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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A receive on average 50 messages a day, most sexual one liners, any suggestions to reduce this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Filters... Age range, set your filters in accordance to your age range. Either that or just block everyone from messaging you and search for yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I average about 0 in the searches lol but via the forum posts as I like to chat about different things in pm, about 10 average.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Yes delete them all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have filters but ave noticed a lot become illiterate on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have filters but ave noticed a lot become illiterate on here"

ave you now

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By *BA123Man
over a year ago

DUDLEY

50 more than me then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

One thing I've noticed guys who don't have ts or tv on profile message as they say it puts females off them .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hardly get any now ive utilised the filters

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A think a will have to be more aggressive with filters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you want to reduce?

If it's all messages so you can sort out your inbox or keep on top of it while chatting then just put a status up saying you're deleting your inbox and anyone who messages right now will likely be deleted. You'll probably get 0 messages at this time.

If it's better quality messages then ask for this on your profile. Word it in a way that encourages nice messages, like my profile i say i get a lot of nice messages and am grateful for that (i do get mostly decent messages).

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By *ildt123Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

How about being grateful for people taking the time to write lol, 50 a day!!! I don't get that a year! Seriously if it's a pain use the filters or live with it, I guess it can get a bit much but it's not end of the world mate

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"A think a will have to be more aggressive with filters "

You're not using any so starting to use them will help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can stop it OP - put all your filters on.

There is no need to get inundated with unwanted mails, some people of course enjoy the attention and the feeling of being popular and wanted, so they leave it so all and sundry can message and like to tell people how many messages they get a day. And some people don't really get that many messages but they can't admit it because they have to appear popular.

Get your filters set to the max and search yourself. You won't be hassled by messages then ..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What is op? Yes ave added more filters today

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By *ustus4uMan
over a year ago

closer then you think

Lucky you that must be hard to deal with all those messages I can't remember the last one I had lol it's been that long I've forgotten were the icon is to open them pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block newbies or people without pics.. Or block everyone and mail people yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is op? Yes ave added more filters today "

You are OP, it's even next to your name in here.

Original poster.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ah right never noticed

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