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Number of different sexual partners

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By *ringiton89 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Do people actually remember the amount of people they have been with? Would you admit the figure? What happens when you go to the clinic for a check and they ask how many in the last 6 months? Do you tell them or make up an amount that sounds more acceptable lol.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

LMAO

I genuinely have no idea.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"One or two?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say keeping a record would be pretty sad in all honesty, I have mates that keep count like a randy teenager (they're in their mid 30s ffs). The best relationships are when your partner doesn't feel the need to ask, and you don't need to boast nor feel ashamed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know but only because I have a good memory.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Yes. I have a list!

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Yes. I have a list! "

last time i went to the clinic i took a list with me, with dates and names. Although it might be sad in some people's view, if I didn't have a list and something did come back from the clinic saying I had an issue, who would I contact to advise that they should get checked as soon as possible?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes. I have a list!

last time i went to the clinic i took a list with me, with dates and names. Although it might be sad in some people's view, if I didn't have a list and something did come back from the clinic saying I had an issue, who would I contact to advise that they should get checked as soon as possible?"

I'm just bitter about not having enough sex to warrant a list

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By *ringiton89 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I've had sex with people in the past and not even found out their name til after it, and even then it was a first name so yeah, I couldn't really keep a list and even if I did it would be much use

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I do and I have it all on a paper on a spreadsheet, with nationalities and a tick box on each shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had sex with people in the past and not even found out their name til after it, and even then it was a first name so yeah, I couldn't really keep a list and even if I did it would be much use"

Are we supposed to know their names?

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

Been playing 36 years not got a clue how bad is that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had sex with people in the past and not even found out their name til after it, and even then it was a first name so yeah, I couldn't really keep a list and even if I did it would be much use

Are we supposed to know their names? "

Don't you guys have name badges at your parties??

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Last six months? I know the exact number.

Lifetime total? Not a clue.

A

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By *ringiton89 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Been playing 36 years not got a clue how bad is that"

I actually think it's normal to be honest but wanted to ask the question. Could anybody guess to within 50 people and be accurate do you reckon? I wouldn't know where to begin with trying to count.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"I've had sex with people in the past and not even found out their name til after it, and even then it was a first name so yeah, I couldn't really keep a list and even if I did it would be much use"

It would be useful if you caught something, or wouldn't you tell anyone?

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By *ringiton89 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I've had sex with people in the past and not even found out their name til after it, and even then it was a first name so yeah, I couldn't really keep a list and even if I did it would be much use

It would be useful if you caught something, or wouldn't you tell anyone?"

How would a first name be helpful?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Um...about a total of 7 in my whole life..last 6 months..1..last 12 months..2. I don't get out much!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am so innocent I never had sex with anyone else, in fact I am still a virgin looking for is first ever sexual experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok I lied lol hehehehe

I have been on swinging scene off and on for at least 10 years over which time me and my first wife played together and have also had two beautiful female FB - remembering how many would be a task, but I recon we are talking about circa 70/80 - yes I am a male tart lol - but on the serious side, always keep my check up , up to date - happy fabbing

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

my name is Polly. ..no holly ....I said dolly !!!! ...what is the deal with getting someone's name ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Erm

Erm...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been intimate with 12 people, had sex with 8 of those people. Bar two of those people, I could easily contact those people.

Though, in the past year I've only had full penetrative sex with one person and sexual contact with two others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

8, 4 were relationships 4 were nsa x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"8, 4 were relationships 4 were nsa x"

4 nsa all in the last 4 months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had sex with people in the past and not even found out their name til after it, and even then it was a first name so yeah, I couldn't really keep a list and even if I did it would be much use

Are we supposed to know their names? "

Oh dear , that's us fucked then

We go every six weeks , and every other check is the works . After the first few times we went they all knew we were very active swingers and didn't even ask how many we had been with .

The fact that they give us a full box of condoms every time we go tells its own story though !

Getting checked regularly and being honest is the only sensible thing to do as far as we are concerned .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can think of each person I've been intimate with and could get in touch with them if I ever needed to. The best thing, as others have said, is to get checked regularly so you'd only need to contact the most recent people you've been with, if the worst case scenario were to happen.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had sex with people in the past and not even found out their name til after it, and even then it was a first name so yeah, I couldn't really keep a list and even if I did it would be much use

It would be useful if you caught something, or wouldn't you tell anyone?"

People should be getting regularly tested anyway so ......

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Oh, they're playing my song...

Peggy Lee - He's a tramp

www.youtube.com/watch?v=IwR4JewmdWU

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

I can give a very accurate figure for the last 6 months.

Lifetime..... no not a clue. And as for names......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can give a very accurate figure for the last 6 months.

Lifetime..... no not a clue. And as for names...... "

Most of them called Bert

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

I think I am going to have to start getting the names tattooed on my back ..the memory fades as my years advance !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couldn't tell ya I was army for 12 years being a male slapper and been in swinging scene for 10 years on n off. So no don't know how many I been with, but its gd what u learn n experience with each different person lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a clue for life total. But when I get checked I'm completely honest and I can usually remember how many partners I've had in the past 6 mths.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We genuinely haven't got a clue, between us we have led great lives so far and are hoping to carry it on...I honestly couldn't begin to imagine and even if I was to guess it would be scary to admit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know the names of every person I've had sex with. Lost my virginity to a guy called Rick, second guy I slept with Nathan, 3rd Michael, 4th Richard, Matthew, Craig J, Gareth, Paul,

Craig H, Will, Craig C, James, Adam, Craig R

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 women

2 couples

1 man, and

1 flock.

ps the last one was the German.

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By *ringiton89 OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I know the names of every person I've had sex with. Lost my virginity to a guy called Rick, second guy I slept with Nathan, 3rd Michael, 4th Richard, Matthew, Craig J, Gareth, Paul,

Craig H, Will, Craig C, James, Adam, Craig R

"

Craig A, Craig B, Craig C, Craig D...

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I don't keep score... I get checked regular at the same clinic for the last 20yrs, they know exactly what I get up to, so no I don't lie and they don't ask anymore

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"I don't keep score... I get checked regular at the same clinic for the last 20yrs, they know exactly what I get up to, so no I don't lie and they don't ask anymore "

'feck me' time flies, I've been single for 20yrs I've just shocked myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5 different sexual partners in the last 6 months. Total, hmmm, 20+ I guess.

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