FabSwingers.com forum: Great meet then blown out

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Having had an amazing meet all day on Sunday. Everything in common and chemistry was there. Then got the dreaded block on whatsapp and profile deleted from fab. What a dissapointment after a great meet. Has this happened often to other guys or couples on here? (And no, I was not bombarding my meet with messages)

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Maybe they got what they wanted and that was all that they wanted and left it there, wouldn't stress over it too much

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Sure about the chemistry?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They we're probably married or in a relationship and felt guilty. Tut tut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

May be that you got more out of it than the other person did! I've had to get my head round that too, but once you do it makes things easier

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Defo chemistry was there but o do suspect the intensity of the whole day was too much and suspect there is another man in her life hence deleting her whole profile

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Having had an amazing meet all day on Sunday. Everything in common and chemistry was there. Then got the dreaded block on whatsapp and profile deleted from fab. What a dissapointment after a great meet. Has this happened often to other guys or couples on here? (And no, I was not bombarding my meet with messages)"

If their profile is deleted from fab I would say it's more about them only wanting a one off than it is about you. There could be loads of reasons for that and none of them changes the experience you had on Sunday

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for that post. Your right. Nothing changes that fantastic experience!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I doubt you're the first its ever happened to and won't be the last. Its no strings sex, they owe you nothing more however well you thought you got on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I doubt you're the first its ever happened to and won't be the last. Its no strings sex, they owe you nothing more however well you thought you got on."

That's true. Just odd the whole profile was deleted. Oh well. Live and learn. It's not like I am naive or never had meets. Had plenty on here over the years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I doubt you're the first its ever happened to and won't be the last. Its no strings sex, they owe you nothing more however well you thought you got on.

That's true. Just odd the whole profile was deleted. Oh well. Live and learn. It's not like I am naive or never had meets. Had plenty on here over the years"

Maybe they decided this lifestyle wasn't for them ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I doubt you're the first its ever happened to and won't be the last. Its no strings sex, they owe you nothing more however well you thought you got on.

That's true. Just odd the whole profile was deleted. Oh well. Live and learn. It's not like I am naive or never had meets. Had plenty on here over the years

Maybe they decided this lifestyle wasn't for them ?"

Possibly or they have a significant other In there life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I doubt you're the first its ever happened to and won't be the last. Its no strings sex, they owe you nothing more however well you thought you got on.

That's true. Just odd the whole profile was deleted. Oh well. Live and learn. It's not like I am naive or never had meets. Had plenty on here over the years

Maybe they decided this lifestyle wasn't for them ?

Possibly or they have a significant other In there life"

Well whatever the reason, you'll never know for sure so no point wasting a second more of your time worrying about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe you were so good her itch got scratched. Keep the good memories and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep your chin up. A lot of single guys will testify that it's hard to get meets and you've had one that you really enjoyed. I'm sure there will be other great meets who do stick around. Good luck.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Why is it a disappointment ?

How did you know they'd removed their profile ?

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"I doubt you're the first its ever happened to and won't be the last. Its no strings sex, they owe you nothing more however well you thought you got on.

That's true. Just odd the whole profile was deleted. Oh well. Live and learn. It's not like I am naive or never had meets. Had plenty on here over the years

Maybe they decided this lifestyle wasn't for them ?

Possibly or they have a significant other In there life

Well whatever the reason, you'll never know for sure so no point wasting a second more of your time worrying about it. "

this..

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Unless you speak to her again you'll never know the reason why. I wouldn't automatically assume she's in a relationship unless she said something to make you think that. People leave for many reasons, but all of those reasons are about them and what their needs are.

Just file it away as a great experience and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's very rear I do re meets, I block most people after a meet, does not mean I didn't like them its just I prefer one offs so after I have met I tend to block

Don't take it personal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's very rear I do re meets, I block most people after a meet, does not mean I didn't like them its just I prefer one offs so after I have met I tend to block

Don't take it personal "

Id consider that a little harsh, I get you like one off meets but by blocking them it could (and this is just my opinion dont block me

) come across a little arrogant and potentially upsetting for the blocked party. Now I know you're not arrogant at all and good natured, some may not fully understand

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

"It's very rear I do re meets, I block most people after a meet, does not mean I didn't like them its just I prefer one offs so after I have met I tend to block

Don't take it personal "

They're what I refer to as Vampires (always seeking new blood) Like NN they have fun then move on.

Sadly they always turn out to be the most perfect meets as I'm sure you found out?

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By *rtemisiaWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

All the time mate. Learning curve, innit?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, that happened to me last year with a very pretty lady from Chester. Great meet, glowing veri, then... nothing. Just stopped replying to my messages completely. All you can do is shrug and move on. It's a shame, but that's Fab for you.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

onwards and upwards.....

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"...after the break... more speculation..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its nsa sex and most want one offs. Forget about her, happens to us all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish I could switch my feelings off as easily as some can do on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's very rear I do re meets, I block most people after a meet, does not mean I didn't like them its just I prefer one offs so after I have met I tend to block

Don't take it personal "

Great idea

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Enjoy the memory and work up a cool story about how YOU blew HER out, instead, possibly one involving you being fed up of girls just wanting you for your cock. It's worth a try

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Try not to take it to heart, people do things for different reasons.

On the positive, you managed to message, communicate and have a great time with a lady from fab so you have something going for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well so many guys moan they dont get meets at all and you had a whole sunday of what sounds like absolute pleasure - fab is what fab is

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"Id consider that a little harsh, I get you like one off meets but by blocking them it could (and this is just my opinion dont block me

) come across a little arrogant and potentially upsetting for the blocked party. Now I know you're not arrogant at all and good natured, some may not fully understand

Ahhh, there speaks the voice of someone who hasn't had to deal with a zillion "Just wondering if you'd changed your mind yet" PMs.

