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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have a dilemma and im asking for advice ... Im new-ish to a job. Theres an older married woman who i find very attractive, we have banta and sometimes flirt. She makes out she would do allsorts to me, but i dont know if its just horny banta. She then was talking to me about looking for NSA and joining married dating sites.

So do i talk more with her about it and suggest meeting up?

Do i possibly have sexual encounters with her and risk awkwardness?

Will it affect my job?

I have lots of questions. Im looking for different views and opinions on what you would do in this situation.

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By *leur de lisWoman
over a year ago

Buxton

I wouldn't as it can cause many issues and why should you as there are so many available on here.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

One word answer from me.

Don't.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Do not mix work and shagging, especially NSA, casual shagging.

It's a recipe for disaster.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope - get yer kicks elsewhere!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done it but it's awkward afterwards

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I wouldn't as it can cause many issues and why should you as there are so many available on here. "

Thanks for reading and reply ... Yeah thats what im afraid of. True, but i dont seem to have much luck here and she is a hottie. Instantly turns me on the way she looks at me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely don't go there.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I wouldn't as it can cause many issues and why should you as there are so many available on here.

Thanks for reading and reply ... Yeah thats what im afraid of. True, but i dont seem to have much luck here and she is a hottie. Instantly turns me on the way she looks at me. "

You've only been here 4 weeks. Very few guys get instant meets here. There are a lot of men for relatively few women and couples. It takes some effort and patience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So many women in the world to fool around with that won't cause awkwardness or potential issues at work etc.

Go with them instead, think with the head and not the head of your cock.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the replies

Ok, i was going to reply to you all individually. But, damn lol - Its all the same answer.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You've only been here 4 weeks. Very few guys get instant meets here. There are a lot of men for relatively few women and couples. It takes some effort and patience."

Your right, i understand that. I have lots of them both lol. I think i proberly feel different, because i know her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it really worth risking your job if other work mates find out or her other half does? It would make life very awkward and all for a shag!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks all ... Im glad i asked for advice. Thats changed my whole week, i was asking for her number tomorrow and then asking her out for a drink at the weekend

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon

Do you need/like your job?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Is it really worth risking your job if other work mates find out or her other half does? It would make life very awkward and all for a shag!"

Your right, its definitely not worth losing my job over. I didnt even think about getting found out. Thanks

I really thought i would get mixed opinions on this, maybe like someone mentioned up there^ ... Im thinking with the wrong head lol. Sighs**

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She is just play banter I think, best to keep it to that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Married is the key word here. MARRIED.

Also, speaking from experience sleeping with someone you work with can be a bad move. That's how I met my fwb, it created jealousy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"She is just play banter I think, best to keep it to that."

Yeah i wasnt sure, sometimes she goes in hard! ... I was gonna ask what shall i do next - Cool i will just keep up the banta then, thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"She is just play banter I think, best to keep it to that.

Yeah i wasnt sure, sometimes she goes in hard! ... I was gonna ask what shall i do next - Cool i will just keep up the banta then, thanks. "

What if you made a move and she accused you of sexual harassment? Stay well away and don't encourage her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally would call her bluff. I would say to her, ''I have always wanted to got to an adult club, But have never had anyone to go with'' !!! '' Would you be interested'' ... If she is game, your in the boat together.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Married is the key word here. MARRIED.

Also, speaking from experience sleeping with someone you work with can be a bad move. That's how I met my fwb, it created jealousy."

Shes hot and so horny and flirty with it though lol.... Yeah i was thinking she could be my FWB, as we know eachother and local and could be regular. I do understand what your saying though, thanks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What if you made a move and she accused you of sexual harassment? Stay well away and don't encourage her."

Thats precisely why i asked, i didnt even think of that!!! I dont think she would of, but your right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Married is the key word here. MARRIED.

Also, speaking from experience sleeping with someone you work with can be a bad move. That's how I met my fwb, it created jealousy.

Shes hot and so horny and flirty with it though lol.... Yeah i was thinking she could be my FWB, as we know eachother and local and could be regular. I do understand what your saying though, thanks. "

Once again, married married married.

