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By *erbyDalesCpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

Can't view big pictures? Meh.

Can't see pm threads? Pfft.

Can't tell how far away people are? Pah.

Can't list 'near me' by preference? Whatever.

Can't spend the day making little notes like some sort of dodgy, secret, jamesbond-esque stalker? Whoa, hang on there a cotton-pickin minute good fella, where's that premium member button again?

Who else uses 'Private Notes'?

Mr ddc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we don't

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I've never used private notes, what do people write on them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have used them before. I remember that someone owes ne one,I can't remember one what though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never used private notes, what do people write on them"

Private notes.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

I write their real names!

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

use them occasionally as memory is shocking!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't view big pictures? Meh.

Can't see pm threads? Pfft.

Can't tell how far away people are? Pah.

Can't list 'near me' by preference? Whatever.

Can't spend the day making little notes like some sort of dodgy, secret, jamesbond-esque stalker? Whoa, hang on there a cotton-pickin minute good fella, where's that premium member button again?

Who else uses 'Private Notes'?

Mr ddc"

I didn't even know you could use private notes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never used private notes, what do people write on them

Private notes."

You should see what I've written about you

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By *erbyDalesCpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"I've never used private notes, what do people write on them"

No idea. My memory's so bad I forget to look at them.

I just like reading posts and going "Ah-ha, your nem iz alzo going in ze book" while Mrs ddc shouts from her sofa "Don't tell him, Pike"

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I've never used private notes, what do people write on them

No idea. My memory's so bad I forget to look at them.

I just like reading posts and going "Ah-ha, your nem iz alzo going in ze book" while Mrs ddc shouts from her sofa "Don't tell him, Pike"

"

In my head you're in one of those big playpens on the floor with a plastic bowl of cheerios (no milk) accessing the site with a leap pad.

That's what's in my private notes...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually use them to remind me who is a nob

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By *erbyDalesCpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"In my head you're in one of those big playpens on the floor with a plastic bowl of cheerios (no milk) accessing the site with a leap pad.

That's what's in my private notes... "

Shit!

{furtively makes note that she somehow has remote access to my webcam }

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I don't use notes, mainly as I think they're for paid up users.

Would be useful for many reasons, obviously the names as mentioned, also things in common, if you've possibly been messed about but unsure, what photos you've shared, if you ever met with details and more.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"In my head you're in one of those big playpens on the floor with a plastic bowl of cheerios (no milk) accessing the site with a leap pad.

That's what's in my private notes...

Shit!

{furtively makes note that she somehow has remote access to my webcam }"

The security on leap pads is not that difficult to crack!

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Put ya hand in ya pocket ta tight git. Its only a 5er

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

I think many only fork out the fiver to see who's looked at them.

Must be gutting when it works out at £2.50 a view every two months.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do a lot. Makes Mr giggle when he comes across a random note I may have made about someone.

For me it's things like... guy or girl not for me. A note about a status that put me off.. forum post etc x but if its going to be a while before meeting someone I May just make a note to remind myself.

If we met them and never again... That gets noted too x

I have the worlds worst memory

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By *erbyDalesCpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"I think many only fork out the fiver to see who's looked at them.

Must be gutting when it works out at £2.50 a view every two months.

A"

Especially when it turns out it was only Sarah-Jane, so she could send you one of her 'special 24 hour invites'

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

I do . I copy the repeat messages just to remind myself they said the se last time . Useful i find

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather

Nagh, my attention span is too short for that, I use the hotlist/block combo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i used to use it to jot down the ramblings of opionionated wankers on the forums ... so on the off chance that they mail me looking a meet , I can look back at all the reasons why I will have to say no

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I think many only fork out the fiver to see who's looked at them.

Must be gutting when it works out at £2.50 a view every two months.

A

Especially when it turns out it was only Sarah-Jane, so she could send you one of her 'special 24 hour invites' "

I never get any of those!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do . I copy the repeat messages just to remind myself they said the se last time . Useful i find"

We do this too. I really wish messages would just attach to profiles.

We also note specific things like people's names or whether they have sent face pics (and whether we liked said pics )

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've started to use them been interesting

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"I've never used private notes, what do people write on them"

secrets..

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain


"I didn't even know you could use private notes "

Yup, Site Supporters can update their Private Notes.

I can't tell you what's in mine... cos it's private

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain


"I think many only fork out the fiver to see who's looked at them.

Must be gutting when it works out at £2.50 a view every two months.

A"

Obi I perv you in Mode (so it's better value than you think).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We use them to let us know who we've said 'no thanks' to, and who's said 'no thanks' to us.

