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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No girl has ever made me cum with a blowjob...surely that's not normal??

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"No girl has ever made me cum with a blowjob...surely that's not normal?? "

It's normal for you, that's all that matters if you're enjoying it. If you're not then stop doing it.

There have been threads about this before and others don't cum with oral either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a common statement and is never accepted as a challenge by the ladies of Fab; so don't try that.

I truly feel sorry for you. Something physical or mental is stopping you getting one of the very best feelings possible for a man. You could, seriously, try seeing a sexual councillor to see if they can unlock you from this position. Good luck anyway.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Not everyone does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a common statement and is never accepted as a challenge by the ladies of Fab; so don't try that.

I truly feel sorry for you. Something physical or mental is stopping you getting one of the very best feelings possible for a man. You could, seriously, try seeing a sexual councillor to see if they can unlock you from this position. Good luck anyway. "

What the actual fuck?

It's happened for me very few times. I get satisfaction other ways. Its not abnormal to not cum from a blowy ffs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's normal for a lot of guys i've met, apparently lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The crafty among us hold back 'cos we're enjoying it too much.

Plus, there's the risk of nodding off and not being able to return the favour or give second/third helpings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a common statement and is never accepted as a challenge by the ladies of Fab; so don't try that.

I truly feel sorry for you. Something physical or mental is stopping you getting one of the very best feelings possible for a man. You could, seriously, try seeing a sexual councillor to see if they can unlock you from this position. Good luck anyway.

What the actual fuck?

It's happened for me very few times. I get satisfaction other ways. Its not abnormal to not cum from a blowy ffs."

What do you mean by "What the actual fuck?" It does not make sense.

Th original poster says he has NEVER cum from BJ. You obviously have; so my comments do not apply to you.

Men do not cum all the time. My point is a woman's mouth and hands can be more stimulating than a vagina so a man should be able to cum from a BJ. If they NEVER cum they are missing out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I used to be like that. Now it happens a lot. So I think it's just mental.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"This is a common statement and is never accepted as a challenge by the ladies of Fab; so don't try that.

I truly feel sorry for you. Something physical or mental is stopping you getting one of the very best feelings possible for a man. You could, seriously, try seeing a sexual councillor to see if they can unlock you from this position. Good luck anyway.

What the actual fuck?

It's happened for me very few times. I get satisfaction other ways. Its not abnormal to not cum from a blowy ffs.

What do you mean by "What the actual fuck?" It does not make sense.

Th original poster says he has NEVER cum from BJ. You obviously have; so my comments do not apply to you.

Men do not cum all the time. My point is a woman's mouth and hands can be more stimulating than a vagina so a man should be able to cum from a BJ. If they NEVER cum they are missing out."

We're all different.

I know men who will cum with only very gentle touches, others who need more vigorous stimulus, some who need a tight grip. The sensation may be fantastic but still not result in orgasm.

If this was about a woman you wouldn't be saying she had to cum from a particular type of stimulus so why about a man?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a common statement and is never accepted as a challenge by the ladies of Fab; so don't try that.

I truly feel sorry for you. Something physical or mental is stopping you getting one of the very best feelings possible for a man. You could, seriously, try seeing a sexual councillor to see if they can unlock you from this position. Good luck anyway.

What the actual fuck?

It's happened for me very few times. I get satisfaction other ways. Its not abnormal to not cum from a blowy ffs.

What do you mean by "What the actual fuck?" It does not make sense.

Th original poster says he has NEVER cum from BJ. You obviously have; so my comments do not apply to you.

Men do not cum all the time. My point is a woman's mouth and hands can be more stimulating than a vagina so a man should be able to cum from a BJ. If they NEVER cum they are missing out."

The fact that your suggesting he should get councilling! It's possible that your right and there is a mental issue. But I wouldn't be rolling that out as the cause straight away.

I don't cum from a woman using her hands easily either. Yet I make myself cum very quickly and easily myself.

As long as he is cumming does it matter? Worrying about cumming stops men cumming.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a common statement and is never accepted as a challenge by the ladies of Fab; so don't try that.