If the thought of an angry husband turning up on your doorstep - as news travels fast in a workplace - or even coming to your workplace itself, which could cost you your job, appeals then do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To the OP

I have the same sort of issue with my other half in her job, she has a young male working under her, he flirts with her ans she teases him.

I have told her on several occasions to make a move on him, you never know, it might be fun for both of you!

She alway says it's just a bit of fun though

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I personally would call her bluff. I would say to her, ''I have always wanted to got to an adult club, But have never had anyone to go with'' !!! '' Would you be interested'' ... If she is game, your in the boat together.

Yes!!!

Your the first to say go for it lol.

I was thinking along the same lines as you. But with the other opinions ive heard, now i am having second thoughts.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Yes!!!

Your the first to say go for it lol.

I was thinking along the same lines as you. But with the other opinions ive heard, now i am having second thoughts. "

It's easy for him to say go for it. It's not his job potentially on the line.

A lot of guys would tell you to go for it. The allure of pussy is strong. It's a lad thing - get in there and all that.

It's your risk, not theirs.

It's risky enough with a colleague at work. With a married colleague it's just madness. The chance you'll get found out is high. The potential grief is not worth it just for sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do what you think is right, go with your gut instinct but the fact you're putting this thread up asking for advice suggests you're unsure. If you can live with any repercussions should it go horribly wrong then go for it. Personally I'd go nowhere near another work mate, especially if married.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"To the OP

I have the same sort of issue with my other half in her job, she has a young male working under her, he flirts with her ans she teases him.

I have told her on several occasions to make a move on him, you never know, it might be fun for both of you!

She alway says it's just a bit of fun though "

Ah damn, sshh ! I wish you were the first reply i had lol.

But really? See she does seem genuine about it, she was talking about being discreet and that she had caught her husband with lots of woman contacts and naked photos, texts etc etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never dip your nib in the office ink!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To the OP

I have the same sort of issue with my other half in her job, she has a young male working under her, he flirts with her ans she teases him.

I have told her on several occasions to make a move on him, you never know, it might be fun for both of you!

She alway says it's just a bit of fun though

Ah damn, sshh ! I wish you were the first reply i had lol.

But really? See she does seem genuine about it, she was talking about being discreet and that she had caught her husband with lots of woman contacts and naked photos, texts etc etc.

Hmmm it all sounds very much like shes after something alright, but what if its a baby? Happy to be a daddy?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes!!!

Your the first to say go for it lol.

I was thinking along the same lines as you. But with the other opinions ive heard, now i am having second thoughts.

It's easy for him to say go for it. It's not his job potentially on the line.

A lot of guys would tell you to go for it. The allure of pussy is strong. It's a lad thing - get in there and all that.

It's your risk, not theirs.

It's risky enough with a colleague at work. With a married colleague it's just madness. The chance you'll get found out is high. The potential grief is not worth it just for sex."

Yes, you're right. Its a shame, but its not going to be worth it, is it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do what you think is right, go with your gut instinct but the fact you're putting this thread up asking for advice suggests you're unsure. If you can live with any repercussions should it go horribly wrong then go for it. Personally I'd go nowhere near another work mate, especially if married. "

I am, im really unsure lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've all porked someone from work.

But married? Guess you must be young , still to learn that some temptations are just not worth It.

FYI- married woman are the worst flirts, but there is a big difference between words and action. Leave her to get her attention kick elsewhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am, im really unsure lol."

Then don't do it. Playing with someone else's partner behind their back is really not good. They belong to someone else.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hmmm it all sounds very much like shes after something alright, but what if its a baby? Happy to be a daddy?

Haha, well i did not think of that!

Although she has two kids already.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To the OP

I have the same sort of issue with my other half in her job, she has a young male working under her, he flirts with her ans she teases him.

I have told her on several occasions to make a move on him, you never know, it might be fun for both of you!

She alway says it's just a bit of fun though

Ah damn, sshh ! I wish you were the first reply i had lol.

But really? See she does seem genuine about it, she was talking about being discreet and that she had caught her husband with lots of woman contacts and naked photos, texts etc etc.

Shit! I've been found out too lol

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Yes!!!

Your the first to say go for it lol.

I was thinking along the same lines as you. But with the other opinions ive heard, now i am having second thoughts.

