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Do you like it rough

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How do you ladies like men to touch you. Do you like to have your nipples roughly sucked and nibbled on, do you like fingers roughly put inside you, do you like a man taking you from behind and thrusting that hard its sending you about 3ft in front of him.

I dont like any kind of rough sex. Its totally not my thing but some men do think that its what women want, so maybe im the oddity. I like gentle nipple touching, I always wonder that cos Ive got big boobs, that men feel I want them mauled.

I never like any guy to touch me roughly with fingers. Im always nervous that they are gonna pull my coil out, so it puts me off and I tense up. Im not keen on swinging guys taking me roughly from behind either.

Its odd because the only guy I do enjoy it a little rough with is my own guy. I think its because subconsciously I totally trust him and I know he's not going to hurt me. Hes not ever rough during foreplay etc, it only tends to be when we are having sex and he is at the point of no return, then he lets go, goes really fast, forcing me onto him and that is incrediably erotic, I love it, but I dont like it with men Im swinging with

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I dont do anything gentle. It has to be rough and hard for me. The only person thats gentle with me is Jay, dont want anyone else to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a 3some some time ago and it got very rough, the next morning when I woke up, blood had been coming out of urethra never met them again after that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I havent "made love" in about 5 years cos to me making love is the gentle slow kind of sex, which bores me senseless!!

I love being handled roughly and tbh ever since I had my skin graft and the surgeon did nerve damage I havent the feeling I once had, so gentle is no good to me.

However I have had more men (men being most of my meets) be gentle and needing to be told sorry you need to be rougher than the other way around.

But as always its horses for courses, it would be a bloody boring world if we were all the same

Shona

x x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there's a time and a place for each however I do love a great, tiring, rough session! The kind that leaves no doubt in your mind that you've been well and truly fucked!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you ladies like men to touch you. Do you like to have your nipples roughly sucked and nibbled on, do you like fingers roughly put inside you, do you like a man taking you from behind and thrusting that hard its sending you about 3ft in front of him.

I dont like any kind of rough sex. Its totally not my thing but some men do think that its what women want, so maybe im the oddity. I like gentle nipple touching, I always wonder that cos Ive got big boobs, that men feel I want them mauled.

I never like any guy to touch me roughly with fingers. Im always nervous that they are gonna pull my coil out, so it puts me off and I tense up. Im not keen on swinging guys taking me roughly from behind either.

Its odd because the only guy I do enjoy it a little rough with is my own guy. I think its because subconsciously I totally trust him and I know he's not going to hurt me. Hes not ever rough during foreplay etc, it only tends to be when we are having sex and he is at the point of no return, then he lets go, goes really fast, forcing me onto him and that is incrediably erotic, I love it, but I dont like it with men Im swinging with "

Having not met yet, I understand what you have said about maybe not having trust whilst swinging. With my partner I like it soft and sensual but also love it fast and furious, this includes pulling my hair and yes thrusting me 3ft in front lol!! but you raise a good point in that when we do meet, would I put the same trust in a stranger, before your post I would of thought yes, but you have given me something to think about lol but im sure it would depend on the people and the situation

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I do like a bit of rough doggy.. I have even been known to keep my boots on to ensure maximum floor grip...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do like a bit of rough doggy.. I have even been known to keep my boots on to ensure maximum floor grip... "

Have you tried snow grips? lol

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I do like a bit of rough doggy.. I have even been known to keep my boots on to ensure maximum floor grip...

Have you tried snow grips? lol "

Genius..... thanks am off to buy a pair xx

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By *entcouple4550Couple
over a year ago

canterbury

Surely this is all about setting parametres with other people before you meet to play. For what its worth we always meet socially first before we play with a couple and we do this for many reasons one of which is sort out likes and dislikes. We don't have many 'don'ts' but we are rigid on the ones we do have.

Generally though Sue and I are very low level sub/dom and this includes spanking, slapping, hair-pulling name calling etc but we also make love tenderly and with affection, (I'm sounding like a Joan Armatrading song here ). . Its all about variety surely? Isn't that why we are all on here?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes that is certainly what its all about and whats so great about swinging. Variety is brilliant.

I personally dont like my body abused in any way. I dont want any kind of romance off the guys I swing with, but I want them to touch me gently and not pull my hair or slap me or be rough in any way - I just dont like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like both and it depends on my mood and if im extremely horny...

The horny i get, the rougher i likes it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love being manhandled lol, the harder the better as far as I'm concerned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love being manhandled lol, the harder the better as far as I'm concerned "
me too and i like to been bitten too not really hard but i find it a turn on .. all over. jo xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ohhhhhhhh i do like a nice nibble too

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I like people who know how to read the moment.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

I prefer my women to have had a shave first...

