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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Do you get more or less tolerant the older you get?

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Less,much much less

Especially on here

Not so much in real life....well maybe just a bit

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Much more tolerant, I am a nicer person now than 20 years ago I understand things better and realise my life was very narrow before.

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Less,much much less

Especially on here

Not so much in real life....well maybe just a bit "

You have the power of the buttons to zap us all. I think you're very tolerant.

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

less

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By *oxy lady 1Couple
over a year ago

oxford

I'm much more tolerant, though I will speak up if I feel the need to. xx

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Much more tolerant, I am a nicer person now than 20 years ago I understand things better and realise my life was very narrow before. "

Is that because of your son?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im more patient..but less tolerant of bullshit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you get more or less tolerant the older you get?

"

Less.... much less

As the old dear in the queue for coffee will confirm she decided to moan at me that she didn't like the slow service. Instead of just nodding and smiling and letting her moan I suggested she take her custom elsewhere

And then there was the grumpy staff member in Morrisons. ...

And the unfriendly member of staff in the shoe shop who I told off

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"less "

About everything or just some things?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Certain things More so far, I'm far more chilled out than I was 10 yrs ago as a teen.

But I find I have far less tolerance of human stupidity and ignorance in regard to animal welfare, the longer I'm involved with rescues and animal charities.

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I'm much more tolerant, though I will speak up if I feel the need to. xx"

Are there times when you haven't spoken up and wished you had?

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Im more patient..but less tolerant of bullshit"

Is your bullshit detector set at a low level?

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"Less,much much less

Especially on here

Not so much in real life....well maybe just a bit

You have the power of the buttons to zap us all. I think you're very tolerant. "

In here I'm laid back,its my swinging life I have little tolerance for,any hint of annoyance and they're gone

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Do you get more or less tolerant the older you get?

Less.... much less

As the old dear in the queue for coffee will confirm she decided to moan at me that she didn't like the slow service. Instead of just nodding and smiling and letting her moan I suggested she take her custom elsewhere

And then there was the grumpy staff member in Morrisons. ...

And the unfriendly member of staff in the shoe shop who I told off "

Careful you don't give all the pieces of your mind away.

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire


"less

About everything or just some things?"

everything im afraid

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Certain things More so far, I'm far more chilled out than I was 10 yrs ago as a teen.

But I find I have far less tolerance of human stupidity and ignorance in regard to animal welfare, the longer I'm involved with rescues and animal charities."

I understand issue specific intolerance.

I'm not sure how I take "far more chilled out than I was 10 years ago as a teen".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you get more or less tolerant the older you get?

Less.... much less

As the old dear in the queue for coffee will confirm she decided to moan at me that she didn't like the slow service. Instead of just nodding and smiling and letting her moan I suggested she take her custom elsewhere

And then there was the grumpy staff member in Morrisons. ...

And the unfriendly member of staff in the shoe shop who I told off

Careful you don't give all the pieces of your mind away. "

I know ....my son was so embarrassed by me and was it not for the lovely cakes on offer would have left the cafe

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"less

About everything or just some things?

everything im afraid"

Practice tolerating something for a half an hour. Anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Certain things More so far, I'm far more chilled out than I was 10 yrs ago as a teen.

But I find I have far less tolerance of human stupidity and ignorance in regard to animal welfare, the longer I'm involved with rescues and animal charities.

I understand issue specific intolerance.

I'm not sure how I take "far more chilled out than I was 10 years ago as a teen". "

Lol, I was very hot tempered...

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Certain things More so far, I'm far more chilled out than I was 10 yrs ago as a teen.

But I find I have far less tolerance of human stupidity and ignorance in regard to animal welfare, the longer I'm involved with rescues and animal charities.

I understand issue specific intolerance.

I'm not sure how I take "far more chilled out than I was 10 years ago as a teen".

Lol, I was very hot tempered... "

But it was only yesterday! Actually, I'm very tolerant of you youngsters.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

More and less tolerant. Probably largely much more tolerant. I don't waste time and energy on stuff or people that aren't important, though that's about wisdom, and less about tolerance.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter


"Much more tolerant, I am a nicer person now than 20 years ago I understand things better and realise my life was very narrow before.

Is that because of your son?

"

Very much so..

I have learnt so much from him . The bigotry cruelty unkindness that people feel the right to give out. He is such a wonderful person kind and caring.

I understand now how hard life is for Gay's in the early years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Certain things More so far, I'm far more chilled out than I was 10 yrs ago as a teen.

But I find I have far less tolerance of human stupidity and ignorance in regard to animal welfare, the longer I'm involved with rescues and animal charities.

I understand issue specific intolerance.

