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By *oodmess OP   Man
over a year ago

yumsville

For you, what gives someone sex appeal?

I have just looked at my local updates and despite a woman having a terrific figure, I just don't find her attractive enough to message (she is great eye candy lol but does not arouse). What does it for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A pulse and enjoy anal!

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"A pulse and enjoy anal! "

Now I remember why we're friends!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eyes and the thing that is between the ears.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For you, what gives someone sex appeal?

I have just looked at my local updates and despite a woman having a terrific figure, I just don't find her attractive enough to message (she is great eye candy lol but does not arouse). What does it for you? "

Why doesn't she arouse, what does it for you OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something to the imagination. Mystery and a good sense of humour x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't think sex appeal is about size or shape, think it's a confidence and personality thing, that glint in the eye or sexy smile can be sexier than someone's ass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A good sense of humour does it for me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me its if a woman can talk more than anything if theres lack of convo theres fuck all there..

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By *oodmess OP   Man
over a year ago

yumsville


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Why doesn't she arouse, what does it for you OP?"

It might just be the photos themselves. Pictures are just a snapshot but you have to admit some can be a little lifeless, where others grasp your intrigue. Maybe as others have said - a little mystery, devilishness, or an arch in the right way gets me interested. Humour chatting is good, but on first sight - someone who looks like they'd taste good? - maybe?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It isn't easy to make yourself "come alive" with photos though. You might find if you message her she comes across differently.....and then if you meet her she may come across differently again.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

Sex appeal is all about the complete person for me so I can only judge that when I meet someone.

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Don't think sex appeal is about size or shape, think it's a confidence and personality thing, that glint in the eye or sexy smile can be sexier than someone's ass "

Totally agree

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By *oodmess OP   Man
over a year ago

yumsville

Responses seem quite odd now - we all have tastes, and we all see things that turn us on or we would just message everyone and set up meets constantly. We would never delete one single message as we would want to meet the inner person.

Soooooooo again, sex appeal?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eyes piercing eyes that can see into your soul certain looks the lady doesn't have to say a word and you know what she is thinking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It isn't easy to make yourself "come alive" with photos though. You might find if you message her she comes across differently.....and then if you meet her she may come across differently again. "

'Come alive' - you most certainly do - oh my days!!!

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante


"Responses seem quite odd now - we all have tastes, and we all see things that turn us on or we would just message everyone and set up meets constantly. We would never delete one single message as we would want to meet the inner person.

Soooooooo again, sex appeal? "

I refer the honourable gentleman to my previous answer....we don't arrange meets on the Internet but meet people in everyday life...some have sex appeal, some don't....there's no single or simple answer for me.

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Well OP, she might have said exactly the same thing about you

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By *tretchygirl and tintinWoman
over a year ago

Dartford


"Something to the imagination. Mystery and a good sense of humour x"

I agree with this. It turns me on to be intrigued and to have someone pique my imagination. Also a good laugh helps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A meeting of minds as well as physical attraction. I don't mean the wealth of pseudo- intellectual types I mean banter and having a laugh but some intelligence too x

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By *nFairnessMan
over a year ago

The Four Corners

Many things I dont ever expect to find all these things in one person but alas a man can hope...

-Intelligence.

LOL and...

-Wit

-Ability to bite back

-Humor

-Open mindedness

-Long lines in the neck

-Hair that covers long lines in the neck

-Dark eyes

just a few there are more but ill leave the rest otherwise half a dozen extra fake profiles will be created asking me to pay for cam sessions.

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By *layfull pairingCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Confidence......

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

It's all about the high five.

The correct sound needs to be made, the right balance of sincerity and irony.

I can't be attracted to a poor high fiver. (((shudder)))

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A pussey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lollipop in the mouth has a lot of sex appeal in a certain persons pics

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By *aramelMINXWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Smiles

sumone who is confident but not cocky

The muscles and models dnt do it for me as that's textbook that's why I put on my profile sumone who stands out from the crowd

That sumthing everyone dsnt have they got it that something

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By *aramelMINXWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"For you, what gives someone sex appeal?

I have just looked at my local updates and despite a woman having a terrific figure, I just don't find her attractive enough to message (she is great eye candy lol but does not arouse). What does it for you? "

I'm not conventional in any means but I seem to hit a few people's buttons on n off site. ..but returning it is harder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My spark seems to be that someone is into me or at least OK with me joining in

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"A lollipop in the mouth has a lot of sex appeal in a certain persons pics "

You're welcome to a suck any time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lollipop in the mouth has a lot of sex appeal in a certain persons pics

You're welcome to a suck any time."

I hear you're an equal opportunities kind of guy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"A lollipop in the mouth has a lot of sex appeal in a certain persons pics

You're welcome to a suck any time.

I hear you're an equal opportunities kind of guy? "

I'm only ghey for View bro but you're welcome to watch xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That glint in the eye and innocent smile that say's scratch the surface and I'm 90% devil

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By *oodmess OP   Man
over a year ago

yumsville

I think it's in the feet for me.

They can have the nicest legs - but even in heels, if they just seem to be sitting in em, I'm like, 'oh'. Someone mentioned it - I think it's the lines. I need a woman with lines

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lollipop in the mouth has a lot of sex appeal in a certain persons pics

You're welcome to a suck any time."

Oh don't tempt me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sex appeal is all about the complete person for me so I can only judge that when I meet someone."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For you, what gives someone sex appeal?

I have just looked at my local updates and despite a woman having a terrific figure, I just don't find her attractive enough to message (she is great eye candy lol but does not arouse). What does it for you? "

Mysteriousness and the look behind the eyes. I've seen guys faces on cam who aren't speaking but taking through typing and they've had such a hot mysterious look about them!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Someone that can make me laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Photos don't give the whole picture,just an umm..picture. Sex appeal is in his walk,how he looks at me,how he conducts himself in public.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone that can make me laugh"

Ken Dodd? Jimmy Durante?

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