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"Hi First question what is OP after some people's names. Second question why do all the single males constantly moan about not getting meets. This is a swinging site. Surely you'd be better off on POF or tinder ?? " If we get rid of singles guys who I happen to have had a great deal of fun with then we have to get rid of single females if your working along the lines that swinging is only a couples pastime | |||
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"OP has been answered. Some single guys seem to feel they have a right to a meet because they are on here. Same as some couples choose to believe only their definition of swinging is the right one. I do notice you are not saying all the single females should be on POF or tinder and not here too...?" I don't really see women moaning about not having meets. | |||
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"Hello. Welcome. Good questions. I am an honest truthful person and that isn't a lie. O.P. Is now after your name. Cos you started the thread. YOU are the Original Poster. O.P. Men moan. Thank you for listening. " Thank you for your kind reply | |||
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"Hi First question what is OP after some people's names. Second question why do all the single males constantly moan about not getting meets. This is a swinging site. Surely you'd be better off on POF or tinder ?? If we get rid of singles guys who I happen to have had a great deal of fun with then we have to get rid of single females if your working along the lines that swinging is only a couples pastime " | |||
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"OP has been answered. Some single guys seem to feel they have a right to a meet because they are on here. Same as some couples choose to believe only their definition of swinging is the right one. I do notice you are not saying all the single females should be on POF or tinder and not here too...? I don't really see women moaning about not having meets. " Some do, just the same way some men do... but a lot of either sex just quietly and happily get on with their fab life. I've also seen couples moan about not being able to meet who they want - should they go away somewhere else too? | |||
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"OP has been answered. Some single guys seem to feel they have a right to a meet because they are on here. Same as some couples choose to believe only their definition of swinging is the right one. I do notice you are not saying all the single females should be on POF or tinder and not here too...? I don't really see women moaning about not having meets. " Cos women CAN but men have to keep trying and getting nowhere. | |||
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"OP has been answered. Some single guys seem to feel they have a right to a meet because they are on here. Same as some couples choose to believe only their definition of swinging is the right one. I do notice you are not saying all the single females should be on POF or tinder and not here too...? I don't really see women moaning about not having meets. " That's is because the site is saturated with men, they get offers with no effort all the time, try it from a man's view and see lol. | |||
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"Hi First question what is OP after some people's names. Second question why do all the single males constantly moan about not getting meets. This is a swinging site. Surely you'd be better off on POF or tinder ?? If we get rid of singles guys who I happen to have had a great deal of fun with then we have to get rid of single females if your working along the lines that swinging is only a couples pastime " It's not really about single people being on here as I know everyone wants something different. It is about the moaning. I don't even mind the posts asking for advice to improve their profile but it's the moaning that grates on me....now I'm moaning about moaning !! | |||
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" I do notice you are not saying all the single females should be on POF or tinder and not here too...? I don't really see women moaning about not having meets. " i can point you in the direction of some doozy's over the last week or so... men moan women moan heck.... even couples moan!!! | |||
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"Why do some people feel they should dictate how others should behave,,,,,, Hey.... it's just random a question.... You're welcome..... " I don't dictate to anyone. Im just not a fan of moaning on here or in life generally | |||
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" I do notice you are not saying all the single females should be on POF or tinder and not here too...? I don't really see women moaning about not having meets. i can point you in the direction of some doozy's over the last week or so... men moan women moan heck.... even couples moan!!!" Ahem........ cough-cough | |||
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"They moan because they think someone will go " AWww ! Can't get laid ? I'll help you out and have sex with you"......can't see it's ever worked but don't stop um trying " Good shout. I like that answer and you never know it might work | |||
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"Hi First question what is OP after some people's names. Second question why do all the single males constantly moan about not getting meets. This is a swinging site. Surely you'd be better off on POF or tinder ?? If we get rid of singles guys who I happen to have had a great deal of fun with then we have to get rid of single females if your working along the lines that swinging is only a couples pastime It's not really about single people being on here as I know everyone wants something different. It is about the moaning. I don't even mind the posts asking for advice to improve their profile but it's the moaning that grates on me....now I'm moaning about moaning !!" Women do their fair share of moaning on here too | |||