(Not me mind, Mrs ddc. Mine are more along the lines of "Don't worry, it happens to lots of men"

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OP: enjoy the memories, be grateful to fate for the opportunities, and keep smiling.

Good luck

Mr ddc

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

People are often here for absolutely no strings fun, whether for 5 minutes or all day and may never do repeat meets. One persons great session is another persons so-so meet too.

Enjoy the fun you get and live each day as it comes. And keep an open mind about what people say too - it may not always resemble reality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's happens way too often and it's purely the individual not yourself, I wouldn't take it to heart. You had fun that's what matters.

I haven't had this issue personally but I have had the issue of after a meet u don't hear from them for like a few months until they get bored of everyone else or being rejected and want u again and they think dropping a message saying 'I got a free house' will work. That's demoralising.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks all. I am fortunate in being a Down to earth guys that gets more than his fair share of meets even if I don't have a 6 pack and past 40! Makes me wonder what most people write to new people is likely to be tosh or think a cock pick saying lets fuck now will impress

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks all. I am fortunate in being a Down to earth guys that gets more than his fair share of meets even if I don't have a 6 pack and past 40! Makes me wonder what most people write to new people is likely to be tosh or think a cock pick saying lets fuck now will impress"

I wouldn't worry and let them carry on, they make the decent guys stand out more

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I wouldn't worry and let them carry on, they make the decent guys stand out more "

Well I like to think I am a decent and respectful time and almost all the meets I have had have been great. Just frustrated with how this ended! Live and learn

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's happens way too often and it's purely the individual not yourself, I wouldn't take it to heart. You had fun that's what matters.

Well yes. At least we both had a great day Sunday whatever else happened after

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for all the posts. Was certainly an interesting experience. Maybe as I have just come back from Sri Lanka I was more open and chilled as I normally am when I get back from a Buddhist country

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Maybe they got what they wanted and that was all that they wanted and left it there, wouldn't stress over it too much

That's quite possible. I am normally not as open with meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe they got what they wanted and that was all that they wanted and left it there, wouldn't stress over it too much

That's quite possible. I am normally not as open with meets"

Your profile made me le giggle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe they got what they wanted and that was all that they wanted and left it there, wouldn't stress over it too much

That's quite possible. I am normally not as open with meets

Your profile made me le giggle."

'le giggle'

Nice to see a lovely French woman in the forums

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Maybe they got what they wanted and that was all that they wanted and left it there, wouldn't stress over it too much

That's quite possible. I am normally not as open with meets

Indeed lol

Your profile made me le giggle.

'le giggle'

Nice to see a lovely French woman in the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's very rear I do re meets, I block most people after a meet, does not mean I didn't like them its just I prefer one offs so after I have met I tend to block

Don't take it personal

Id consider that a little harsh, I get you like one off meets but by blocking them it could (and this is just my opinion dont block me

) come across a little arrogant and potentially upsetting for the blocked party. Now I know you're not arrogant at all and good natured, some may not fully understand

I doubt anybody is going to be upset because I have blocked them let's keep it real here

I tell all my meets I'm only after one offs so they know after we have met we won't be meeting again so why would it bother them if I block them? It's not like any guy on here is going to want to stay in touch with me is it?

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By *oxy666Woman
over a year ago

ipswich/ colchester

When I meet a guy if they are not what I expected I will still be flirty and fun because that's who I am but once out of their company I would not want anymore to do with them. Bit extreme to block and delete tho!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe they got what they wanted and that was all that they wanted and left it there, wouldn't stress over it too much

That's quite possible. I am normally not as open with meets

Your profile made me le giggle.

'le giggle'

Nice to see a lovely French woman in the forums

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Not read any of the thread so forgive me if this has been said....

Yes its happened to me and i was completely baffled by it. Then 2 days later i got a call of some guy not a number i had in my phone but he called me by my name user then my real name. He then asked me if id been shagging his wife. Take from that what you will

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not read any of the thread so forgive me if this has been said....

Not had an angry bf or hubby call as of yet. Anyhow onwards and upwards and hopefully a meet shortly to ease my poor confused mind

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Not read any of the thread so forgive me if this has been said....

Not had an angry bf or hubby call as of yet. Anyhow onwards and upwards and hopefully a meet shortly to ease my poor confused mind"

Was a new 1 on me to especially telling the poor sod i had but was as much in the dark as him. You live and learn mate you really do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not read any of the thread so forgive me if this has been said....

A woman on here?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well it was a weird one. Moved on. If she wants to contact then she can but I won't do any chasing. Was a great day though. Not bad considering I was only back in the UK 12 hours after landing from 3 weeks in Sri Lanka

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Well it was a weird one. Moved on. If she wants to contact then she can but I won't do any chasing. Was a great day though. Not bad considering I was only back in the UK 12 hours after landing from 3 weeks in Sri Lanka "

You can hardly chase her since you're blocked

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By *oneyCherryTV/TS
over a year ago

Clapham, London

"Maybe you were so good her itch got scratched. Keep the good memories and move on."

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By *oneyCherryTV/TS
over a year ago

Clapham, London

"People are often here for absolutely no strings fun, whether for 5 minutes or all day and may never do repeat meets. One persons great session is another persons so-so meet too.

Enjoy the fun you get and live each day as it comes. And keep an open mind about what people say too - it may not always resemble reality."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Good advice

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Seems a lot of angst over no strings sex. If after one meet you're upset and confused, how would you have reacted if she couldn't meet you when you asked but then a verification appeared from someone extolling her virtues?

We are all individuals using the site to suit our needs. It suited her to have no further contact with you: get over it.

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