FabSwingers.com forum: Social meet vs sexy meet...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just a thought... I've had a few socials from here, yet I'm yet to lead those socials onto full sex. There was just one social where it lead to something more. Maybe I'm picky but I'm yet to find someone who I instantly want to fall into bed with!

Is anyone else like this?

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I've had a few meets on here but have yet to have any socials.

What am I doing wrong?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've had a few meets on here but have yet to have any socials.

What am I doing wrong?

You're a sexual deviant, that's what you're doing wrong

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I'm not a deviant!

I'm perfectly civilised thank you very much. Fully house-broken too!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm not a deviant!

I'm perfectly civilised thank you very much. Fully house-broken too!"

Do you give paw on command?

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"I'm not a deviant!

I'm perfectly civilised thank you very much. Fully house-broken too!

Do you give paw on command?"

*sharpens claws*

Sure...

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Just a thought... I've had a few socials from here, yet I'm yet to lead those socials onto full sex. There was just one social where it lead to something more. Maybe I'm picky but I'm yet to find someone who I instantly want to fall into bed with!

Is anyone else like this?

*waves*

I much prefer doing the social thing first. I like safety in numbers and I feel way less pressure when there's a party going on without play.

I've only been to one social where I literally pounced on a bloke. I went with an FB and he had a plan so I was winging it on my own so to speak. I saw this guy and he had the most delicious lips I'd ever seen. I'm not quite sure where the confidence came from but I walked right up to him, waited for him to finish his conversation with someone else and then I told him that I thought he was delicious and asked him if I could kiss him. It was quite possibly one of the horniest kisses and I left the party shortly after and went home with him.

Yum! Thanks for the flashback memory HQ!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm not a deviant!

I'm perfectly civilised thank you very much. Fully house-broken too!

Do you give paw on command?

*sharpens claws*

Sure...

I don't mind admitting that you terrify me slightly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely do socials.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is anyone else like this?

*waves*

I much prefer doing the social thing first. I like safety in numbers and I feel way less pressure when there's a party going on without play.

Yum! Thanks for the flashback memory HQ!

You're welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not a deviant!

I'm perfectly civilised thank you very much. Fully house-broken too!

Do you give paw on command?

*sharpens claws*

Sure...

Are you misbehaving again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is anyone else like this?

I've had a few and met some nice people with a good general connection. Those I have met have been lovely and have been pleasantly surprised as I'm more than they expected and apparently my pics don't do me justice. Its not often I would have anything happen from a social but the odd occasion things happen but I keep to meets for full contact xx

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By *henomenonMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Happy with both but I always insist it starts as a social meet with no guaranteed sex if not met before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had socials where although I've enjoyed their company, there hasn't been any physical attraction so nothing further would happen & I've also had socials where I've thought wow, & it has led to sex.

Both are good in different ways.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is anyone else like this?

I am these days, yes. I don't really feel much a sexual tingle when I chat to people on here anymore, maybe I'm getting old.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every social I've had has lead to another meet .....a play meet . And I recently had a meet without a social ( not something I'd normally do) hell it was amazing .... Waiting for more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not a deviant!

I'm perfectly civilised thank you very much. Fully house-broken too!

Do you give paw on command?

*sharpens claws*

Sure...

I don't mind admitting that you terrify me slightly."

How could those sexy pics frighten you? Mmmm sharp claws and house broken, he could break me anytime

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Socials are fantastic. Generally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is anyone else like this?

Ive done this, but only after a couple of socials and then its not been on the same day but arranged for a future date. Picky is good

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Is anyone else like this?

That's why I have social meets. Dodged many a bullet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, I've had both on occasion. Combine the two and it's double bubble!

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By *uzzybeWoman
over a year ago

Darlington

I always do socials and glad I do tbh. If we like each other then we arrange to hook up another time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a few social meets and that's all part of the teasing build up it's so tantalising.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only had one meet,which was a social we had fab time got on great I think there was a sexual attraction both ways but we just haven't took it any further !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never been to a social 'group' get together but i'd like to, Ive had several coffee mornings at home with guys ive chatted with long to enough to feel comfortable inviting back here, and I've had a few costa meets, or pub lunch meets...

but only a couple of guys have ended up being dragged back to my boudoir on the first date (so to speak) ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my own personal opinion is that any guy having a 1st meeting with any woman is dont expect too much. if the lady is intrested she no dout will ask to meet again. sex is better if both parties have some kind of connection. or am i wrong !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"my own personal opinion is that any guy having a 1st meeting with any woman is dont expect too much. if the lady is intrested she no dout will ask to meet again. sex is better if both parties have some kind of connection. or am i wrong !

In my opinion, you are not wrong. Im quite shy but did ask someone ive met twice socially to meet today for some fun. Connection is definately needed

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