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" I do notice you are not saying all the single females should be on POF or tinder and not here too...? I don't really see women moaning about not having meets. i can point you in the direction of some doozy's over the last week or so... men moan women moan heck.... even couples moan!!!" | |||
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" I do notice you are not saying all the single females should be on POF or tinder and not here too...? I don't really see women moaning about not having meets. i can point you in the direction of some doozy's over the last week or so... men moan women moan heck.... even couples moan!!! Ahem........ cough-cough " I hear the passive moaning of a distant TV. | |||
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"Why do some people feel they should dictate how others should behave,,,,,, Hey.... it's just random a question.... You're welcome..... I don't dictate to anyone. Im just not a fan of moaning on here or in life generally " lol..... I wasn't aiming that at anyone .... It was just a random question challenging motives... | |||
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"Why do some people feel they should dictate how others should behave,,,,,, Hey.... it's just random a I I don't dictate to anyone. Im just not a fan of moaning on here or in life generally lol..... I wasn't aiming that at anyone .... It was just a random question challenging motives... " Thank you for challenging me. All valid points | |||
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"Hi First question what is OP after some people's names. Second question why do all the single males constantly moan about not getting meets. This is a swinging site. Surely you'd be better off on POF or tinder ?? " OP = Official Pirate. Men moan. Women moan. Couples moan. Unions moan. Employers moan. Employees moan. The whole world moans. Some people have had a moan in the past and now post about moany people. Oh the irony....... Some people even write moany posts about people moaning. Some people just get on with it. | |||
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"Hi First question what is OP after some people's names. Second question why do all the single males constantly moan about not getting meets. This is a swinging site. Surely you'd be better off on POF or tinder ?? OP = Official Pirate. Men moan. Women moan. Couples moan. Unions moan. Employers moan. Employees moan. The whole world moans. Some people have had a moan in the past and now post about moany people. Oh the irony....... Some people even write moany posts about people moaning. Some people just get on with it. " Men.like.it when I moan | |||
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"Hi First question what is OP after some people's names. Second question why do all the single males constantly moan about not getting meets. This is a swinging site. Surely you'd be better off on POF or tinder ?? OP = Official Pirate. Men moan. Women moan. Couples moan. Unions moan. Employers moan. Employees moan. The whole world moans. Some people have had a moan in the past and now post about moany people. Oh the irony....... Some people even write moany posts about people moaning. Some people just get on with it. " I am never going to moan again !! | |||
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"Hi First question what is OP after some people's names. Second question why do all the single males constantly moan about not getting meets. This is a swinging site. Surely you'd be better off on POF or tinder ?? OP = Official Pirate. Men moan. Women moan. Couples moan. Unions moan. Employers moan. Employees moan. The whole world moans. Some people have had a moan in the past and now post about moany people. Oh the irony....... Some people even write moany posts about people moaning. Some people just get on with it. Men.like.it when I moan " | |||
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"Hi First question what is OP after some people's names. Second question why do all the single males constantly moan about not getting meets. This is a swinging site. Surely you'd be better off on POF or tinder ?? OP = Official Pirate. Men moan. Women moan. Couples moan. Unions moan. Employers moan. Employees moan. The whole world moans. Some people have had a moan in the past and now post about moany people. Oh the irony....... Some people even write moany posts about people moaning. Some people just get on with it. I am never going to moan again !! " Moan all you like. Sometimes people will join in. There's nothing like a group moan. The forums are free to comment on pretty much anything, the lounge in particular. If fairness the other forums are more serious, the lounge is mostly full of people having fun, larking about, enjoying themselves and sharing chit chat with everyone else. Oh yes, and there's moaning.... | |||
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"Hi First question what is OP after some people's names. Second question why do all the single males constantly moan about not getting meets. This is a swinging site. Surely you'd be better off on POF or tinder ?? OP = Official Pirate. Men moan. Women moan. Couples moan. Unions moan. Employers moan. Employees moan. The whole world moans. Some people have had a moan in the past and now post about moany people. Oh the irony....... Some people even write moany posts about people moaning. Some people just get on with it. I am never going to moan again !! Moan all you like. Sometimes people will join in. There's nothing like a group moan. The forums are free to comment on pretty much anything, the lounge in particular. If fairness the other forums are more serious, the lounge is mostly full of people having fun, larking about, enjoying themselves and sharing chit chat with everyone else. Oh yes, and there's moaning.... " I need to go to Specsavers I read that as 'sharing clit chat' | |||