I'm not sure how I take "far more chilled out than I was 10 years ago as a teen".

Lol, I was very hot tempered...

But it was only yesterday! Actually, I'm very tolerant of you youngsters. "

It was a whole decade ago! Lol

I do like being called a youngster!

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I'm more patient understanding and tolerant. Than I was twenty or thirty years ago...

Well except for road workers who put the cones out then stand around texting or leaning on shovels..

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"More and less tolerant. Probably largely much more tolerant. I don't waste time and energy on stuff or people that aren't important, though that's about wisdom, and less about tolerance."

That sounds very sensible and wise.

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Certain things More so far, I'm far more chilled out than I was 10 yrs ago as a teen.

But I find I have far less tolerance of human stupidity and ignorance in regard to animal welfare, the longer I'm involved with rescues and animal charities.

I understand issue specific intolerance.

I'm not sure how I take "far more chilled out than I was 10 years ago as a teen".

Lol, I was very hot tempered...

But it was only yesterday! Actually, I'm very tolerant of you youngsters.

It was a whole decade ago! Lol

I do like being called a youngster! "

8 years is not a decafe. Did you learn nothing at school, young lady?

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I'm more patient understanding and tolerant. Than I was twenty or thirty years ago...

Well except for road workers who put the cones out then stand around texting or leaning on shovels.. "

Once they've put the cones out they need to to wait for the shovel instructions to arrive. One thing at a time.

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By *offee and Cream 2Couple (MM)
over a year ago

Loughborough

No! I am just perfect in every way.......

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By *aramelMINXWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Defo less tolerant...

dnt suffer fools gladly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm almost 29.. 10 yrs ago I was 18, a teenager...

That's when I was thinking of, started in care work then, and learnt much more patience and tolerance.x

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Defo less tolerant...

dnt suffer fools gladly "

And yet fools were created to add merriment to our lives.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Fuck off

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I'm almost 29.. 10 yrs ago I was 18, a teenager...

That's when I was thinking of, started in care work then, and learnt much more patience and tolerance.x "

19 is still a teen but I understand what you mean.

I have been working 6 years longer than you've been alive, so I may have to change my mind about tolerating you young 'uns.

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Fuck off "

Well you're a proper old git so I expect nothing less than this.

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By *icklybitMan
over a year ago

Ayrshire

More tolerant, priorities change and I don't get worked up about things I have no influence over.

When I was young I thought I knew everything, now it seems I don't know that much at all, but I,m happy in my own skin.

Content, would sum it up.

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"More tolerant, priorities change and I don't get worked up about things I have no influence over.

When I was young I thought I knew everything, now it seems I don't know that much at all, but I,m happy in my own skin.

Content, would sum it up. "

Content is a good place unless it become contentious.

On a side note, where is your tickly bit?

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

I seem to get less angry about things I can't control and have learnt which battles to fight and which ones I walk away from.

Smile and wave. Smile and wave!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I kinda guess when we are young it's a natural impulse to shout loudly about things in life we feel passionate for .....

I did a lot of frustrated shouting when I was younger,,,,,

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By *icklybitMan
over a year ago

Ayrshire


"

On a side note, where is your tickly bit? "

I,ve forgot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Much more tolerant, I am a nicer person now than 20 years ago I understand things better and realise my life was very narrow before. "

Me too

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I seem to get less angry about things I can't control and have learnt which battles to fight and which ones I walk away from.

Smile and wave. Smile and wave! "

Rictus smile here with a very flappy wave.

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I kinda guess when we are young it's a natural impulse to shout loudly about things in life we feel passionate for .....

I did a lot of frustrated shouting when I was younger,,,,,

"

I did marching too.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

for sure...

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By *nFairnessMan
over a year ago

The Four Corners

you know your getting old when your wife asks you...

''do you want to go upstairs and have sex?''

and you reply...

'' love my back wont take both...''

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"you know your getting old when your wife asks you...

''do you want to go upstairs and have sex?''

and you reply...

'' love my back wont take both...''"

That's totally unacceptable from a 22 year old!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say, less tolerant about some things, but much more so in other ways. I have way more patience than I used to with lots of tasks that I used to hate doing, but still do not suffer fools gladly. I am more straight talking now too, I say it rather than think it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you get more or less tolerant the older you get?

"

Oh hell...waaaaaaay less.

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By *nFairnessMan
over a year ago

The Four Corners


"you know your getting old when your wife asks you...

''do you want to go upstairs and have sex?''

and you reply...

'' love my back wont take both...''

That's totally unacceptable from a 22 year old! "

LOL :P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Much less tolerance and not shy at complaining but my patience has improved with age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Much less in many ways and much more in others .