It's easy for him to say go for it. It's not his job potentially on the line.

A lot of guys would tell you to go for it. The allure of pussy is strong. It's a lad thing - get in there and all that.

It's your risk, not theirs.

It's risky enough with a colleague at work. With a married colleague it's just madness. The chance you'll get found out is high. The potential grief is not worth it just for sex.

Yes, you're right. Its a shame, but its not going to be worth it, is it. "

Consider the replies. Compare and contrast what women say with what men say. Consider which may be thinking with the little head or under the influence of pussy blindness.

You clearly want to go for it. If you still want to do it, having had the risks clearly set out, then at least you can't say you weren't warned if it goes tits up.

There are so many available women in the world. Women you won't have to sneak around to see. Women you can shag without risking your job, or injury if her husband turns up on your doorstep.

It's only sex and you're young, you should be able to get that elsewhere.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We've all porked someone from work.

But married? Guess you must be young , still to learn that some temptations are just not worth It.

FYI- married woman are the worst flirts, but there is a big difference between words and action. Leave her to get her attention kick elsewhere "

Sighs, shame but yeah your right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And also, added to my experience... in the same work place, I saw a fellow waitress fall in love with a chef - we were a horny bunch down there! His partner found out, came down to our work place, shit kicked off. She was sacked, he left not soon after.

For me, luckily I got off easier. I just had to deal with bitching behind my back and jealousy from other female employees.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Then don't do it. Playing with someone else's partner behind their back is really not good. They belong to someone else."

True i do agree, but there could be married on here that i could im meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then don't do it. Playing with someone else's partner behind their back is really not good. They belong to someone else.

True i do agree, but there could be married on here that i could im meeting. "
but you won't be working with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then don't do it. Playing with someone else's partner behind their back is really not good. They belong to someone else.

True i do agree, but there could be married on here that i could im meeting. "

If you're happy to play with someone else's partner and possibly contribute to the break up of a relationship/family then go for it. There are plenty of single women on here looking for genuine single guys for no strings fun. To me, being married is a massive string and wouldn't ever go there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't as it can cause many issues and why should you as there are so many available on here.

Thanks for reading and reply ... Yeah thats what im afraid of. True, but i dont seem to have much luck here and she is a hottie. Instantly turns me on the way she looks at me. "

Don't let your cock rule your head

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford

"I have a dilemma and im asking for advice ... Im new-ish to a job. Theres an older married woman who i find very attractive, we have banta and sometimes flirt. She makes out she would do allsorts to me, but i dont know if its just horny banta. She then was talking to me about looking for NSA and joining married dating sites.

So do i talk more with her about it and suggest meeting up?

Do i possibly have sexual encounters with her and risk awkwardness?

Will it affect my job?

I have lots of questions. Im looking for different views and opinions on what you would do in this situation.

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I would keep my job and private life entirely separate . Just concentrate on your work..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Consider the replies. Compare and contrast what women say with what men say. Consider which may be thinking with the little head or under the influence of pussy blindness.

You clearly want to go for it. If you still want to do it, having had the risks clearly set out, then at least you can't say you weren't warned if it goes tits up.

There are so many available women in the world. Women you won't have to sneak around to see. Women you can shag without risking your job, or injury if her husband turns up on your doorstep.

It's only sex and you're young, you should be able to get that elsewhere."

Good overall points you have made V. Well im not getting anything anywhere! Lol. But yes, your right in all youve said. Thanks for advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I were you i'd give it a miss, its only sex, what harm would it be if you decline ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Put it like that, no i wouldnt want that. Your right there are plenty of unattached women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think of the worst outcome of the situation. If you can live with it then fuck her brains out. Its only going to effect you and nobody else on here. Personally, id stay away and head to the pub to find an easy piece of ass.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why ask us, you already made your mind up before you posted, we all know you're gonna fuck her anyway

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for your last replys up there ^ - pat, purple undies, naughty twosome and a rather apt name "itwasgudideaatthetime" lol ...

I like older women, shes cute and i am really sexually attracted to her, but you have all made valid points on why i shouldnt. It be hard not too but what i should be doing is to concentrate on my work, keep my private life seperate and try the plenty of singles about.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why ask us, you already made your mind up before you posted, we all know you're gonna fuck her anyway

Yup i really was going too lol.

