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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How does every body feel about giving second chances on meets? Especially if it seems you been given the run around. Answers on a post card!

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

depends on the reason things do happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always depends on the situation but if given the run around then no second chance from me.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Genuine problems get a second chance any hint of having our strings pulled and all they see is our dust

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Genuine problems get a second chance any hint of having our strings pulled and all they see is our dust "

^this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only arrange a meet if mobile numbers are exchanged. Any hint of being mucked around then I just text to say let me know when you're free and leave it with them. Many I never hear from again. Gut instincts are usually right for me in knowing who is genuinely up for meeting or just playing games.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see no reason to give 2nd chances,,,,,

I mean it's not like there's a cock drought on here....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How does every body feel about giving second chances on meets? Especially if it seems you been given the run around. Answers on a post card!"

I wouldn't give someone a second chance if I thought they'd given me the run around. In fact o doubt they'd have got a first chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How does every body feel about giving second chances on meets? Especially if it seems you been given the run around. Answers on a post card!"

I'd have to *really* want to meet them to be given a second chance.

If something comes up at the last minute to make them cancel their plans, they're more than likely just not my kind of person (which is why I don't date people with kids, etc.)

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London


"How does every body feel about giving second chances on meets? Especially if it seems you been given the run around. Answers on a post card!

I'd have to *really* want to meet them to be given a second chance.

If something comes up at the last minute to make them cancel their plans, they're more than likely just not my kind of person (which is why I don't date people with kids, etc.)"

Yup, this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see no reason to give 2nd chances,,,,,

I mean it's not like there's a cock drought on here....

"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see no reason to give 2nd chances,,,,,

I mean it's not like there's a cock drought on here....

This "

Ah but is there a fanny famine though?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if they have arranged a meet and not messaged to cancel or dont turn up its simple block the twat and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it seems like a genuine enough reason then I'd have no problem giving the person another chance.

If I was being fitted in or moved to acommodate another then nooooo way, they can go and do one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see no reason to give 2nd chances,,,,,

I mean it's not like there's a cock drought on here....

This

Ah but is there a fanny famine though?!"

Yes I believe so,,,,,

In-fact I would say Fanny Famine is probably the main reason I don't suffer the effects of cock drought,,,,,

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

fool me once..... shame on you

fool me twice..... shame on me!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see no reason to give 2nd chances,,,,,

I mean it's not like there's a cock drought on here....

This

Ah but is there a fanny famine though?!

Yes I believe so,,,,,

In-fact I would say Fanny Famine is probably the main reason I don't suffer the effects of cock drought,,,,,

"

I, I think I love you Sox!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see no reason to give 2nd chances,,,,,

I mean it's not like there's a cock drought on here....

This

Ah but is there a fanny famine though?!

Yes I believe so,,,,,

In-fact I would say Fanny Famine is probably the main reason I don't suffer the effects of cock drought,,,,,

I, I think I love you Sox!!"

And quite right you should,,,,

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

If we believe the reason is genuine then we will arrange another meet, if not then no way, block and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How does every body feel about giving second chances on meets? Especially if it seems you been given the run around. Answers on a post card!"

Go with your gut instincts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How does every body feel about giving second chances on meets? Especially if it seems you been given the run around. Answers on a post card!"

Life sometimes gets in the way we all know that... But we all know there are some sad f**ks out there who will give you the run around just to boost their own fragile ego's, and still advertise genuine nice guy on their profile to boot!

"2nd chances": NO WAY! They burnt their bridges and sank all the bloody ships!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"fool me once..... shame on you

fool me twice..... shame on me!!

"

**where's the like button when you need it!**

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of our best meets was from a second chance, we'd blocked them and everything, then unblocked. Every situation is different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One of our best meets was from a second chance, we'd blocked them and everything, then unblocked. Every situation is different."

What made you unblock them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One of our best meets was from a second chance, we'd blocked them and everything, then unblocked. Every situation is different.

What made you unblock them?"

It was a long distance meet, and every time we tried to set a date it was this excuse and that excuse, so we blocked in the end, just drew a line under it.

Later, we were going to be somewhere anyway, so it didn't matter if they turned up or not, so unblocked and put it on the table. They did turn up, and was a great meet.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Having some flexibility is fine, though I find that either I've become a hardened bitch or I'm not particularly interested in giving second chances, as my default response.

Lifes tough enough without pursuing more shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having some flexibility is fine, though I find that either I've become a hardened bitch or I'm not particularly interested in giving second chances, as my default response.

Lifes tough enough without pursuing more shit. "

Spot on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How about they confirm go past the time tell u to make your way and then go silent, no contact What so ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I normally make my meets wait ages until we eventually meet so I know that they are going to be genuine if they call off. They will get another chance. I've had it happen a few times and each time we've met eventually and had fun. I've had to call off meets too and they have all given me another chance. I wouldn't give someone another chance if I wasn't meticulous in choosing my partners in the first instance.

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