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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What puts you off?

A bug bear of mine is not washed properly drinking glasses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't get me started , my ocd doesn't appreciate it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't get me started , my ocd doesn't appreciate it"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dirty bedding.

Rubbish coffee.

Pictures of boyfriends/husbands when they've told me they're single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Houses that look like show homes are a bit of a put off. Never feel as though I can relax without fear of the host straightening things every time ya move.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

The daily mail on the coffee table.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Want to meet someone with ocd so they can visit tidy up oh and do my pots

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Dirty bedding.

Rubbish coffee.

Pictures of boyfriends/husbands when they've told me they're single "

Who has dirty bedding when they have guests!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The daily mail on the coffee table. "

What about the Sun

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By *hattyman80Man
over a year ago

stockport

Nothing worse than getting there and them having stained bedding of dirty washing all over the place and I don't mean just in the bedroom.

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials


"Houses that look like show homes are a bit of a put off. Never feel as though I can relax without fear of the host straightening things every time ya move."

Clean & tidy but lived in!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dirty bedding.

Rubbish coffee.

Pictures of boyfriends/husbands when they've told me they're single

Who has dirty bedding when they have guests!

"

Hit n miss in Hull

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Houses that look like show homes are a bit of a put off. Never feel as though I can relax without fear of the host straightening things every time ya move.

Clean & tidy but lived in! "

That's the one, perfect middle ground

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The daily mail on the coffee table.

What about the Sun "
thats in the toilet for emergency asswipe supplies

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Dirty bedding.

Rubbish coffee.

Pictures of boyfriends/husbands when they've told me they're single

Who has dirty bedding when they have guests!

Hit n miss in Hull "

Remind not to go to hull

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The daily mail on the coffee table.

What about the Sun thats in the toilet for emergency asswipe supplies "

I would of thought the "porn paper" ahhhh what's it called!? Would be more appropriate in the toilet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bed full of cat hairs with a cat on the bed sticking its arse at me (he - it was a 1on1 with a female). Not nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The daily mail on the coffee table.

What about the Sun thats in the toilet for emergency asswipe supplies

I would of thought the "porn paper" ahhhh what's it called!? Would be more appropriate in the toilet "

The 'sport'

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The daily mail on the coffee table.

What about the Sun thats in the toilet for emergency asswipe supplies

I would of thought the "porn paper" ahhhh what's it called!? Would be more appropriate in the toilet

The 'sport' "

That's the one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Call me a tad ocd and a bit of a snob , I can feel the angry messages lol.

When you see some one put up a new picture and behind them a pile of dirty washing and mess lol.

Sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Call me a tad ocd and a bit of a snob , I can feel the angry messages lol.

When you see some one put up a new picture and behind them a pile of dirty washing and mess lol.

Sorry "

No apologies needed, think most would be with you on that. People really need to look at their photos before uploading them, now off to check ours

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Pets on bed

Dead plants

Flattened cushions/pillows

Mismatched bedding/towels/cutlery

Migraine inducing colour schemes

Foul smells

No evidence that a hoover/duster/water has been used on any surface

My other half is a slob...you can imagine my pain.

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

yes and when there on cam as well you can see a untidy room thats a turn off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Call me a tad ocd and a bit of a snob , I can feel the angry messages lol.

When you see some one put up a new picture and behind them a pile of dirty washing and mess lol.

Sorry

No apologies needed, think most would be with you on that. People really need to look at their photos before uploading them, now off to check ours "

Yours are fine I check them on a regular basis

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Call me a tad ocd and a bit of a snob , I can feel the angry messages lol.

When you see some one put up a new picture and behind them a pile of dirty washing and mess lol.

Sorry "

I sometimes have clean clothes on my chair, def not dirty ones. I have a wash asker for those

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Call me a tad ocd and a bit of a snob , I can feel the angry messages lol.

When you see some one put up a new picture and behind them a pile of dirty washing and mess lol.

Sorry

I sometimes have clean clothes on my chair, def not dirty ones. I have a wash asker for those "

Your pictures and I imagine your home are fantastic

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Call me a tad ocd and a bit of a snob , I can feel the angry messages lol.

When you see some one put up a new picture and behind them a pile of dirty washing and mess lol.

Sorry

I sometimes have clean clothes on my chair, def not dirty ones. I have a wash asker for those

Your pictures and I imagine your home are fantastic "

Thanks Taff ... I've just noticed a very dusty side board! Off I trot for the polish and duster

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a bachelor but my house is spotless (I do have a cleaner......

