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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We post meets up when we have free time no kids etc but we very rarely get peeps that we want to meet is it me (Mrs f being to picky) or is our profile crap lol. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must be the first one....being picky. Because profile is great...... To pick for me as I'm too old lol!

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Why not go browsing and send messages rather than post a meet?

You're guaranteed to stand a better chance of engaging with someone who suits your preferences than waiting for incoming mail.

A

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thankyou...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shag likes Fanta.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Think that's probably where we are going wrong...x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes to picky, lower your standards and you get more, also the profile is abit aggressive towards single men.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


" also the profile is abit aggressive towards single men."

Aggressive in general to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

In what way aggressive? In general we only meet single guys so don't want it to be aggressive at all....xx

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock


"We post meets up when we have free time no kids etc but we very rarely get peeps that we want to meet is it me (Mrs f being to picky) or is our profile crap lol. Xx"

Says on your profile you are seeking bi guys, so as a straight guy I would rule myself out and not even mail you. Also says on your profile you only soft swap which also put me off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In what way aggressive? In general we only meet single guys so don't want it to be aggressive at all....xx"
Just this:

That they have to read, be genuine, good hygiene and have to bi.

I think you can just say, looking for some horny time with single men instead x

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"In what way aggressive? In general we only meet single guys so don't want it to be aggressive at all....xx"

You've fallen in to the trap I did where upon you get annoyed with the type of messages you receive so you think that adding certain things to your profile might help, up until the point you sound like someone you don't want to meet due to lists of demands etc.

If I was a single man, I wouldn't have thought you were looking for me at all to be honest.

I would scrap it and start again and be clear about what it is you are actually looking for, because what does a single male get out of soft swing only? I don't think they would understand at all just now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for your feed back doing nails so will have a look tomorrow....as with soft play that's with couples so probably need to state that....and we meet both straight and bi guys....xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, sounds like you may need a re-write. It reads as if you only meet bi men and bi couples and only do soft swap. You also sound a bit exasperated.

Also, just posting a meet won't necessarily get you what you are looking for when you want it. Especially if you're picky. I would recommend proactively messaging people and that way you can let them know when you're interested in meeting. Good luck.

-Courtney

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

In honesty I stopped reading after the 1st few lines as I presumed you wasn't looking for single guys so my view wouldn't be of interest. Its only from the comments on here I've realised I'm wrong. My point being as it is thats what most genuine singles will do as we get tired of the rants and snipes at us. So guess its a rewrite sorry. Love the tatt by the way . Ok we perv the pics 1st

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