Sexually my tolerance is now way higher regarding the tastes of others compared to 5 years ago before we started swinging .

On every other level it's way lower , my ability to recognise a twat is heightened , and my tolerance to the said twat is zero .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Less tolerant and even less patience

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I would say, less tolerant about some things, but much more so in other ways. I have way more patience than I used to with lots of tasks that I used to hate doing, but still do not suffer fools gladly. I am more straight talking now too, I say it rather than think it. "

Patience, that helps a lot.

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Much less in many ways and much more in others .

Sexually my tolerance is now way higher regarding the tastes of others compared to 5 years ago before we started swinging .

On every other level it's way lower , my ability to recognise a twat is heightened , and my tolerance to the said twat is zero .

"

Have you issued a region-wide twat warning?

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Less tolerant and even less patience "

That sounds bad for your blood pressure. Eat more beetroot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Much less in many ways and much more in others .

Sexually my tolerance is now way higher regarding the tastes of others compared to 5 years ago before we started swinging .

On every other level it's way lower , my ability to recognise a twat is heightened , and my tolerance to the said twat is zero .

Have you issued a region-wide twat warning? "

Great idea

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By *ex_OnTheBeachCouple
over a year ago

kent ( by the seaside )

Oh this is a tough question, I've become slightly more tolerant of some things, but in general my tolerant levels have always been low, Luke is the opposite to me and is pretty tolerant of most things!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Less tolerant and even less patience

That sounds bad for your blood pressure. Eat more beetroot. "
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Beetroot?

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

When I was younger I was too shy for my own good and non confrontational so I would have seemed very tolerant.

As I've got older I've become much better at dealing with situations of all sorts. Sometimes these require tolerance but sometimes not!

Have I answered your question?

Mrs DDC

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Do you get more or less tolerant the older you get?

"

Cue unhelpful answer...

In some ways more, in some ways no change and in some ways less.

I've less tolerance for bullshit and being messed around than I've ever had before. And I didn't have much to start with.

I have more patience and tolerance when driving. Idiots make me roll my eyes, but I let them head off to their next accident rather than getting enraged.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you get more or less tolerant the older you get?

"

More or less!

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

much more tolerant..

must be the meditation..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Young for me, meant stupid, unthinking and selfish. Therefore intolerant. Old(er): less stupid, think more, attempt selflessness. Still intolerant but only of those that will not tolerate me.

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

More patient,less tolerant.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"much more tolerant..

must be the meditation.."

Or medication

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By *onbons_xxMan
over a year ago

Bolton

I'm less patient but more tolerant, I can't figure out what that makes me though

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"much more tolerant..

must be the meditation..

Or medication "

shh..

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By *ouplefunukCouple
over a year ago

North Bristol

Much less. And even less so since I had a child. I have no time for pettiness any more and i've noticed this even more at work.

*Her*

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"When I was younger I was too shy for my own good and non confrontational so I would have seemed very tolerant.

As I've got older I've become much better at dealing with situations of all sorts. Sometimes these require tolerance but sometimes not!

Have I answered your question?

Mrs DDC"

That's up to you. I'm just posing a thought.

True it hatched thinking about the railing at things by young people and the railing at things by older people and wondering whether we become less intolerant and whether there is a middle phase of tolerance.

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By *icketysplits OP   Woman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"much more tolerant..

must be the meditation.."

I've been working on that.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Depends... I'm more tolerant of my parents when they need techie help. I'm less tolerant of arseholes cause they're arseholes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you get more or less tolerant the older you get?

"

Less both in here and real world.

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By *amrod400Man
over a year ago

belfast

I'm more chilled out have more time for people and things

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"much more tolerant..

must be the meditation..

I've been working on that.

"

not something i would have considered perhaps when younger..

seems to hit the spot..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You may not believe this but much, much more tolerant.

Or maybe resigned.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I've been intolerant again tonight.....shame as there was such potential

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Do you get more or less tolerant the older you get?

"

Without a shadow of a doubt, less...though many would struggle to notice any difference.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Im more patient..but less tolerant of bullshit"

Yup, I'd say the same - more tolerant with genuine effort or real friends, but less tolerant of bullshit and particularly disrespect.

"I'm not more 'moody' I'm just less inclined to put up with your bullshit!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think im much more tolerant as im entering Puberty, Why only last week i asked some Bird if She wanted my Babies n when She declined i didnt even call Her a raving Rug munching Bitch.

Gravitas Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More tolerant of kids and animals, less so of idiotic adults, especially politicians.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

I was intolerant when I was younger and I've grown even less tolerant with age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a stupid fucking question, of all the questions you could have asked, I mean...SERIOUSLY!

Much more tolerant, me....

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