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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We are all too quick to put ourselves down sometimes, so, I'm asking you, when the the last time you felt beautiful?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Oh goodness...so long ago I can't remember. Seriously.

Sad eh?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Every single day.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Most moments of every single day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where i walk pooch is so very beautiful , lad evening the sky was filled with stormy clouds , the sea wild . The heather on the Orme was a stuffing shade of purple , totally beautiful .i felt its beauty, would have been lovely to share it with some one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we had our 6th anniversary last month ,Mark took me to a lovely hotel in Aviemore and we had a bottle of champagne on the Balcony overlooking the grounds before going down for our meal, and i'd say just then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The last time I felt truly handsome and attractive was at the ffff party at xtasia in Feb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

We are all too quick to put ourselves down sometimes, so, I'm asking you, when the the last time you felt beautiful? "
I've never really felt beautiful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never felt "beautiful"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Where i walk pooch is so very beautiful , lad evening the sky was filled with stormy clouds , the sea wild . The heather on the Orme was a stuffing shade of purple , totally beautiful .i felt its beauty, would have been lovely to share it with some one "

sounds like live in a beautiful part of the country.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"we had our 6th anniversary last month ,Mark took me to a lovely hotel in Aviemore and we had a bottle of champagne on the Balcony overlooking the grounds before going down for our meal, and i'd say just then "
awwww

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The outside might not match the inside but every day, I'm a handsome fecker.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Where i walk pooch is so very beautiful , lad evening the sky was filled with stormy clouds , the sea wild . The heather on the Orme was a stuffing shade of purple , totally beautiful .i felt its beauty, would have been lovely to share it with some one

sounds like live in a beautiful part of the country. "

Its breath taking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beauty is a mindset, not a physical appearance.

I believe, therefore I am

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

We are all too quick to put ourselves down sometimes, so, I'm asking you, when the the last time you felt beautiful? I've never really felt beautiful "

Has there never been an evening you dressed up to go out or to have a meet and not thought. I feel really good in this? I'm not saying you have to feel 100% happy with everything, but you felt pretty good?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The outside might not match the inside but every day, I'm a handsome fecker. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

We are all too quick to put ourselves down sometimes, so, I'm asking you, when the the last time you felt beautiful? I've never really felt beautiful

Has there never been an evening you dressed up to go out or to have a meet and not thought. I feel really good in this? I'm not saying you have to feel 100% happy with everything, but you felt pretty good? "
there's times I've.felt I look ok ish but never beautiful

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

I can't say I've ever had that feeling, sadly. Not meaning to sound like I'm down on myself, as I'm not, just can't say I've ever felt like that. Maybe that's something I should try and change.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

We are all too quick to put ourselves down sometimes, so, I'm asking you, when the the last time you felt beautiful? "

Definitely not before my morning cuppa and shower

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I make it my aim and a point to tell RG daily how sexy and beautiful I find her - which I do. A little boost in your day goes a long way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

We are all too quick to put ourselves down sometimes, so, I'm asking you, when the the last time you felt beautiful? I've never really felt beautiful

Has there never been an evening you dressed up to go out or to have a meet and not thought. I feel really good in this? I'm not saying you have to feel 100% happy with everything, but you felt pretty good? there's times I've.felt I look ok ish but never beautiful"

Same here xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't say I've ever had that feeling, sadly. Not meaning to sound like I'm down on myself, as I'm not, just can't say I've ever felt like that. Maybe that's something I should try and change."

You have a beautiful bum, cock, body & more importantly, a beautiful mind & personality.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I mostly feel good about myself all the while now but last time I felt truelly beautiful was on my 50th birthday when I got out the limousine all dressed up I felt like a film star

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I can't say I've ever had that feeling, sadly. Not meaning to sound like I'm down on myself, as I'm not, just can't say I've ever felt like that. Maybe that's something I should try and change."

Mine was a night out in Newquay a few years ago. I don't know why, but I felt pretty I had a picture taken too and it's the one photo I look at and feel beautiful.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I can't say I've ever had that feeling, sadly. Not meaning to sound like I'm down on myself, as I'm not, just can't say I've ever felt like that. Maybe that's something I should try and change.