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"Hi First question what is OP after some people's names. Second question why do all the single males constantly moan about not getting meets. This is a swinging site. Surely you'd be better off on POF or tinder ?? OP = Official Pirate. Men moan. Women moan. Couples moan. Unions moan. Employers moan. Employees moan. The whole world moans. Some people have had a moan in the past and now post about moany people. Oh the irony....... Some people even write moany posts about people moaning. Some people just get on with it. I am never going to moan again !! Moan all you like. Sometimes people will join in. There's nothing like a group moan. The forums are free to comment on pretty much anything, the lounge in particular. If fairness the other forums are more serious, the lounge is mostly full of people having fun, larking about, enjoying themselves and sharing chit chat with everyone else. Oh yes, and there's moaning.... I need to go to Specsavers I read that as 'sharing clit chat' " I'm sure there's been plenty of clip chat occurring. I have to remember the other forums are more serious. My brain and what I think is appropriate usually don't connect in time before I say or think something that is very inappropriate. Thanks for your help x | |||
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" I do notice you are not saying all the single females should be on POF or tinder and not here too...? I don't really see women moaning about not having meets. i can point you in the direction of some doozy's over the last week or so... men moan women moan heck.... even couples moan!!! Ahem........ cough-cough I hear the passive moaning of a distant TV." Gwanny...... that TV needs a good seeing too.... its on the blink.... | |||
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"Hi First question what is OP after some people's names. Second question why do all the single males constantly moan about not getting meets. This is a swinging site. Surely you'd be better off on POF or tinder ?? " I don't think ALL single males moan about not getting meets! I certainly don't. It is without doubt difficult being a single guy on here and probably is on those other sites as well. Most threads started by single males moaning about the lack of meets are just a desperate last ditch attempt to get some female attention. Not good to see but I can understand why someone might do that. I've learned to just chill and go with the flow myself so it doesn't bother me anymore. If you're an average guy like myself it can be very very difficult. Please don't underestimate that. All you single women and couples should try playing a single male for a few weeks. It would be a real eye opener believe me. Remember single women and couples can just sit on their arses with the shittiest profiles and the shittiest pics if they want, and still get loads and loads of messages of which they can then pick and choose who if any they want to meet. Single guys are the complete opposite of that. Some guys have success. Good for them, but it's not easy. | |||
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" I don't really see women moaning about not having meets. That's is because the site is saturated with men, they get offers with no effort all the time, try it from a man's view and see lol." Try it from a females perspective! You have no idea! Receiving more messages does not make it any easier, trust me | |||
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" I don't really see women moaning about not having meets. That's is because the site is saturated with men, they get offers with no effort all the time, try it from a man's view and see lol. Try it from a females perspective! You have no idea! Receiving more messages does not make it any easier, trust me " Oh and I have just had a 19 year old blaming my lack of filters rather than him not reading my profile! Sending me a crude message is not his fault it is mine so go bloody figure lol | |||
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" I don't really see women moaning about not having meets. That's is because the site is saturated with men, they get offers with no effort all the time, try it from a man's view and see lol. Try it from a females perspective! You have no idea! Receiving more messages does not make it any easier, trust me " That's right. I should try it from your end. Yeah must be like a nightmare sorting them emails out lol. | |||
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" I don't really see women moaning about not having meets. That's is because the site is saturated with men, they get offers with no effort all the time, try it from a man's view and see lol. Try it from a females perspective! You have no idea! Receiving more messages does not make it any easier, trust me That's right. I should try it from your end. Yeah must be like a nightmare sorting them emails out lol." Nope they are so easy to ignore as they are so shite | |||
