FabSwingers.com forum: Does age really matter ??

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

As i'm a young member of the almighty fab , I tend to come across a little problem anytime I talk to a fairly older person.

I start a conversation , the chemistry is slowly building and then they check my age and say i'm too young

I've been told that i'm very mature for my age and a lot of people that i meet on a day to day basis don't believe i'm 23.

If the chemistry is right and you're both a real profile , there shouldn't be a problem to go for a drink or do a kinky dance.

What are your views ?

Watermelon

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I do ya.

Sorry... what was that...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course age matters, most people don't feel comfortable going with someone outside their age range and besides, if they didn't want to meet you based on that then aren't you better off without them?

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

It can seem as simple as just liking someone so why bother about age.

But for the other party it maybe that age is somewhat of a kink killer. Especially if they have kids of a similar age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met someone below my age range! Much younger than me and we are now fwb! Never say never !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Of course age matters, most people don't feel comfortable going with someone outside their age range and besides, if they didn't want to meet you based on that then aren't you better off without them?"

Everyone is entitled to their own opinion

But when i'm inside the required age range to even speak with you , it doesn't do justice to say i'm too young.

They should make the age range higher , correct ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No age doesn't matter, its nsa lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

I never ask peoples ages in the real world,if I get on with someone then I get on with them so it's not a huge issue to me really

In here is another matter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. It really does

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Age only seems to matter to those who find themselves outside the age preferences of other site members. Usually those that are at the younger or older end of the spectrum.

It doesn't matter a bit to anyone else.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It can seem as simple as just liking someone so why bother about age.

But for the other party it maybe that age is somewhat of a kink killer. Especially if they have kids of a similar age. "

I can understand that

I believe it would happen quiet a lot on fab due to the nature of the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maturity has nothing to do with it, I am 31 years older than you, no thanks very much, prefer my own age range

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can see how age would matter to some. I don't want to be with people who remind me of my parents, and I can see how older people wouldn't want to be with people that remind them of their children.

A lot of it is also about simple attraction. Some like the mature male/woman. Others like youthful zeal. To others it doesn't matter at all. It all comes down to that magic word....preference.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I met someone below my age range! Much younger than me and we are now fwb! Never say never !! "

Perfect and congratulations !!

This shows that age means nothing , it's all based on chemistry

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I never ask peoples ages in the real world,if I get on with someone then I get on with them so it's not a huge issue to me really

In here is another matter

Ioney pot

I still believe that it's all based on chemistry.

Fab is a swingers website but some people tend to treat it likes POF

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I can see how age would matter to some. I don't want to be with people who remind me of my parents, and I can see how older people wouldn't want to be with people that remind them of their children.

A lot of it is also about simple attraction. Some like the mature male/woman. Others like youthful zeal. To others it doesn't matter at all. It all comes down to that magic word....preference.

-Courtney"

Well said Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I met someone below my age range! Much younger than me and we are now fwb! Never say never !!

Perfect and congratulations !!

This shows that age means nothing , it's all based on chemistry

Exactly that ! I met him at a club ... Just chatted then he messaged me on here ! We are now regular playmates as well as good friends despite the 20 year plus age difference !

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I met someone below my age range! Much younger than me and we are now fwb! Never say never !!

Perfect and congratulations !!

This shows that age means nothing , it's all based on chemistry

Exactly that ! I met him at a club ... Just chatted then he messaged me on here ! We are now regular playmates as well as good friends despite the 20 year plus age difference ! "

Perfect chemistry

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

"I never ask peoples ages in the real world,if I get on with someone then I get on with them so it's not a huge issue to me really

In here is another matter

Ioney pot

I still believe that it's all based on chemistry.

Fab is a swingers website but some people tend to treat it likes POF"

Exactly,which is why I prefer to discover chemistry while I'm out swinging in the real world,the cyber version has become a tad boring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me its a case of to young! You are 4 yrs older than my daughter! Only reason i block younger

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

My views are that you set your ceiling at 50 so....... Don't come here moaning about people having their floor higher than 23........

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"I never ask peoples ages in the real world,if I get on with someone then I get on with them so it's not a huge issue to me really

In here is another matter

Ioney pot

I still believe that it's all based on chemistry.

Fab is a swingers website but some people tend to treat it likes POF"

Uncanny!

From what I've read in here many treat POF like a swingers website!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I've just been contacted by a 19 year old who admitted being out of my age range and trying his luck, now I would say a 22 year age difference is just far to young for me to even contemplate.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My views are that you set your ceiling at 50 so....... Don't come here moaning about people having their floor higher than 23........

hehe.. you got me good

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