FabSwingers.com forum: Not reading the profile

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just been having a conversation about this with a sexy member here and I thought there was a thread about this but in my search nothing came up, so, how annoying is it that you get friend invites, one worded messages, messages without a pic attached etc when you've clearly stated these things in your profile.

My favorite is people asking me if I can accom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Highly irritating! I spent a fair while writing it, to give people an idea from the off as to whether or not we'd even leave the starting blocks.

I can never be sure if it's stupidity, laziness or arrogance that makes them decide to email regardless.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

It's known as 'selective reading'....they can see the bits in a profile they don't like the look of so they simply choose to pretend they don't exist.

Common practice and something I handle by deleting their message and blocking them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just been having a conversation about this with a sexy member here and I thought there was a thread about this but in my search nothing came up"

You're right - I'm quite sure this has never, ever been discussed before.

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By *oDownEasyMan
over a year ago

Ayrshire

You mean there is more in a profile than the pictures??

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By *ardybumsCouple
over a year ago

peekin under duvet is it safe?

My favorite is people asking me if I can accom

well can you ?

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By *amschwingerzCouple
over a year ago

West

We get a lot of the generic ones...well, we assume they are generic mailings..either that or the idiots just cant read..

Had one recently ..'hi just peeked at your profile...like what we see..cant wait to meet you and have some great sex'

Even though we make it more than clear we dont swing...fucks sake!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My fave is, " I'm almost 6 feet tall"....hence the reply.....so am I

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there must be loads of profiles asking for a msg header now so guys just go to the end to find it out in order to get some sort of reply....however most of these can't have read my profile cos they still get things wrong, still leave their number or a cock pic or ask for meets etc. Quite a few never make it to my age restrictions either.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

if only the japs eye had vision... then sorted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't bother us one tiny little bit. We only reply to messages that we want to reply to. It makes no odds if they've read our profile or not, in fact we have bigger and better things in life to worry and get angry about - things like how will we pay next months rent and coundil tax, you know, stuff like that.

People who haven't read our profile are way down on our 'lets get angry' list

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

I haven't read my profile for months, so can hardly complain if nobody else does.

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