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" I don't really see women moaning about not having meets. That's is because the site is saturated with men, they get offers with no effort all the time, try it from a man's view and see lol. Try it from a females perspective! You have no idea! Receiving more messages does not make it any easier, trust me That's right. I should try it from your end. Yeah must be like a nightmare sorting them emails out lol. Nope they are so easy to ignore as they are so shite " That's right, it takes just one click - mass delete | |||
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"Hi First question what is OP after some people's names. Second question why do all the single males constantly moan about not getting meets. This is a swinging site. Surely you'd be better off on POF or tinder ?? I don't think ALL single males moan about not getting meets! I certainly don't. It is without doubt difficult being a single guy on here and probably is on those other sites as well. Most threads started by single males moaning about the lack of meets are just a desperate last ditch attempt to get some female attention. Not good to see but I can understand why someone might do that. I've learned to just chill and go with the flow myself so it doesn't bother me anymore. If you're an average guy like myself it can be very very difficult. Please don't underestimate that. All you single women and couples should try playing a single male for a few weeks. It would be a real eye opener believe me. Remember single women and couples can just sit on their arses with the shittiest profiles and the shittiest pics if they want, and still get loads and loads of messages of which they can then pick and choose who if any they want to meet. Single guys are the complete opposite of that. Some guys have success. Good for them, but it's not easy." I think I've realised my whole point...It is quite sad some of the stuff they write so I thought if they went on a singles site they would have more luck. I haven't been single for 20 years. I think I have been very naive | |||
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"Hi First question what is OP after some people's names. Second question why do all the single males constantly moan about not getting meets. This is a swinging site. Surely you'd be better off on POF or tinder ?? I don't think ALL single males moan about not getting meets! I certainly don't. It is without doubt difficult being a single guy on here and probably is on those other sites as well. Most threads started by single males moaning about the lack of meets are just a desperate last ditch attempt to get some female attention. Not good to see but I can understand why someone might do that. I've learned to just chill and go with the flow myself so it doesn't bother me anymore. If you're an average guy like myself it can be very very difficult. Please don't underestimate that. All you single women and couples should try playing a single male for a few weeks. It would be a real eye opener believe me. Remember single women and couples can just sit on their arses with the shittiest profiles and the shittiest pics if they want, and still get loads and loads of messages of which they can then pick and choose who if any they want to meet. Single guys are the complete opposite of that. Some guys have success. Good for them, but it's not easy. I think I've realised my whole point...It is quite sad some of the stuff they write so I thought if they went on a singles site they would have more luck. I haven't been single for 20 years. I think I have been very naive " Stop thinking, you'll get the place a bad name...... | |||
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"Hi First question what is OP after some people's names. Second question why do all the single males constantly moan about not getting meets. This is a swinging site. Surely you'd be better off on POF or tinder ?? I don't think ALL single males moan about not getting meets! I certainly don't. It is without doubt difficult being a single guy on here and probably is on those other sites as well. Most threads started by single males moaning about the lack of meets are just a desperate last ditch attempt to get some female attention. Not good to see but I can understand why someone might do that. I've learned to just chill and go with the flow myself so it doesn't bother me anymore. If you're an average guy like myself it can be very very difficult. Please don't underestimate that. All you single women and couples should try playing a single male for a few weeks. It would be a real eye opener believe me. Remember single women and couples can just sit on their arses with the shittiest profiles and the shittiest pics if they want, and still get loads and loads of messages of which they can then pick and choose who if any they want to meet. Single guys are the complete opposite of that. Some guys have success. Good for them, but it's not easy. I think I've realised my whole point...It is quite sad some of the stuff they write so I thought if they went on a singles site they would have more luck. I haven't been single for 20 years. I think I have been very naive Stop thinking, you'll get the place a bad name...... " I've been told I think too much. I'll try my very best to stop thinking | |||
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" I think I've realised my whole point...It is quite sad some of the stuff they write so I thought if they went on a singles site they would have more luck. I haven't been single for 20 years. I think I have been very naive On dating sites I think it's more even - not weighted in favour of women. There are still slightly mad people on there of both sexes. I said something on one recently to someone from Essex about TOWIE and got told I had stereotyped him and was a snob. Then I got blocked. I'd only just joined and thought - well this is going well ! " Oh dear....don't give up but I think you need to keep your quotes for when you know them a bit better | |||