I truly feel sorry for you. Something physical or mental is stopping you getting one of the very best feelings possible for a man. You could, seriously, try seeing a sexual councillor to see if they can unlock you from this position. Good luck anyway.

What the actual fuck?

It's happened for me very few times. I get satisfaction other ways. Its not abnormal to not cum from a blowy ffs.

What do you mean by "What the actual fuck?" It does not make sense.

Th original poster says he has NEVER cum from BJ. You obviously have; so my comments do not apply to you.

Men do not cum all the time. My point is a woman's mouth and hands can be more stimulating than a vagina so a man should be able to cum from a BJ. If they NEVER cum they are missing out.

We're all different.

I know men who will cum with only very gentle touches, others who need more vigorous stimulus, some who need a tight grip. The sensation may be fantastic but still not result in orgasm.

If this was about a woman you wouldn't be saying she had to cum from a particular type of stimulus so why about a man?"

Fair play. You've put that a lot better than I did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a common statement and is never accepted as a challenge by the ladies of Fab; so don't try that.

I truly feel sorry for you. Something physical or mental is stopping you getting one of the very best feelings possible for a man. You could, seriously, try seeing a sexual councillor to see if they can unlock you from this position. Good luck anyway.

What the actual fuck?

It's happened for me very few times. I get satisfaction other ways. Its not abnormal to not cum from a blowy ffs.

What do you mean by "What the actual fuck?" It does not make sense.

Th original poster says he has NEVER cum from BJ. You obviously have; so my comments do not apply to you.

Men do not cum all the time. My point is a woman's mouth and hands can be more stimulating than a vagina so a man should be able to cum from a BJ. If they NEVER cum they are missing out.

The fact that your suggesting he should get councilling! It's possible that your right and there is a mental issue. But I wouldn't be rolling that out as the cause straight away.

I don't cum from a woman using her hands easily either. Yet I make myself cum very quickly and easily myself.

As long as he is cumming does it matter? Worrying about cumming stops men cumming."

If the guy is not bothered then no worries; carry on. The OP seemed worried.

If he is worried then there is likely to be a reason and it is possibly mental but could be physical.

It could also be because the woman does not know what she is doing with the penis? On the other hand humans put performance requirements on themselves and for men it is often that which creates the stress and tension that stops the erection or the cuming.

I am not seeking to criticise but if you look at forum posts about guys who fail to get or maintain an erection at meets it is accepted it is a stress issue. I was suggesting this may apply to guys who cannot cum from oral.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear that OP.

I've found that the quality of BJ varies from lady to lady - some have an amazing technique, absolutely mind blowing, others can be rough and functional. There have been many BJs that I've had that did nothing for me at all and even if they'd been there all night I'd never have cum.

So not sure if it's the case of 'wrong person' giving you the BJ or just whether they're not for you. As long as you get your kicks my other means I wouldn't worry, different strokes for different folks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Takes too long for me, poor woman ends up with lockjaw, lol, I think it`s a subconscious thing, it feels so lovely that you don`t want it to stop.

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather

Self fulfilling prophecy, you had one and didn't cum.

You started thinking why can't I cum.

Now you're panicking because you can't cum which stops you from Cumming.

Maybe try receiving oral then finishing yourself off?

Keep doing that and you might find you get closer to Cumming each time then one day....

Also it's not that uncommon.

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather


"Sorry to hear that OP.

I've found that the quality of BJ varies from lady to lady - some have an amazing technique, absolutely mind blowing, others can be rough and functional. There have been many BJs that I've had that did nothing for me at all and even if they'd been there all night I'd never have cum.

So not sure if it's the case of 'wrong person' giving you the BJ or just whether they're not for you. As long as you get your kicks my other means I wouldn't worry, different strokes for different folks!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Self fulfilling prophecy, you had one and didn't cum.

You started thinking why can't I cum.

Now you're panicking because you can't cum which stops you from Cumming.

Maybe try receiving oral then finishing yourself off?

Keep doing that and you might find you get closer to Cumming each time then one day....

Also it's not that uncommon. "

Agreed.

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

Why have you never been given one

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Seems it's a common thing do that's made my day already...thanks for the input guys

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