FabSwingers.com forum: Advice required

By *oelstephens OP Man
over a year ago

Wigan

Recently I've found a profile on here of a couple I know. We go way back (over 10 years) and I had no idea they were into this type of thing and I don't think they know I am either.

However they say on their profile they do meet separately and the female in the couple is very attractive. I know at some point back in our past she has also found me attractive too. However there is a long standing friendship to consider, both with the female and the male as I'm close to both.

What should I do? Should I come clean about my identity? I wouldn't want to ruin their enjoyment they currently get from the site. Is there anyway to broach the subject without acknowledging how I've come to understand their openess to different experiences without making them self conscious about being on here?

I'm also worried that the profile may be my male friend masquerading as a couple in order to seem more appealing and approachable to women, and the subsequent issues an approach might cause, especially if I bring up the subject directly with the female.

Any thoughts...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are so many other members of fab to interact with that you have no real need to risk ruining a friendship. It sounds like you have reservations so go with your gut feeling and consider blocking them and forgetting that they're here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are so many other members of fab to interact with that you have no real need to risk ruining a friendship. It sounds like you have reservations so go with your gut feeling and consider blocking them and forgetting that they're here."

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Turn and walk in the opposite direction

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Turn and walk in the opposite direction

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

In ten years of friendship they have kept this side of their lives private, as have you. I'd leave it like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You can't accomadate , or put pictures up or even write a decent profile ( says the owner of fabs crappiest profile)

I would say if they were interested they would have messaged you .

Failing that put a face pic up as avatar and keep posting status updates , they may block you ( in which case you were not liked) or they will message you or ignore you.

Whichever way about it , I reckon your married and have way too much to lose over a quick fuck "

What the hell?

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By *oelstephens OP Man
over a year ago

Wigan

Seems like everyone shares a similar opinion and it sounds like the right thing to do is just leave it alone, which I tend to agree with.

Sometimes these things just need to be verbalised and confirmed by someone else so thanks for all your input.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Stay the fuck out

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