But i didnt even consider some of the repercussions. I will just have to keep the banta up and tease her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why ask us, you already made your mind up before you posted, we all know you're gonna fuck her anyway

My money is on the OP

- making a move

- finding out all that glitters isn't gold

- gets a new job

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Think of the worst outcome of the situation. If you can live with it then fuck her brains out. Its only going to effect you and nobody else on here. Personally, id stay away and head to the pub to find an easy piece of ass. "

True, your right. Thanks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why ask us, you already made your mind up before you posted, we all know you're gonna fuck her anyway

My money is on the OP

- making a move

- finding out all that glitters isn't gold

- gets a new job "

lol ssssshhhh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why ask us, you already made your mind up before you posted, we all know you're gonna fuck her anyway

Yup i really was going too lol.

But i didnt even consider some of the repercussions. I will just have to keep the banta up and tease her."

You keep teasing her, and she comes home to me and fucks my brains out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do not mix business with pleasure in my experience anyway

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do not mix business with pleasure in my experience anyway

Thanks for reply. Sigh! Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't go there!! You still have to work together when it all goes wrong! Which it will! Seen it happen too many times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So do i talk more with her about it and suggest meeting up?

Do i possibly have sexual encounters with her and risk awkwardness?

Will it affect my job?

I have lots of questions. Im looking for different views and opinions on what you would do in this situation.

You ever heard that expression don't shit on your doorstep

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don't go there!! You still have to work together when it all goes wrong! Which it will! Seen it happen too many times "

Thanks, the worst thing is shes kinda my ideal type, hot like my fantasy woman. We instantly got on so well and i feel so comfortable In her company. But i hear what your saying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't go there!! You still have to work together when it all goes wrong! Which it will! Seen it happen too many times

Thanks, the worst thing is shes kinda my ideal type, hot like my fantasy woman. We instantly got on so well and i feel so comfortable In her company. But i hear what your saying.

SHE'S MARRIED!! Fantasy woman, leave it at that and leave her alone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You ever heard that expression don't shit on your doorstep

I thought it was said because they didnt have lino or steam cleaners back then?

lol

Thanks for reply. I get what you mean

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

Keep it as harmless banter. I tease a lad at work, who is single & some colleagues have said I should make a move, but I would NEVER do anything. Don't mix business and pleasure

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Keep it as harmless banter. I tease a lad at work, who is single & some colleagues have said I should make a move, but I would NEVER do anything. Don't mix business and pleasure "

True, thanks for advice. It is hard enough getting a women, let alone a new job!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it's worth the risk I'm afraid whatever the attraction. If you ever leave etc it may be worth trying your luck. As your new to the jobxx though I'd say keep it as banter xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So do i talk more with her about it and suggest meeting up?

Do i possibly have sexual encounters with her and risk awkwardness?

Will it affect my job?

I have lots of questions. Im looking for different views and opinions on what you would do in this situation.

Don't shit on your own doorstep.

Period.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Married with kids and a work colleague? Sod that! Potential for drama central.

Wouldn't crap on your own doorstep would you? Think on...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you to everyone who has got involved. For your help, advice and points i was naive about.

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

I did years ago and its really not good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think many of us have been in this situation and it's easy to state the moral reasons why you shouldn't...however...

I say go for it! A risky adulterous affair can be soooo exciting and hard to turn down, when in the thick of it.

You know you want to anyway

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford

"I think many of us have been in this situation and it's easy to state the moral reasons why you shouldn't...however...

I say go for it! A risky adulterous affair can be soooo exciting and hard to turn down, when in the thick of it.

You know you want to anyway

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. I prefer my career and would not wish to take any risks for a small amount of pleasure.. Work and pleasure should be kept separate .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think many of us have been in this situation and it's easy to state the moral reasons why you shouldn't...however...

I say go for it! A risky adulterous affair can be soooo exciting and hard to turn down, when in the thick of it.

You know you want to anyway

yes, of course i do lol and thats the exact feeling i have. I was in two mind, but after some of the points made, im not sure now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think many of us have been in this situation and it's easy to state the moral reasons why you shouldn't...however...