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"Hi First question what is OP after some people's names. Second question why do all the single males constantly moan about not getting meets. This is a swinging site. Surely you'd be better off on POF or tinder ?? I don't think ALL single males moan about not getting meets! I certainly don't. It is without doubt difficult being a single guy on here and probably is on those other sites as well. Most threads started by single males moaning about the lack of meets are just a desperate last ditch attempt to get some female attention. Not good to see but I can understand why someone might do that. I've learned to just chill and go with the flow myself so it doesn't bother me anymore. If you're an average guy like myself it can be very very difficult. Please don't underestimate that. All you single women and couples should try playing a single male for a few weeks. It would be a real eye opener believe me. Remember single women and couples can just sit on their arses with the shittiest profiles and the shittiest pics if they want, and still get loads and loads of messages of which they can then pick and choose who if any they want to meet. Single guys are the complete opposite of that. Some guys have success. Good for them, but it's not easy. I think I've realised my whole point...It is quite sad some of the stuff they write so I thought if they went on a singles site they would have more luck. I haven't been single for 20 years. I think I have been very naive " Don't worry, you're not the only one. Most single women and couples are clueless to the reality of Fab for some single guys. Still no excuse for the moany single guy threads though. Or even more annoying, the blatant 'look at me' single guy threads. They are pathetic. | |||
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"Hi First question what is OP after some people's names. Second question why do all the single males constantly moan about not getting meets. This is a swinging site. Surely you'd be better off on POF or tinder ?? I don't think ALL single males moan about not getting meets! I certainly don't. It is without doubt difficult being a single guy on here and probably is on those other sites as well. Most threads started by single males moaning about the lack of meets are just a desperate last ditch attempt to get some female attention. Not good to see but I can understand why someone might do that. I've learned to just chill and go with the flow myself so it doesn't bother me anymore. If you're an average guy like myself it can be very very difficult. Please don't underestimate that. All you single women and couples should try playing a single male for a few weeks. It would be a real eye opener believe me. Remember single women and couples can just sit on their arses with the shittiest profiles and the shittiest pics if they want, and still get loads and loads of messages of which they can then pick and choose who if any they want to meet. Single guys are the complete opposite of that. Some guys have success. Good for them, but it's not easy. I think I've realised my whole point...It is quite sad some of the stuff they write so I thought if they went on a singles site they would have more luck. I haven't been single for 20 years. I think I have been very naive Stop thinking, you'll get the place a bad name...... I've been told I think too much. I'll try my very best to stop thinking " Stuff I've learnt on the forums; Some threads are open minded, informative and educational. Some threads are funny and run to the magic 175. Some subjects should be avoided like the plague. Cheats, bareback, the clique, fisting are usually the most virulent. Some days you'll wonder if you've upset someone, some days you can post no wrong. Some threads you start will be popular, some threads will die on their arse. There are some incredibly funny, incredibly clever, incredibly passionate people in the forums. Most of all its a fun place, mostly populated by lunatics..... And most of them would go out of their way to help and support one another, no questions asked. Enter at your peril, chuckle till your sides split. And if anyone tells you NOT to google blue waffle, take the advice, don't. Google will not be your friend. | |||
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"Hi First question what is OP after some people's names. Second question why do all the single males constantly moan about not getting meets. This is a swinging site. Surely you'd be better off on POF or tinder ?? I don't think ALL single males moan about not getting meets! I certainly don't. It is without doubt difficult being a single guy on here and probably is on those other sites as well. Most threads started by single males moaning about the lack of meets are just a desperate last ditch attempt to get some female attention. Not good to see but I can understand why someone might do that. I've learned to just chill and go with the flow myself so it doesn't bother me anymore. If you're an average guy like myself it can be very very difficult. Please don't underestimate that. All you single women and couples should try playing a single male for a few weeks. It would be a real eye opener believe me. Remember single women and couples can just sit on their arses with the shittiest profiles and the shittiest pics if they want, and still get loads and loads of messages of which they can then pick and choose who if any they want to meet. Single guys are the complete opposite of that. Some guys have success. Good for them, but it's not easy. I think I've realised my whole point...It is quite sad some of the stuff they write so I thought if they went on a singles site they would have more luck. I haven't been single for 20 