FabSwingers.com forum: Two faced people?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How do you cope with people like this? I have come across some in swinging lovely to your face but say all sorts behind your back and thats with out even really knowing you. How do you cope when hereing stuff about yourself thats not true? Wish at times i had a thick skin .... jo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't wish you had thick skin at all, callouses are not as attractive as you may think, and your skin is lovely to look at....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it is hard to deal with BUT sadly it is a simple fact of life.

Sorry to read your a tad wound up about it. Just be true to yourself and let others think what they want.

Have fun in the meantime lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't let folk like that bother me...nor am I thick skinned.

As long as people leave my family and those I love alone, I don't let anyone stress me out.

The key is to be true to yourself and live by that. Greet everyone you know with direct honestly and that is how you will be known...then your friends will recognise the liars when met with them

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

Water off a ducks back. I always say.. If there talking about me, there leaving some other poor sod alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we've came across this, a few times various couples have told us people on here have said nasty stuff about us even tho we have in some cases never spoke or met them, we just put it down to jelousy lol

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I loved two face in that batman film, dunno what he has to do with swinging thou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like the wise man said..life is like a box of chocolates

Keep smiling sexy x

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By *uss PussWoman
over a year ago

east cheshire

I think people who are two faced, bitch behind peoples backs and make up stories have personal insecurities. We should pity them as they are probably very unhappy with thier lot in life, but at the end of the day at is THIER problem

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

for me it is all water of a ducks back....

why would people waste time worrying about what I do, when there are so much other things to be out there....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone is two face...intill proven not quilty of the crime.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as you know the truth then don't worry about it. They'll soon get bored when they realise you don't realy care, and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If its someone that as you say doesn't really know you why worry. The people who dream and make rumours up end up getting caught out eventually.

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By *uss PussWoman
over a year ago

east cheshire

"Everyone is two face...intill proven not quilty of the crime."

is a quilty like a duvet?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Everyone is two face...intill proven not quilty of the crime."
I like to think i am truthfull and would say to a persons face how i felt. But thats just me. Hate it when people say stuff and not true. I know truth can hurt at times but you know where you stand with people. JO XX

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

boil them in oil.......

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By *uss PussWoman
over a year ago

east cheshire

"boil them in oil....... "

kinky fooker

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"boil them in oil.......

kinky fooker

ta x

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

The art of life is learning not to listen to what “he said / she said / they said” no matter how hard you try, you can't stop the world talking.

Rise above such comments, remember, yesterday was history, an hour ago was history, this time tomorrow this thread will be history, live for the moment, one never knows when it'll be taken form us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was refering to guilty, but quilty seemed lit more in relation to the site.

But yes...you do not know anyones true personality through a keyboard. So its a game of chance on here.

Or Guess Who?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hence the reason we stay away from chat, gave it a go once or twice and the amount of bitchiness you see at times is unreal, some see it as a competition to see who can get first strike at new meat, and have even heard of people sabotaging socials, backstabbing is unfortunately a very common swingers trait

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

"backstabbing is unfortunately a very common swingers trait

Really?

never witnessed it, but then again, we're fussy who we socialise with!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Those who seek, will only find what they only concure to be weak.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When someone approaches you with - "oh, you'll never guess what so and so said about you?" simply say, I'm not interested.

You'll find some people take pleasure in making others life a misery. How do you know that anybody actually said anything about you?!! You only have the newsmonger's word for it!

You don't need to develop a thick skin, just take everything with a pinch of salt, and not let other people try and spoil your fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i see backstabbing and jealousy as as i sign of weakness. thats in all aspects of life. people only put other people down to make them selfs feel better.

look at it like me, they must be real low lifes to put any effort into making you feel as bad as them. so ar they worth worrying about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes people put others down for sport.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have seen a lot of bitchiness during swinging, I often try and analyse it (i really should stop) but its begs the question are we really that comfortable with having sex with strangers, or deep down are we insecure and it comes out in some other way, ie bitchiness and back biting

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The art of life is learning not to listen to what “he said / she said / they said” no matter how hard you try, you can't stop the world talking.