You have a beautiful bum, cock, body & more importantly, a beautiful mind & personality."

Very true

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I mostly feel good about myself all the while now but last time I felt truelly beautiful was on my 50th birthday when I got out the limousine all dressed up I felt like a film star"

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I don't think I'm beautiful. It's not a word I'd ever use to describe myself, even in my head.

I'm pretty lucky to have people in my life who think I'm pretty fabulous and they tell me that often. I don't think I'm particularly fabulous but I take the compliment with good grace all the same. The more I hear it, the more fabulous I feel if that makes sense.

There are days when I go out and I look in the mirror and think I look pretty good. Then some fucker comes along and takes a photo and I immediately think 'Christ get on a diet, you have 400 chins woman!' It's tricky feeling beautiful or fabulous or gorgeous when you really aren't happy with yourself. I know what I need to do to fix it but I just haven't got the motivation. When I find it, I'll throw myself into it and I know I'll feel better. Then maybe I'll see myself the way other people do.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Sorry... I didn't even answer the question... just went off on a ramble. Last Friday is the answer.

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham


"I can't say I've ever had that feeling, sadly. Not meaning to sound like I'm down on myself, as I'm not, just can't say I've ever felt like that. Maybe that's something I should try and change.

You have a beautiful bum, cock, body & more importantly, a beautiful mind & personality."

Thank you I think inside my head I can feel ok most of the time. Beautiful even. But outwardly, never. I've never had a woman compliment me in that way. I know it's something I do need to work on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are some good looking people but because of their nasty personality, they aren't beautiful and on the other hand, there are some who aren't necessarily beautiful on the outside but their personalities make them beautiful.

They're the ones I'm attracted to.

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham


"I can't say I've ever had that feeling, sadly. Not meaning to sound like I'm down on myself, as I'm not, just can't say I've ever felt like that. Maybe that's something I should try and change.

Mine was a night out in Newquay a few years ago. I don't know why, but I felt pretty I had a picture taken too and it's the one photo I look at and feel beautiful. "

That must be a pretty special photo because I've NEVER seen you looking anything other than beautiful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

We are all too quick to put ourselves down sometimes, so, I'm asking you, when the the last time you felt beautiful?

Definitely not before my morning cuppa and shower "

Noted!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something I've never felt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every time I am fully smooth, moisturised and wearing nothing but a hint of perfume

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had to train myself to have a positive body image over the years, so I rarely feel the opposite of beautiful, but neither do I feel 'beautiful", just comfortable with my body is good enough x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"There are some good looking people but because of their nasty personality, they aren't beautiful and on the other hand, there are some who aren't necessarily beautiful on the outside but their personalities make them beautiful.

They're the ones I'm attracted to."
but you don't have to be good looking to feel beautiful, I think it's a mindset,whenever I dress up for a special occasion I feel beautiful.

I don't know if you've been married or not but did you not feel beautiful on your wedding day or any special occasion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often feel good, but I can't say I've ever felt beautiful. It is hard to feel beautiful when you know you aren't blessed with the physical attributes that make someone classically beautiful.

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By *rwchcpleCouple
over a year ago

norwich

Since joining Fab it has helped me feel beautiful. I've had compliments from both men and women. I don't see what they see but my partner does and he tells me all the time how beautiful I am. I always try to look good for him. And after 20 years he still flirts with me and I know he fancies me. I just kiss him and I get movement in his trousers. That makes me feel beautiful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not sure beautiful is the right word but I really feel attractive and get a bit of an ego boost when i meet a woman and your eyes lock and you know from the look that she wants you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think I'm beautiful. It's not a word I'd ever use to describe myself, even in my head.

I'm pretty lucky to have people in my life who think I'm pretty fabulous and they tell me that often. I don't think I'm particularly fabulous but I take the compliment with good grace all the same. The more I hear it, the more fabulous I feel if that makes sense.