I have in the past I have turned up at a meeting the house was minging and just left.

Not OCD just have standards and expect the same from playmates!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm with you on the messy backgrounds in photos.

Also surely if you were having guests you would tidy up. Or at least hide the mess lol

I'm a snob because I'd be put off if it was a dodgy area.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"Houses that look like show homes are a bit of a put off. Never feel as though I can relax without fear of the host straightening things every time ya move."

So glad we don't host, it's a bit show homeish but we don't do that straightening thing and fussing that some folk do, we wait for our cleaner to that for us. ... Just kidding.

It has to be dirty sheets, and a general sense of uncleanliness. We meet mainly in hotels which takes this out of the equation, well, it has so far.

Him

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Only thing I ask is clean bedding and a clean toilet...my house is no show room but it's not dirty

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Our house is normal. We don't have posh stuff but what we do have is clean. Sometimes its untidy because we care more about the people visiting us than we do about picking up the paper they just read or moving the coffee things if we're having a great chat. Do you know what? Sometimes we sit among the dirty dinner plates and talk to our guests...I know crazy isn't it, its not as if they've come to see us or anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our house is normal. We don't have posh stuff but what we do have is clean. Sometimes its untidy because we care more about the people visiting us than we do about picking up the paper they just read or moving the coffee things if we're having a great chat. Do you know what? Sometimes we sit among the dirty dinner plates and talk to our guests...I know crazy isn't it, its not as if they've come to see us or anything. "

That's an outrageous suggestion, mixing with muggles.........socially, chat n everything? What's the world coming to

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Our house is normal. We don't have posh stuff but what we do have is clean. Sometimes its untidy because we care more about the people visiting us than we do about picking up the paper they just read or moving the coffee things if we're having a great chat. Do you know what? Sometimes we sit among the dirty dinner plates and talk to our guests...I know crazy isn't it, its not as if they've come to see us or anything.

That's an outrageous suggestion, mixing with muggles.........socially, chat n everything? What's the world coming to "

Trust me by the time you get to our age its all you can manage...apparently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dogs! Don't like them very much, jumping and slobbering at my crotch!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its only polite to wipe your cock on their curtains

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your invited to someone's house you should treat it with respect and adhere to any rules they have, if they have ocd spill something to break the ice

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By *uzzybeWoman
over a year ago

Darlington


"Dirty bedding.

Rubbish coffee.

Pictures of boyfriends/husbands when they've told me they're single

Who has dirty bedding when they have guests!

"

It's happened to me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The 10 stone Rottweiler at the top of the stairs!!

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire


"Thanks Taff ... I've just noticed a very dusty side board! Off I trot for the polish and duster "

I'm desperately trying to get a pic of Mrs ddc naked on our dining room table with "I wish my husband was this dirty" written in the dust. But every time I manage to get the house dirty enough, we have people round and she keeps dusting it, grrr

{off to get my big hammerdrill out again... }

Mr ddc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a house that is lived in. not dirty but it doesn't need to be a show home. I'm so glad I don't accommodate as I fear my home wouldn't come up to people's high expectations.....we have cats and kids and a husband that leaves bits of bicycle on the dining room table....there is always washing up waiting to go into the dishwasher as mine goes on about 3 times a day....one of my favourite houses to visit is a friend of mine whose house is a bit like a building site with stuff everywhere but you don't really notice it because the people are lovely. So what puts me off? Unwelcoming hosts who follow you around with a cloth and a vacuum cleaner.

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By *aramelMINXWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Went to one guys house

smelt musty

Carpet thread bare

dust everywhere

dnt think it had be touched or cleaned scince 1993

Just all dirty and worn out

And one other guys house well it is too disgusting to even talk about

everything was covered in a brown sticky thing

even the loo

Made my excuses and went then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet one elderly gent who kept a very tidy home.... unfortunately he also kept his wife's ashes on a shelf in the bedroom.... ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lack.of care at home means lack of care for themselves usually.

No curtains in bedroom, just blinds, torn wallpaper, stained carpets, damp towels in a heap..

Some people just dont see how they live...

Long term untidy or just moved in/having work done are a world apart.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People come to see me, if they comment on my house negatively, a say its me your here to see not my house, if you don't like it f*ck off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

any of those "now that's what I call music " compilations in the cd collection

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