Would hate to accidentally pester someone who's already knocked us back

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By *erbyDalesCpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"Put ya hand in ya pocket ta tight git. Its only a 5er "

All right, all right. It's bad enough mrs ddc moaning she can't keep track of her message threads without you giving me grief too!

Trouble is, I've now forgotton what it was I wanted to make a note about

Anyone got any gossip I could write about someone?

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I wish I used them more

love finding a profile that I've put a note on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Put ya hand in ya pocket ta tight git. Its only a 5er "

I'm not spending a penny to sit on the naughty step!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Oh I do! And not really in a good way! Any shit crass and crude message? C&P into private notes! That way can't try being Mr Nice guy a few weeks later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use the private notes function a fair bit. I'll note things like when I've messaged and they've not replied; if we've chatted and it tailed off before a meet could be planned; if we chatted and they bored or offended me; if they've sent a face pic and I didn't like it; the reason I blocked someone in case I somehow end up on their blocked profile I know why I blocked them, so yeah I use them a just a little

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By *huramMan
over a year ago

London


"i used to use it to jot down the ramblings of opionionated wankers on the forums ... so on the off chance that they mail me looking a meet , I can look back at all the reasons why I will have to say no "

This is why I should have stayed away from the bloody forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, usually to associate names with faces (or bums)!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Put ya hand in ya pocket ta tight git. Its only a 5er

All right, all right. It's bad enough mrs ddc moaning she can't keep track of her message threads without you giving me grief too!

Trouble is, I've now forgotton what it was I wanted to make a note about

Anyone got any gossip I could write about someone?"

Isn't there more fun to be had inventing your own?

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

private notes are great... I tend to use them for evil!!!

they are very theraputic in getting rid of angst and putting down how you really think of people.. and then possibly getting rid of them later...

i said possibly!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have one standard private note template I use : emailed on (date). No reply / deleted / unread etc

That way I know not to bother people I've contacted again. I don't use private notes for any other reason

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I use mine to make comments about why I think someone might be a tosspot (blocking makes the fact I might think that a little too obvious), I am great with word facts but dates are my Achilles heel so I note birthdays and things, whether it's someone I liked but didn't get a chance to meet yet since saved messages only go back so far. That kind of thing. Oh, and I have private notes on my own profile as well for the stuff that's Fab not user specific.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never used private notes, what do people write on them

Private notes."

if you hadn't of said it I would've done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooh ive never used them. Wouldnt you love to know what people have noted about you? The mind boggles x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The site is clever, shame some people arent so clever on here. And I use private notes if there is someone I like the look of

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I do, to help remind me of names and especially the ones that have no pics on their profile but have sent me a pic and I'm not interested in.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where do I find private notes???? Looked can't see anywhere??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Where do I find private notes???? Looked can't see anywhere??"

I only ever use the mobile version of this site so have no idea about the desktop site. But if you're on a phone then in the persons profile, click on 'menu' at the top then 'your private notes' appears

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Ooh ive never used them. Wouldnt you love to know what people have noted about you? The mind boggles x"

Oh I'm sure a fair few have 'a complete bitch' on mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"private notes are great... I tend to use them for evil!!!

they are very theraputic in getting rid of angst and putting down how you really think of people.. and then possibly getting rid of them later...

i said possibly!!! "

Possibly get rid of the people?

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By *erbyDalesCpl OP   Couple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


" then possibly getting rid of them later...

i said possibly!!!

Possibly get rid of the people? "

That option has just GOT to be more than £2.50/month

.

You lot are so much better at this than us, despite us using them, we still spent much of yesterday arguing "no, weren't they the ones who...",

"no, that was ---, these ones were the ones where we..."

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Where do I find private notes???? Looked can't see anywhere??"

You need to be a site supporter to be able to use them.

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

we aren't always online together so for couples private notes are useful, one of us might get a message of interest or see a profile and we'll make a note on it so the other can read it when they're online. we don't write nasty stuff on them LOL

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By *lfieWoman
over a year ago

South Dublin

Nah, have never bothered.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I wrote a private note the other day. It says:

"What does this do?"

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford


"I've never used private notes, what do people write on them

Private notes.

You should see what I've written about you "

New entry - has erect nipples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't need private notes...if you like them you'll remember them if you don't like them that's what the block button is for

Harsh I know sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never used private notes, what do people write on them

Private notes.

You should see what I've written about you

New entry - has erect nipples "

New entry - definite perv

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford


"I've never used private notes, what do people write on them

Private notes.

You should see what I've written about you

New entry - has erect nipples

New entry - definite perv "

Thank you

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