There are days when I go out and I look in the mirror and think I look pretty good. Then some fucker comes along and takes a photo and I immediately think 'Christ get on a diet, you have 400 chins woman!' It's tricky feeling beautiful or fabulous or gorgeous when you really aren't happy with yourself. I know what I need to do to fix it but I just haven't got the motivation. When I find it, I'll throw myself into it and I know I'll feel better. Then maybe I'll see myself the way other people do. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel Beautifull when the gentleman I'm with is kissing and caressing my body, enjoying all the lumpy bumpy bits.

Last time I truly felt Beautifull was when I was in rather unsexy walking gear, looking at exceptional scenery and realised the gentleman I was with was looking right at me, not the scenery

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So beautiful is not actually physical but a state of mind??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I went to a wedding last year with a guy I was dating. After the ceremony I went upstairs to our room to change my dress for the evening and it was a stunning herves leger dress that I'd hired from my celebrity dress! His reaction when I came back down made me feel good. Also the next morning when we had to get up early I had just a pair of knickers on and was making him a coffee whilst he was watching me and still laying in bed, he got up and grabbed me back into bed!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So beautiful is not actually physical but a state of mind??"

It's physical, state of mind and skin deep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never have, struggled since I was a child with it. Think have zero self-confidence has a lot to do with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At a family wedding a couple of wks ago. Hubs paid me loads of compliments and I love an excuse to put my heels on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel beautiful when I have spent time with the truly special people in my life and know that they love me and see me in that way.

I feel beautiful when I think of the love my parents gave me and how special I was to them.

I feel beautiful when my teenage son tells me he loves me and wants a cuddle - funny now he is 6 inches taller than me !

Physically do I feel beautiful? No do I heck! Ugly old witch who only has her socks on show most of the time

But those that matter. ...

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By *olden_Road_to_SamarkandMan
over a year ago

North Wessex Downs

I've had some beautiful trimes and some beautiful experiences, and have often felt relaxed and lucky to be enjoying them - does that count (from a guys point of view...LOL)?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are some good looking people but because of their nasty personality, they aren't beautiful and on the other hand, there are some who aren't necessarily beautiful on the outside but their personalities make them beautiful.

They're the ones I'm attracted to.but you don't have to be good looking to feel beautiful, I think it's a mindset,whenever I dress up for a special occasion I feel beautiful.

I don't know if you've been married or not but did you not feel beautiful on your wedding day or any special occasion."

I've been married. I think I scrubbed up ok on my wedding day, but no,I don't think I looked beautiful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If im honest it has only been in the last 6 months or so that I have actually even really liked myself...spent a long time in relationships not being myself..I dont think im anything special but I have had lots of very nice comments on here. Sometimes I look in the mirror and still see the geeky kid that left school at 8 stone with no confidence. Something I will always struggle with.

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

Immediately after my shower & having gelled my hair. At the point I looked in the mirror & uttered the immortal lines, "That'll do pig. That'll do", then set about my day feeling a million dollars.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often feel good about myself. I have certain traits which I like. I'm a determined soul. I have a fantastic imagination. I can make others laugh. I feel good in heels and hold ups. But as for feeling beautiful, god no. Never have, never will, but I don't see it as a minus.

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain


"If im honest it has only been in the last 6 months or so that I have actually even really liked myself...spent a long time in relationships not being myself..I dont think im anything special but I have had lots of very nice comments on here. Sometimes I look in the mirror and still see the geeky kid that left school at 8 stone with no confidence. Something I will always struggle with."

That geeky kid will always be a part of you. Don't diss him - he got you this far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I lived in Australia prior to my wife getting ill, I was in great physical shape and my skin was a lovely bronze colour. Back in the UK now and trying to get back to my peak lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If im honest it has only been in the last 6 months or so that I have actually even really liked myself...spent a long time in relationships not being myself..I dont think im anything special but I have had lots of very nice comments on here. Sometimes I look in the mirror and still see the geeky kid that left school at 8 stone with no confidence. Something I will always struggle with.

That geeky kid will always be a part of you. Don't diss him - he got you this far.

