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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How freely do you give them?

Will you pitch them fairly openly and freely to people, or like me, are you quite difficult to impress?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I give them if I feel someone deserves one.

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By *uxomBloomsWoman
over a year ago

Near Tunbridge Wells

I give compliments freely, even to strangers in the street. Yesterday I told a woman in a lift that her dress was beautiful and really suited her. I like to spread positivity.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I try to give them but I tend to be uncomfortable receiving them and somehow that makes it more difficult to give them.

It does mean, however, if I give one, it's genuine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How freely do you give them?

Will you pitch them fairly openly and freely to people, or like me, are you quite difficult to impress?"

I am very difficult to impress

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I give them out but half the time they get ignored

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How freely do you give them?

Will you pitch them fairly openly and freely to people, or like me, are you quite difficult to impress?"

I find accepting a compliment quite hard. You have to invest in a bullshit dick-tectometer, there are some who will say anything to get into your knickers, or in your case crackers...

Face to face genuine compliments are a little easier to distinguish...

I only compliment if its deserving, and only truthfully as i see it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

I am not easy to impress, however, I love to compliment those things I do appreciate.

It doesn't have to be big. If someone has made an effort, or just has a certain je ne said quoi (whatever that is?), I like to let them know it has been appreciated.

Zero effort for me, and hopefully lots of positivity spread around.

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By *appy101Woman
over a year ago

Telford

I give them if I'm impressed by someone, but doesn't happen offen.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I give them freely, but they are genuine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always happy to give them.

Find them hard to accept sometimes. Also on here i take them all with a big pinch of salt

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Yea, I am hard to impress too, and the more someone fishes for compliments the less likely I am to give them! But I really enjoy giving an unexpected, genuine compliment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't say I'm easy or hard to impress... If I genuinely feel they deserve a compliment, I will give one and, quite happily so.

I.e. I love what your wearing

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

If I feel they deserve it and I'm genuinely impressed by something I'll happily give a compliment. If we're talking women here then I've got such a wide range of things that impress me that I will throw out compliments quite a lot on even the strangest things.

If I really like you then you'll definitely know about it as I'll really go to town on the compliments. And I will genuinely mean every one of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm happy to give them, I think if they're unsolicited they're more genuine. At work the other day I complimented a customer on her hair colour and said it looked amazing, she blushed almost the same colour as her hair

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How freely do you give them?

Will you pitch them fairly openly and freely to people, or like me, are you quite difficult to impress?

I am very difficult to impress"

Any reason why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Research shows people who give more compliments are more confident themselves and have higher self esteem!

Try and give at least one a day!

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

I give compliments often. Yes, on apparel a lot of the time, but also on how someone looks within themselves.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Research shows people who give more compliments are more confident themselves and have higher self esteem!

Try and give at least one a day!"

Any links to this research?

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By *lare GTV/TS
over a year ago

South of Sleaford

At a party last week another tgirl told me I was gorgeous. That was lovely and I accepted that she found me attractive. I do not look for ulterior motives. If I find another tgirl or a woman particularly attractive I will compliment them. We all need to be told how great we look don't we! Women accept the compliment gracefully and mostly give one back. Other tgirls initially think I am hitting on them until I tell them why I think they stand out. If I compliment a guy there is often a stunned shock and it is obvious that they do not know how to respond. I then say something like "you look good" and I walk off.

Just my experience.

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By *emini1637Woman
over a year ago

Warwickshire

I find it difficult to accept compliments, sometimes thinking they want something in return, an alterior motive, but if I think someone/something deserves a compliment I won't think twice to hand them out!

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon

I give them freely but they are always my honest opinion. I like to make people feel good but if I didn't believe what i was saying it would show.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no idea how to give or receive.

Compliments I mean...

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

I enjoy giving them if deserved but find it difficult to accept them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have no idea how to give or receive.

Compliments I mean...

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I would give ya something more fun than a complement

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

I like to compliment people on a variety of things. I like to make people smile .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I enjoy giving them if deserved but find it difficult to accept them "

You should accept them when you have a stunning body like yours!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like to compliment people on a variety of things. I like to make people smile . "

I think you look very sensuous Cinnamon, and remember, I don't give compliments often x

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By * can fix it mikeMan
over a year ago

cardiff

I used to but give up now no point they only block u

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Compliments don't have to be spoken sometimes the best compliment is someone returning a smile your way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love giving compliments, but I find that young ladies in their early to mid 20s don't seem to like them in comparison to women my own age or older. Not sure why.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I give them when i mean it I'm really not here to get my leg over so never just say anything for a fuck. I am extremely bad at taking them myself though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I give them freely but they are always my honest opinion. I like to make people feel good but if I didn't believe what i was saying it would show."

_____________________

The key is sincerity - if you can fake that, you're laughing!

But seriously, - I try to find something to compliment (smile, eyes, humour, clothes or whatever)

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter


"I like to compliment people on a variety of things. I like to make people smile .

I think you look very sensuous Cinnamon, and remember, I don't give compliments often x"

Thank you Sexy[Brian] x I know you don't.

You of course are a fine figure of a man with a brain....

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I'm quite good at complimenting people. In fact it will probably be my downfall

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I think it's all to do with personality. I'm one of those annoying optimistic good mood people most of the time (with occasional ranting) and saying something nice to people is part of that. It's never calculated and with my mates I am just as likely to take the piss and wind them up as I am to say I like their new haircut or whatever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't give them out often and when I do I mean it.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I give them out often and when I do I never mean it.

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