I say go for it! A risky adulterous affair can be soooo exciting and hard to turn down, when in the thick of it.

You know you want to anyway

I've done it, she was married and it was very exciting but of course I got hurt in the end by thinking she had feelings for me. If you're gonna do it, don't make that mistake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Done it in the past and had no regrets. It was always nsa for both parties and no one was hurt. If she's up for a bit of fun and you can emotionally handle it, go for it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think many of us have been in this situation and it's easy to state the moral reasons why you shouldn't...however...

I say go for it! A risky adulterous affair can be soooo exciting and hard to turn down, when in the thick of it.

You know you want to anyway

I've done it, she was married and it was very exciting but of course I got hurt in the end by thinking she had feelings for me. If you're gonna do it, don't make that mistake

Cool, yeah thats another thing. I do like her already and i dont want to get to attached.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Done it in the past and had no regrets. It was always nsa for both parties and no one was hurt. If she's up for a bit of fun and you can emotionally handle it, go for it."

Thanks for opinion. I dont know what im going to do. Really confused now.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

How long did it take you to get this job?

Would you want to live without income for that amount of time?

If she's that good, resign, then proposition her for a session as long as her husband knows/watches/joins in

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

"Done it in the past and had no regrets. It was always nsa for both parties and no one was hurt. If she's up for a bit of fun and you can emotionally handle it, go for it.

Thanks for opinion. I dont know what im going to do. Really confused now. "

Comes down to this how much do you value your job? Your rep with your colleagues? The possibility of her husband finding out? Her falling for you? Or worse getting her pregnant by accident? But if you think you can cope with all that then go for it only you know your own mind!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Done it in the past and had no regrets. It was always nsa for both parties and no one was hurt. If she's up for a bit of fun and you can emotionally handle it, go for it.

Thanks for opinion. I dont know what im going to do. Really confused now.

Argh! (Pulls at hair*) lol ... You're right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I quote a fave film here?

No disrespect to you OP, we were all the same once.

Young,

Dumb

And full of cum

Feel your pain fella

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you know its wrong on many levels. Leave her to her teasing, she's probably not getting any attention from her other half so enjoying yours.

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

"Done it in the past and had no regrets. It was always nsa for both parties and no one was hurt. If she's up for a bit of fun and you can emotionally handle it, go for it.

Thanks for opinion. I dont know what im going to do. Really confused now.

Argh! (Pulls at hair*) lol ... You're right"

Yes i wouldnt even go down that road myself banter is fine but would never take a colleage to bed especially married too many risks for me. I would suggest you find a single or open relationship fwb they are out there and it will be better all round.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can I quote a fave film here?

No disrespect to you OP, we were all the same once.

Young,

Dumb

And full of cum

Feel your pain fella "

Thanks, i think. Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

****UPDATE ....

Ok so ive calmed down with the said woman and kept it to soft banta. BUT ... My female boss has been texting me, its banta but on the limit. She is a married older woman and just wants NSA discreet fun, no more said.

Now what do i do?

Is it different because it is my boss?

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

"****UPDATE ....

Now what do i do?

Is it different because it is my boss?

Wow you the only guy there or what? they are swarming round you like flies xxx Being your boss doesnt make it anymore right if anything its unprofessional on her part. You need to be careful if her other half finds out i hate to think what might happen!

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over a year ago

Same advice, stay away. Or are you just determined to shag your way through the workplace?

What are the odds of having 2 different women in the same workplace wanting you

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By *arkstaffsMan
over a year ago

Rugeley

Your own business but if you want my opinion its this: Sex and the workplace never mix. At some point you will get sussed out, that's for certain, then a rather miffed hubby might want a word in your ear.. The boss won't want the hassle and you could well end up going up the road. At the very least things would be awkward. Not worth the bother.

Keep the shagging outside.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let be honest OP you know the logical answer and you know whether you will go there or not.

If you do all the best x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Same advice, stay away. Or are you just determined to shag your way through the workplace?

What are the odds of having 2 different women in the same workplace wanting you

I know! This has never happened to me before, it feels like a fantasy and it kinda is a confidence boost. I didnt hand number over just like that, she has it, being the boss. I havnt got the other womans. (Yet) hehe.

