FabSwingers.com forum: What would be your response? ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yesterday my profile received the following opening message...

are you FAT...

That's it...

how would you respond and why... ?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes - cos I'm overweight.

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By *avebi48Man
over a year ago

Lordswood

say "yes, I'm funny, adventurous and talented, are you?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cozz im slim

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I would say "no" because I'm not, if I responded at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes - cos I'm overweight."

I might then ask if "he" was ugly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I'm a fat fucking slag and my bucket needs cementing, are you game?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yesterday my profile received the following opening message...

are you FAT...

That's it...

how would you respond and why... ?!

I wouldn't bother responding - obviously not worth any effort other than blocking.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

i would say..no im PHAT

phenomenally hot and tempting

i probably wouldnt actually, id either go sarcastic if i could bothered or use the block button

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We do get messages telling us how much they like BBW, no idea why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

BLOCK. That is all.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I wouldn't even deem to respond!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd block and not think anything of it you sexy thing....a lot if offensive piss takers out there who don't deserve your attention x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yesterday my profile received the following opening message...

are you FAT...

That's it...

how would you respond and why... ?!

Yes, but I can diet...You'll always be fugly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd just send my generic "no thanks" mail. No harm done. No stress.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

And you are?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd reply "go take a long walk off a short pier".

I've had similar today OP about the size of my fat arse.

Block and move on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think you should be polite and say good bye before blocking them lol some people need mirrors

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you even wanna reply? Coz i probably wouldn't even wanna reply. But i'd just say look at my pics and decide for yourself, if i could be bothered to.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Yesterday my profile received the following opening message...

are you FAT...

That's it...

how would you respond and why... ?!

one of two ways depending on my mood. if mischevious i would respond simply 'yes' and see what i get beck, always responding in a measured, factual manner - no rising to it, not being nasty back, they soon get bored of that.

if i am being reasonable i would just delete and block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And as the man said your beautiful so just a simple no thanks would also work

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Wasn't sure which way to go...

Yes I'm a curvier lady.

BUT although I love my curves, I also like a little tact. Or at the very least maybe an explanation of sorts

" I love fat women.. how would you describe yourself? "

Is it wrong to expect tact on here.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

"Yesterday my profile received the following opening message...

are you FAT...

That's it...

how would you respond and why... ?!

if i am being reasonable i would just delete and block."

^^^This...or possibly if feeling extra mischievous, "Are you blind, I've loads of pics"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people are so rude ... Id agree with poster above , tell them you have loads of pics, they can determine your size for their self. Then block and move on . Some people aren't worth the effort !

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

are you FAT...

how would you respond and why... ?!

Yes...I'm Fabulous And Talented...!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just report and block them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say yes.....bye

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By *onbons_xxMan
over a year ago

Bolton

I'd delete, wouldn't even waste my time responding.

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By *lumsy colinMan
over a year ago

basingstoke

I would just be delighted to have received a message and it beats being told to

find my princess Fiona elsewhere

But just ignore seems best policy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes because every time I fuck your Dad he buys me dinner.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Thanks. I can go on a diet, but you will always be a cunts.

Then block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't reply to it. I would know we weren't compatible and if they just wanted to provoke a reaction, I wouldn't give them the satisfaction of a response

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I'd say fatter than your chance of getting to meet me, then I'd begin constructing the voodoo doll and buying hat pins

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Block. Forget.

We all have fat inside of us, its essential to life. Stupid or offensive mail deserves no attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt respond at all to a question like that

My pics are quite clear and show my body size so no need to ask or answer such a question

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By *lashheartMan
over a year ago

shrewsbury

How rude

Say "maybe but I still wouldn't fuck you" then block

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Are we not allowed to say FAT now ?

I'd rather get that question than ' Are you morbidly obese'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say in your case it's irrelevant..

chow

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By *lashheartMan
over a year ago

shrewsbury

I don't think being allowed to say it was the point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair its a simple question sometimes when people have close up pics its hard to tell body size

Maybe clearer pics would stop such questions?

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By *arkedMan
over a year ago

Trim

How disgusting

: I wouldn't dignify that with an answer.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't think being allowed to say it was the point"

exactly... its the fact that people don't even bother to be polite and say hello.. a question that has the possibility of causing offence should never be an opener to conversation. . My profile clearly states I like to chat and get to know someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have say: awww you have aome good observation skills kids, nontheless no manners whatsover so you can your message and shove it directly in your mouth cause your face looks like a giant asshole to me...

I think that would have do him

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland

Delete and block, simple as that, a message like that doesnt deserve a reply.

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