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"So met a girl she says she likes open relationships and to meet guys alone for nites of passion / sounds like fun / mabe mabe not / a little different to couple swinging more like a fuckbuddy / don't think she's the girl for me more like a lady of the night over to ye sexy girls and guys to solve this one / problem is she's booked out with different guys only a game to her to feel like she's wanted by different guys / good or bad answers please P " Hmmm. How would you describe a swinger? Open relationships are workable if both in the relationship are honest. My advice is be honest & tell her you are on a swinging site looking for sex with lots of people without giving a commitment. Then tell her you think she is a hooker for the way she lives her life.. Pot/kettle... Mrs _d40 | |||
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"So met a girl she says she likes open relationships and to meet guys alone for nites of passion / sounds like fun / mabe mabe not / a little different to couple swinging more like a fuckbuddy / don't think she's the girl for me more like a lady of the night over to ye sexy girls and guys to solve this one / problem is she's booked out with different guys only a game to her to feel like she's wanted by different guys / good or bad answers please P Hmmm. How would you describe a swinger? Open relationships are workable if both in the relationship are honest. My advice is be honest & tell her you are on a swinging site looking for sex with lots of people without giving a commitment. Then tell her you think she is a hooker for the way she lives her life.. Pot/kettle... Mrs _d40" This exactly | |||
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"Not sure you are the victim here, but fine - not sure why you were with her in the first place either, tbh" true, | |||
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"So met a girl she says she likes open relationships and to meet guys alone for nites of passion / sounds like fun / mabe mabe not / a little different to couple swinging more like a fuckbuddy / don't think she's the girl for me more like a lady of the night over to ye sexy girls and guys to solve this one / problem is she's booked out with different guys only a game to her to feel like she's wanted by different guys / good or bad answers please P " For some people they do, for others they don't. If you don't enjoy that relationship, then you don't have to be in it. I wouldn't have a monogamous relationship now, it's not for me. If guys don't want a poly/open relationship, then they can do out with someone else. | |||
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"she is milking me for money and meeting other guys at weekends when she should be with me" Why 'should' she be with you? You don't own her? She's never agreed to be monogamous? She's never signed a contract saying she'll always spend every weekend with you? | |||
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"she is milking me for money and meeting other guys at weekends when she should be with me Why 'should' she be with you? You don't own her? She's never agreed to be monogamous? She's never signed a contract saying she'll always spend every weekend with you?" I don't think he said he owned her so I don't see the relevance unless you are trying to be dramatic or put the guy down. | |||
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"So met a girl she says she likes open relationships and to meet guys alone for nites of passion / sounds like fun / mabe mabe not / a little different to couple swinging more like a fuckbuddy / don't think she's the girl for me more like a lady of the night over to ye sexy girls and guys to solve this one / problem is she's booked out with different guys only a game to her to feel like she's wanted by different guys / good or bad answers please P " Why not talk to her explain how you feel then she can decide if you part or work things out in some way you are both comfortable with. In the end communication between you both is the only way to go. | |||
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"she is milking me for money and meeting other guys at weekends when she should be with me Why 'should' she be with you? You don't own her? She's never agreed to be monogamous? She's never signed a contract saying she'll always spend every weekend with you? I don't think he said he owned her so I don't see the relevance unless you are trying to be dramatic or put the guy down." "When she should be with me". This implies that the guy thinks he somehow owns her time. Or she owes it to him to spend weekends with him. It's really rather posessive language. I don't think I'm being dramatic, but rather pointing out that perhaps an attitude shift might be required. | |||
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"Thanks for all advice my friends / she is not the lady for me because am only a bank link machine to her financial safety as she is milking me for money and meeting other guys at weekends when she should be with me / that's why she is a lady of nite / have no say at all or she wil fight with me just not to meet up / a very horrible lady believe me who likes to control but pretent to be confused depresses end and a victim with no money at all times / who wants to fuck other guys with the same story for them / check out sociopath female behaviour / so I guess she is not the right lady of the nite for me / p " She "should" be for you? Like a jumper a pet? Do one. Get out of her life forever. She sounds like awesome fun, you don't. Sounds like you want her a lot more than she wants you too. | |||
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"Didn't you ask this before? Is it the same woman? " Exactly. How many times are you going to go over the same thing about this woman? Either get on with it or get rid. | |||
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"Didn't you ask this before? Is it the same woman? Exactly. How many times are you going to go over the same thing about this woman? Either get on with it or get rid. " Looking back, he said he was just out of a relationship with her 13 weeks ago. Unless that's a different woman and he has really bad taste in women! I see what you mean. A lot of threads all on basically the same subject, spanning months and months. | |||