Rise above such comments, remember, yesterday was history, an hour ago was history, this time tomorrow this thread will be history, live for the moment, one never knows when it'll be taken form us

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alot of truth in this and alot of other posts here. My mind can run away thinking all sorts but i know i have to stop it or make me up set and see the bigger pic of life. XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always remeber people are not what they seem and there are things in this country that we have no control of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jealous honey...they just can't ever look as good as you do drinking wine on a boat in those boots...phwoaaar!! Take no notice. Doesn't help that you're clearly a right lovely person too. Mwah xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Jealous honey...they just can't ever look as good as you do drinking wine on a boat in those boots...phwoaaar!! Take no notice. Doesn't help that you're clearly a right lovely person too. Mwah xxx"
just wish people could be themselfs with out having to do this. Is it to much to ask. Just like normal every day sexie people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most people show their true colours on here. It is hard to pretend your something you are not on here.

(Intill they get caught out!)

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

If I had 2 faces I could suck double the amount of cocks

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

"Just like normal every day sexie people. "

Just noticed you've changed your avatar pic

Never noticed previously

but allow me to say here and now

what a fabulous pair of breasts you have!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I had 2 faces I could suck double the amount of cocks

What a wonderful thought

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If I had 2 faces I could suck double the amount of cocks

"
TRUE never know if your coming or going , lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

"If I had 2 faces I could suck double the amount of cocks

TRUE never know if your coming or going , lol x"

see now that put a smile on your face

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If I had 2 faces I could suck double the amount of cocks

TRUE never know if your coming or going , lol x

see now that put a smile on your face

x"
sure did you painted a weird pic in my head here lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do you cope with people like this? I have come across some in swinging lovely to your face but say all sorts behind your back and thats with out even really knowing you. How do you cope when hereing stuff about yourself thats not true? Wish at times i had a thick skin .... jo x"
it happend to us we met a nice couple next thing they was slagging other people off to us we dont like people like that ,we try to avoid gossip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes i know what you mean.

ok when your meeting them but slagging you off to others so people dont meet you.

i know and it is upsetting. got my down for a bit when i found out someone had the knife out for me.

felt like i couldnt do anything about it.

so i just left it for a while.

did lost a few meets over what this person said.

just the way it goes sometimes.

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

"did lost a few meets over what this person said"

If people base their opinion on “hearsay” are they really worth meeting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jealous honey...they just can't ever look as good as you do drinking wine on a boat in those boots...phwoaaar!! Take no notice. Doesn't help that you're clearly a right lovely person too. Mwah xxx just wish people could be themselfs with out having to do this. Is it to much to ask. Just like normal every day sexie people. "

You can only feel sorry that they have to do and say these kinds of things. Those kinds of people have problems themselves and that is what makes them this way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't stand people that are two-faced, and I won't let them bother me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually laugh very loudly at them and call them a twat ...

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)

I leave it to the other half

She is bloody good at dealing with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont let it bother me .and ........

Them that do it are not worth bothering with

simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

weve had people slag us off and heard others slag others off, we just make our own mind up about peeps and ignore everything others have told us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We should all be like that .

But unfortunately quite a few decide whether they like people by just going on what others say.

Ive been guilty in the past but now decide when i meet them.

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)

"weve had people slag us off and heard others slag others off, we just make our own mind up about peeps and ignore everything others have told us

I love it when some pickledicks slag people off and make up preposterous bullshit and then it collapses when the people in question meet others or go to organised events. It tends to expose the dreamers as what they are.

your spot on about making your own mind up though, its always the best coarse of action.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yerrr

cuz in most instants you find out what lovely peeps they are.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

It goes over my head. I got more to worry about than if someone is talking behind my back. If their talking about me their not talking about anyone else

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