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Why does this site have so many timewasters?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do guys all here take such delight in wasting peoples time on here? 4 guys this morning arranged to meet today, all 4 asked to meet me, then when it comes to arranging a meet then disappear. l have had fake pics send to me, guys saying they can meet then ask me to travel to them when my profile says l do not travel. I have excellent verifications and yet l still get them. Are men really that sad individuals that they need to do this to us ladies. Time to eave here l think as so few read my ad and take notice off what l am looking for. Men please grow up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive had that done to me, so its not just men. Very sad all the same!

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I think all sites have them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone fancy a quicky in Tesco's?

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

There are at least three. Possibly four.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they've lied about the size of their cock and don't fancy exposing the scale of their exaggeration ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Indeed, all of us men need to grow up.

I'd also like to take this time to commend all women of the world for their perfection.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"Indeed, all of us men need to grow up.

I'd also like to take this time to commend all women of the world for their perfection."

Two sweeping generalisations there!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Anyone fancy a quicky in Tesco's? "

Okay. The bold 2 in 1 is half price right now so I'll pick a couple of those up after we've finished.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"There are at least three. Possibly four."

I think you are exaggerating it a bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The thought , the fantasy , the dream are so much more of a reality than the actual meet for so many men , couples and single women on here .

We reckon a maximum of 20% that say they want to meet actually do . So 1 in 5 .

It's a pity , but that's the way it is ......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Indeed, all of us men need to grow up.

I'd also like to take this time to commend all women of the world for their perfection.

Two sweeping generalisations there! "

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Wasn't me officer... I've never seen or been with this lady... Fuck.. that s what they said..

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Indeed, all of us men need to grow up.

I'd also like to take this time to commend all women of the world for their perfection."

Thank you Gok

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"There are at least three. Possibly four.

I think you are exaggerating it a bit."

Well the OP listed four but yeah I reckon three of them were the same person.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Indeed, all of us men need to grow up.

I'd also like to take this time to commend all women of the world for their perfection."

Quite right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Indeed, all of us men need to grow up.

I'd also like to take this time to commend all women of the world for their perfection.

Quite right "

I knew you'd agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What came first the chicken or the egg? Everyone will all have their own answer.

I'd personally go dolally, if I tried to figure out the opposite sex and gave up on my own sex, many years ago lol

My own personal experience, recently, has left me flummoxed, as to why, we all do, what we do.

I've never once witnessed, a hunter, catch it's prey, to then just leave it untouched. Yet, on here the hunter soon becomes the pussy! And I refuse to try and fathom as to why this happens. As the list is endless.

I find there's no point in asking "is it them or me?". It's just people and we know ourselves, we're all a little odd, those that say they aren't are the worst

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You see....... here's the thing,,,,,

Whenever someone bemoans their reoccurring failure or vents their frustrations about the behaviour of other site members, they seem happy to ignore the one denominator common to all their misfortunate experiences...

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

I guess they all went back and measured just to be sure ! And found their imagination exaggerated . Thats the luck of the Irish i guess ??

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

All sites are the same just got to live with it

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Have you tried filtering everyone and just sending messages to people you think will meet your needs? That way you can't be contacted by time wasters?

Cal

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By *andy57TV/TS
over a year ago

york

If it's any consolation I had 7 no shows in on night also had it of other sites I think they are just sad gits who get off on teasing people x

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By *lumsy colinMan
over a year ago

basingstoke

Why are timewasters soo good at arranging meets ?? I have never let anyone down or transversely been let down but when it comes to getting meets it's been a few years since I've had any luck

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

At this point somebody who has yet to have a meet often pipes up with

"These timewasters just ruin it for us genuine guys!"

Utter tosh of course

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

It could be because they use pictures of model types they download from the Web. I suspect many are teenaged boys who think it's funny..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are at least three. Possibly four.

I think you are exaggerating it a bit."

Oh, so you're Bi, I see. (ological)

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By *heflyingscotsman69Man
over a year ago

lanark

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By *heflyingscotsman69Man
over a year ago

lanark


"The thought , the fantasy , the dream are so much more of a reality than the actual meet for so many men , couples and single women on here .

We reckon a maximum of 20% that say they want to meet actually do . So 1 in 5 .

It's a pity , but that's the way it is ......"

FFS it's difficult enough for genuine guys who want to (and actually do) meet as it is, without assholes wasting it for the genuine guys. I just don't get it though, where's the fun in NOT meeting people, AFTER arranging a meet???

That's not having a pop at those who fantasise/dream, if that floats their boat that's just dandy, it's the eejit's who arrange stuff only to disappear that piss me off!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

In what way do people described as time wasters spoil it for those who don't? I take responsibility for my own experience on fab and don't blame inferred or otherwise, anyone else.

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By *heflyingscotsman69Man
over a year ago

lanark


"The thought , the fantasy , the dream are so much more of a reality than the actual meet for so many men , couples and single women on here .

We reckon a maximum of 20% that say they want to meet actually do . So 1 in 5 .

It's a pity , but that's the way it is ......"

FFS it's difficult enough for genuine guys who want to (and actually do) meet as it is, without assholes wasting it for the genuine guys. I just don't get it though, where's the fun in NOT meeting people, AFTER arranging a meet???

That's not having a pop at those who fantasise/dream, if that floats their boat that's just dandy, it's the eejit's who arrange stuff only to disappear that piss me off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

because I do get off on it

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By *heflyingscotsman69Man
over a year ago

lanark


"In what way do people described as time wasters spoil it for those who don't? I take responsibility for my own experience on fab and don't blame inferred or otherwise, anyone else. "

The number of profiles stating they won't meet single guys due to timewasters, doesn't spoil things as such, but perhaps does show how timewasters actions can be an irritation for genuine people (especially those who're left waiting)

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"In what way do people described as time wasters spoil it for those who don't? I take responsibility for my own experience on fab and don't blame inferred or otherwise, anyone else.

The number of profiles stating they won't meet single guys due to timewasters, doesn't spoil things as such, but perhaps does show how

timewasters actions can be an irritation

for genuine people (especially those

who're left waiting)"

So then it doesn't affect you then unless you're a time waster? If they don't want to meet single guys, they don't want to meet single guys irrespective of the reason they give.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I've never had a no show, I've chatted to people and then it fizzles out or we realised we won't be comparable.

I have my own way of doing things and up to now it's worked.

I'd never blame someone else for another behaviour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have been messed about or stood up rtc by couples and single fems as well as single men in the past.

I think some people (M/F/MF/TV) like the thrill of the chase, the teasing messages and flanter, but have no intention of meeting. Swinging and no strings sex is a fantasy to them and one they might never actually turn into reality.

unfortunately the 'dreamers' are not always easy to spot.

Sasha x

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