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"Has anyone on here ever had someone who they HATED in their life, always thought 'what an arsehole!' and didn't like them remotely, until perhaps they said or did something that made you see them in a totally different light, and you actually became quite fond of them? What was the peace making like? Basically, have you ever had an enemy become a friend?" All the time, most people I meet I treat as enemies! Nearly got excited thought you'd misspelled ink on your penis as in should of been sexy Brian pft! | |||
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"Has anyone on here ever had someone who they HATED in their life, always thought 'what an arsehole!' and didn't like them remotely, until perhaps they said or did something that made you see them in a totally different light, and you actually became quite fond of them? What was the peace making like? Basically, have you ever had an enemy become a friend?" Yes, in real life. A girl I went to school with, I really disliked her. We fought constantly. I moved to NYC for a few years straight after school. Moved back when I was 21 and met her randomly the day I moved back. We've been inseparable since. She's my best friend, I'm mad about her!x | |||
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"OP - have you?" I've had a fair few people who my relationship improved with once we had a chance to sit down and chat properly, I find many people who show me hostility tend to do so out of a lack of understanding. | |||
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"Has anyone on here ever had someone who they HATED in their life, always thought 'what an arsehole!' and didn't like them remotely, until perhaps they said or did something that made you see them in a totally different light, and you actually became quite fond of them? What was the peace making like? Basically, have you ever had an enemy become a friend?" Nope. But I've had it happen the other way round. I wouldn't spend time with anyone I didn't remotely like so the chances of an opinion changing are slim to none. I've been screwed over by a couple of people I considered good friends though and the thought of making contact with them again in this lifetime has never entered my mind. A | |||
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"Has anyone on here ever had someone who they HATED in their life, always thought 'what an arsehole!' and didn't like them remotely, until perhaps they said or did something that made you see them in a totally different light, and you actually became quite fond of them? What was the peace making like? Basically, have you ever had an enemy become a friend?" Saw this yesterday and had a think about it. I don't think I have, tbh. I'm quite a good judge of character - friends very largely remain and enemies very largely vanquished. | |||
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"I don't think I have ever really hated anyone that I recall, if someone wrongs me I tend to become indifferent or at most despise them, they are not worth my energy, hatred is a passion that requires energy to maintain. I cannot think of anyone I disliked having changed my mind, I have a bit of an intuitive sixth sense about people quite often. " hmmmmm this could get interesting lol | |||
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"I don't think I have ever really hated anyone that I recall, if someone wrongs me I tend to become indifferent or at most despise them, they are not worth my energy, hatred is a passion that requires energy to maintain. I cannot think of anyone I disliked having changed my mind, I have a bit of an intuitive sixth sense about people quite often. hmmmmm this could get interesting lol " Oh I do hope so | |||
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