Argh im confused.

Is it really a no no for both now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP are you just waiting for someone to say 'yeah, go on.....give it to 'em both'?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"****UPDATE ....

Now what do i do?

Is it different because it is my boss?

Holy cow, Batman! You are just itching to make your work life uncomfortable or to lose your job, aren't you?!

OP, if you were 18 I might be able to understand this but at your (alleged) age?!

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over a year ago

"Same advice, stay away. Or are you just determined to shag your way through the workplace?

What are the odds of having 2 different women in the same workplace wanting you

Argh im confused.

Is it really a no no for both now?

I'm sorry to sound harsh but are you for real? All of the previous advice saying leave well alone and your still confused........ or are you winding us all up?

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Is it different because it is my boss?

Totally....

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Same advice, stay away. Or are you just determined to shag your way through the workplace?

What are the odds of having 2 different women in the same workplace wanting you

Argh im confused.

Is it really a no no for both now?

I'm sorry to sound harsh but are you for real? All of the previous advice saying leave well alone and your still confused........ or are you winding us all up? "

The latter, I suspect, though it's more entertaining than most wind-ups on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Let be honest OP you know the logical answer and you know whether you will go there or not.

If you do all the best x"

lol, thanks. I dont know what i will do. I hear all the points though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i work for myself so does wanking while looking in a mirror count

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Same advice, stay away. Or are you just determined to shag your way through the workplace?

What are the odds of having 2 different women in the same workplace wanting you

Argh im confused.

Is it really a no no for both now?

I'm sorry to sound harsh but are you for real? All of the previous advice saying leave well alone and your still confused........ or are you winding us all up? "

Im for real, yes. It sounds unreal i know. To be honest its exciting but overwhelming. I was thinking maybe boss may be different as she took it on herself to contact me and because its the boss! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They sound like prick teasers to Mr.

I bet they've got a bet on to see who you ask to fuck first & then they'll tell you to do one & then work will be a very uncomfortable place for you to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me, not Mr

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"They sound like prick teasers to Mr.

I bet they've got a bet on to see who you ask to fuck first & then they'll tell you to do one & then work will be a very uncomfortable place for you to be."

thanks for reply. I didnt even think of that. (Cheers im that bad, they had to bet!! Hahaha)

They are big flirts. They both seem genuine though. Bored in long sexless marriages from what im hearing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're thinking with your cock. Not a good plan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could always suggest meeting them with their hubby's for a threesome.

That way, you get sex & it livens up their marriage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You could always suggest meeting them with their hubby's for a threesome.

That way, you get sex & it livens up their marriage

More chance of being fucked up by the husbands

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

"Same advice, stay away. Or are you just determined to shag your way through the workplace?

What are the odds of having 2 different women in the same workplace wanting you

Argh im confused.

Is it really a no no for both now?

We are not dictating to you what you should do mate just be careful and consider all the possible fallout if it goes bad xxx Me i would keep all that side of my life private and outside m workplace but its upto you xxx

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"They sound like prick teasers to Mr.

I bet they've got a bet on to see who you ask to fuck first & then they'll tell you to do one & then work will be a very uncomfortable place for you to be.

thanks for reply. I didnt even think of that. (Cheers im that bad, they had to bet!! Hahaha)

They are big flirts. They both seem genuine though. Bored in long sexless marriages from what im hearing. "

I believe they're bored and want a thrill.

Think this through...

You have a fling for a bit. It's fun. You are lucky and nobody finds out. You meet someone you like and want an exclusive relationship. You tell your colleague/boss you want to end the fling. They are not happy.

What do you suppose happens next?

There are so many ways it could go horribly wrong, with such unpleasant consequences, is it worth it for the small risk it will go right?

Find someone unattached or in an open relationship, ideally someone you don't work with.

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over a year ago

"They sound like prick teasers to Mr.

I bet they've got a bet on to see who you ask to fuck first & then they'll tell you to do one & then work will be a very uncomfortable place for you to be.

thanks for reply. I didnt even think of that. (Cheers im that bad, they had to bet!! Hahaha)

They are big flirts. They both seem genuine though. Bored in long sexless marriages from what im hearing.

I believe they're bored and want a thrill.