"

Spent a lot of years burying him under layers of other stuff..training, relationships, work.

Im still a work in progress

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"If im honest it has only been in the last 6 months or so that I have actually even really liked myself...spent a long time in relationships not being myself..I dont think im anything special but I have had lots of very nice comments on here. Sometimes I look in the mirror and still see the geeky kid that left school at 8 stone with no confidence. Something I will always struggle with."

Sometimes I look in the mirror and wonder where the kid with such potential went.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

A night in May 2008. Cant say beautiful but definitely desired . First time in a very long time . . Sadly a long time since also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

14th Feb 2014

I was bridesmaid/witness at my best friends wedding in Mexico. I had a gorgeous dress, hair and make up done and I felt lovely. I felt how I think I should have felt on my wedding day. I'm so greatful to her for allowing me to share their day. Xx

I can't remember ever feeling it before then or since.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Immediately after my shower & having gelled my hair. At the point I looked in the mirror & uttered the immortal lines, "That'll do pig. That'll do", then set about my day feeling a million dollars. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i took a pic for Will after a fantastic evening together- I felt sexy - and it shows. It's his favourite pic, and I'm dressed! Lol

Beautiful?? Never x

Sara

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham


"If im honest it has only been in the last 6 months or so that I have actually even really liked myself...spent a long time in relationships not being myself..I dont think im anything special but I have had lots of very nice comments on here. Sometimes I look in the mirror and still see the geeky kid that left school at 8 stone with no confidence. Something I will always struggle with."

This sounds familiar to me. I spent a long time not being myself as well. That can happen. Went through a load of shit and literally forgot who I was. Like some weird amnesia or something. Then a couple of years ago in the pits of despair someone helped snap me out of it. And literally in an instance I remembered who I was. Like waking up from a coma. Now I'm just trying to regain my confidence and claw back the lost time.

Self confidence plays a huge part in how we see ourselves. In my mind I feel the beauty all the time but the physical aspect needs work. As my confidence grows I do feel better about how I see myself. There's nothing stopping any of is having that feeling. We may just need to work on it a little, that is all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I last felt beautiful when we went to a swingers party where they had a heated outdoor pool and I was swimming naked in the full moon light. It was beautiful and I felt beautiful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Where i walk pooch is so very beautiful , lad evening the sky was filled with stormy clouds , the sea wild . The heather on the Orme was a stuffing shade of purple , totally beautiful .i felt its beauty, would have been lovely to share it with some one "

Lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I had my last meet

It's not often that I do get to meet up with someone, but when I am able, I feel very privileged and special at those moments, and I get a feeling that everything is alright in the world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like self help in the psych ward,

Youz is all berutifool - inside, outside, from round a corner + from outer space.

Now let's hug big

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I often feel good about myself. I have certain traits which I like. I'm a determined soul. I have a fantastic imagination. I can make others laugh. I feel good in heels and hold ups. But as for feeling beautiful, god no. Never have, never will, but I don't see it as a minus."

Having checked out your profile, your pics most definitely exude beauty

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham


"When I had my last meet

It's not often that I do get to meet up with someone, but when I am able, I feel very privileged and special at those moments, and I get a feeling that everything is alright in the world "

Indeed. Being in the presence of a woman who's there because she wants to spend some time with you is a sure fire way to make you feel good about yourself. All your troubles can disappear in those moments. That is a nice feeling. I think a lot of us don't get enough of that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's nice reading these

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't remember.

And due to being a modern single male, nearly no part of society will give a shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel attractive and desired, especially since joining fab, but I only feel beautiful in special moments with someone who really cherishes and loves me, such as my family and friends. Those moments have nothing to do with physical appearance.

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By *eembabyWoman
over a year ago

Brum

Never lol

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

The night I met my now ex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Where i walk pooch is so very beautiful , lad evening the sky was filled with stormy clouds , the sea wild . The heather on the Orme was a stuffing shade of purple , totally beautiful .i felt its beauty, would have been lovely to share it with some one

sounds like live in a beautiful part of the country. "
Gods country!

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

not beautiful but I felt good at my wedding

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