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

One thing about rough is that you can't really go back to gentle in the same session without losing effect. Best to start gentle and teasing then build up slowly to whatever level your happy with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer my women to have had a shave first... "

I'd be put off if a female had a tache.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

love it rough...if i want slow, romantic and sensual i have my hubby for that....its different !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One thing about rough is that you can't really go back to gentle in the same session without losing effect. Best to start gentle and teasing then build up slowly to whatever level your happy with."

Spot on that man

Have a gold star *

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"One thing about rough is that you can't really go back to gentle in the same session without losing effect. Best to start gentle and teasing then build up slowly to whatever level your happy with.

Spot on that man

Have a gold star * "

...sadly this is all academic given my success rate!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well the teacher says....

"keep trying"

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"One thing about rough is that you can't really go back to gentle in the same session without losing effect. ...."

Really?

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By *eizvollWoman
over a year ago

in my own little world :-)


"One thing about rough is that you can't really go back to gentle in the same session without losing effect. Best to start gentle and teasing then build up slowly to whatever level your happy with."

Oh but you can!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One thing about rough is that you can't really go back to gentle in the same session without losing effect. Best to start gentle and teasing then build up slowly to whatever level your happy with."

I disagree as that has not been my experience.

If I've not met a playmate in a while sometimes there's no preamble just clothes ripped off and I'm given a good pounding: they've known what mood I'm in from I open the door!

After the itch has been scratched things can become gentle or ratched up another level of intensity: all depends.

With new people it takes time to trust them. Some men gain their sexual knowledge from rough sex porn and believe that's what women want. Thankfully my playmates aim to please me and being man handled is not the way!

I, on the other hand...!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I disagree with someone who says once you go rough, you cant be gentle again, thats rubbish.

I've been with a woman (I have you know...shocking I know) and started off gentle, teasing foreplay etc, then built up to rough hard sex and then afterwards, back to gentleness, tenderness and caressing and slowly build up again.

I think you just need to use your imagination a little more...nothing is an impossibility.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why choose one thing or the other?...Each is good dependent on mood and the person you are with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends upon the situation and what mood i am in. sometime a bit of ruff play can be fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

exactly.

Ps - another vampire lover, and i thought we were all lost to the twilighters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love being manhandled lol, the harder the better as far as I'm concerned me too and i like to been bitten too not really hard but i find it a turn on .. all over. jo xx"

love being bitten, especially on the back of my neck and shoulders, yum!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I've often asked people to scratch and bite me and they've been worried about hurting.

Simple answer to that I say, if it hurts I'll tell you but not doing it, I'll never know.

I love rough and gentle play, all depends on mood and women I'm with...but love nails down my back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like cake

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"I like people who know how to read the moment."

Imagine Pavlovian male simpering agreement post here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer slow sensual pleasures than rough and ready sex!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer slow sensual pleasures than rough and ready sex! "

Took the words right out of my mouth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have shagged more than a few rough 'ns over the years

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"have shagged more than a few rough 'ns over the years "

When is it my turn

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

What ever anyone is into, the key is to find the people that are going to be compatable with you

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"What ever anyone is into, the key is to find the people that are going to be compatable with you"

Oh they WILL do what I want *evil laugh*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do like a bit of rough doggy.. I have even been known to keep my boots on to ensure maximum floor grip... "

Get yourself some wellies

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"What ever anyone is into, the key is to find the people that are going to be compatable with you

Oh they WILL do what I want *evil laugh* "

There are definate times im not a single guy on polo's hit list lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"have shagged more than a few rough 'ns over the years

When is it my turn "

Just cum up and see me sometime

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Will you be in your May West outfit?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Will you be in your May West outfit?"

no, but wont be Fred West either

Will just be good ol' Jack the Licker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think there's a time and a place for each however I do love a great, tiring, rough session! The kind that leaves no doubt in your mind that you've been well and truly fucked!"

same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One thing about rough is that you can't really go back to gentle in the same session without losing effect. Best to start gentle and teasing then build up slowly to whatever level your happy with."

ooooh I dunno, sometimes that foot in the door frantic and rough sex is soooooooooo satisfying. (tongue handing out smiley)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hanging

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Yes, I've often asked people to scratch and bite me and they've been worried about hurting.

Simple answer to that I say, if it hurts I'll tell you but not doing it, I'll never know.

I love rough and gentle play, all depends on mood and women I'm with...but love nails down my back."
water resistant grab adhesive?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like cake "
is that cream cakes and eaten of your body. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexually, I live in the moment and am happiest when I and whoever I'm with act on impulse. I try not to predetermine the action....although I do like to set a mood.

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