Think this through...

What do you suppose happens next?

There are so many ways it could go horribly wrong, with such unpleasant consequences, is it worth it for the small risk it will go right?

Find someone unattached or in an open relationship, ideally someone you don't work with."

Thanks for your opinion. Oh! Well put- i didnt think of that either.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

*car crash*

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Wouldnt be a fling, i think i would want it to be a one off, on each of them.

I will keep the banta up for now as its really fun.

and take my time to decide.

The opinions and views ive had, really helped and some are eye openers, thank you.

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

"Wouldnt be a fling, i think i would want it to be a one off, on each of them.

I will keep the banta up for now as its really fun.

and take my time to decide.

The opinions and views ive had, really helped and some are eye openers, thank you. "

Wish you the best and give us an update if anything happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't shit on your own doorstep as they say!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Wouldnt be a fling, i think i would want it to be a one off, on each of them.

I will keep the banta up for now as its really fun.

and take my time to decide.

The opinions and views ive had, really helped and some are eye openers, thank you.

Wish you the best and give us an update if anything happens

Thank you and i will do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let us know which one was the best.

Punch from which husband I mean

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Wouldnt be a fling, i think i would want it to be a one off, on each of them.

I will keep the banta up for now as its really fun.

and take my time to decide.

The opinions and views ive had, really helped and some are eye openers, thank you.

Wish you the best and give us an update if anything happens

Thank you and i will do.

Blimey! Don't kiss and tell on top of it all

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Looking forward to the Xmas party thread in about three months....

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Looking forward to the Xmas party thread in about three months...."
No its starts on October usually.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

*in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was thinking that tomorrow, perhaps the Op will be hit on by yet another married work colleague. Accounts clerk perhaps

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By *ig BrendanMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Not happening for me I only work with fuglies

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"Looking forward to the Xmas party thread in about three months....No its starts on October usually.

I meant the one the OP will start agonising over which of the (by then) entire female workforce he should be failing to fight off once the beer goggles really kick in...

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Not happening for me I only work with fuglies"

You clearly missed out on charm school.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Looking forward to the Xmas party thread in about three months....No its starts on October usually.

I meant the one the OP will start agonising over which of the (by then) entire female workforce he should be failing to fight off once the beer goggles really kick in..."
And I meant look out for the threads in October

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By *ig BrendanMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Not happening for me I only work with fuglies

You clearly missed out on charm school."

Surprised you have even heard of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a lad from my work msg me on here course I looked at his pics first before I blocked him

but no way far to close for comfort

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

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"I was thinking that tomorrow, perhaps the Op will be hit on by yet another married work colleague. Accounts clerk perhaps

Surely there's a nubile receptionist whose boyfriend disrespects her?

Or is one of the catering staff shipping him bigger portions to bulk him up?

Maybe the chief execs secretary in her pencil skirt and glasses will un-bun her hair and demand that he Mr Grey's her...

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Not happening for me I only work with fuglies

You clearly missed out on charm school.

Surprised you have even heard of it"

If I hadn't I'd have pointed out what your "fugly" colleagues probably say about you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to get my boss naked.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I'd love to get my boss naked.

You need to start your own thread agonising over whether you should.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My married PA has just asked me for a fuck. Should I do it?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"My married PA has just asked me for a fuck. Should I do it? "

Is she/he married to you?

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over a year ago

"My married PA has just asked me for a fuck. Should I do it?

Is she/he married to you?

Dammit, you found me out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My married PA has just asked me for a fuck. Should I do it? "

Up to you.

I can see potential for issues and I would rather my team/staff/colleagues/hired help/workmen actually did what they were paid to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see the "gagging for it at work" ladies have multiplied!

Please tell me one of them is the HR manager?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"My married PA has just asked me for a fuck. Should I do it?

Is she/he married to you?

Dammit, you found me out.

I'm not entirely daft y'know!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I see the "gagging for it at work" ladies have multiplied!

Please tell me one of them is the HR manager?

Not yet. That could be tomorrow's instalment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, just fuck them both, be prepared to be found out, be the laughing stock at work, have 2 irate other halves after you and lose your job. Hope it was worth it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So OP...what - or who - did you do?

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