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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It'll soon be our one year anniversary here and we've been reflecting on our first year so far. Thought we'd briefly share our experience here, especially for those just joining the site as we did twelve months ago..
Started off as nervous newbies wondering how on earth we were going to turn our fantasies into reality. A heady combination of thrill, fear, frustration, caution, excitement and downright lust..
We remember our giddiness at our first cam play: flicking between different screens, working out who was watching who, watching our first messages roll in as we tentatively shared our cam too.
Then came our first meet. You never forget your first. The messages, the Facetime, the nervous wait in the 'discreet' pub waiting for them to arrive. Loved them then and still do now. Amazing way to dip our toes into this curious and very sexy world of swinging..
Now, a year later, after the meets and the socials and forums and the clubs (very recent), we feel we're only really just starting to appreciate how truly liberating this lifestyle can be. You really do learn something new every day!
Highs have definitely been the amazing people we've met along the way. Some we now count as friends. We have loved exploring our fantasies together and are are strong as ever as a couple. Amazing.
Lows have thankfuly been few and far between. We've all encountered the odd idiot every now and then, trying to spoil things with spite (but always failing to achieve this). You just get better at filtering them out before the do any real damage.
Aims for the future are to explore more clubs and maybe try a private party too. Also to find more couples as potential playmates (where have you all gone?! ha). Hopefully we're going to be able to continue to explore, and share, our sexuality together as a couple, safely and securely, meeting old friends and new. Hoping to have many more sexy plays for many more years to 'cum'..
Advice to any newbies to the site still reading this (!): enjoy this site for what all that it offers. Always be polite, don't take someone saying no personally and don't do anything with anyone if it doesn't feel right. Your intuition is your best asset here.
Oh and the girls are ALWAYS in charge
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