

Kettering

Meet in a public place,shopping mall coffee house is good as on CCTV.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

cheers naughtyminx

if i message him my mobile number to org anise a meet...? is that anonymous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they are too daft to put at least one pic up.. Dare say they are not wise enough to make it to a meet .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

cheers surfersea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"cheers naughtyminx

if i message him my mobile number to org anise a meet...? is that anonymous "

Google your own mobile number and see what you find. Also if it's linked to your Facebook, Instagram or anything like that. If I had any doubts I wouldn't give someone my number, just use kik.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I did a goolgle search and .....nothing

I think I might cherry tomorrow wish me lck xx

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

"cheers naughtyminx

if i message him my mobile number to org anise a meet...? is that anonymous "

Thats the whole point of KIK, you dont have to give out your mobile number

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"cheers naughtyminx

if i message him my mobile number to org anise a meet...? is that anonymous

Thats the whole point of KIK, you dont have to give out your mobile number

Just don't have your Facebook profile pic as your kik pic. Doh. Soon changed that

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Have you got an old phone? Get a sim for it and use that.

Keep most messaging on here - I don't share a mobile number at all, I do everything through pm on here.

If he won't meet in a public place for a quick coffee and plan then walk away. Being spotted in Costa Coffee chatting with someone is not getting caught out. After that plan to meet in a hotel. Book through booking dot com and look for places you can pay for on arrival in cash.

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