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"Very good input my sexy friends : fact is Is after some though don't mind open releationships at all just they should be respect and honesty but. / it's just sometimes she says she comes to me on a night and then changes her plans to another guy and tells me where to go can't even work out a routine with her 2 nights a week as we don't have an open relationship it's just a cash for sex buisness she is keeping with a few guys / and wasp hunter I never. Said I owned her / and yes for those of you who know my previous posts have been having trouble with her a while until then we agreed to a open relationship but it's not worth it / ye are right / lies domination and loves to extort ur money as she says she broke all times / a victim in discuise / female sociopath / a controlling unhappy bully who tells you she loves you but hasn't time to meet you / problem is I did like her but not any more / gives wemon a bad name / if a girl gets bored with a guy should be honest with him / so even a lady of the nite is hones not like them female sociopath who want to destroy you mentally financially and only give you sex if they get what they want /? More input my friends / p " Sounds like you are more interested in your money.. Find a hooker at least then you know what your getting. As for discretion... Good luck finding someone on here now mate. | |||
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"Very good input my sexy friends : fact is Is after some though don't mind open releationships at all just they should be respect and honesty but. / it's just sometimes she says she comes to me on a night and then changes her plans to another guy and tells me where to go can't even work out a routine with her 2 nights a week as we don't have an open relationship it's just a cash for sex buisness she is keeping with a few guys / and wasp hunter I never. Said I owned her / and yes for those of you who know my previous posts have been having trouble with her a while until then we agreed to a open relationship but it's not worth it / ye are right / lies domination and loves to extort ur money as she says she broke all times / a victim in discuise / female sociopath / a controlling unhappy bully who tells you she loves you but hasn't time to meet you / problem is I did like her but not any more / gives wemon a bad name / if a girl gets bored with a guy should be honest with him / so even a lady of the nite is hones not like them female sociopath who want to destroy you mentally financially and only give you sex if they get what they want /? More input my friends / p " I think you need counselling. | |||
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"Very good input my sexy friends : fact is Is after some though don't mind open releationships at all just they should be respect and honesty but. / it's just sometimes she says she comes to me on a night and then changes her plans to another guy and tells me where to go can't even work out a routine with her 2 nights a week as we don't have an open relationship it's just a cash for sex buisness she is keeping with a few guys / and wasp hunter I never. Said I owned her / and yes for those of you who know my previous posts have been having trouble with her a while until then we agreed to a open relationship but it's not worth it / ye are right / lies domination and loves to extort ur money as she says she broke all times / a victim in discuise / female sociopath / a controlling unhappy bully who tells you she loves you but hasn't time to meet you / problem is I did like her but not any more / gives wemon a bad name / if a girl gets bored with a guy should be honest with him / so even a lady of the nite is hones not like them female sociopath who want to destroy you mentally financially and only give you sex if they get what they want /? More input my friends / p " I don't think you're actually listening to any of the points made here at all. Nobody agreed at all that she was 'trying to extort money' | |||
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"Sounds like you are more interested in your money.. Find a hooker at least then you know what your getting. As for discretion... Good luck finding someone on here now mate. " It sounds like she's one already and he wants more than that or he's annoyed that she said what he wanted to hear while they were enjoying each other and that she says the same things to her clients. It really sounds like he wants her to have different stories so he can feel special but I could have read it wrong. | |||
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"only give you sex if they get what they want /?" Yes. That's called a relationship. Sex isn't charity. It's part of the compromise. | |||
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"Wasp hunter says sex is not a charity but a lady wanting an open relationship mane 300 per week and mane you get to make love to her if you lucky / he is a female manipulate sociopath / so there you have it watch out guys out there / don't be a bank long machine to a woman as she uses sex for ur money and is as cold as Ice / it's financial. Domination as you want the sex and she wants it money / so wasp hunter sex is a compromise with 2 ppeople who love each other again you are wrong and sending out the wrong signal to wemon /,more input my friends / who agrees with wasp hunter / wil win this one hands down / p " So she is an escort/prostitute then? If that is the case, what made you think she wanted a relationship with you? And if she did, what made you think it would be exclusive? Also, surely you complaining about her sleeping with others is a little hypocritical considering you're on here. Sorry for the questions, just completely confused by the whole thing. T | |||
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"Wasp hunter says sex is not a charity but a lady wanting an open relationship mane 300 per week and mane you get to make love to her if you lucky / he is a female manipulate sociopath / so there you have it watch out guys out there / don't be a bank long machine to a woman as she uses sex for ur money and is as cold as Ice / it's financial. Domination as you want the sex and she wants it money / so wasp hunter sex is a compromise with 2 ppeople who love each other again you are wrong and sending out the wrong signal to wemon /,more input my friends / who agrees with wasp hunter / wil win this one hands down / p " You make no sense. As I'm female you will probably discount (that's not a financial discount) what I say. You have a problem with one woman. It appears to have been going on for some time. If you don't do anything to change it why should we? If you feel you are paying for sex and that gives you ownership rights that she is not honouring is the problem with her or with you? You're the one handing over the money. If you are in an abusive relationship I give you the same advice that I give to women: walk away, seek support and counselling and build your confidence and self esteem back. As I've only recently learned how to accept a drink, rarely dinner, I'm not a woman who understands a money exchange for sex. I do understand what Wasp Hunter means, though, and I'm not sure you do. | |||
