FabSwingers.com forum: Cuckolding tips / help

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Was wondering how to break the news to the missus that i feel like a cuck, want a cuckold relationship or to be locked? Help!

Had these feelings a long while, been with the girl about a year, she is very kinky, sometimes loves to be more submissive in the bedroom, in the sense I do all the giving, she loves to recieve (tho will admit also does give a cracking blowjob) overall would say i do 90% of the giving of massages, pampering oral etc.

I suppose ive always felt a little sub in the sense I have thought about cuckolding a long time. Even to start slowly, the idea if either asking to have my cock locked when not with Her, or eventually her seeing others. As mentioned She does like to feel submissive herself in the bedroom, enjoys recieving, spanking etc. which I enjoy giving and would carry on.

Just trying to let her know I'm a cuck and convince her to be a cuckoldress. Have her hold the key to my chastity device when not with here. Any tips? Or suggestions how other have got into this? Suppose it's not the question you break over tea.

Thanks in advance

Hopeful cuck

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I wouldn't advise dropping that whole fantasy list on her in one go. Perhaps discuss the option of including other men into the relationship as you find the idea a turn on.

You yourself will need to go a whole lot slower than your fantasies as cuckolding when done properly is a roller coaster of emotions and certainly something you can become wrapped up in very quickly.

If neither of you have had any sort of open sexual relationship then I suggest you take it slow, discuss your feelings and see what she says, even if she agrees to trying things the key is slow slow slow.

I'd keep chastity out of the equation for now too as that is quite advanced cuckolding, even we have only just started to explore that and we've been open to this type of lifestyle for some time.

By *eKoopleCouple
over a year ago

Germany / Manchester

"Well I wouldn't advise dropping that whole fantasy list on her in one go. Perhaps discuss the option of including other men into the relationship as you find the idea a turn on.

You yourself will need to go a whole lot slower than your fantasies as cuckolding when done properly is a roller coaster of emotions and certainly something you can become wrapped up in very quickly.

I'd keep chastity out of the equation for now too as that is quite advanced cuckolding, even we have only just started to explore that and we've been open to this type of lifestyle for some time."

This thread should now be closed, excellant reply.