years. I think I have been very naive Stop thinking, you'll get the place a bad name...... I've been told I think too much. I'll try my very best to stop thinking Stuff I've learnt on the forums; Some threads are open minded, informative and educational. Some threads are funny and run to the magic 175. Some subjects should be avoided like the plague. Cheats, bareback, the clique, fisting are usually the most virulent. Some days you'll wonder if you've upset someone, some days you can post no wrong. Some threads you start will be popular, some threads will die on their arse. There are some incredibly funny, incredibly clever, incredibly passionate people in the forums. Most of all its a fun place, mostly populated by lunatics..... And most of them would go out of their way to help and support one another, no questions asked. Enter at your peril, chuckle till your sides split. And if anyone tells you NOT to google blue waffle, take the advice, don't. Google will not be your friend. " I've been reading for a while and you do go through the emotions but I find it mostly funny my partner was told to Google blue waffle. He showed me...it will stay with me forever !! I'll keep in mind topics to avoid. I would hate to upset anyone and if I do I wouldn't mean too. I don't like nastiness thanks for your help | |||
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"Hi First question what is OP after some people's names. Second question why do all the single males constantly moan about not getting meets. This is a swinging site. Surely you'd be better off on POF or tinder ?? I don't think ALL single males moan about not getting meets! I certainly don't. It is without doubt difficult being a single guy on here and probably is on those other sites as well. Most threads started by single males moaning about the lack of meets are just a desperate last ditch attempt to get some female attention. Not good to see but I can understand why someone might do that. I've learned to just chill and go with the flow myself so it doesn't bother me anymore. If you're an average guy like myself it can be very very difficult. Please don't underestimate that. All you single women and couples should try playing a single male for a few weeks. It would be a real eye opener believe me. Remember single women and couples can just sit on their arses with the shittiest profiles and the shittiest pics if they want, and still get loads and loads of messages of which they can then pick and choose who if any they want to meet. Single guys are the complete opposite of that. Some guys have success. Good for them, but it's not easy." | |||
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"OP has been answered. Some single guys seem to feel they have a right to a meet because they are on here. Same as some couples choose to believe only their definition of swinging is the right one. I do notice you are not saying all the single females should be on POF or tinder and not here too...? I don't really see women moaning about not having meets. " You see about 0.01 % of single guys on this site moaning about getting meets. So ok if the rest of us stay? | |||
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"Hi First question what is OP after some people's names. Second question why do all the single males constantly moan about not getting meets. This is a swinging site. Surely you'd be better off on POF or tinder ?? I don't think ALL single males moan about not getting meets! I certainly don't. It is without doubt difficult being a single guy on here and probably is on those other sites as well. Most threads started by single males moaning about the lack of meets are just a desperate last ditch attempt to get some female attention. Not good to see but I can understand why someone might do that. I've learned to just chill and go with the flow myself so it doesn't bother me anymore. If you're an average guy like myself it can be very very difficult. Please don't underestimate that. All you single women and couples should try playing a single male for a few weeks. It would be a real eye opener believe me. Remember single women and couples can just sit on their arses with the shittiest profiles and the shittiest pics if they want, and still get loads and loads of messages of which they can then pick and choose who if any they want to meet. Single guys are the complete opposite of that. Some guys have success. Good for them, but it's not easy. I think I've realised my whole point...It is quite sad some of the stuff they write so I thought if they went on a singles site they would have more luck. I haven't been single for 20 years. I think I have been very naive Stop thinking, you'll get the place a bad name...... I've been told I think too much. I'll try my very best to stop thinking Stuff I've learnt on the forums; Some threads are open minded, informative and educational. Some threads are funny and run to the magic 175. Some subjects should be avoided like the plague. Cheats, bareback, the clique, fisting are usually the most virulent. Some days you'll wonder if you've upset someone, some days you can post no wrong. Some threads you start will be popular, some threads will die on their arse. There are some incredibly funny, incredibly clever, incredibly passionate people in the forums. Most of all its a fun place, mostly populated by lunatics..... And most of them would go out of their way to help and support one another, no questions asked. Enter at your peril, chuckle till your sides split. And if anyone tells you NOT to google blue waffle, take the advice, don't. Google will not be your friend. " This should flash up as a warning before each post. Excellent my man. Take the rest of the day off. | |||
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