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"OP, I really don't understand your obsession with wanting us all to gang up on Wasp. She was articulate and correct in her points, and because it's not what you want to hear you're having a go at her. You invited comment on this subject. I can't decide whether you have an obsession with this woman in your life, or are just trolling because you're bored. If what you have said is true, and I'm not convinced it is, then you should cut ties with this woman and seek counselling as this clearly runs deep. And please remember that just because a woman doesn't want a relationship with you that doesn't mean she's a prostitute. Unless you have proof to back that up? " I'm coming to the belief he can't understand that he's just a punter. OP, people are unlikely to agree with you that Wasp Hunter is wrong because her point is clear and yours isn't. | |||
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"Ok lascivious lovers and _icketysplits ye Are right was a punter unknown and was trying to help her but she took advantage of a wealth guy and used and abused was a game to her : not a good thing for a woman to keep doing / but have lived and learned from this / no offence to wasp / but sex is a compromise not a cash thing / she was a female minipiulater socipath / and very sneaky / a horrible woman / so thank ye my friends / we are here to help each other out / fab friends and swingers / have fun out there it very we'll hung friend Paul x " According to you, she is. We don't know that is actually the case | |||
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"Take it fm me boots and balls that is the case ok has gone through 10 failed relationships prentents to be a victim of circumstances all the time asks you for money on a daily basis to pay bills tax car insurance holidays it's a pay as you go service don't mind her swinging around as I do but it's all about the money with her / you pay what she wants and she is open for buissness mane one fuck a wek if your lucky as she has a very busy schedule with other guys who always come first to her older punters / so there you have a pro in discuse at work /. Beware out there my fellow male dabblers as all these wemon are sticking together on this one / a blind man can see its a cash for sex business / a female manipulate rat sociopath at work for money / mrs important / who livers in a dark world and gets her kicks by robbing guys with her body / scary stuff / watch out guys plenty more around like her / no more input from wasp hunter / mire input my friends p / " Why pay then? If you're not happy with it and don't like her anymore, stop paying. | |||
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"Take it fm me boots and balls that is the case ok has gone through 10 failed relationships prentents to be a victim of circumstances all the time asks you for money on a daily basis to pay bills tax car insurance holidays it's a pay as you go service don't mind her swinging around as I do but it's all about the money with her / you pay what she wants and she is open for buissness mane one fuck a wek if your lucky as she has a very busy schedule with other guys who always come first to her older punters / so there you have a pro in discuse at work /. Beware out there my fellow male dabblers as all these wemon are sticking together on this one / a blind man can see its a cash for sex business / a female manipulate rat sociopath at work for money / mrs important / who livers in a dark world and gets her kicks by robbing guys with her body / scary stuff / watch out guys plenty more around like her / no more input from wasp hunter / mire input my friends p / " This continued slagging of her is showing you to be rather unpleasant yourself. What more input can you possibly need??? I'm starting to agree with those suggesting you need therapy. You obsession is seriously unhealthy. | |||
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"Oh. Apparently some man on the internet said I was wrong about sex and relationships. I'm devastated. And unsurprised." Don't start him off again pllleeeaaasssseee. I / can't / take / any / more / comments / about / his / great / wealth / and / ladies / of / the / night/ and / how / men / should / be / careful / because / women / are / scheming / and / evil. | |||
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"Aaaaaaaarrrrrgggghhhhhhhh." Lol! | |||
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"OP, you really need to stop now. You're making yourself sound ridiculous. The women are not all ganging up on you on this thread and sticking together. Everyone here is pointing out that you are wrong, and offering advice. If what you say is true, it sounds like you have been meeting a prostitute and have developed an incredibly unhealthy obsession. Stop talking to her, stop seeing her, stop giving her money and walk away. You say that you are not bothered, everything you have said here demonstrates the exact opposite. In fact, I would not be surprised to find out that you are actually stalking this woman, that's how much your behaviour is concerning me. " Not just me then? | |||
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"Not just me then?" If she was on here and he had given her username, I'd seriously consider advising her to report him to the police | |||
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"I'm not sure about the op and the posts are worse than mine for grammar and spelling. " Aren't you curious what job affords an illiterate person 15000 to spend on wemon? | |||
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"OP, you really need to stop now. You're making yourself sound ridiculous. The women are not all ganging up on you on this thread and sticking together. Everyone here is pointing out that you are wrong, and offering advice. If what you say is true, it sounds like you have been meeting a prostitute and have developed an incredibly unhealthy obsession. Stop talking to her, stop seeing her, stop giving her money and walk away. You say that you are not bothered, everything you have said here demonstrates the exact opposite. In fact, I would not be surprised to find out that you are actually stalking this woman, that's how much your behaviour is concerning me. Not just me then? " Not just you, no. | |||
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"I'm not sure about the op and the posts are worse than mine for grammar and spelling. Aren't you curious what job affords an illiterate person 15000 to spend on wemon? " Is it legal to have sex with wemon ? Jo x | |||
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"I'm not sure about the op and the posts are worse than mine for grammar and spelling. Aren't you curious what job affords an illiterate person 15000 to spend on wemon? Is it legal to have sex with wemon ? Jo x" In / the / real / world / or / in / this / fantasy / land? | |||
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